One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them. 

Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. 

The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: 

Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God? 

If not, you’re doing it wrong. 

Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land. 

In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:

• The emotional catharsis of squirting
• Healing and alchemizing past trauma through sex
• Male G-Spot liberation
• Orgasm without ejaculation for him 
• SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.
• From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”
• 3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week 

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON 

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 

it's the Anami Guarantee. 

I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 

• How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
• How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
• Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues 
• Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage 
• Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
• Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm 
• Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
• Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 

To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers

A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. 
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1

It went mega-viral. 

Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. 

Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kable boy-children. 

What happened? 

Where did all the testosterone go? 

In this episode: 

• The old Rat Pack vs. the new Rat Faces 
• Who would you rather: Henry Cavill or twink Timothee Chalamet? 
• Is hormonal birth control destroying women’s ability to choose masculine men? 
• The only “toxic” masculinity is the LACK of it
• Casting directors can’t even find masculine looking young actors anymore 
• Are we all being gay-frog boiled? 
• How to avoid xenoestrogens
• Building dopamine and testosterone naturally 
• Coming out of anti-masculine programming and the resurgence of the manly man 
• Using sexual energy to increase your masculine power 

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON

For more on how to build your masculine smolder—and for your woman to cultivate her feminine surrender—check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon which opens in early April. 

We deep dive into all things masculine and feminine energies to create the hottest sexual polarity and chemistry. 

In the meantime, you can signup for my free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse. 
 
 Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally.

Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include: 

~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets

~ Broken bed frames

~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy

~ Clearing of relationship blocks

~ Stronger stamina

~ Feelings of safety and security

~ Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup today.
https://kimanami.com/lovers

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. 

Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. 

Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.”

Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. 

So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. 

I’ve got you. In this episode: 

• Signs your woman is underf**ked 
• Which orifice and when? 
• Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. 
• Throat-gasms for the win 
• What to do when your woman nags and belittles you 
• Ideal frequency of sex 
• Ideal duration of sex 
• What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each other
• Junk food vs. gourmet sex 

The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn:

• How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy
• Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals
• My sexual position prescription guide
• The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women
• Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation.

The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE 7-Day Sex Cleanse and to be notified when the salon opens for registration.

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.

In this episode: 

• The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems
• Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter 
• Which private island to have your sex weeks at 
• What to do when people keep throwing cash at you 
• Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land 
• Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral and ethical responsibility to guide the underf**ked out of their morass and stupor of underf**ked blindness and into the light 

We can get through this. Together. 

 
***

Signup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse

A weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.

Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: 

• Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets
• Broken bed frames
• Being fully energized by each other's life force energy
• Clearing of relationship blocks
• Stronger stamina
• Increasing trust, intimacy and openness
• Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup here.

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: 

That I don’t take HRT. 

They came RUNNING. 

A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND JUST WAIT UNTIL MY VAGINA FALLS OFF. 

In true Anami-style, I took down each of these underf**ked orcs one-by-one. 

We even held a “Who wore it better/ who would you rather f**k” poll?” 

Frumpy HRT doctor or Hot asf no-HRT Kim Anami? 

In this episode: 

• Whiners get bitch-slapped.
• Are menopause and perimenopause entirely Nocebo effect? 
• The New Yorker columnist who “racismed” me 
• Is simply “being a woman” a lifelong pathology that requires medicating from puberty until death? 
• Is Serena Williams a great tennis player because she’s lucky?
• A crash course is standing your ground against mindless, NPC, underf**ked orcs 
• A woman who knows how to live in a female body: me 
• Victims vs. victors. Whining vs. winning 
• Being well-f**ked makes you wittier, smarter and hotter. It’s just a fact. 
• It also makes you not get menopause symptoms 

My original post that started all the controversy:

https://www.instagram.com/p/DUQ41LgkQrd/?igsh=MWVmNDBzdzY3MThhdg==

My responses to the underf**ked orcs:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DUlnn2ejxmU/?igsh=MWl1MjR4ZDJyOXdtNg==
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUqqrIQEfrZ/?igsh=MW00MzJ5c3o3bzR6Zw==

Check out my new Psychedelic Menopause Substack: 
https://psychedelicmenopause.substack.com

Signup for my upcoming Psychedelic Menopause Salon waitlist: 
http://kimanami.com/psychedelic-menopause 

Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack.

