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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

  • 1 hour 34 minutes
    Andy Galpin: 3 Ways to Lose Weight and Gain Muscle (the Fitness Plan You Will ACTUALLY Stick To)

    What’s your biggest challenge with sticking to a fitness plan?

    What motivates you to stay consistent with workouts?

    Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Andy Galpin, a leading expert in human performance science, muscle physiology, and strength training, to guide you toward a healthier and more fulfilling life. Dr. Galpin shares practical insights grounded in science and years of experience training elite athletes, from Olympians to professional sports stars, offering advice that anyone can apply.

    Andy talks in-depth about the fitness fundamentals, starting with the importance of consistency and personalized routines over rigid approaches. Andy emphasizes the key pillars of fitness: looking good, feeling good, and performing well, tailoring these goals to individual needs and life circumstances. He explains how simple adjustments in routines, like incorporating progressive overload and balancing structured cardiovascular training with strength training, can yield transformative results.

    Andy and Jay provide actionable strategies for improving recovery, enhancing brain health, and battling common challenges like brain fog and stubborn fat; and breaks down the science of hydration, sleep, and nutrition while busting myths about intermittent fasting, the anabolic window, and the role of cardio. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Set Fitness Goals You’ll Actually Stick To

    How to Build Muscle Without Spending Hours at the Gym

    How to Balance Strength Training with Cardiovascular Exercise

    How to Improve Recovery with Better Sleep and Nutrition

    How to Prevent Burnout with Smarter Workouts

    How to Use Strength Training to Boost Longevity

    There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, and the key to success lies in finding what works for you, whether it’s starting with just one workout a week, improving your sleep habits, or focusing on better nutrition. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:56 The Best Routine to Gain Muscles

    06:34 What’s Your Fitness Goal?

    14:39 Bad versus Good Fitness Coaching

    20:50 What is the Pursuit of Fitness?

    23:53 The Real Strength Training Process

    32:17 Walking or Running?

    42:09 Realistic Fitness Goal    

    43:42 Varying Recovery Requirements

    48:29 Ideal Protein Intake

    54:12 Post Exercise Anabolic Window

    01:02:28 How Important is Proper Hydration?

    01:08:55 How to Deal with Brain Fog

    01:11:36 What’s Andy’s Schedule Like?

    01:18:52 Is Evening Workout Effective?

    01:23:17 Ideal Workout for PCOS and Menopause

    01:29:26 Andy on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

    Andy Galpin | Website

    Andy Galpin | X

    Andy Galpin | Instagram 

    Andy Galpin | Youtube

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    20 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 29 minutes
    Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

    What makes you feel stuck right now?

    How do you tackle time-consuming tasks?

    Today, Jay sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper, multi-platinum artist, and first-time author, Big Sean. This special episode marks Sean’s third appearance on the show, but this time, he’s here to share deeper insights into mental health, purpose, and his debut book, Go Higher, set to release in January 2025.

    During the conversation, Big Sean reflects on his personal battles with anxiety, depression, and letting go of control. He shares the transformative role of spiritual practices in his life and how they inspired him to write a book that offers tools for self-care, growth, and purpose. Sean opens up about one of the toughest lessons he's ever had to learn — accepting the things he can't change — and how that acceptance became his pathway to peace and clarity.

    Jay and Sean also explore the power of "separating self from success," where Sean explains why money isn’t the true measure of success. Instead, he defines success as the feeling of living in alignment with your purpose and positively impacting others.

    In a vulnerable moment, Sean discusses the grief of experiencing a miscarriage and how he and his partner found light in the darkness. He also opens up about his journey with fatherhood, the process of quitting Adderall, and how he manages trauma through intentional strategy and meditation. From music to mindfulness, Sean reflects on his evolution as an artist, a man, and now, an author.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Redefine Success on Your Own Terms

    How to Use Radical Acceptance to Overcome Life’s Challenges

    How to Separate Self-Worth from Wealth and Achievement

    How to Attract Purpose Instead of Chasing It

    How to Embrace Spiritual Growth for Mental Clarity and Peace

    Every challenge you face holds the seed of transformation. When you accept your reality and stop resisting, you open yourself up to new opportunities for growth. Let Big Sean’s wisdom guide you on your journey to go higher.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    04:05 Sharing Personal Hardships Through Writing

    06:36 Define Your Idea of Success

    10:17 The Power of Separation?

