Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violettta Benson

Find out why everyone’s talking about Almost Adulting Podcast.Get read to immerse yourself in the largest self-love podcast and movement - your #1 destination for personal growth and mental health. I'm your host Violet Benson, known as Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker, but most importantly, I'm YOUR big sister. Each month, we explore a new topic with amazing guests, inspiring conversations, and life-changing solo episodes. Drawing on my own personal experiences (where I learned everything the hard way) and researched expert advice, we'll tackle critical areas like self-improvement, mental health, and relationships with plenty of useful tools, relatable humour and candid advice. Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Don't wait another moment to become the best version of yourself - Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting!Welcome to the #AlmostAdulting movement. Your healing journey starts NOW. Podcast drops every Tuesday and Thursday.

  • 1 hour 46 minutes
    Get Your Ex Back w/ Adrienne Everheart

    Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire.

    In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom.

    If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!


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    Episode Highlights:

    00:00 Intro

    01:49 How do I get my ex back?

    02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today

    05:44 Let the other person miss you

    07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave

    15:05 What is love-starved?

    19:06 Words that men love to hear

    25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you’

    29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy’

    33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy

    36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries

    39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date

    44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy

    46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy?

    48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men?

    49:42 Tap into your masculine energy

    51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral

    55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy?

    58:35 Healing from a breakup

    01:02:12 You’re attracted to what you already have

    01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup?

    01:08:25 How do you get him back?

    01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back

    01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work

    01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term

    01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to

    01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men”

    01:30:54 Show that you’re bored

    01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you

    01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast

    01:36:58 How do you love yourself?


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    This Podcast is for Women: Relationship Advice & Feminine Energy with Adrienne Everheart


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    25 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 18 minutes 8 seconds
    My Therapist Once Told Me...

    Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/


    On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! 

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    24 April 2024, 9:45 pm
  • 34 minutes 53 seconds
    In Case You Missed Me

    Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you’d only share with your closest friends!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 02:20 Maybe I was feeling a little low
    • 05:12 The most basic necessities we often forget
    • 06:45 Why it feels like it will never get better
    • 09:02 When I’m happy, I just take it in
    • 11:49 I took edibles before watching Dune
    • 16:43 I saw a Reddit post about me not going to Coachella 
    • 23:24 Getting sponsored to attend Stagecoach
    • 29:07 I’m going to Stagecoach by myself!   


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    23 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 45 minutes 29 seconds
    It's Okay to Not Be Okay

    Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining.


    If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more?  You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!


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    • NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team


    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:19 Do you believe in God?
    • 03:32 Why am I crying for no reason?
    • 04:19 Getting advice from ChatGPT
    • 09:18 How do you get the courage to ask for help?
    • 12:13 Good breathing exercises when you’re anxious
    • 18:09 Quick and simple activities to improve your mood
    • 23:22 What do you do when you’re feeling down?
    • 26:07 What to do when you feel stuck and exhausted
    • 28:05 The best advice about life
    • 30:52 How important is human connection? 
    • 33:32 Best advice about finding happiness


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    18 April 2024, 8:00 am
  • 29 minutes 11 seconds
    How To Win An Argument

    Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:44 Win through your actions, not through arguments
    • 14:42 Always say less than necessary


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    16 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 29 minutes 4 seconds
    Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

    Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.

    GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 04:01 What is a nice girl?
    • 06:22 What is a b*tch?
    • 07:13 Why do men prefer b*tches?
    • 08:30 Become a prize
    • 10:02 Men always want what they can’t have
    • 13:53 Conditions to set when dating
    • 15:51 The Madonna-Wh*re Complex
    • 17:02 The difference between a nice girl, a woman who acts like a b*tch, and an actual b*tch
    • 21:40 Men are scared to lose control and their freedom
    • 23:21 Men want to feel that you chose to be with them


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    11 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 23 minutes 28 seconds
    20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think

    Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments.


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    Episode Highlights:

    00:00 Intro

    01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.”

    04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are

    11:32 How do we measure a good life?

    17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together


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    9 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 14 minutes 20 seconds
    How to Handle Conflict

    Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy!

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    7 April 2024, 9:46 pm
  • 38 minutes 44 seconds
    Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS

    Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!


    Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life!


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    Episode Highlights:

    00:00 Intro

    02:00 What does success mean to you?

    03:28 The failure and success paradox

    07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging

    10:14 Quantum physics

    15:57 What do most successful people have in common?

    20:16 Passion and perseverance

    24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower

    28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset

    30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful

    32:56 Top tips to attract success


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    4 April 2024, 7:00 am
  • 8 minutes 10 seconds
    P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary

    Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.


    Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on  https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

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    3 April 2024, 8:47 am
  • 26 minutes 8 seconds
    Get People to Like You Instantly

    Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.

    Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections.  


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:26 How to make people like you instantly?
    • 07:36 The story of Hall Caine   
    • 11:37 “This is our dream house.”
    • 14:56 The judge who loves dogs
    • 16:29 Famous people still crave a little recognition
    • 22:33 Six ways to make people like you


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    2 April 2024, 7:00 am
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