In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in their offerings.

What’s always fascinated me, is the idea that I can source this healing power from within.

Taking a pill or a drug?

Not a flex, in my world.

It’s the opposite—dependency and a cop-out.

The sales pitch that you need a medication, supplement or machine in order to feel good, forever and ever—and you can’t ever be without it?

This is the ultimate snake oil.

I’m inspired by the notion that we have the power to heal ourselves.

Everyone can.

THIS is the true flex in my world and in Anami Land:

 Connecting with our own bodies and highest wisdom as the oracle. As allies.

 Rather than an enemy and something to be subjugated.

Today’s episode is a replay of the Insta Live I did last week, with an additional introduction from me. We talk: 

• A body glossary of reproductive issues and their symbolic meanings
• Exiting the “age of apology” and normalizing greatness. Not me though, muthafukkas, I never apologized. Unless you count this, the greatest non-apology EVAH! 
• Winning, not whining 
• Vaginal electrocution and lube forever OR being hot as fuck and rocking bikinis and surfing big waves at age 55. You choose.
• Body-positivity vaginas and cocks or superior, cosmically enlightened ones
• The slow tiptoe and MLM scheme of outsourcing reproductive power, starting with Pap Smears and “abnormal cells” and ending in C-sections 
• The root cause of ailments like incontinence, IVF, PCOS, difficult periods and menopause 
• Why didn’t her Oura ring stop her from having a C-section? It knows everything, right? 
• Abortion-rabid “feminists” as the most self-oppressed women in society 
• Flute-playing, articulate vaginas that make a man ejaculate or stop him from ejaculating—the ultimate “flex” 
• Shooting ping pong balls is the normal, healthy baseline and minimum skill for all vaginas 

To receive access to my FREE masterclass: We Are the Elite! We Are Kung Fu Vaginas, click here. 

My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. 

Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: 

• Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina 
• Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina. 

Of course, we want women to realize that the BASELINE is not peeing their pants and vaginas falling onto the floor—yes, vaginal “prolapse” effects 50% of women after childbirth—but that the BASELINE for ALL vaginas, everywhere is to:

• Shoot ping pong balls
• Give hand jobs
• Make a man orgasm or stop him from orgasming with their flexing power alone
• Have ravenous libidos
• Lubricate and ejaculate profusely 
• And be multi-orgasmic 

If your vagina isn't doing these things, it's under-performing. Beyond the physical, there is also an energetic function to the vagina related to: 

• Femininity 
• Creativity and manifesting ability
• Her self-expression in the world 
• How deeply she surrenders to life, her partner and God  

In today’s episode, we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Star Dr. Beth. She’s a chiropractor, women’s pelvic health specialist and big proponent of the jade yoni egg. 
 
Through using the jade yoni egg, she: 

• Healed her prolapse
• Cleared the residue of suppressed childhood sexual abuse
• Went from clitoral orgasms to G-Spot, cervical, nipple, anal and of course birth orgasms and squirting on demand 
• Went from chronic yeast infections to never having them again
• Has sex almost every day, even with 5 kids and still breastfeeding her youngest
• Had an orgasmic free birth at home. Look ma! No doctors or midwives!
• She and her husband use their sex life to attract and manifest things in their lives 

Vaginal Kung Fu is open for registration NOW and it closes January 30th at midnight PST. 

In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn: 

• My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine 
• Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina 
• Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
• Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
• Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill 
• How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be  
• How to give a vaginal handjob 
• How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide. 

Signup now! Vaginal Kung Fu. 

For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one.

She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body. 

Making up for lost time. 