    12:41 The Kobe Mindset

    16:43 Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up

    20:07 Attracting Energy versus Chasing Energy

    27:09 Learnings From Being a Father

    31:39 Living Through Your Kids

    33:33 Healing Generational Trauma

    35:06 Teach Your Child to Be Confident

    38:08 How Do You Become Strategic?

    41:42 Effectivity in Being Strategic

    45:58 Learn to Set Boundaries

    49:35 Respect Your Self

    52:55 Don’t Lose Yourself

    55:01 Exercising Boundaries

    58:00 Affirmations, Gratitude, and Journaling

    01:02:44 What’s Your Meditation Practice?

    01:07:00 Different Approaches to Therapy

    01:08:24 Battling with Addiction and Depression

    01:14:26 The Importance of Education 

    01:17:32 Giving Up Music

    01:18:42 Last Conversation with Kanye

    01:23:53 Staying Optimistic After Miscarriage

    01:26:18 Finding Hope in Dark Times

    01:27:34 Living with Miracles Everyday

    Episode Resources:

    Big Sean | Website

    Big Sean | X

    Big Sean | Instagram 

    Big Sean | Tiktok 

    Big Sean | Youtube

    Big Sean | Facebook

    Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace

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    17 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 27 minutes
    Bryan Johnson: New SHOCKING Science on How to Reverse Your Age by 31 Years & The Damaging Impact of 1 Bad Night Sleep

    Do you think one bad night of sleep can really harm your body?

    Would you try a routine that could help you reverse aging?

    Today, Jay sits down with Bryan Johnson, entrepreneur and founder of Blueprint, who is redefining human health and longevity. Dubbed "the world's most measured human," Bryan shares his extraordinary journey of reversing aging and improving biological performance through science-backed methods and a meticulously designed lifestyle.

    Bryan discusses how his $2 million-a-year protocol isn't just about extreme spending but about pioneering a blueprint for everyone. He explains the concept of "don't die," emphasizing the potential for humanity to extend life and improve health at unprecedented levels. From his diet of precision-crafted meals to his groundbreaking work in measuring microplastics and organ health, Bryan's insights challenge conventional norms about aging, health, and longevity.

    Together with Jay, Bryan dives deep into actionable takeaways, such as the five pillars of perfect sleep, the importance of building systems over relying on willpower, and how to minimize exposure to environmental toxins like microplastics. Bryan also addresses controversial topics, including the downsides of cheat days and the role of technology in managing health.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Reverse Aging Through Measured Health Metrics

    How to Optimize Your Diet for Longevity

    How to Manage Stress With Better Sleep

    How to Create a System for Healthy Living

    How to Rewire Your Taste Buds for Better Nutrition

    How to Lower Inflammation With Simple Daily Habits

    You don’t need millions of dollars or cutting-edge technology to start—just a commitment to making small, intentional changes. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:31 How Long Can a Person Live?

    04:19 The Most Measured Person

    06:34 Getting Sustained Hearing Impairment

    09:57 Extending Life Before Conception

    11:18 How Long Do We Have to Live?

    14:22 Every Body I Highly Responsive to Change

    16:50 Embryo Selection Through Genetic Markers

    18:12 A Generation of Microplastic 

    20:42 Simple Ways to Minimize the Influx of Microplastic

    23:05 Don’t Drink from Water Bottles

    26:01 The Significant Health Threat of Air Pollution

    30:11 How Capitalism Affects Health

    32:28 5 Ways to Get Better Sleep

    40:12 Don’t Miss Your Deep Sleep Window

    43:37 The Ill Effects of Poor Sleep

    45:48 Invest in Your Health

    48:12 What’s Your Protein Intake?

    51:22 Bryan’s Perfect Diet

    56:11 Eating 3 Meals a Day in 5 Hours

    58:21 Rewire Your Taste Buds

    59:19 Sensitivity to Air Quality

    01:02:36 Are You Scared of Dying?

