AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

Danny Vega

Danny Vega, TikTok cringelord, and Sara Levine, meme queen master's student, read listener submissions & pilfer from the similarly-named subreddit. They discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple...

  • 51 minutes 19 seconds
    806 The 4 Types of Secrets (ft. Sara)
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    Folks, hope you guys had a great weekend. I'm joined by Sara for a great lil' ep. Much love!
    (0:00) - Banter
    (4:19) - AITA for lying to my husband about the best I ever had?
    (13:07) - I've kept a secret account from my husband and it saved my marriage
    (27:30) - AITA for telling mom about my sister's secret pregnancy?
    (43:57) - AITA for having my own secret honey stash?



    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
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    - 250+ Bonus eps
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    23 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 56 minutes 28 seconds
    804 Strange Transactions (ft. Karla & Radu)
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    Folks, I'm joined by Karla and Radu for this wild ride. Enjoy :) 

    (0:00) - Banter 
    (1:00) - Submish: AITA for asking a parent not to bring a baby into the adult pool? 
    (13:02) - WIBTA if I was petty with repayment after having a limb amputated?
    (31:31) - WIBTA for refusing to give money back after selling my car at a major discount to a family friend's son?
    (42:12) - AITA for buying a $50,000 guitar for $4,000?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
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    16 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    802xt AITA I can't use the dishwasher bc it's filled with pots? (ft. Chandler Dean, Andy Our Brother)
    Folks, I'm joined by the amazing Chandler Dean and Andy Our Brother. These guys asked me to have them on to promote their awesome show, ABOLISH EVERYTHING, a fantastic panel improv show that I think many of you will enjoy :) 
    Please follow in Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abolisheverythingnyc/
    And watch on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/abolish

    (0:00) - Banter
    (16:24) - Andy's classic game, r/improv or r/drugs
    (25:37) - AITA for changing the locks after my brother's GF used my shower?
    (33:18) - AITA for being frustrated I can't use the dishwasher bc it's filled with pots?
    (44:46) - AITA for not wanting to share my username on a book app with my GF?
    (52:12) - AITA for being a horse? (


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    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    11 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    801 AITA for my reaction to Valentine's flowers? (ft. Karla & Radu)
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    Thank you for listening and a big welcome to all our new listeners! 

    (0:00) - Shia la Beouf Banter 
    (12:35) - AITA for wanting to split rent evenly with a couple?
    (26:42) - AITA for not paying to have my GF's bday gift framed?
    (40:32) - AITA for how I responded to my vday flowers? 
    (51:59) - AITA for littering with fruit?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    9 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 15 minutes
    799 AITA for cancelling a second date after I saw her on a date?
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    (0:00) - Banter 
    (27:31) - AITA for ruining my anniversary bc I asked to take a few selfies?
    (40:30) - AITA for cancelling a second date after I saw her on a date?
    (01:00:32) - AITa for declining to share my food at a restaurant?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    2 March 2026, 11:00 am
  • 1 hour 28 seconds
    797 AITA for excluding the green texters? (ft. Karla & Radu)
    The sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off online therapy 
    Happy mon mon hun huns. Enjoy the ep!
    (0:00) - Banter
    (10:14) - AITA for excluding the green texters?
    (22:58) - AITA for always bumming my friends' vapes?
    (34:11) - AITA for blocking my neighbor's car?
    (48:31) - AITA for not washing my dish?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
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    23 February 2026, 11:00 am
  • 47 minutes 29 seconds
    795xt AITA for not wanting to look at my dad's bum? (ft. Karla & Aaron Small)
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    I'm joined by Karla and Aaron for a fun episode! Enjoy folks <3



    (0:00) - Banter
    (12:43) - AITA for leaving the room whenever my boyfriend eats?
    (22:08) - AITA for changing my niece's stripper name?
    (31:26) - AITA for not wanting to look at my dad's bum?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
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    19 February 2026, 11:00 am
  • 1 hour 40 minutes
    794xt AITA for doin' weird sex stuff? (ft. Andrea Allan)
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    Joined today by ANDREA ALLAN. Andrea is one of my fave guests and it's wild bc i feel like this ep... we are both two grown ass adults. Happy mon mon hun huns!!!

    (0:00) - Banter, lib woke stuff tbh may drag a little lol
    (32:47) - My boyfriend is strangely obsessed with his cousin.
    (47:32) - During sex, my GF asked me if I'd like to watch her f my friends?
    (01:02:50) - found my (36f) partner (33m) used to have sex with best friend's wife?
    (01:18:45) - AITA for saying don't sleep w a guy on the first date?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
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    16 February 2026, 11:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    793 AITA for buying the same presents for my wife and my mom? (ft. Karla &amp; Radu)
    Thanks for listening and hope you enjoy the ep!!!

    (0:00) - Banter
    (19:33) - AITA for announcing my mom's death on facebook?
    (30:13) - AITA for buying the same presents for my wife and my mom?
    (42:16) - AIta for not liking polyamory?
    (52:36) - AITA for taking my mask off when I knew I was sick?

    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    9 February 2026, 11:00 am
  • 55 minutes 17 seconds
    791xt AITA for telling my GF listening to audiobooks isn't reading? (ft. Cat)
    Folks, some years ago, I went to Tampa, Florida to do stand-up comedy. A listener showed up with a hand-crocheted duck, aka Ducky Vega. She said we had spoken before, that she wasn't a huge fan of my commentary regarding "replacing dogs." Yet, here she was, having driven 5 hours just to see me bomb. LIfe is fascinating like that, right? WE LOVE CAT!!!

    (0:00) - Banter
    (6:21) - AITA for lying to my husband that I'm selling baby items not breast milk?
    (20:06) - AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop knitting so much?
    (35:20) - AITA for telling my GF listening to audiobooks isn't reading?


    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    5 February 2026, 4:55 pm
  • 2 hours 36 seconds
    790 AITA for asking my husband if he's a sexist? (ft. The Divorce Mediator)
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    FOLKS, I am super excited for this one. I am joined by a real life, heightened interpersonal conflict WARLOCK. His name: Joe Dillon. He is the mediator for his divorce mediation company (Equitable Mediation.com) that helps folks stay out of the courts and work things out more affordably (and affably too). I was transfixed with bro's insights ngl :D. This guy deescalates!! Hope you enjoy.

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/equitablemediation/  - @equitablemediation

    (0:00) - Banter
    (6:10) - Interview questions
    SITUATIONS
    (01:19:07) - AITA for asking my husband if he is a sexist?
    (01:43:34) - AITA for not backing up my husband when he ordered our adult daughter to go to her room?




    BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
    Email - [email protected] 
    Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
    What's on Patreon?
    - 250+ Bonus eps
    - NO ADS and accurate timestamps
    - Complain and comment DIRECTLY to Danny :D 
    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@aitapod
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aita_pod/
    2 February 2026, 11:00 am
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