The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome

Crossroads

We live in a world where "aggressive" is one of the few dirty words left. Our culture celebrates the crass and profane, while risk and difficulty are a sign that something is wrong. Put simply, this passivity is killing us. Our relationships are weaker, our work is unfulfilling, our finances are a disaster, and our faith is nonexistent. Host Brian Tome believes there is a better way, and it's by embracing the power of healthy aggression. Listen in as he talks with people who are living lives that punch passivity in the mouth.

  • 1 hour 14 minutes
    Growing Prophetic Spiritual Muscles with Paul Maconochie—Leader, Teacher, Pastor
    Does prophecy still happen today? Paul Maconochie thinks so, and that God is speaking to anyone willing to listen. Alongside BT, Paul unpacks the ways he hears from God, the risk it takes to share with others, and how we can learn to do the same. This aggressive conversation will push you out of your comfort zone and into a better place—because the more you risk, the more you grow.
    18 February 2025, 10:00 am
  • 47 minutes 49 seconds
    Pushing Yourself to the Limit (and Beyond) with Dan Rebella—Runner, The Great World Race
    Running has been in Dan Rebella’s blood for years, so when the ultimate challenge presented itself, he didn’t blink. In late 2024, Dan signed up for the inaugural running of The Great World Race—7 full marathons, on all 7 continents, in only 7 days. From the first race, in Antarctica, to the final in Miami Beach, Dan pushed himself to the utter limit, and came out the other side stronger. No matter if you like running or not, the lesson’s Dan picked up along the way about perseverance, faithfulness, and choosing the harder path have the power to push your life forward.

    Watch the full length episode on YouTube, here.
    11 February 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    Hack Your Habits For A Better Life with Michael Easter—Researcher, Author, Rucker
    Culture is constantly selling us something. Michael Easter thinks it's time we stop buying. The best-selling author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain returns to the podcast to help us push back against the craving and consumerism that keep us in shackles. From understanding how slot machines keep you hooked, to the power of community, to why discomfort is always the path to a better life, this aggressive conversation is an engine to get you moving toward a better life.

    Watch the full length interview on YouTube, here.
    4 February 2025, 10:00 am
  • 57 minutes 59 seconds
    5 Keys to Improving Your Finances with John Hope Bryant—Financial Literacy Expert & Coach
    John Hope Bryant is a successful entrepreneur, author, and financial guru who believes financial literacy—understanding how to make, save, and spend money—is the civil rights issue of our era. And he’s doing something about it. He’s written best-sellers, advised presidents, and helped influence policymakers. But his most enduring work is as the CEO of Operation Hope, where John is helping teach financial literacy to all, giving everyday people the tools they need to make wise financial decisions. In a conversation that touches on everything from politics, to history, to tools for making more (and better use of your) money, John Hope Bryant is a deep well that will get your rear in gear. 
    28 January 2025, 10:00 am
  • 33 minutes 43 seconds
    Sports Betting, A Trip to the End of the World, and Raising Kids That Like You—Big News and a Mini Q&A with BT
    Before we get too far into the New Year, it’s time for a Q&A episode. BT shares his thoughts on sports betting, how Santa Claus is like God, leading your family through deconstruction, and more. Before that, BT shares some big news coming for the podcast in 2025. The aggressive keep changing and adapting, and that includes us. 

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    21 January 2025, 10:00 am
  • 54 minutes 19 seconds
    Mental Health and Perseverance on the Appalachian Trail with Tara Dower - Speed Record Holder for the A.T.
    The first time Tara Dower got on the Appalachian Trail, she only lasted a handful of days before anxiety and mental health forced her to abandon her goal of through-hiking the 2,000 mile footpath. But she didn’t give up. In 2024, Tara got back on the A.T. with the goal of claiming the FKT—fastest known time. When she reached the finish line in only 40 days, she became the fastest human ever to cover every mile of the A.T. This down-to-earth and hard working woman will push you to keep making forward progress on your aggressive life, and to keep getting up when you fall down. 
    14 January 2025, 10:00 am
  • 20 minutes 43 seconds
    How to Hear from God — One Question with BT
    If you’re going to have a spiritually potent life, you have to learn how to hear from God. In this 1 Question deep-dive, BT shares his method for hearing from God: a daily repetition of scripture, prayer, and making space to listen. It takes persistence and perseverance, but when you learn how to hear from God for yourself, your aggressive life will hit new strides. 

    - Create your own custom Bible reading plan at bibleplan.org.
    - Read scripture along with Brian on the free spiritual fitness app, Crossroads Anywhere.
    - For an easy introduction to spending time with God, try Brian’s new 60-day devotional for men.

    7 January 2025, 10:00 am
  • 53 minutes 7 seconds
    What Makes a Man?—BT on The Art of Manliness Podcast
    Earlier this fall, BT got to check off a bucket list item—appearing as a guest on The Art of Manliness podcast, one of the first, and most successful, podcasts aimed at a male audience. With over a 1,000 episodes under his belt, host Brett McKay has carved out a space that encourages, challenges, and helps men rise. In conversation with Brian, the pairs discuss what makes a man, the long haul of establishing friendships, and what it looks like to be a protector in the 21st century. 
    31 December 2024, 10:00 am
  • 58 minutes 22 seconds
    Eggnog with Santa on Christmas Eve with Gabby Claus—Professional Santa
    Michael Gabbard—better known as Gabby Claus—has built a life out of serving others. From his time as a paramedic, to a firefighter, to a city council member and beyond, Gabby unexpectedly found his favorite role behind a big white beard and red suit. In his 13th year as Santa, Gabby Claus has a simple mission: bring Christmas smiles to everyone he meets. From city parks to home visits, pictures in the NICU to praying for grieving families, Gabby’s heart is as bottomless as Santa’s sack of toys. His aggressive joy is contagious. 
    23 December 2024, 10:00 pm
  • 41 minutes 27 seconds
    Die Hard Double Feature: Finding God in Die Hard—BT’s “Christmas at the Movies” Teaching
    For years, Brian has staked his claim that Die Hard is a Christmas movie. Now, he has stage time to explain why. As part of a weekend teaching series, “Christmas at the Movies,” Brian shares how Die Hard contains echoes of that original night in Bethlehem—from unideal family situations, to a hero that fights for his beloved. Recorded live at Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Die Hard becomes a message of hope for everyone. Welcome to the party, pal. 
    17 December 2024, 10:05 am
  • 35 minutes 9 seconds
    Die Hard Double Feature: Behind the Scenes with Elizabeth Lane—Hollywood Developer, Die Hard
    Die Hard is a cultural phenomenon. The one liners. The action. The relatable hero. And the debate that comes around every single year: is Die Hard a Christmas movie? Brian sits down with former Hollywood movie developer, Elizabeth Lane, to get a rare peek behind the curtain on the beloved film. Part of the team that helped move Die Hard from flailing script to action classic, Elizabeth reflects on its place in culture, the power of choosing Bruce Willis, and if the film was intended to be a Christmas classic. Yippee ki-yay, Merry Christmas! 
    17 December 2024, 10:00 am
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