    01:05:58 Prolonging Longevity

    01:08:07 Ways to Manage Stress

    01:11:00 You Are not Your Thoughts

    01:15:37 Health Can Lead to Happiness

    01:19:37 Is Reverse Aging Possible?

    01:22:25 Bryan on Final Five   

    Episode Resources:

    Bryan Johnson | Website

    Bryan Johnson | X

    Bryan Johnson | Instagram 

    Bryan Johnson | Tiktok 

    Bryan Johnson | Youtube

    Bryan Johnson | LinkedIn

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    13 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 26 minutes 45 seconds
    4 Simple Manifestation & Visualization Hacks to Help Achieve Your 2025 Goals

    What’s one goal you want to manifest in 2025?

    What small step can you take today toward your goal?

    Today, Jay dives into the mindset and practices needed to manifest the life you truly desire in 2025. Picking up where last week’s strategies and habits left off, Jay explores the often-overlooked internal components of goal achievement—your mindset, subconscious programming, and visualization techniques.

    He begins by redefining the idea of manifestation, emphasizing the importance of understanding the deeper emotional drivers behind your goals. Whether it's confidence, safety, or self-esteem, Jay explains how aligning with these core desires rather than just material outcomes can unlock true abundance. 

    Jay also shares actionable steps for cultivating a manifestation mindset, starting with mastering those subconscious moments just before sleep and upon waking. By integrating affirmations during these times, you can rewire your thought patterns and reinforce your intentions. He introduces the “Rule of Your Most Repeated Thought,” explaining how consistent positive affirmations shape your reality over time.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Rewire Your Mind with Affirmations

    How to Visualize the Process, Not Just the Outcome

    How to Align Your Energy with Your Goals

    How to Avoid Distractions and Stay Focused on Your Target

    How to Surround Yourself with Positive Reinforcements

    You have everything you need to build the life you envision; it starts with belief and is fueled by consistent effort. Stay focused, stay inspired, and trust in the process—because the life you’re dreaming of is already waiting for you. Keep moving forward; you’ve got this!

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:20 Achieving Goals Need the Ability to Visualize

    03:20 Step 1: Deeply Know Why You Want What You Want 

    05:53 Step 2: Master the Subconscious Moments

    10:13 Step 3: You Will Manifest Your Most Repeated Thought

    11:52 Step 4: Visualize the Process not the Result

    15:08 Vision Boards, Verbal Boards

    18:25 What’s Growing in Your Life?

    21:07 How to Stop Living a Misaligned Life 

    23:15 Keep Books Open in Random Places

    25:11 Write Things Down and Post it Around You

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    10 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 23 minutes
    Mel Robbins: How to Use the ‘Let Them Theory’ (A Life Changing Mindset Hack That 15 Million People Can’t Stop Talking About)

    Have you ever let someone just be themselves?

    How do you remind yourself what’s in your control?

    Today, Jay  sits down with best-selling author and motivational speaker Mel Robbins to discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory.” Mel introduces a powerful mindset tool designed to help listeners take control of their thoughts, actions, and emotions while letting go of what they cannot control. This conversation dives into the heart of personal growth, resilience, and building a life centered on peace and purpose.

    Mel begins by explaining the core of the “Let Them Theory,” which is about recognizing the limits of control. She emphasizes the importance of letting others be who they are, accepting situations as they unfold, and redirecting focus to what’s within your power. Through vivid examples, Mel demonstrates how this approach can reduce stress, strengthen relationships, and reclaim wasted energy.

