• 1 hour 25 minutes
    The Problem With Bad Luck: Paul Sloane

    Paul Sloane joins James Smith to dismantle the myth of bad luck and reveal why the most successful innovations in history happened entirely by accident. A Cambridge engineer, former IBM marketer, and bestselling author, Sloane argues that what most people write off as misfortune is actually a hidden opportunity, and the people who notice it are the ones who change industries.

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    He explains:

    ◼️ Why most "bad luck" is unrecognised opportunity

    ◼️ The four traits that actually lucky people share

    ◼️ How psychological safety unlocks radical ideas in any team

    ◼️ Why polymaths produce more creative solutions than specialists

    ◼️ The one question every business must be able to answer


    Chapters:

    00:00 Intro

    01:15 The Two Problems With Bad Luck

    02:37 J.K. Rowling, Trains and Hidden Opportunities

    04:26 The Four Traits of Lucky People

    05:32 Why Superstition Is the Wrong Direction

    06:34 Penicillin, Velcro and Happy Accidents

    08:48 Why Successful People Never Blame Others

    10:23 Mindset, Identity and Why Dating Felt Different

    12:01 Testing Thumbnails and the 4K Trick

    14:17 The Brutal Role of Timing in Success

    15:14 Building Psychological Safety for Wild Ideas

    17:22 James on Steroids, Status and Being 22

    20:00 Why Carwow's YouTube Strategy Is Genius

    24:02 Innovation vs Creativity Defined

    24:22 Doing Something Different Every Day

    25:45 Closing Open Loops and the Zeigarnik Effect

    27:37 The Random Greyhound Approach to Travel

    29:37 James's Red Bull Can You Make It Story

    32:37 Wilson Greatbatch and the Pacemaker Accident

    34:26 Why Polymaths Find Better Solutions

    35:26 Using AI to Introduce Useful Randomness

    37:27 Red Bull's Trojan Horse Marketing

    39:51 Productive Boredom and Shower Thoughts

    44:55 Survivorship Bias and the Quiet Years of Work

    46:23 The Cellar Door Lateral Thinking Puzzle

    47:45 The Most Important Question in Business

    50:02 Why People Really Leave Money to Charity

    52:27 Polarising Marketing on the Tube

    55:29 Paddy Power and the Blind Football Advert

    58:13 The C-Word and Brave Brand Choices

    01:01:28 Burger King's Left-Handed Hamburger Hoax

    01:02:24 ASDA Opticians and the Swiss Referee

    01:07:56 Rory Sutherland, HS2 and Demolishing Birmingham

    01:08:59 Edward de Bono's Ford Car Parks Idea

    01:12:24 The Case for Self-Driving Cars

    01:16:49 AI, Useless Jobs and Paying People Properly

    01:20:42 Will Self-Driving Cars Steal Our Thinking Time?

    01:21:54 Who This Book Is For

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    5 May 2026, 5:04 am
  • 1 hour 19 minutes
    The Problem With Air Fryers: Lucy Lord

    Lucy Lord joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation that starts with the air fryer sitting unused on 70% of UK kitchen counters and ends up tearing apart everything from protein marketing scams to the slow death of the British night out. A best-selling cookbook author and the woman behind Supper Club, Lucy is back with her third book, Love Your Air Fryer, and makes the case that cooking your own food is the most underrated act of self-care left in the modern world.

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    She explains:

    ◼️ Why the air fryer is the most underutilised tool in your kitchen

    ◼️ How cooking is the lowest-hanging fruit for looking and feeling better

    ◼️ The protein con quietly corrupting your supermarket shop

    ◼️ Why "increasing your surface area for luck" works in dating, business and life

    ◼️ How "touching your future" rewires what you think you're capable of


    Chapters:

    00:00 Intro

    01:00 The Air Fryer Problem No One Talks About

    03:50 Why Cooking Is the Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

    06:37 Air Fryer vs Oven — Why the Oven Is Becoming Obsolete

    11:19 The Apple vs Probiotic Soda Con

    12:54 Skipping the Foundations and Chasing the Trends

    15:33 The Protein Ball Scam Exposed

    19:23 Protein Water, Huel and the Death of the Real Meal

    22:05 Why Britain's Grab-and-Go Culture Is Broken

    23:15 James's Brutally Honest Review of Japan

    27:44 Karoshi — Japan's Death From Overwork Crisis

    29:09 The Birth Rate Collapse Hitting the Western World

    32:11 Hustle Culture Is Stealing Men's Best Years

    34:35 The 200 Dates That Led James to Tay

    37:11 Lucy on Whether She Actually Wants Kids

    39:01 Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck

    39:45 Volume vs Intensity — The Dating Strategy That Works

    43:52 GLP-1s, Smartphones and the Death of the Night Out

    45:55 The Quiet Crisis of Men Disappearing From University

    47:03 The Mumps, the Missed Lectures and James's Year of Chaos

    50:21 Is a University Degree Even Worth It Anymore?

    53:13 Inside Lucy's New Book — Love Your Air Fryer

    58:39 Why James Is Forcing Lucy Onto YouTube

    01:04:02 The Random Idea That Sold 3,500 Hats

    01:06:28 How to Start a YouTube Channel With Just an iPhone

    01:10:18 The Advice You Give Is the Advice You Need

    01:10:33 Why James Avoids Gratitude

    01:12:18 The Car as Forced Gratitude

    01:13:04 Touching Your Future — The Concept That Changed Everything

    01:17:46 Where to Find the Book, the Hats and Supper Club


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    28 April 2026, 4:51 am
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    The Problem With Tribalism: Michael Morris

    Michael Morris joins James Smith to dismantle the popular myth that tribalism is humanity's curse. A renowned cultural psychologist and Columbia Business School professor, Morris argues that our tribal instincts aren't hardwired hatred for outsiders, they're the very adaptations that allowed humans to outcompete Neanderthals, build civilisations, and cooperate at scales no other species can match.


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    He explains:

    ◼️ Why tribal instincts are the glue of human cooperation, not division

    ◼️ How the peer, hero, and ancestor instincts shape every group you join

    ◼️ Why dating apps and social media distort our perception of attractiveness

    ◼️ How cults and extremist groups exploit our conformist psychology

    ◼️ Why ordinary Germans went along with the Nazis — and why you probably would too


    Chapters:

    00:00 The Myth of Hardwired Tribal Hatred

    01:51 What's Actually Wrong With Tribalism

    03:30 Defining Tribal Instincts Properly

    05:08 The Three Waves: Peer, Hero, Ancestor

    07:07 Why Humans Evolved Differently to Apes

    10:17 Do Chimpanzees Have Culture?

    12:02 How Culture Shapes Political Systems

    15:22 The Overlooked Positives of Tribalism

    19:05 The Small Tribes All Around Us

    22:04 How Leaders Actually Change Culture

    24:02 Ancient DNA and the Neanderthal Story

    28:21 Cannibalism and Neanderthal Inbreeding

    29:28 The Trolley Test of Human Decency

    33:41 How Homo Sapiens Outcompeted Neanderthals

    36:48 Why Groups of Humans Become Apex Predators

    37:35 Modern Family Structures and Dating Apps

    40:06 The Body Dysmorphia Crisis Online

    44:10 Social Media as a Funhouse Mirror

    45:14 James on American Political Polarisation

    47:11 The Addiction of Virtue Signalling

    49:19 Hot Takes and the Race for Status

    51:36 Where Status Sits in Tribal Psychology

    54:21 Why We Imitate Celebrities and Heroes

    56:01 The Asch Experiment and Conformity

    59:04 Heaven's Gate and the Mechanics of Cults

    01:00:58 The Decline of Young Men's Social Groups

    01:03:16 Would You Have Been a Nazi?

    01:05:36 The Milgram Shock Experiment

    01:06:47 Why Tribalism Is the Solution, Not the Problem

    01:10:00 Where to Find Tribal


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    21 April 2026, 6:07 am
  • 1 hour 52 minutes
    The Problem With Comfort: Anthony (Staz) Stazicker CGC

    Anthony "Staz" Stasziker, a former special forces officer, shares essential life advice on the importance of hard work, discipline, and the problem with living a comfortable life. Staz highlights that true success, much like military training in special ops, is not easily achieved but requires dedication. It's about putting in the effort, not just romanticizing the idea.


