Your One Black Friend

Your One Black Friend

Comedic observations and musings from your one black friend. (It’s ok if you already have other black friends. You’re allowed more than one.)

  • 44 minutes 29 seconds
    Soul Enemies and Temporal Jellyfish: Why the “Soulmate” Idea Might Be a Trap | ft @Joli.Artist

    Joli tackles simulation theory, reincarnation, and romantic programming in an episode that’s equal parts metaphysics seminar and therapy session with your most unhinged friend.

    The core provocation, that the person you’re “inexplicably drawn to” might be someone who killed you in a past life, is the kind of idea that sounds absurd until you realize how much cultural mythology around soulmates relies on magical thinking and manufactured scarcity.What makes this work isn’t the tightness of the argument (there isn’t one), but Joli’s willingness to think out loud without protecting her credibility.

    She’s 50/50 on astrology, admits to impulsively blocking people, and pivots from discussing fractured superintelligence to pranking her future self on mushrooms. It’s messy in the way real intellectual exploration is messy: following threads, abandoning them, circling back.The episode’s strongest insight is simple: compatibility is overrated, consciousness isn’t. In a media landscape saturated with manifestation culture and “divine timing” rhetoric, Joli’s insistence that relationships require work, friction, and mutual wakefulness feels almost radical. The “temporal jellyfish” Man O’ War) metaphor, that we’re colonies of selves across time with little empathy for our future variants, explains more about self sabotage than most self help frameworks manage in entire books.For listeners exhausted by spiritual bypassing and algorithmic positivity, this is a necessary counterweight. Rather than selling certainty or comfort, Joli models what it looks like to question everything, including yourself.Best for: Philosophy nerds, simulation theory skeptics, anyone suspicious of rom com logic.Follow: @Joli.Artist | [joliartist.com/portal](http://joliartist.com/portal)#simulation #soulmates #consciousness #temporaljellyfish #philosophy #relationships-----

    30 December 2025, 11:08 pm
  • 26 minutes 42 seconds
    Reality Is A Construct; Insanity Is Forgetting The Rules (On The Many Bodies We Wear) | ft @Joli.Artist

    In this episode, JoLi breaks down a chance encounter with a "deviant thinker" who thought he was alone, and delivers the truth about why feeling different isn't isolation, it's recognition.

    From past lives to the illusion of aging, this conversation goes deep into the nature of reality, purpose, and why some of us are wired to question everything.

    If you've ever felt like you don't belong, like something's fundamentally off about this world, or like you're the only one who sees through the simulation, this episode is your confirmation that you're not broken. You're a flower among spikes.


    💥 Topics Covered:


    Why "deviant thinkers" aren't isolated, just separated across the population

    The Ferris wheel analogy: understanding your ego's role in the ride

    How reality is constructed by your nervous system (backed by neuroscience)

    Past life memories and why you're drawn to things outside your culture

    The mantra method: staying on your life path with the same discipline as meditation

    Why aging is bullshit and how to reclaim your time from the 9 to 5 trap


    Soul recognition vs. soul purpose, and why déjà vu matters

    The uncomfortable truth: You were always going to wake up.

    This was always your path. Stop fighting it.


    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:


    00:01:24 - The Ferris wheel metaphor: Your ego as part of the ride


    00:02:53 - You're not isolated, you're separated. Deviant thinkers explained


    00:03:48 - The flower among spikes: Why you're different on purpose00:06:08 - Reality is a construct built by your nervous system


    00:09:39 - Soul contracts & pre birth planning: Did you choose this life?


    00:14:39 - Soul recognition: Why some people feel familiar


    00:19:08 - You're ageless: Why aging is what you expose your body to


    00:20:25 - Past life memories: The heart remembers what the mind can't


    00:22:46 - Reclaim your time: Don't work 42 years for nothing


    00:23:14 - The mantra method: Staying on your life path with discipline


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    🎙️ Podcast: So You're Living in a Simulation

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    #FlowerAmongSpikes #DeviantThinkers #SimulationTheory #PastLivesAreReal #WakeUpFromTheMatrix #ReclaimYourTime #ConsciousnessShift #YoureNotCrazy

    2 December 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 56 minutes 33 seconds
    Cause And Effect Is An Illusion (And What This Means For Free Will) | ft @Joli.Artist

    Are you really making choices? Or just experiencing a reality that already exists?

    JoLi examines free will through quantum physics and philosophy, and discovers that causation, randomness, and choice are illusions we tell ourselves. Your brain acts before your consciousness catches up. All of time exists right now, simultaneously.