    Jay and Mel also explore the emotional weight of unmet expectations and the difference between “Let It Go” and “Let Them.” Mel shares how this subtle shift in mindset fosters empowerment rather than passivity. They also discuss the complexities of adult friendships and how they evolve over time. Mel introduces the three pillars of adult friendship—proximity, timing, and energy—and explains how these factors influence the ebb and flow of connections.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Identify What You Can Control

    How to Handle Stressful Situations at Work

    How to Set Boundaries with Difficult People

    How to Let Go of Unmet Expectations

    How to Manage Toxic Relationships Effectively

    How to Build Meaningful Adult Friendships

    How to Reclaim Energy Wasted on Others

    Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start small. Say "let them" to release what’s draining you and "let me" to reclaim your energy and choices.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    • 01:47 What is the “Let Them” Theory

    • 04:40 The Significant Difference Between “Let Them” and “Let Me”

    • 06:49 Stop Obsessing Over Things You Can’t Control

    • 14:03 People Only Change if They Want to

    • 21:59 How Do You Let Difficult People Be

    • 26:31 Learn to Value Your Time and Energy

    • 35:10 Two Things that Truly Define Love

    • 42:12 Let People Gossip About It

    • 46:34 Don’t Expect Too Much From Others

    • 58:22 You Aren’t Unlovable, Let Them

    • 01:01:12 Let Them Lie to You, It’s Their Truth

    • 01:04:17 Why is Adult Friendship Difficult?

    • 01:12:35 The Hardest Way to Practice the “Let Them” Theory

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    6 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 27 minutes 42 seconds
    6 Step Blueprint to Achieve All Your Goals for 2025 (Proven Method- Don't Skip This)

    What’s your biggest goal for 2025?

    What steps have you planned?

    Happy New Year! Today, kicks off 2025 with a powerful message: this is your year to thrive, and the key lies within you. Sharing his proven six-step method, Jay walks listeners through a transformative framework for achieving personal and professional goals. From crafting your goals as compelling stories to prioritizing growth over mere outcomes, he offers a fresh perspective on making progress that truly lasts.

    Jay dives deep into practical strategies like identifying the one personal and one professional goal that can redefine your life, understanding the power of small yet prioritized changes, and recognizing the need for community, coaching, and consistency to overcome challenges. He emphasizes the importance of measuring progress daily, weekly, and monthly to stay on track and reminds us to frame the year by understanding whether it’s a time to learn, experiment, perform, struggle, or thrive.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Focus on Small Changes with Big Priorities

    How to Build Skills for Achieving Big Goals

    How to Decide the Type of Year You Want to Have

    How to Use the 80/20 Rule for Maximum Impact

    How to Transform Energy into Momentum for Personal Growth

    You have the tools within you to make this your most transformative year yet. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, and stay committed to your vision. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:28 Focus on Building an Abundance Mindset

    04:04 Step #1: Identify Your Top Personal and Professional Goal

    10:09 Step #2: What Do You Need to Grow to Achieve Your Goal

    14:44 Step #3: Decide What Type of 2025 It’s Going to Be

    19:44 Step #4: Small Changes, Big Priorities

    22:14 Step #5: Measure What Matters Daily, Weekly, & Monthly

    24:15 Step #6: Coaching, Consistency, Community

    26:04 What Are You Excited For This Year?

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    3 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    Dr. Rangan Chaterjee: #1 Way to Break a Bad Habit & Why 50% of What Doctors Learn in Medical School Turns Out Wrong

    What bad habit do you want to break?

    What’s a health tip you no longer trust?

    Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Rangan Chatterjee, a UK-based physician, bestselling author, and podcast host, to discuss his latest book, Make Change That Lasts. Known for his holistic approach to health and wellness, Dr. Chatterjee shares nine transformative strategies to foster sustainable change in daily life, offering a blueprint for physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

    The conversation explores why many health and lifestyle changes fail to stick, diving into the importance of self-awareness and the power of mindset. Dr. Chatterjee recounts how Western medicine often focuses on treating symptoms rather than promoting vitality, advocating for a harmonious blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom. He emphasizes the role of lifestyle choices—nutrition, movement, sleep, and even mindset—in shaping our health.

    Jay and Rangan tap into practical tools and methods for understanding and addressing emotional triggers behind habits. They stress the significance of environment and relationships in fostering or sabotaging personal growth. Dr. Chatterjee also challenges the notion of harsh self-discipline, advocating instead for compassion, curiosity, and self-trust as the cornerstones of lasting change. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Build Habits That Stick

    How to Create a Supportive Environment for Change

    How to Reframe Negative Inner Narratives

    How to Trust Yourself Instead of External Advice

    How to Manage Stress with Mindset Shifts

    How to Take Control of Your Health with Simple Choices

    Change doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle—it can be an act of self-love and empowerment. Trust yourself, listen to your inner wisdom, and approach each step of your journey with patience and grace.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    • 00:00 Intro

    • 01:50 Make Change That Truly Last

    • 03:18 The Chronic Lifestyle-Driven Illness

    • 05:58 Transformative Change Comes From Within

    • 10:16 How Do You Break a Bad Habit?

