Join Summer Gross and Christy Purifoy as they explore the profound role of beauty in spiritual life, placemaking, and community. Discover how cultivating beauty can nourish the soul, foster resilience, and reflect God's redemptive love.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and the theme of beauty in summer 00:28 The reflection of divine beauty in everyday life 01:23 Christy Purifoy's journey into placemaking and beauty 02:02 Beauty as a priestly calling and creative expression 04:26 The significance of Maplehurst and place-based beauty 06:13 The story of finding Maplehurst and dreaming new dreams 08:23 The power of rootedness and cultivating beauty 09:19 The home as a character and sanctuary 10:21 Walking into Christy Purifoy's soul through her home 12:00 The smallness of our dreams and God's larger plan 13:17 Creating hospitality from the depths of the soul 14:43 Beauty as a hospital for souls 16:33 Music and beauty as sources of hope in hospitals 17:19 Beauty during difficult seasons and emotional nourishment 18:43 Balancing practicality and extravagance in beauty 19:42 The gift of retreat and divine rest 21:03 The importance of receiving divine gifts 22:28 The theology of beauty and delight in creation 27:11 Beauty as a reflection of heaven and restoration 36:30 Hope and resilience through beauty amidst global suffering 38:33 The joy of summer fruits and local abundance 42:26 The practice of evening poetry and emotional play 44:44 Transforming emotions into poetry for spiritual insight 45:13 The value of honest expression and naming feelings 45:27 Upcoming retreat at Maplehurst and invitation to join 46:20 Closing thoughts and gratitude for shared beauty

Many insecure avoidants have a hard time placing their fingers on their emotions. They feel more comfortable learning. They feel more comfortable conquering. It allows them to keep their emotions at a distance.

But, when they sense a call to open up their inner life to God or they hit a wall and need greater emotional resources, I often invite them to read a Psalm a day, noticing the emotions that are being prayed. Then, I invite them to notice what emotions are coming up from within them.

So friends, you're in for a treat. Leslie Leyland Fields, a writer and self-professed insecure avoidant shares the practice from the Psalms that taught her how to get out of her head and develop a heartfelt intimacy with God. She shares about it in her book, Nearing the Far God, but also in this conversation at the Presence Project Podcast.

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Uncomplicating the Ignatian Examen & Reflecting w/ God as a Child

If we are anxious or avoidantly attached, often as we move toward prayer, we sift and sort our stories ourselves, wondering which ones to tell God.

We weigh our story and wonder if it is worthy.

Will it hold his attention? Does it matter? Is it angsty or whiny?

Am I showing enough faith or worship?

If we grew up with an experience of impatience from our caregiver, we begin to believe that our story will not be treasured, that it's better not to try.

That it needs to be weighty or witty or already metabolized before it is worth their time. So we begin to minimize the mess, believing we need to clean ourselves up before we come into His presence. Or maybe we think our story has to be maximized, over-spiritualized to be worthy of notice.

Jesus reminds us to "come as a child" and that He has "all the time in the world" to hold our story. He may be omniscient, but, as a perfect caregiver, He still desires to hear every angle of our joy or pain through our perspective sifting and sorting it with us.

Transcript and notes on Summer's new Substack here

Beginner's Guide to the Examen

Nightly Guide to the Examen: 7 ½ minute recording

Creative Right-brained Examen with Sarah Herring

Free Daily examen workbook page

Andrew Huberman's podcast: Making and Breaking Habits

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The Emmanuel Promise is an invitation to set down shame and recognize that your attachment story, your earliest relationship with your caregiver, may be what's obstructing your relationship with God. Your caregivers were human. Limited. Living with their own broken and imperfect story. God's love is lavish. He's . Compassionate. Perfect. But, since our neural pathways for relationships were created in those first three years, our brains have to be rewired to Perfect Love.

The neural pathways for relationship are developed in the first three years of a person's life. This affects even our relationship with God and is at the heart of attachment theory. Therapist Maggie Rhine, the head of the Healing Care Center, tells the story of her struggle to gain a secure attachment after having multiple surgeries as an infant.

"Looking at our attachment stories is not dishonoring to our parents. So many of them did the best they could. It is not blameworthy, or shame-worthy, but it is grief-worthy and we've got to name it and bring it into the presence of God so we can heal." Maggie Rhine

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• Attachment theory and the many obstacles to a life immersed in the Trinity's Love
• Honest conversation about detaching to attach in our marriages
• Understanding our attachment story and style in order to heal and live out of knowing you are God's beloved.
• The simple, but profound spiritual practices which have been a gift for Terry
• Experience Terry Wardle lead you into Jesus' Presence through Safe Place

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Terry Wardle has written a treasure trove of incredible books including Identity Matters

and one of my favorites, Every Breath We Take, a book every Presence Project Listener will LOVE.

He also has a weekly podcast called Slingstones: Listen here.

The insecure anxious attached hope to get an "A" in Lent to try to be more worthy for God. They're afraid they have to clean themselves up before God wants to be in their presence.

The insecure avoidant attached like to keep things more intellectual, reading about someone else's Lent. If they have sin in their lives, they think they have to go at it alone.

The truth is that the Holy Spirit wants to be the One in charge of inviting us to new areas of increased freedom. He wants us to come to Him to become unbound. We were never meant to do this alone.

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Live Slowly: A Gentle Invitation to Exhale ALSO on April 30th

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Listen to the Remind{h}er podcast here.

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Kris Camealy: @kriscamealy on Instagram

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An illustration of her sweet mixed media makings

Kris' podcast: Refine Retreat, the podcast

Maeve Gerboth: @maeve_gerboth on Instagram

Explore spiritual direction with Maeve.

Books and Resources:

Kate Bowler On Being with Krista Tippett: On Having a Body

https://onbeing.org/programs/kate-bowler-on-being-in-a-body/

Celtic Benedictions with J. Philip Newell

Jamie Winship: Fearless Living

Tanner Olson: Walking a Little Slower

David Benner: Soulful Spirituality

John O'Donohue: Bless the Place Between Us

Get Summer's free resource to move through tangled emotions here.

Show Notes for Episode 66 with Alan Fadling:

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Find A Year of Slowing Down: Daily Devotions for Unhurried Living by Alan Fadling HERE

Pre-order Alan Fadling's newest book, A Non Anxious Life: Experiencing the Peace of God's Presence which releases February 6th. Pre-Order here.

Buy Steve Macchia's accessible book on Rule of Life: Crafting a Rule of Life HERE.

Get Margaret Silf's book Inner Compass with chapters on Holy Desire HERE.

Join Summer's twice-monthly retreat, Table of the Beloved to work on our Rule of Life together HERE.

Get Summer's newsletter to receive mini-retreats through your inbox as well as more resources for your life as His Beloved HERE

Show Notes for Episode 66 with Alan Fadling:

Pre-order The Emmanuel Promise by Summer Gross for $11.39!!! HERE

Find A Year of Slowing Down: Daily Devotions for Unhurried Living by Alan Fadling HERE

Pre-order Alan Fadling's newest book, A Non Anxious Life: Experiencing the Peace of God's Presence which releases February 6th. Pre-Order here.

Buy Steve Macchia's accessible book on Rule of Life: Crafting a Rule of Life HERE.

Get Margaret Silf's book Inner Compass with chapters on Holy Desire HERE.

Join Summer's twice-monthly retreat, Table of the Beloved to work on our Rule of Life together HERE.

Get Summer's newsletter to receive mini-retreats through your inbox as well as more resources for your life as His Beloved HERE