The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome

Crossroads

We live in a world where "aggressive" is one of the few dirty words left. Our culture celebrates the crass and profane, while risk and difficulty are a sign that something is wrong. Put simply, this passivity is killing us. Our relationships are weaker, our work is unfulfilling, our finances are a disaster, and our faith is nonexistent. Host Brian Tome believes there is a better way, and it's by embracing the power of healthy aggression. Listen in as he talks with people who are living lives that punch passivity in the mouth.

  • 57 minutes 23 seconds
    From Hell to Healing: A Gang Member’s Story with Tyler Frazier—Fmr Iron Horseman

    When Tyler Frazier found the Iron Horsemen, an outlaw motorcycle club, he thought he’d arrived. After a terrible childhood marked by extensive abuse, Tyler had finally found a place to belong. Little did he know, God was chasing him even harder than the gang. After falling in love, and having children, Tyler decided to leave gang life behind—and everything immediately got more difficult. Planning to take his own life, a miraculous encounter turned everything around. In this powerful episode of The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome, Tyler shares his incredibly aggressive story of pursuing, and being pursued by, a God who never gives up on us. 

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here

    27 January 2026, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    Prayers For Healing That Actually Work with Paul Maconochie—Prayer Teacher & Advocate

    Miracles might not be common, but they still happen… and Paul Maconochie has seen more than his fair share. A pastor, leader, and close friend of BT, Paul returns to the podcast to talk about healing prayer—how to do it, when to do it, and what to expect. Paul’s experience of seeing God heal others through prayer makes him one of the foremost experts on the topic. In prayer, like life, reward always lies on the other side of risk. No matter what you believe about God, prayer, or healing, this conversation has something to get you moving. 

    Crossroads is hosting Nights of Healing Prayer with Paul Maconochie—part workshop, part experience—at all sites and online throughout January and February, 2026. Everyone welcome. Dates, times, and more details here.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

    20 January 2026, 10:00 am
  • 59 minutes 28 seconds
    How Much Water, Sleep, and Exercise Do I Really Need? with Shawn Zitt—Fitness Coach and Trainer

    Fitness trends and best practices feel like a moving target—one trainer says this, and another says something completely different. In this episode, Brian sits down with nationally recognized fitness coach and trainer, Shawn Zitt, for a practical conversation about building and maintaining physical health. How much water do I need? Should I eat more meat or less? Do I have to work out everyday? How much sleep should I get? With decades of experience, and hundreds of successful clients, Shawn’s expertise can be the push you need into a healthier future. 

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    13 January 2026, 10:00 am
  • 24 minutes 54 seconds
    How Do I Actually Read the Bible? — One Question with BT
    Reading the Bible is a very common—but rarely achieved—goal. Is there a secret to reading the Bible? How do I actually engage with this old book? What are the nuts and bolts of building a Bible reading habit and will it actually influence my life? In this One Question episode, Brian tackles all those questions and more. If you’re setting out to read more of the Bible in 2026, this episode is a push in the right direction. 

    Read the Bible alongside BT, and thousands of others, in the free Crossroads Anywhere App. Find it in the app store or at this link. 

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here
    6 January 2026, 10:00 am
  • 56 minutes 23 seconds
    The Best of 2025—featuring Bear Grylls, Dante Bowe, Joby Martin, and More
    2025 was a banner year for The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome—from moving to video content, to surpassing 300 episodes, to welcoming bucket list guests like Bear Grylls. In this best-of episode, Dirt takes listeners back to six of the biggest episodes of the year, including talking the great outdoors with Bear Grylls, pushing through difficulty with Maverick City Music’s Dante Bowe, and what Biblical masculinity actually looks like with pastor Joby Martin. If you missed these conversations the first time around, there’s no better time to catch up. 

    Links to original full length episodes: 

    God, Grit and the Great Outdoors with Bear Grylls:
    Apple | Spotify

    Developing Joy Beyond the Ups and Downs of Life with Dante Bowe:
    Apple | Spotify

    How to Put Your Phone Down and Live More with Darren Whitehead:
    Apple | Spotify

    The Adventure I Don’t Want To Be On—A Cancer Conversation with BT:
    Apple | Spotify

    Biblical Masculinity Isn’t Toxic or Tame with Joby Martin:
    Apple | Spotify
    MAN CAMP Builds Dangerous Men with Rory Lawrence & Matt Fortin:
    Apple | Spotify

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    30 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 8 minutes 39 seconds
    Countdown to Christmas - Day 4: God’s Bold Move
    The final episode of a four-day run of episodes focused on aggressiveness during the Christmas season, Brian hones in on the boldest move God ever made—taking on flesh to dwell among us. This is the hinge point of history, and the reason why Christmas matters. 

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    25 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 7 minutes 46 seconds
    Countdown to Christmas - Day 3: Meet Him in the Movement
    The 3rd of a limited four-day run of episodes designed to prepare you for an aggressive Christmas, Brian circles back to the story of the shepherds. Their willingness to move, without all the information, ensured they experienced the most profound moment in human history. Your willingness to move is the key to a holiday, and life, that works. 

    A version of this content was originally shared on Brian’s email list. Join here to get monthly shots of aggressive living delivered right to your inbox. 

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    24 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 8 minutes 55 seconds
    Countdown to Christmas - Day 2: A Just Man
    Even at Christmas time, a just man (or woman) sticks out. In the 2nd of a limited run of four episodes designed to get your mind and muscles ready for the holiday, Brian focuses his attention on Joseph. While the Bible doesn’t say much about Jesus’ adopted father, what it does say speaks volumes. Following in his footsteps is an aggressive move that will pay dividends. 

    A version of this content was originally shared on Brian’s email list. Join here to get monthly shots of aggressive living delivered right to your inbox. 

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    23 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 7 minutes 34 seconds
    Countdown to Christmas - Day 1: Christmas with Haste
    Christmas is coming. Are you ready? Brian begins a limited run of four episodes, one per day leading up to Christmas, to prepare our hearts, minds, and muscles for the holiday. In this first episode, Brian focuses on how the shepherds responded to the news of Christ’s birth, and how that “haste” can help reframe your life. 

    A version of this content was originally shared on Brian’s email list. Join here to get monthly shots of aggressive living delivered right to your inbox. 

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    22 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 38 minutes 34 seconds
    God Chooses Misfits—Live in Cincinnati
    Feeling forgotten, overlooked, or like you don’t belong this Christmas? In this powerful message, Brian Tome delivers hope for outsiders and misfits—drawing surprising truth from the holiday classic Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.

    Recorded live at Crossroads Church in 2023, this teaching shows how not fitting in actually positions you for a deeper, more personal encounter with God. If the holidays leave you feeling unseen, disconnected, or out of place, this message will remind you that God specializes in using the unlikely.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

    16 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    The Secret Lives of Firefighters with Denny Baker—Cincinnati Fire Department
    For the first time on The Aggressive Life, Brian sits down with a firefighter to get the inside scoop on one of society’s most-aggressive and impactful jobs. With over 30 years in the Cincinnati Fire Department, Denny Baker has seen and lived through more than most people. From keeping your head under stressful situations, to the physical demands of fighting fires, to working for lasting impact, Denny is an inspiring man who has built a life on serving and protecting others. 

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.
    9 December 2025, 10:00 am
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