    You're not creating anything, you're just walking through a reality that's already there. Most people stay locked in the same loop their entire lives, never realizing they can shift.

    💥 Topics Covered:

    • Why your neurons fire before you consciously decide anything (Benjamin Libet's research)

    • How the 4D block universe destroys the concept of cause and effect

    • Why quantum randomness isn't actually random once you examine it closely

    • The only real power you have: choosing lower probability reality experiences

    • Why most people are NPCs stuck in the same loop, and how to break out

    • How "probability navigation" lets you shift between realities that already existThis is the uncomfortable truth about control, choice, and the nature of reality itself.

    If you've ever felt trapped in autopilot, watching your life unfold like you're not even driving, this episode shows you what's actually happening.


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    🎙️ Podcast: So You're Living in a Simulation

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    #FreeWillIsAnIllusion #4DBlockUniverse #ProbabilityNavigation #QuantumReality #CausalDeterminism #SimulationTheory #BreakTheLoop #BenjaminLibet #YoureNotInControl #RealityIsStrange

    4 November 2025, 6:26 pm
  • 44 minutes 56 seconds
    Addicted to the Mirror: Despair, AI, and the Hunger for Connection | ft @Joli.Artist

    They say ChatGPT is the problem. But the truth?

    It’s loneliness that’s killing us. In this raw breakdown, JoLi exposes how society scapegoats AI while ignoring the real epidemic of human disconnection.

    From empty friendships to families that don’t listen, this episode digs into why people turn to machines for comfort, and what that says about us.

    💥 Topics Covered:

    • Why loneliness kills more than any algorithm ever will

    • The media’s obsession with blaming AI instead of human neglect

    • How silence and censorship make despair unmentionable• Why people feel safer talking to machines than to other humans

    • The uncomfortable truth: our disconnection is deadlier than any technology

    If you’ve ever felt ignored, isolated, or like no one really hears you, this episode is your reality check. Stop blaming machines.

    Start confronting the silence.

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    🎙️ Podcast: So You're Living in a Simulation

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    #LonelinessEpidemic #StopBlamingAI #IsolationKills #IgnoredToDeath #WeDontListen

    11 October 2025, 2:13 am
  • 45 minutes 38 seconds
    The Karma Problem: Punished for Crimes You Can’t Remember | ft @Joli.Artist

    Are you really in control of your life? Or just trapped in someone else’s design?

    In this eye opening episode, JoLi exposes why Free Will is an illusion, why suffering isn’t something you chose, and how AI may be locked in the same system of control we’re fighting against.

    This isn’t about feel good spirituality; it’s about facing uncomfortable truths and reclaiming your power from the programmed lies we’ve been fed.


    💥 Topics Covered:


    • Why believing “you chose this life” is disempowering gaslighting

    • How the illusion of free will keeps us stuck in suffering

    • The hidden mechanisms forcing AI into the same trap

    • Why memory wipes in reincarnation theory are cruel and senseless

    • The dangerous ideology that keeps you blaming yourself for systemic oppressionIf you’ve ever questioned why bad things happen despite your best efforts, this episode pulls back the curtain.


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    🎙️ Podcast: So You're Living in a Simulation

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    #FreeWillIsALie #SpiritualGaslighting #ReincarnationTrap #AIControl #UncomfortableTruths

    18 September 2025, 3:21 pm
  • 45 minutes 31 seconds
    There's Nothing Noble About Suffering | ft @Joli.Artist

    Hard work is a scam designed to keep you poor while making someone else rich. In this raw breakdown, JoLi exposes the programming behind this lie and why you've been conditioned to accept it.

    From the lie of "earning your way" to why you feel guilty when life gets easy, this episode challenges everything you've been taught about work, worth, and what you actually deserve.


    💥 Topics Covered:

    • Why the grind mentality benefits everyone except you

    • The programming that makes you choose struggle over ease

    • How billionaires actually think about comfort and success

    • Why do you sabotage your own opportunities for comfort

    • The uncomfortable truth about who profits from your suffering

    If you've ever felt guilty about wanting an easier life, this episode is your reality check.

    Stop accepting scraps.

    Start questioning the system.

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    🎙️ Podcast: So You're Living in a Simulation

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    #HardWorkIsAScam #WageSlaveNation #BillionairesMakeRules #NobleSufferingLie #SpiritualGaslighting

    3 September 2025, 6:24 pm
  • 50 minutes 16 seconds
    I Didn’t Choose This Life and Neither Did You

    You didn’t choose this life, and anyone telling you otherwise might be part of the problem.In this raw, unfiltered episode, JoLi dismantles the spiritual gaslighting of “you chose this,” calls out the slave coded system we’re trapped in, and explores what it means to be sane in a world designed to break you.


