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  • 57 minutes 36 seconds
    Psychopaths & The Dark Side of Human Psychology (ft. Boze)

    Ericka Bozeman, aka BOZE is a Twitch streamer and YouTube creator who covers true crime stories and the psychology behind them. 


    We chat about how to spot the subtle signs of various personality disorders and potential for future criminal behavior. How childhood experiences shape our tendency to attract narcissists and other dangerous personalities into our lives and our own personal experiences in escaping the influence of those dangerous people.


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    00:00 Intro

    00:30 Understanding True Crime and Personality Disorders

    02:50 Red Flags and Signs of Potential Violence

    05:55 Survival Strategies in Dangerous Situations

    08:47 Childhood Influences on Criminal Behavior

    12:02 The Impact of Maternal Relationships on Male Aggression

    14:45 Navigating Emotions: Anger, Sadness, and Social Anxiety

    18:10 The Complexity of Trust and Self-Doubt

    21:13 Manipulation and the Seeds of Self-Doubt

    29:19 The Complexity of Love Expressions

    32:12 Red Flags in Relationships

    35:08 Childhood Influences on Adult Relationships

    39:39 The Struggle of Emotional Patterns

    43:05 Understanding Creator Personalities

    47:04 The Fascination with Histrionic Traits

    55:01 Exploring the Psychology of Attraction


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    7 March 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    Andrew Callaghan: America’s Identity Crisis, Trump & Political Extremes

    Andrew Callaghan is the host of Channel 5 news YouTube channel. He’s a fearless journalist whose open and unorthodox approach has gotten him into some crazy situations as well as created friction with the mainstream media


    We talk about the roots of political radicalization and how to heal it, the differences between the psychology of the right and left, and Andrews experience of Americans at their most beautiful and most extreme.


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    00:41 Understanding America: A Unique Perspective

    03:53 Cultural Appropriation and Authenticity

    06:49 Political Polarization and Identity

    09:31 The Psychology of Radicalization

    12:37 The Role of Personal History in Politics

    15:32 Curiosity Over Judgment in Conversations

    18:32 The Influence of Media and Power

    21:44 National Identity and Mythology

    24:48 Reparations and Systemic Change

    27:50 Emotions in Political Extremes

    30:41 The Narrative of Power in Politics

    36:34 The Interconnection of Significance, Security, and Connection

    38:51 Radicalization and the Role of Media

    41:28 The Impact of Family Interventions

    43:20 Navigating Radicalization and Mental Health

    45:09 The Importance of Family Over Politics

    46:32 Understanding Human Connection in Healing

    48:43 Legal Challenges and Personal Responsibility

    50:58 Fear, Risk, and the Influencer Lifestyle

    53:23 Channel 5: Growth and Business Model

    56:56 The Evolution of Content and Audience Engagement

    01:00:41 Future Aspirations and Global Correspondents

    01:02:52 Finding Your Unique Path and Overcoming Fear



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    7 February 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 35 minutes
    One Year, Zero Lies - The Hardcore Path To Joy (ft. Martha Beck)

    Martha Beck has earned a Harvard PhD in Psychology, written multiple New York time bestselling books and from them became Oprah's life coach. But her path there required her to lose nearly everything.


    It started when she committed to spending a full year telling NO lies. That led to her revealing her horrific abuses at the hands of her Mormon upbringing, alienating herself from

    friends, ending her marriage and having to rebuild her entire life from a place of joy instead of social obligation.


    We talk about how most people ruin their lives by trying to fit in, how to find your true purpose and she pushes me to overcome the ways that I've been playing it safe. She even makes me cry a few times during this conversation. This podcast was beautifully scary for me and I loved chatting with her I hope you enjoy it too.


    Thank you for listening!


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    20 September 2024, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 23 minutes
    What It Takes To Survive And Thrive Growing Up In Poverty - Rob Henderson

    On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.


    Rob Henderson's life story is out of a movie he never knew his father, was abandoned by his mother as a toddler, grew up in the foster care system in 10 different homes where he faced abuse, neglect and early substance abuse issues


    But defying the odds he turned his life around and eventually graduated as a Cambridge PhD. He's since created one of the most viral ideas in sociology where he's now become well known for his idea of Luxury Beliefs the idea that the rich signal status through positions like defund the police or marriage isn't important and those positions actually hurt the poor.


    We chat about Rob's life and what he has learned from such an incredible story.


    Thank you for listening!


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    22 August 2024, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 28 minutes
    5 Inner Game Mistakes That Are Ruining Your Life

    Joe Hudson is an executive coach, connection teacher and someone I have learned so much from. We talk about 5 of the most regretable and costly mistakes I was consistently making in my relationships, how those we costing me (and probably you) in life and business and how Joe's unique approach can resolve those mistakes so you see MASSIVE positive changes today.


