Deconstruction from Men!

This is not your normal “deconstructing” conversation! As a Christian Counselor, my assignment is always to do deeper; we take the conversation beyond the surface!

“You don’t have to be on your back, on your knees to feel loved. You don’t have to lower your standards to have a man “aka” grown boy in your life. It’s always been pushed to neglect yourself as a woman to empower a man aka grown boy to pick himself up. You should push aside what you’ve been called to do to encourage and drive him into greatness! This is male centered behavior and it isn’t a narrative that Kingdom women should be a part of!”

“Men who don’t know who they are and whose they are will destroy everything in their path!”

Father God, I pray for your daughters that have found themselves drawn away by these type of grown boys in their daily lives and in the churches that they attend. I pray that they look deep within and find themselves again and find what drew them away in the first place and get the counseling and therapeutic help that they need. I pray that their heart is repaired, their vision be restored, their purpose be revived, their passion be renewed and their relationship with you be rejuvenated!

Abba Father, I pray for your sons that have allowed themselves to be drawn away into enemy territory and have taken on his evil ways. I pray that they will find their way back to you, repent, make amends and change from their wicked ways! I pray they become the fathers their children need, find their wife; be a godly husband and obtain the favor that only you can give and fully and completely walk in who you need them to be for their communities, their households and for the church but more importantly, your Kingdom!

In Jesus mighty name, I pray!!  

Deconstruction from Sisterhood.

This is not your normal “deconstructing” conversation! As a Christian Counselor, my assignment is always to do deeper; we take the conversation beyond the surface!

Episode 1: was to define this movement that many have found themselves apart of….

Episode 2: highlighting the difference between the Kingdom of God and “Man’s Religion”

Episode 3: highlighting the need to deal with self!

Episode 4: Opens the door to healing!

Episode 5: Goes beyond the surface; to healing the little girl within…

By the time we get to Episode 10, the story all comes together…

Many are looking at “deconstructing” from a singular lens, when it’s way more layers to pull back…

Dr. T is an Ordained Pastor, Licensed Minister, and self-published Christian author of 30 inspirational books. She is also a dedicated Christian blogger, podcaster, Certified Christian Life, Career, and Professional Coach, Certified Mental Health & Trauma Advocate, and faithful Kingdom servant.

She holds a Doctorate in Philosophy with a concentration in Christian Counseling, equipping her to minister with wisdom, compassion, and biblical insight.

Throughout her ministry, Dr. T has been committed to uplifting, motivating, and empowering Kingdom believers especially women to pursue spiritual growth, emotional healing, and a deeper relationship with God. Her work reflects a lifelong passion for guiding others through life’s challenges, helping them embrace purpose, walk in wholeness, and experience transformation through Christ.

Dr. T believes that the journey of faith is not meant to be traveled alone. Having navigated her own seasons of testing and triumph, she is devoted to walking alongside others as they move from struggle to strength, from uncertainty to clarity, and from self-reliance to full reliance on God. Her ministry encourages others to live fully, boldly, and intentionally embracing “more of God and less of self” each day.

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Welcome to Real Talk with Dr. T.

Today, we’re talking about something that can be uncomfortable—but necessary: Deconstruction.

If you are just joining us in this 10-part deconstruction series, we're going to have some real conversations.

We're going to question the patterns.

We're going to examine the beliefs.

We're going to talk about the wounds.

We’re going to separate truth from what we've simply been told.

And most importantly, we're going to discover what happens when we allow God to be part of the process.

Because my goal isn't to tear you down.

It's to help you become whole.

This is Real Talk with Dr. T.

And if you're ready to look deeper, heal deeper, and live differently—

Welcome to Episode 5 in our Deconstruction series!

This episode we are going to deal with the little girl within!! This episode takes us deeper because for the most part folks are claiming to deconstruct from one aspect and they fail to take a deeper dive into their journey! The Little Girl Within You Needs to Heal…

In this 10 part deconstruction series, we're going to have some real conversations.

We're going to question the patterns.

We're going to examine the beliefs.

We're going to talk about the wounds.

We're going to separate truth from what we've simply been told.

And most importantly, we're going to discover what happens when we allow God to be part of the process.

Because my goal isn't to tear you down.

It's to help you become whole.

How can you go through deconstruction without healing?

Let’s start the conversation…

In this 10 part deconstruction series, we're going to have some real conversations.

We're going to question the patterns.

We're going to examine the beliefs.

We're going to talk about the wounds.

We're going to separate truth from what we've simply been told.

And most importantly, we're going to discover what happens when we allow God to be part of the process.

Because my goal isn't to tear you down.

It's to help you become whole.

Today’s episode focuses on self.

We have to incorporate looking within; when having the deconstruction conversation..

In this 10 part deconstruction series, we're going to have some real conversations.

We're going to question the patterns.

We're going to examine the beliefs.

We're going to talk about the wounds.

We're going to separate truth from what we've simply been told.

And most importantly, we're going to discover what happens when we allow God to be part of the process.

Because my goal isn't to tear you down.

It's to help you become whole.

1. Defines deconstruction- this episode lays down the foundation for what is about to unfold in the 10 part series.
2. ​Defines deconstruct - it’s important to have a clear meaning on what so many are saying is their current journey.
3. ​Christian deconstruction - everything isn’t of God and removing what isn’t - should be a good thing - but is removing God part of the process?

I’ve been away for a little minute! I’ve enjoyed my season of rest; but now it’s time to get back to work….

Have you heard the statement; “your parents did the best they could”? Listen to my take on this statement…

Conversation that is past due and needed to be shared. Take a listen…

In the current climate; a heart check is warranted. Would You Agree!!