I Said What I Said
I Said What I Said
"I Said What I Said" is a raucous self developmen…
- 25 minutes 3 seconds164. Your Dream Life is CLOSER than you think, mama!!!
If you know what you need to do but cant bring yourself to do it, this isn’t “bad” sign. You’re just trying to leapfrog too many Identities at once. Let’s chat about it
- Coherence
- Energetic over-ambition leads to hectic rebounding
- You have to take your nervous system with you
- There is no rush, take your time with Identity Shifts - we are going nowhere slowly
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26 March 2026, 3:34 pm - 39 minutes 22 seconds163. Life is a privilege and an honour!!! 5 things I’m taking into my new year
Happy Birthday to me and Hozier ❤️♓ I discuss 5 things I'm taking into my new year: the nature of you and god, video game theory, the importance of contrast, masculine and feminine energy, and loving men
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17 March 2026, 1:56 pm - 20 minutes 52 seconds162. Wanna get coached by me? ⭐ Take a listen
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6 February 2026, 6:00 am - 57 minutes 42 seconds158. Love is Blind S9: Ep12+Reunion - wealth gaps, naivety and outsourcing our intuition
Loved this season! But I am always glad when it’s all over 😂 On this episode I discuss:
- Jordan and Megan: is a wealth gap really that insurmountable?
- Kalybriah and Edmond: infantilizing men and accountability
- Madison and Joe: outsourcing intuition, attachment issues and attracting people at your resonance level
- Patrick and Kacie: Naïveté, Boundaries & Self-Esteem
- Ali and Anton: class and hypergamy
- Nick, Kait and Annie: Personas and performativity
REFERENCES
If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
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145. Autistics STAND TF UP!! We have incredible intuition and perceptual skills, it's time to act like it : https://www.patreon.com/posts/145-autistics-tf-135474733?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link
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9 November 2025, 7:47 pm - 54 minutes 19 seconds157. Should you take Responsibility for your own Suffering? Manifestation, Fate, Fortune and Suffering
So you want to take responsibility for your reality! Great. How do you do this with care, though? In a way that acknowledges your capacity, takes charge of what you can control while accepting what you cannot… Let’s discussssss:
- Understanding Manifestation and Reality Creation
- The Role of Belief Systems in Reality Creation
- The Importance of Evidence and Critical Thinking
- Response Over Reaction
- Determining Your Belief System
- The Benefits of Taking Responsibility
- When to Be Responsible and When Not To
- The Role of Astrology and Spiritual Philosophy
- Taking Responsibility for Relational Dynamics
- Creating distance to reduce self-criticism
- Should you take responsibility for external acts of trauma and suffering?
- My simple Formula
- Unnecessary Suffering
- Are you unlucky?
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31 October 2025, 8:27 pm - 55 minutes 27 seconds156. Love is Blind S9: Ep6-11: substance abuse, sexual coercion and breaking relational patterns (everyone’s getting slapped!!!)
I’m tired!!!! I’m ordering a public flogging of all the men in the town square.
Examining Love, Self-Reflection, and Attachment Styles in 'Love Is Blind' Season 9
- Alcohol dependence and sexual coercion
- Intuition and Attachent styles
- Childhood trauma and breaking relational patterns
- Filling voids with everything but self love
RESOURCES
Louise Hay on affirmations: https://youtu.be/x0ZZ8xK6PE4?si=dT2Syn2xaARmf05B
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23 October 2025, 4:51 pm - 1 hour 11 minutes155. Love is Blind S9: Ep1-5: racism, biohacking and arrested development
This season has me HOWLING! My review covers Ep1-5 and 10mins of Ep6 - basically only the pods stuff, nothing beyond. I use the couples as a mirror to discuss larger societal themes around:
- internalized racism
- racial preferences
- shame and romantic desperation
- trusting ones intuition
- Heteroflexibility and hiding behind faith
- Emotional repression
If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
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- “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805
Love Is Blind content creators I love: Dr Cheri Types, Jessie Woo (both on YouTube)
Intuition episode:
Self Esteem episodes:
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17 October 2025, 7:30 am - 42 minutes 33 seconds153. 'Materialists' movie review: love as the last uncolonized frontier
Watched it twice! LOVED all the themes, and I LOVE discussing love, so of course I had a blast recording this episode. I discussed:
- love as industry
- capitalism and love
- hypergamy and lover girls
- the utility of love
- manifestation, objectification and dating
- objectifying love via dating apps
- outsourcing community and connection
If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
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REFERENCES
- Realization By Pea post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DPRU39fEXWi/?igsh=MTh1dGpjbThpcWhncw==
- Celine Song interview clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNJF54WMs3N/?igsh=MXdsc3J1anltOGQ4bQ==
- The Slumflower on hypergamy: https://youtu.be/DesVgQwPD1s?si=6Bf2bvkjOFuZx6tH
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2 October 2025, 11:33 am - 33 minutes 55 seconds150. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep10 & 11: self sabotage and the promise of happily ever after
That’s a wrap! I loved this season. This is a review of Episodes 10 & 11 (reunion). Themes discussed
- Reality TV and mental health
- Sarova and Kal: dating down intellectually, ignoring signs, reading auras
- Bardha and Jed: shocked they aren’t together! owning your triggers and doing shadow work
- Meghan and Kieran: why lie about Javen and then double down? Suspicioussss otherwise, love these two for each other
- Javen and Katisha: gaslighting, nitpicking and low self worth
- Observations on how men and women’s communication styles differ
REFERENCES
- Dr Cherie Types, Jed + Bardha - https://youtu.be/IwxOPkuesGY?si=33IOzxSGZl-aEcKO
- photo analysis woman -https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM_8O4aRcOw/?igsh=MmM5bmJyeWIzOGpm
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12 September 2025, 7:55 pm - 26 minutes 59 seconds149. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep5-9: bro code, provider men and low self-esteem women
This is a review of Episodes 5-9 up until and not including the weddings. There are no spoilers about the weddings and beyond. Themes discussed
- the bro code and men’s allegiance to other men (Kieran and Javen)
- emotional availability (Javen)
- (not) being an intellectual match (Kal and Sarover)
- when your partner doesn’t have your back, being ‘alone’ together (Kieran)
- provider vs. non provider men (Jed vs. Billy)
- honesty without tact (Kal)
- self worth and the lack of it (Sarover and Katisha)
- gaslighting, semantics and the difference in how men and women communicate (Javen and photoboot-gate)
REFERENCES
- Manifesting dream partner (list exercise) - https://youtu.be/-arRiZGavR8?si=v8e5INsFQHk-kATX
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4 September 2025, 5:55 pm - 1 hour 3 minutes148. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep1-4: spiritual bypassing, gender roles, attachment styles.
Javen and Patrick, prepare for your SLAPS 👏🏾!!! This is a review of Episodes 1-4 covering the pod only, nothing beyond that. I unpack behaviours, discuss motivations and attachment styles, and consider gender roles and race:
- Couples analysis - who’s (not) a good fit and why
- Javen and gender roles
- Patrick and Spiritual bypassing
- Katisha and low self esteem
- Sophie and attachment styles
- beauty, race and gender
REFERENCES
- Bashar on timeline jumping - https://youtu.be/S0ubD4QoUKw?si=J8LAOciA5lTTKHFL
- attachment style - https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl
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