    • 16:17 Unbecome Who You’ve Become

    • 27:08 What are Your Non-Negotiables?

    • 37:31 The Root Cause of Wellness Failure

    • 43:34 The Way You Do Things Matter

    • 48:13 Do Fitness Trackers Work?

    • 53:04 Why Do People Think the Way They Do?

    • 01:03:48 You Can Change Yourself 

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    30 December 2024, 8:00 am
  • 28 minutes 48 seconds
    10 Things I Am Leaving Behind in 2024 to Make Space for 2025

    What are you leaving behind in 2024?

    How do you plan to make more space for growth in 2025?

    Today, Jay  reflects on the art of letting go to make space for personal growth in 2025. He shares a transformative framework for self-improvement by identifying ten habits, beliefs, and mindsets to leave behind. Using the Buddha’s analogy of a raft, he emphasizes the importance of releasing old tools that no longer serve us to navigate life’s new challenges more freely.

    Jay taps into impactful topics, from overcoming the fear of mistakes to releasing self-consciousness and rethinking the cultural glorification of busyness. He encourages listeners to embrace risk, foster self-compassion, and reframe their relationship with time and perfectionism. Thought-provoking anecdotes, like the role of light and dark in optimizing sleep and the illusion of justice as a universal principle, provide actionable insights for creating a balanced and intentional life.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Let Go of Fear and Embrace Mistakes

    How to Balance Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion

    How to Stop Waiting for the Perfect Time

    How to Make Space for New Habits and Growth

    How to Find Silence in a Noisy World

    As we prepare to step into a new year, remember that growth doesn’t come from adding more to your plate – it comes from letting go of what no longer serves you. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:29 The Journey Told by the Buddha

    04:57 #10: Avoid Making Mistakes 

    08:09 #9: Leave Self-Consciousness Behind

    10:58 #8: Belief that Busy is Good

    14:05 #7: Turn Down the Noise

    16:08 #6: Walk Away from Waiting for Justice

    18:16 #5: Getting Serious About Light and Dark

    20:27 #4: Leave Self Criticism Behind

    21:53 #3: Waiting for the Perfect Time

    23:40 #2: Mediocrity 

    25:48 #1: Stop Fighting Fate

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    27 December 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 14 minutes
    Dan Harris: The Hidden Stressors That Are Ruining Your Inner Health & 10 Changes to Make to Reduce Stress

    What stresses you out the most?

    Have you noticed stress hurting your health?

    Today, Jay sits down with Dan Harris, journalist, meditation advocate, and the author of 10% Happier. If you’ve ever felt like stress and anxiety are running the show in your life, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone—and better yet, there’s a way forward.

    Dan opens up about the growing levels of anxiety and stress we’re all feeling, thanks to modern life’s endless distractions like social media, political turmoil, and the ripple effects of the pandemic. He unpacks the difference between stress and anxiety and offers some eye-opening perspectives on why we often feel overwhelmed. But this isn’t just a heavy conversation about what’s wrong with the world—it’s packed with solutions. 

    Jay and Dan dive into the magic of human connection, the science of mindfulness, and the art of not being so hard on yourself. Dan shares personal stories about grappling with anger, dealing with claustrophobia, and navigating his own inner critic. You’ll hear how meditation has been a game-changer for him, not in making life perfect, but in making it manageable—and even joyful.