She proves The Anami Guarantee that EVERYONE CAN. At any age and every stage. 

In this episode:

• Waking up and de-numbing the vagina
• Sexually dead after menopause? Bullshit. Just getting started.
• What if his cock doesn’t reach my cervix? Dick math to the rescue. 
• What is the ideal cock size if women are totally honest? 
• The good stuff is in the vagina. The best stuff is at the cervix.
• The yoni egg becomes your lover
• How to f**k the shit out of her if you are less endowed as a man (it’s not being “good at cunnilingus”)
• Two-pump chumps make women hate sex
• 1 in 100,000 people are well-f**ked
• The life-changing power of cervical orgasms
• Choosing which orgasm you need based on your emotions and what needs healing

VAGINAL KUNG FU: Doors close January 30th midnight PST.

In the salon, you’ll become a maestro of all things vaginal and sexual. You’ll learn:

• My step-by-step guided vaginal weight lifting routine with the jade yoni egg.
• Yoni massage to de-numb and activate your vagina
• Quantum techniques to clear your blocks and illuminate your sexual shadow
• Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
• Natural birth control and detoxing off The Pill
• How to make menstruation and menopause the energizing and rejuvenating portals they were meant to be
• How to give a vaginal handjob
• How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself, including my sex position mood guide.

I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. 

In this episode: 

• The fastest way to achieve creative genius
• What it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy”
• Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life 
• “My vagina is my doctor and business advisor” 
• How to do Anami salons as a solo person. People always ask if they need a partner—you don’t 
• The best psychedelic trip: vaginal orgasms 
• Well-F**ked All Star Ondrea on the road to surrender and living in feminine energy

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration. 

In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

• How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
• How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
• Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
• My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
• How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina. An essential life skill for all. 

To signup, go to Vaginal Kung Fu. 

http://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu

Look ma! No hormones! 

These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life.

Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s.

She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage your symptoms with drugs. Forever.”

No thanks. I’ll pass on the snake oil.

She found my work, and dared to believe that she could heal herself.

Or more accurately, that her vagina could heal her.

And it did.

In this episode:

• Do shamans have HRT in the jungle?
• Hot flashes, irritability and sleep disturbances—gone!
• No more hormones or even herbs—nothing but good fucking
• PCOS remedied through using the jade egg
• Finding your inner sex monster underneath “I’m just one of those people with a low libido. I’m just not that sexual…”
• Evaporating a UTI instantly with VKF tools
• The life-changing power of vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervical
• How a control freak surrenders
• Squirting across the bed as #goals. Oh, and squirting is not pee! Just ask anyone who has ever squirted.
• Lubrication went from Sahara Desert to major waterfalls
• “We have more sex when we need more money. It always comes.”
• Time flies during a 3-hour sex date
• Breasts increasing more than a cup size
• Weight loss from trauma shedding—literally losing pounds of belly fat overnight
• Our kids tell us: “You look like two horny teenagers!”

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration on January 14th.

In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. 

We cover everything talked about in this episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

• How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina
• How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
• Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice
• My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
• How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Go to Vaginal Kung Fu to get on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors. In the meantime, you’ll receive my free masterclass: Manifest Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina. 

We need love too! 

It’s really hard being in this category. 

Seriously, it is. 

A lot of hard work. Like, every day. 

Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms. 

Being a visible minority like this is tough, but there are a lot of benefits.

I'l tell you all about it in the episode: 

• Being fit and well-f**ked as the ultimate status symbols  
• Where did all the “fat acceptance” people go? 
• My primary love languages—that no one ever talks about 
• Are toned arms a sign of privilege?? 🤡
• Flab on the body = flab on the mind 
• The formula to being well-fucked
• Lube and the downfall of America 
• Former alcoholics and drug addicts make the best fitness rock stars 
• The spiritual cost of shortcuts and Band-Aids 
• Join the legendary league of the well-fucked 

The elite club of well-fucked people trains here:
https://kimanami.com/sexual-savant-salons/