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    Chapters

    00:00 - Why Comfort Is Making Us Weak

    01:33 - The Friction We Desperately Need

    06:34 - How Jiu-Jitsu Changed Everything

    08:12 - Leaving Special Forces With Nothing

    12:14 - The Hidden Force Controlling Your Life

    19:28 - Are We Raising a Generation of Losers?

    25:02 - From Failed Footballer to Elite Sniper

    31:34 - What They Don't Tell You About Special Forces

    41:53 - The Future of War Is Terrifying

    51:59 - The Real Reason Men Are Falling Apart

    56:04 - The Trauma Nobody Talks About

    01:00:57 - The Drug Curing PTSD Overnight

    01:06:34 - Why He Climbed Everest in 7 Days

    01:22:19 - Buried Alive on the World's Highest Mountain

    01:43:38 - What He Learned at 29,000 Feet

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    17 April 2026, 11:16 am
  • 1 hour 12 minutes
    The Problem With Being Honest: Ian Leslie

    Ian Leslie joins James Smith to unpack the uncomfortable truth about honesty: we can't actually handle it. A bestselling author and host of the Where Shall We Meet podcast, Ian argues that lying isn't a bug in human nature but an evolutionary feature — the very thing responsible for our big brains, our creativity, and our capacity for art.

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    James opens up about being honest with his employees, hiring a brutally candid editor for his next book, and how a rugby coach telling him he "played like shit" taught him more than any polite feedback ever could.


    He explains:

    ◼️ Why lying is a sign of intelligence, creativity and empathy in children

    ◼️ How the online world breeds dishonesty

    ◼️ Why office politics is passive aggression at scale

    ◼️ How trust is the prerequisite for any productive disagreement

    ◼️ Why sport is civilisation's greatest cage for our warrior instincts


    Chapters:

    00:00 Why Lying Is Hardwired Into Our Intelligence

    01:22 The Problem With Honesty Is We Can't Handle It

    03:14 The Invention of Lying and Useful Deception

    06:12 Why Lying Sits in Our Moral Grey Zone

    08:37 When Your Child Should Start Lying to You

    10:48 Autism, Theory of Mind and Honesty

    12:01 Conformity as a Form of Social Lying

    14:30 Self-Deception and the Lizard Brain

    15:59 Cults, Ideologies and Online Group Lies

    19:37 Interrogation Tricks and Cognitive Load

    22:05 Telling Stories Backwards to Catch Liars

    22:46 The Jiu-Jitsu Ringworm Test

    25:18 Artists as Legitimised Liars

    26:24 Bob Dylan's Reinvention and the Line Between Lying and Art

    27:18 Embellishment, Storytelling and Social Incentives

    28:50 Advertising as a Lie We Collude In

    30:08 Dating Dynamics and Honesty With Women

    32:29 Why Honesty Is Your Best Bet in the Long Run

    34:09 The Woman Who Lied About Her Age

    36:04 Botox, Makeup and Physical Deception

    38:13 Height, Ethnicity and the Online Dating Filter

    41:13 How Digital Breaks Humans Into Packets

    41:56 Why Workplaces Are Full of Bullshit

    44:14 Office Politics as Passive Aggression at Scale

    45:06 James Getting Dropped From His Rugby Team

    47:22 Hiring a Brutally Honest Editor

    48:40 Trust as the Prerequisite for Honesty

    50:00 The Two Channels of Every Difficult Conversation

    52:19 Jiu-Jitsu, Conflict Resolution and Primal Urges

    55:06 Sport as Civilisation's Substitute for War

    57:37 Michael Jordan as a Roman Warrior

    57:58 John Jones and the Beautiful Cage of MMA

    58:24 The Ashes, the Barmy Army and Sportsmanship

    01:00:24 The Gilded Cage of Rules and Norms

    01:01:13 Zero-Sum Games and Honest Feedback

    01:03:09 Why Participation Medals Miss the Point

    01:05:16 Giving Brutal Feedback on Content

    01:07:16 Have You Earned the Right to Be Honest?