    They also get into the nitty-gritty of practical tips: How do you set boundaries with your phone? How do you learn to live with discomfort instead of running from it? And how can you reframe that negative self-talk that’s always lurking? Spoiler alert: It’s not about silencing your inner critic; it’s about befriending it.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Differentiate Stress from Anxiety

    How to Build Meaningful Connections That Reduce Stress

    How to Reframe Negative Self-Talk

    How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Anger

    How to Embrace Discomfort for Personal Growth

    How to Recognize and Change Destructive Habits

    You don’t need to have all the answers or fix everything overnight. It’s about showing up, being kind to yourself, and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of personal growth. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    • 00:00 Intro

    • 01:08 How Are You Handling Stress?

    • 02:51 What is Stressing You Out?

    • 07:24 How to Build Deep Relationships

    • 11:32 How Develop a Healthy Relationship

    • 19:43 The Possibility of Reprogramming Your Inner Dialogue

    • 24:16 The Benefits of Meditation

    • 26:51 What is “ME”?

    • 31:14 How Do You Befriend Your Mind?

    • 38:37 There’s a Reason Why You Keep Wanting More

    • 40:39 Get More Familiar with Your Thoughts

    • 43:39 What is Your Daily Meditation Practice?

    • 47:10 The Modular Model of Mind

    • 51:49 Healthy Anger Versus Destructive Anger

    • 57:07 Are You Defensive or Dismissive?

    • 01:00:12 The Power of Having a Sense of Humor

    • 01:03:05 Observe Nature to Understand Yourself 

    • 01:07:23 Dan on Final Five

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    23 December 2024, 8:00 am
  • 29 minutes 7 seconds
    The Episode for People Who Are Exhausted By Dating (How to Change Your Strategy and Mindset for the New Year)

    Are you tired of dating?

    What’s your biggest dating struggle?

    Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.

    Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Build Trust in Relationships

    How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions

    How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities

    How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships

    How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively

    No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging

    06:24 The Core Values Feature

    10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date

    12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner

    13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?

    17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?

    19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow

    21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?

    24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem

    25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?

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    20 December 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 42 minutes
    Alexis Ohanian: Why Discipline Creates Freedom & How to Incorporate Routines in Your Schedule in Order to Succeed

    How do you stay disciplined when life gets busy?

    What’s a routine that keeps you on track?

    Today, Jay welcomes Alexis Ohanian, tech founder, venture capitalist, and advocate for social change. Known as the co-founder of Reddit and founder of venture firm 776, Alexis shares the profound lessons he's learned from building communities, parenting, and navigating personal and professional challenges.

    Alexis shares insights into the evolution of online identities and the surprising dedication of individuals who moderate and foster online spaces; his role as a father, offering a candid glimpse into the delicate balance between introducing his children to the digital world and preserving their innocence. 

    The conversation also tackles larger societal issues, such as the importance of role models for young men and the transformative potential of positive male friendships. Alexis doesn’t shy away from discussing the darker sides of technology, including the need for ethical boundaries and his personal experiences advocating for change within Reddit.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Foster a Sense of Community Online

    How to Introduce Kids to the Internet Safely

    How to Navigate Cultural Differences in Relationships

    How to Encourage Grit and Perseverance in Children

    How to Lead a Team with Empathy and Vision

    How to Prioritize Family While Building a Career

    In today’s fast-paced and ever-evolving world, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Yet, the foundation of a fulfilling life lies in embracing challenges, building strong relationships, and staying true to our values.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:40 The Human Mind’s Deep Need for Community

    02:59 The Challenges of Moderating Online Communities

    05:26 Raising Kids to Navigate the Internet Safely

    10:13 Why AI Can’t Replace Human Empathy

    17:28 The Power of Optimism in Uncertain Times

    21:42 Drawing Ethical Lines in Content Moderation

    29:52 Saying No to Risky and Irresponsible Startups

    33:05 The Key Milestones Behind Reddit’s Success

    35:05 A Family’s Journey of Resilience and Survival

    41:46 Coping with Family Tragedy While Moving Forward

    52:27 The Joy of Seeing Hard Work Pay Off

    01:00:15 Lessons Learned Through Loss and Reflection

    01:12:45 Building Greatness with a Strong Partnership

    01:19:19 Choosing the Right Partner for Life and Growth

    01:27:23 Teaching Kids to Embrace Failure and Grow

    01:35:27 Alexis on Final Five

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    16 December 2024, 8:00 am
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