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    TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    00:33 The Victim, Bully, Savior Identity

    02:26 The Fear Triangle

    06:15 Emotional Awareness and Vulnerability

    11:49 Two Ways to Give Service

    16:47 Listening is the Best Way to Communicate

    21:30 Listen to Your Body

    24:18 Why Invulnerability Works?

    29:53 Covering Trauma with Anger

    33:40 Align Your Actions with Your Emotions

    39:01 Dealing with Abandonment and Resentment

    44:38 Do What’s Truly Right for You

    46:29 Identify the False End

    49:46 Emotional Responsibility for Others

    53:34 Aggression in Feeling Hurt

    55:29 Would You Sell Your Business?

    58:28 Passion for Self-Discovery

    01:03:51 What’s the Best Gauge of Efficiency?

    01:06:44 Confidence in Invulnerability

    01:08:11 Do Well or Let Go

    01:11:52 Evolution is Necessary

    01:13:24 Feel Gratitude First

    01:16:17 What’s a Loving Boundary?

    01:20:20 The Connection Course




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    26 July 2024, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 25 minutes
    “Women keep meeting the same 5%” - Matthew Hussey on What Men Get Wrong In Dating

    Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life.


    Thanks for listening!


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    00:40 Universal Content

    02:32 The Bliss Point

    06:56 Unhappy and Hurt

    11:13 Dating the Same 5%

    15:04 Initiating Conversations

    17:54 Expectation Pressures

    21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda

    26:04 Flirt with the World

    28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts

    33:21 The Two-Hit Theory

    37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait

    43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries

    50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities

    54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself?

    01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities

    01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards

    01:12:22 What is Hurting You?

    01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson

    01:18:13 Why We Choose Pain



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    5 April 2024, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 26 minutes
    "Humanity is in the dark ages” - Teal Swan Tears Apart Society’s Approach To Trauma, Love, And Life

    Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher.

    We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimate

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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview

    04:16 - How Narcissism Starts

    08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill

    11:33 - Dysfunctional Family

    13:23 - What is Emotional Incest

    16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange?

    19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship

    22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You

    26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility

    30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference

    34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship

    39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval?

    44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact

    50:10 - An Template for Success

    55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism

    59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy

    01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified

    01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust?

    01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave

    01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness?

    01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma

    01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts

    01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal?



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    16 February 2024, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 36 minutes
    How To Be A Man That Women Respect - Dr Robert Glover

    Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.


    Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.


    We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves


    Thanks for listening!


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    https://integrationnation.net/landing-page


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    00:43 Nice Guy No More?

    04:30 The Nice Guy Persona

    09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood

    15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner

    17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance

    22:43 Positive Emotional Tension

    26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity

    30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us

    40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received

    45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality

    55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?

    01:01:02 The Share-Test Method

    01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality

    01:10:15 Take the Shame Away

    01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs

    01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation

    01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom

    01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs

    01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?



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    9 February 2024, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    PsychoTherapist on Why 99% Are Stuck In Past Failures (Dr. Richard Schwartz Interview)

    Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS).


    We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD.


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    https://www.youtube.com/@UCW3_oqt84pU4Hajx5dsKU-A


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    TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    01:32 What is IFS?

    04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety

    06:20 Unlocking a Part of You

    08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities

    11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have

    13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences

    15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse

    19:56 One of the Goals of IFS

    20:46 Men’s Mental Health

    24:23 Constraining Masculinity

    30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past

    33:57 Defining Your True Self

    35:45 Spirituality and Meditation

    39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better

    54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS

    55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser

    59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts

    01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline

    01:01:34 Where to Find Dick Schwartz



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    29 December 2023, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    Creativity, Emotional Truths and Why I Started Eating Meat Again

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology.


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    1 December 2023, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    Former Pentagon Insider: Don’t Believe The Studies.. Do THIS Instead

    Andrew Herr is an expert in human performance who developed biotech strategy for the US military including the Navy Seals.


    We chat about the terrible health advice from the US government including the "food pyramid", how Public Health lies have left the average American unsure how to improve their lives and how to use your personal health data to optimize your focus and mood...


    Thanks for listening!


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    01:08 You Can’t Trust the Government

    03:48 Debunking Health Fads

    06:52 Customized Approach to Staying Healthy

    10:38 10 Things People Care Most About

    13:08 Anxiety's Impact on the Immune System

    14:22 How Food and Lifestyle are Poisoning Us

    21:00 The Dangers of Ultra Processed Food

    24:49 Why Do We Crave Sugar?

    26:27 How to Fix Your Immune System

    29:46 Burnout and Stress

    33:46 Drug Addiction

    35:00 Was COVID Lockdown Ineffective?

    38:08 Obesity Drugs Don’t Work

    43:28 Figure Out What Works For You

    51:19 Testosterone Boost

    52:57 Performance Enhancers

    1:00:26 Food Allergy Tests

    1:01:48 The Elimination Diet

    1:04:00 Ways to Get Better Sleep

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    24 November 2023, 7:00 pm
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