00:00 A question comes in

00:05 “I think my wife needs therapy, but it hurts her when I bring it up”

00:24 A common trend: spouses diagnosing each other

00:48 When you’re unhappy or angry, labels feel easier

01:04 Real issues exist, but I’m not a doctor

01:19 The better move: work on yourself

01:50 See her goodness and her perspective

02:10 Care more, listen more, help more

02:25 Feel with her instead of getting angry

02:46 When men change, “the diagnosis disappears”

03:10 Hashem can heal, and doctors are for diagnosis and treatment

03:59 Submit more questions + disclaimer

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00:00 Opening – Chanukah as days of blessing
00:15 Creating joy and Divine presence at home
00:35 The Gemara: “Thus” vs “This” in prophecy
01:00 Two ways blessing comes into the world
02:10 Awakening from below, kindness creates blessing
02:26 Hashem as your shadow, Baal Shem Tov
04:00 Becoming attached to Hashem’s traits
04:32 Awakening from above, miracles without effort
07:18 Chanukah as a time of pure Divine giving
07:35 Marriage, your wife as your other half
07:55 Giving without fear of loss
08:23 Closing blessing and practical takeaway

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00:00 Opening – Chanukah as days of blessing

00:11 Creating joy and Divine presence at home

00:25 The Gemara: “Thus” vs “This” in prophecy

01:01 Two ways blessing comes into the world

02:14 Awakening from below, kindness creates blessing

02:27 Hashem as your shadow, Baal Shem Tov

03:56 Becoming attached to Hashem’s traits

05:02 Awakening from above, miracles without effort

06:16 Chanukah as a time of pure Divine giving

06:59 Marriage, your wife as your other half

07:57 Giving without fear of loss

08:37 Closing blessing and practical takeaway

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00:00 Introduction

00:24 If the menorah goes out early

00:35 If it goes out before Shabbos is accepted

01:00 Accidentally putting the candles out while fixing them

02:50 Clay vs. metal or glass lamp holders

03:50 Why wicks do not need to be replaced

04:17 Lighting one Chanukah candle from another

05:04 Why many do not light even candle-to-candle

05:47 When the candles become permitted for benefit

06:57 Lights of Shabbos, synagogue, Torah learning, or a sick person

09:02 Closing

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00:00 Introduction, Why these halachos matter at home

00:30 Oils and wicks that are kosher for Ner Chanukah

01:30 Olive oil vs. wax candles

04:50 Can you use the menorah light? אסור להשתמש לאורה

06:39 Eating by the menorah

07:27 When a shamash helps, and when it does not

08:40 Halachos of leftover oil from the menorah

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00:00 Introduction

00:32 Yaakov’s fear and his tefillah

01:35 Katonti I don’t deserve anything

02:58 Ramban Hashem’s chesed isn’t earned

04:15 How to daven notice every gift

05:10 In marriage drop entitlement

05:45 Zohar say every detail in tefillah

07:24 Clear words in marriage

08:20 Em al banim Shechinah protects

10:45 Shalom bayis brings the Shechinah

12:00 Bishvili nivra haolam responsibility

17:40 Rabbi Levi bar Sisi ego blinds

23:08 Be a king at home without ego

24:04 See wife and children as gifts

25:24 Closing brachah

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00:00 Introduction

00:56 Yaakov’s fear and his tefillah

01:23 Katonti I don’t deserve anything

03:14 Ramban Hashem’s chesed isn’t earned

03:29 How to daven notice every gift

05:00 In marriage drop entitlement

06:32 Zohar say every detail in tefillah

08:04 Clear words in marriage

08:47 Em al banim Shechinah protects

10:09 Shalom bayis brings the Shechinah

12:26 Bishvili nivra haolam responsibility

18:13 Rabbi Levi bar Sisi ego blinds

23:06 Be a king at home without ego

25:00 See wife and children as gifts

27:17 Closing brachah

 

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Reminder: We begin saying ותן טל ומטר Thursday evening, the night going into Friday, after nightfall. Includes quick halacha on what to do if someone forgets to say it. Learn more: www.RabbiEisenberger.com   Get weekly reels & updates on WhatsApp: https://wa.me/message/YYGLUY3DCCTAA1  Watch full video shiurim & reels on YouTube: youtube.com/@RabbiEisenbergerPassion

In this Q&A I address a question many husbands struggle with but are often afraid to ask. Am I obligated to let my wife look at my phone? What does real trust look like in a marriage? And when is it normal to want privacy for the right reasons, not because you’re hiding something? I explain how openness creates safety between husband and wife, why a marriage works best when neither side feels the need to check the other, and the difference between healthy transparency and unnecessary pressure. If your situation is more complex, or there’s a specific reason you don’t want your wife to look at your phone, you can send it in and I’ll guide you with clarity. With Hashem’s help, every home can have peace, trust, and a deep connection. Learn more: www.RabbiEisenberger.com   Get weekly reels & updates on WhatsApp: https://wa.me/message/YYGLUY3DCCTAA1  Watch full video shiurim & reels on YouTube: youtube.com/@RabbiEisenbergerPassion

00:01 Intro

00:22 Two-door courtyard: when you must light both

02:05 Today’s minhag: Only light once indoors

02:55 Earliest time to light

03:15 Lighting from Plag Hamincha in a pressing situation

04:32 Light after Maariv

05:15 If you forgot at sunset

05:47 How much oil you need

06:40 Using long candles

07:54 Not eating or learning before lighting

09:00 If the time passed — how late you can still light

09:34 Lighting after midnight — opinions

10:10 If you don’t have enough oil

10:16 Sick person helping with the menorah

10:24 Wrap-up

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00:00 Intro

00:48 Yaakov leaves home — the struggle begins

01:30 The dream: ladder, angels, and Hashem’s promise

05:20 Night as exile and hardship

06:15 Trusting Hashem in darkness

07:45 What it means to pray “for Hashem”

11:20 The Maariv mindset

12:00 strengthening yourself during galus and marriage conflict

12:40 Hashem protects you even when you don’t see it

13:45 Joy in hardship brings yeshuah

20:36 Bringing this into marriage challenges

23:00 Two middos: humility & world-created-for-me

25:08 How humility gives strength

27:55 Yaakov: “I have nothing but trust Hashem.”

29:55 Rescue comes only from Hashem

30:25 Marriage hardship = opportunity to rise

30:58 Roman princess story — Hashem matches every couple

34:45 Cry or sing — your choice

35:15 Final marriage guidance

36:27 Closing

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