In this raw and unapologetic episode of the Talkin’ Crazy Podcast, Meech dives headfirst into what it really means to lead like you give a damn. Inspired by his conversation with Gunnery Sergeant Schaeffer, Meech breaks down the hard truths about leadership — the good, the bad, and the straight-up toxic.

If you’ve ever worked under a leader who only cared about the rank, the paycheck, or the power, this one’s for you. And if you’re the kind of leader who’s committed to showing up for your people, get ready to feel seen.

From personal stories of failure and growth to the uncomfortable realities of holding yourself accountable, Meech shares the five key lessons that have shaped him into the leader he is today. Spoiler alert — it all starts with giving a f*ck.

In this powerful episode of Talkin’ Crazy, Meech sits down with Lexus Schaeffer—Marine veteran, former MACE Chief Instructor, and current leader in the Human Performance Branch. What starts as a walk through Schaeffer’s Marine Corps journey turns into a masterclass on leadership, humility, and growth. From showing up at the MACE as “Nick the New Guy” to leading the entire program, Schaeffer breaks down what it takes to lead leaders.

The two dive into their shared experiences—balancing family and mission, learning from failure, and how real leadership means telling people they suck… and helping them get better. This one’s not just for Marines—it’s for anyone chasing growth, respect, and real impact.

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Man, you just had to be there… 2024 was one of the hardest years of my career. I had the package, the experience, the work ethic—but when the Gunnery Sergeant board came out, my name wasn’t on it. I felt like I wasn’t good enough. I questioned everything. But instead of letting that moment define me, I made a choice—to keep grinding, to double down, and to make damn sure that when my time came, I was ready.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever been passed over—whether it’s for a promotion, a job, or an opportunity you KNOW you deserved. I break down what that moment felt like, how I bounced back, and the lessons that got me from rejection to selection.

If you’ve ever felt overlooked, unappreciated, or like all your hard work wasn’t paying off—this one’s for you. Stay in the race. Your time is coming.

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Relationship problems used to be about love and dating, but this time Meech and Shenny take it to a new level with parenting. We discussed how the dynamic changes when you go from talking about couple drama to tackling the trails of raising children

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This week I remastered another fan favorite with an amazing guest! thats right "Relationship Problems 3" the first episode with Shenny Solis is back

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Ever felt like you’re working your ass off, but everybody else is getting ahead while you’re stuck? Like no matter how much effort you put in, success still feels out of reach? In this episode ofTalkin’ Crazy, I get real about the frustration of feeling overlooked, the temptation to quit, and theone thing that separates winners from everybody else—showing up.

I break down my own struggles, from career setbacks to watching others succeed faster, and how I fought through the doubt, the envy, and the exhaustion. Because at the end of the day, talent ain’t enough. Luck ain’t enough. Connections ain’t enough. The only thing that guarantees success?Consistency.

So if you’re feeling like quitting, listen to this first. Because your moment is coming—but you gotta be there for it. Tune in now and let’s talk about why youkeep showing up

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What's going on everybody! So today I decided to remaster a fan favorite and bring back one of my favorite episodes!

That's right "Fck You Grow" has been remastered with Darnell Gomez.

Lets go down memory lane with the first intro and old name too.

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Let’s keep it real—there are days when you wake up and just ain’t got it in you to tackle life’s to-do list. And guess what? That’s okay! In this episode, I’m breaking down why those “do-nothing” days are normal, how to handle them without beating yourself up, and why rest is just as important as the grind. If you’re feeling burnt out, unmotivated, or just plain tired, this one’s for you. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is sit your butt down and recharge. Let’s get into it!

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In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy, Meech and Peezy dive into the chaos of the TikTok ban that shook the internet—even if only for 12 hours. But this conversation isn’t just about social media disappearing—it’s about what it revealed. From the power and pitfalls of being a military influencer to the hate and judgment creators face, Meech and Peezy explore why platforms like TikTok matter, how they connect us, and why some people cheered for others to lose it all.

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In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy, we’re talking about one simple truth: you are the author of your life.

If the story you’re living doesn’t reflect who you want to be or where you want to go, it’s time to write a better one.

I’ll share how to break free from limiting beliefs, take control of your narrative, and start creating a life that feels true to you. Your past doesn’t define you—it’s just a chapter, not the whole book. Tune in and let’s rewrite your story together!

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Alright now, let’s talk about it—y’all out here screaming “New Year, New Me” like you ain’t said the same thing last year… and the year before that. But let me guess, the treadmill already got dust on it, huh? In this episode of Talkin’ Crazy, I’m breaking down why your resolutions always flop and how to finally get it right this year. You want success? It’s gonna take discipline, not vibes. So grab a pen and some honesty, and let’s figure this thing out before 2026 sneaks up on you.

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