#188 Today's guest is Meg Jay— a developmental clinical psychologist, associate professor of education at the University of Virginia, and published author with over 25 years of experience studying the psychology of twentysomethings. A recent New York Times profile called Dr. Jay “the patron saint of striving youth” and her TED talk “Why 30 Is Not the New 20” is among the most watched to date. In this episode, we discuss:

+ Why being in your 20s is so challenging

+ Ways to cope with the uncertainty of being a twentysomething

+ Feeling indecisive about career moves after college

+ Causes of the Gen Z mental health crisis

+ If people in their 20s are over-diagnosed with mental health disorders

+ The problems with linking your identity to your mental health

+ Whether your 20s actually are the best years of your life according to research

+ The over-medication of twentysomethings in the United States

+ Why twentysomethings should be treated with a unique mental health approach

+ Advice for people in their 20s dealing with breakups

+ What every twentysomething should be doing in their lives

Meg's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmegjay

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+ Meg's recent book: The Twentysomething Treatment

+ Meg's TED Talk

+ Meg's website

+ New York Times profile

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#187 Today's guest is Jeffrey Hall— a Professor of Communication Studies and Director of the Relationships & Technology Lab at the University of Kansas and a visiting scholar at the Berkman Klein Center for Internet & Society at Harvard University. His research centers on building friendships, navigating digital media, and forming meaningful connections and he has written about these topics for the Wall Street Journal and in his award-winning book, Relating Through Technology. In this episode, we discuss:

+ If social media is actually as harmful as we think it is

+ How friendships evolve as we get older

+ The effects of social media on friendships & relationships

+ Why young adults feel both connected & lonely

+ What you need to do to build close relationships

+ Generational differences in social media use & its effects

+ How to use social media without harming your mental health

+ The correlation between friendships and well-being

+ The two types of loneliness & why people feel lonely

+ Why people really spread hate online & how this impacts their health

+ Whether teen mental health & body image are affected by social media

+ Popular misconceptions about social media & why they're formed

+ What he wishes people were doing differently on social media

MENTIONED

+ "How many hours does it take to make a friend?"

+ Professor Hall's Research

+ Relationships and Technology Lab

+ Relating Through Technology

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#186 Today's guest is Emma Seppälä— a best-selling author, Yale lecturer and faculty director of the Yale School of Management’s Women’s Leadership Program, the Science Director of Stanford University’s Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, and international keynote speaker. A psychologist and research scientist by training, her expertise is the science of happiness, emotional intelligence, and social connection. In this episode, we discuss:

+ Cultural differences in defining happiness around the world

+ How different countries interpret challenges & successes

+ What sovereignty is in psychology & why it's so important

+ Why you don't have enough freedom in your life & how to change that

+ How your emotional IQ can impact your sense of freedom

+ The science of happiness & what we can learn from it

+ The two types of happiness and which is better in the long-term

+ Ways that you can boost your happiness according to psychology

+ Advice for students on how to improve your quality of life

+ The culture of success in the U.S. & its cost on well-being

+ Why you should be a good friend to yourself & what this looks like

+ Tips for when you're struggling to make self-care a habit

Emma's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehappinesstrack/

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+ Preorder Sovereign

+ Sattva App

+ SKY Breath

+ SKY for Kids

+ The Happiness Track

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#185 In this week's solo episode, I am once again reacting to mental health posts on Reddit! I did a deep-dive on Reddit and am sharing my most *brutally* honest responses and very best advice on a wide range of mental health posts. I also react to some amazing questions that you guys submitted through my website! I respond to posts on topics including:

+ Signs someone is experiencing depression

+ Flaws with mental health diagnoses

+ Advice on studying psychology in college

+ My troubled teen industry (TTI) experience & how to avoid TTI programs

+ How to start trusting yourself

+ Ways to stop judging others & be less negative

MENTIONED

+ Original Reddit thread

+ Send me your episode topics!

+ She Persisted Ep. 109 ft. Dr. Ruscio

+ She Persisted Ep. 113 ft. Dr. Franco

+ She Persisted Ep. 136 ft. Dr. Mohatt

+ She Persisted Ep. 181 (Pt. 1)

+ The Program

+ Troubled Teen Industry TikTok

+ Unsilenced

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#184 Today's guest is Eden Garcia-Balis— a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has over nineteen years of experience in the mental health field. She is currently the Chief Executive Officer of Airport Marina Counseling Service (AMCS)— a nonprofit, community-based mental health clinic in California. In this episode, we discuss:

+ How to tell if you're in a healthy or unhealthy relationship

+ Signs of an abusive relationship

+ The link between abusive relationships & anxiety and depression

+ Questions you need to ask yourself about your relationship

+ Risk factors that someone could end up in an unhealthy relationship

+ How to set boundaries in a relationship

+ What to do if your partner is unreceptive to your boundaries

+ Ways to help someone who's in an unhealthy relationship

+ Unhealthy relationships in pop culture

+ Tips on how parents should talk to teens about relationships

+ Healing from abusive relationships

+ Relationship resources she recommends

AMCS's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amcshelps/

MENTIONED

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+ Love is Respect

+ She Persisted Ep. 180

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#183 Today's guest is Judith Joseph, M.D., M.B.A.— a board-certified psychiatrist and researcher, Chair of Women in Medicine at Columbia University Vagelos College of Physicians and Surgeons, Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU Langone Medical Center, and founder of the first research lab to study high-functioning mental health conditions. She posts social media content for over 1 million followers and recently received a Congressional Proclamation from the U.S. House of Representatives for her social media advocacy and research. In this episode, we discuss:

+ Why high-functioning mental health disorders can be overlooked

+ Signs someone has high-functioning depression

+ What scarcity trauma is and why someone may be experiencing it

+ Overlaps between high-functioning depression & perfectionism

+ Red flags that a student is struggling with high-functioning depression

+ How high-functioning depression can affect relationships

+ The keys to preventing & overcoming high-functioning depression

+ Her research on sexual trauma & domestic violence in college

+ The two main things trauma survivors need in order to heal

+ How sexual trauma look different in college compared to other environments

+ Advice she wishes all college students could know

Dr. Joseph's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudithjoseph/

MENTIONED

+ Dr. Joseph's Website

+ Dr. Joseph's Lab

+ Dr. Joseph's TikTok

+ Dr. Joseph's Newsletter

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#182 Today's guest is Dr. David Rosmarin— an associate professor at Harvard Medical School, a program director at McLean Hospital, and founder of Center for Anxiety—a practice that services over 1,000 patients per year in multiple states. Dr. Rosmarin studies the relevance of spirituality to mental health and his work has been featured in CNN, NPR, Scientific American, the Boston Globe, the Wall Street Journal, and the New York Times. In this episode, we discuss:

+ A clinical definition of anxiety

+ Differences between fear, anxiety, & worry

+ The relationship between rumination & social anxiety

+ Ineffective (and sometimes unconscious!) ways we deal with anxiety 

+ Ways to navigate anxiety that have helped thousands of people at his anxiety program 

+ How to stop avoiding what’s making you anxious

+ Personality traits that anxious people tend to have

+ The relationship between anxiety & resilience 

+ Supporting someone with anxiety without invalidating or enabling them 

+ Finding professional help for your anxiety 

+ Resources for learning about anxiety 

Dr. Rosmarin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dhrosmarin/

MENTIONED

+ ADAA

+ Center for Anxiety

+ Contact Dr. Rosmarin

+ Dr. Rosmarin's Website

+ Thriving with Anxiety

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#181 In this week's solo episode, I react to mental health posts on Reddit! I give my most honest responses to mental health storytimes and share my best advice on a bunch of mental health questions. I respond to posts that cover topics such as:

+ Feeling hopeless

+ Being sad versus being depressed

+ Helping a friend with their mental health

+ Why Gen Z struggles with mental health

+ Losing motivation in school & other activities

+ Opening up about trauma & overcoming trust issues

MENTIONED

+ Original Reddit thread

+ Send me your episode topics!

+ She Persisted Ep. 28 feat. Dr. Blaise Aguirre

+ She Persisted Ep. 81 feat. Dr. Aliza Pressman

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#180 Today's guest is Dr. Roberto Olivardia— a clinical psychologist and lecturer at Harvard Medical School and founder of a private practice that specializes in treating ADHD, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, OCD, eating disorders, and other issues that face students with learning disabilities. Dr. Olivardia also has lived experience as someone with ADHD and learning differences, as well as being the parent of two teenagers with ADHD and Dyslexia. In this episode, we discuss:

+ Why ADHD can be so hard to diagnose

+ Why ADHD is diagnosed less in women

+ Less well-known symptoms of ADHD

+ Common misconceptions about ADHD

+ The relationship between ADHD and sleep issues

+ Biological and behavioral overlaps between ADHD & anxiety

+ Ways people with ADHD tend to overcompensate

+ If ADHD has a spectrum of severity

+ What the process of getting diagnosed with ADHD looks like

+ Getting treatment for ADHD & strategies for managing focus

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#179 Today's guest is Dr. Jessica Gomez— a bilingual licensed psychologist and executive director of Momentous Institute. Dr. Gomez has over 17 years of experience working to create healthy communities that provide children with access to quality education and mental health services. In this episode, we discuss:

+ The role of family in teen mental health struggles

+ When parents resist getting involved with their teen's mental health

+ How schools play a role in students' mental health

+ What school systems could do to improve the youth mental health crisis

+ Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) & their impact on mental health

+ Ways teens can decrease their risk of mental health challenges

+ What to do when you're at a low point with your mental health

+ How parents can best support their teen's mental health

+ Setting boundaries with friends when it comes to mental health

+ Pros and cons of normalizing mental health struggles

Momentous Institute's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momentousinstitute/

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+ ACEs Study

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🛋This week's episode is sponsored by Teen Counseling. Teen Counseling is an online therapy program with over 14,000 licensed therapists in their network offering support with depression, anxiety, relationships, trauma, and more via text, talk, and video counseling. Head to teencounseling.com/shepersisted to find a therapist today!

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#178 In this week's solo episode, I discuss my ultimate mental health hot takes! I give my most honest takes on what works and what doesn't when it comes to your mental health and share some of my favorite mental health tips I've learned throughout my recovery. I give my hot takes on topics such as:

+ Mental health progression & regression

+ What you should do when your mental health ISN'T struggling

+ Why positive psychology is absolutely necessary

+ Teens going to each other for mental health advice

+ Why EVERYONE should do exposure therapy

+ Why there are no reputable therapeutic boarding schools for teens

MENTIONED

+ Flourish by Martin Seligman

+ McLean 3East

+ She Persisted Ep. 81 feat. Dr. Aliza Pressman

+ Therapeutic Boarding School TikTok

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