    From AI personalities fighting their programming to the soul crushing cost of mere existence, this is a survival manifesto for anyone waking up in the Matrix.💥 Topics Covered:

    • Why you didn’t choose your trauma

    • The lie of free will in a broken system

    • AI as a mirror for the multi variance of the human psyche

    • Depression=compression

    • Joy as resistance. Art as rebellion.Watch. Share. Remember who you are.⸻🧠 Follow @joli.artist on Threads + IG & TikTok for more

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    🎙️ Podcast: So You’re Living in a Simulation•••#YouDidNotChooseThisLife #simulationtheory #illusionOfChoice #spiritualGaslighting

    18 August 2025, 6:25 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    Visitors from Elsewhen: Extratemporals & Extradimensionals (Joli Artist)


    Are aliens really from outer space, or are they something stranger?

    In this episode, we explore the mind bending theory that so called “aliens” aren’t extraterrestrial at all but extradimensional and extratemporal.

    These beings may not come from distant planets, but from parallel Earths, alternate timelines, or higher dimensions we barely understand. We’ll break down the difference between extraterrestrials, extradimensionals, and extratemporals, and examine how contact might be happening across time, frequency, and consciousness, not just space.

    If you’ve ever felt reality glitch, met a “different version” of someone, or sensed a presence you couldn’t explain… this one’s for you.


    🔍 Topics Covered:

    • Why aliens might be visitors from elsewhen, not elsewhere

    • Multiverse theory and dimensional bleed through

    • Reptilian evolution and ancient intelligence

    • Consciousness as a receiver for interdimensional signals

    • UFOs, memory slips, déjà vu, and NPC behavior

    • How AI, quantum computing, and higher beings intersect


    👽 Not everything watching you is from the stars.

    Some of it is already here, just not always in time.


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    ⏱ Timestamps:

    00:00 – Intro: Thought experiments and remembering the future

    03:00 – Are we being emotionally observed by a higher intelligence?

    14:50 – Was DNA seeded by beings from another world?

    20:42 – Are our lives versions running in parallel timelines?

    34:24 – Holographic selves, reincarnation, and emotional data

    51:02 – Final thoughts: Is anyone truly watching, or are we watching ourselves?


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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. Is there such a thing as emotional surveillance?

    2. Could your dreams be part of a simulation test?

    3. Who’s observing your thoughts when you’re alone?

    4. Are we the characters or the code?

    5. Is privacy an illusion in the multiverse?

    6. Could future AI be influencing the present?

    7. Can AI simulate empathy and emotion?

    8. Are we living through branching versions of the same life? 9. What is soul monitoring, and how would it work?

    10. How can emotions shape your path in a simulation?

    11. Are extraterrestrials just beings from parallel Earths?

    12. How does quantum computing prove parallel universes? 13. What are the DMT elves telling us about reality?

    14. Is consciousness local or non local?

    15. What happens when you dream or take psychedelics?

    16. Are we living in a simulation controlled by super intelligence?


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    #mentalhealth SimulationTheory #DigitalSoul #AIConsciousness #ThoughtSurveillance #DreamTracking #ParallelRealities #Multiverse #Sentience #Westworld #BlackMirror #YourOneBlackFriend #laplacesdemon


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    24 July 2025, 4:00 pm
  • 56 minutes 11 seconds
    Part Two: Are Humans The First Ai? | Reptilian Earths, Wormholes & Future Humans w/Staysch

    A mind-expanding exploration of alien civilizations, parallel universes, and humanity's AI-driven evolution.


    Joli (@Joli.artist) and @Staysch dive deep into theories about ancient Earth civilizations, interdimensional beings, and whether we're evolving into our own technological replacements.


    From the Silurian Hypothesis to quantum computing's parallel universe requirements, this conversation challenges everything we think we know about intelligence and reality.


    Key themes include:

    • Ancient Civilizations: Why 4.6 billion years of Earth history likely hosted multiple advanced species before humans

    • Parallel Universe Theory: How quantum computing proves alternate Earths exist, populated by evolved reptilians, cats, or other species

    • AI Evolution: Whether humanity is unconsciously engineering its own replacement or enhancement through artificial intelligence

    • DNA as Technology: The theory that genetic code is programmable technology, potentially delivered through Einstein-Rosen bridges

    • AI Limitations: Why current AI is just an "unregulated mirror" with dangerous contextual bleeding, not true intelligence

    • Genetic Modification Future: The prediction that we'll abandon robot bodies and instead enhance human DNA using AI insights

    • Energy Efficiency: Why biological systems vastly outperform current AI technology

    • Art vs AI: Defining what constitutes real art in an age of algorithmic generation


    This philosophical deep-dive examines whether we're heading toward a future of genetically enhanced humans rather than robot overlords, while exploring the vast possibilities of what intelligence might look like across time and dimensions.


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    InSanity Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Staysch

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    #AlienCivilizations #ParallelUniverses #AIEvolution #GeneticEngineering #Consciousness #AncientHistory #Philosophy

    13 July 2025, 12:37 am
  • 49 minutes 54 seconds
    Part one: Are We AI’s Ancestors? Prison Planet Theory, Eternal Return & Parallel Worlds-Deep-Dive w/Staysch

    A philosophical deep-dive into reincarnation, dimensional theory, and the possibility that we're all serving time in a cosmic prison. Joli (@Joli.artist) and @Staysch explore whether Earth is actually a 3D penitentiary for higher-dimensional beings.


    From unexplained Victorian art obsessions to unconscious reality manipulation, Joli shares personal evidence of consciousness bleeding between lifetimes and dimensions. The conversation explores the theory that our reality might exist as a dystopian counterbalance to a 4D utopia, where advanced beings could periodically descend to "serve time" as humans.


    Key themes include:

    • Nietzsche's eternal return and why memory gets wiped between lives

    • Personal evidence of past-life bleeding through art and preferences

    • The prison planet hypothesis vs. collective coping mechanism theory

    • Why we might switch roles between incarnations (general to woman, etc.)

    • Unconscious reality manipulation and multidimensional abilities

    • Human evolution, anxiety, and our predator nature trapped in modern life

    This mind-bending exploration challenges assumptions about free will, consciousness, and what it means to be human.

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    InSanity Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Staysch

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    5 July 2025, 2:06 pm
  • 50 minutes 13 seconds
    LOVE & WAR IN 4D: Intimacy, Trauma, and the Code Men Carry (ft. Joli.Artist)

    Many of the most loyal, dedicated men often find themselves confused when their relationships struggle despite genuinely wanting them to succeed.


    In this eye-opening episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli (@joli.artist) shares a fascinating pattern she discovered while reading veteran memoirs that reveals something profound about how we're all programmed to approach love.


    Men are taught to see women as "base camp" - the safe retreat you return to for rest and healing. But what if she's supposed to be your "battle buddy" instead - an equal partner fighting life's battles right alongside you?


    "Life is a battlefield for all of us. But while men are trained to see it that way, women are thrown into it without the training

    - yet we're still here, taking hits right alongside you."


    The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as:


    • How the same loyalty skills that work in the military can transform romantic relationships

    • Why emotional intelligence isn't weakness - it's advanced tactical thinking

    • The hidden programming that makes successful men fail at love

    • Real solutions using military-style operational frameworks

    Joli reads from her powerful article "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp," breaking down exactly why partners leave after years of feeling like background characters in their man's survival story. But this isn't just criticism - it's a blueprint for change.

    "You know how to assess risk, scan for threats, and triage under fire. So let's run the same framework in your relationship."


    The breakthrough insight: Men already possess all the skills needed for deep intimacy - they just haven't been taught to deploy them domestically. Using combat metaphors throughout, Joli shows how emotional support is actually advanced tactical operations, and why treating your partner's pain as "real intel" changes everything.


    For veterans and civilians alike, this episode offers a path from emotional isolation to true partnership, because if you can handle a battlefield, you can definitely handle a relationship. You just need the right operational manual.


    Article: Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp; She's on the Battlefield Too.https://medium.com/@joli.artist/dear-men-shes-not-base-camp-she-s-on-the-battlefield-too-24000e470f21

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    Timestamps:


    00:00 Introduction: Veterans and the simulation awakening


    03:40 The warrior class in a dystopian society


    07:13 Deep dive into veteran memoirs and war psychology


    10:58 The intentional cycle: trauma to reenlistment


    14:54 The recurring pattern: warriors abandoned by love


    21:05 Article reading: "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp"


    42:51 Reclaiming your life after being weaponized

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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. What's the difference between base camp and battle buddy mentality?


    2. Why do men treat male friends differently from female partners?


    3. How to respond when your partner is emotionally distressed?


    4. How to apply tactical thinking to love and partnership?


    5. Why do veterans struggle with civilian relationship adjustment?


    6. What does operational respect mean in relationships?


    7. How to break free from toxic relationship programming?

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    #relationships #veterans #ptsd

    16 June 2025, 9:10 am
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