    01:08:26 Ian's Book: John and Paul — A Love Story in Songs

    01:11:22 The Creative Power of Love


    This conversation takes a candid look at why deception is woven into the fabric of human intelligence, the corrosive cost of workplaces where nobody says what they think, and the trust that has to exist before honesty can actually land. Ian's perspective on disagreement, creativity and the relationship channel beneath every argument offers a sharp counterpoint to James's trademark bluntness — and the result is a conversation that will change how you think about every hard conversation you've ever avoided.

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    14 April 2026, 5:46 am
  • 1 hour 39 minutes
    The Problem With Being Your Business: James Haskell

    James Haskell joins James Smith for a brutally honest conversation about life after professional sport, the chaos of building multiple businesses, and what it actually takes to stay relevant when the game is over. A former England rugby star, Sunday Times bestselling author, and DJ, Haskell pulls no punches on the mental cost of reinvention — and why his obsession with performing has never really left him.


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    James opens up about the fear of failure that drove him through rugby, the strange emptiness that follows success, and why 40 felt like the moment everything had to change. From DJing in a music industry that doesn't return emails, to launching Black Eye Gin with a £1.50-per-bottle charity model, to finally getting his testosterone tested — this one covers ground most people won't.


    He covers:

    ◼️ Why being your own business is feast or famine — and how to future-proof it

    ◼️ The DJ career no one takes seriously (yet)

    ◼️ Building undeniable proof against self-doubt

    ◼️ Why catastrophising your future can be a legitimate motivational tool

    ◼️ What testosterone at level 3 actually feels like — and what TRT changed

    ◼️ The email list gap that's costing him (and you) real money


    Chapters:

    00:00 There Are a Lot of Lost Men Out There

    01:23 The Problem With Being Your Own Business

    03:22 Life After Rugby — Planning vs Panic

    05:05 Finding What You Actually Want to Do

    05:30 The DJ Career: 12 Years, 31 Records

    07:22 MMA, Surgeries and the Body Paying the Price

    09:24 Going Back to Basics in 2026

    10:18 Why Haskell Got Into DJing

    12:01 Building Undeniable Proof Against Self-Doubt

    13:31 Imposter Syndrome, Evidence Bases and Therapy at 17

    15:35 Creating Common Enemies as Motivation

    18:06 Catastrophising as a Motivational Mechanism

    18:44 Defining What Success Actually Looks Like

    19:21 Why Very Wealthy Men Lose Their Money

    20:01 The Rocky Montage Years: Fear of Failure as Fuel

    20:52 Learning to Sit In the Moment

    22:00 The Music Industry Is a Wild West Shambles

    24:50 The 50 Cent Tour Story — Music vs Every Other Business

    27:03 Drug Culture, Harm Reduction and the Honest Conversation

    30:49 What He'd Tell His Daughter About Drugs

    32:02 Social Media, Innocence and Raising Kids Today

    33:39 Does Civilisation Correct Itself?

    35:40 On Politics, Reform and Weak Leaders

    37:13 Hair Transplants, Prince William and Shaving Your Head

    39:14 The James Haskell Effect on Rugby Back Rows

    41:47 Henry Pollock, Pranks and the England Camp

    44:03 The Witch Teeth Prank at the Dentist

    45:24 The 2007 World Cup — and Ronny Ring's Band of Brothers Moment

    49:01 Maidenhead RFC, Getting Dropped and a Mate's Game of His Life

    53:41 Black Eye Gin — The Charity, the Recipe and the Origin

    57:06 Rugby, UFC and Sports That Don't Apologise for Themselves

    59:55 Trying Neutonic for the First Time

    01:01:05 Building an Event That Combines Sport, Music and Fitness

    01:07:19 Peptides, BPC-157 and Healing a Torn Bicep

    01:09:05 Testosterone at Level 3 — Getting on TRT

    01:20:32 The Relevancy Trap and Running Active Businesses

    01:22:38 The Infinity Pool Story — Getting the Balance Right

    01:26:36 Why Haskell Doesn't Have an Email List (Yet)

    01:27:46 The Email Marketing Masterclass He Didn't Ask For

    01:37:57 What's Coming Next: Music, DJ Gigs and the Tequila Launch


    This is one of those conversations that goes everywhere — rugby war stories, music industry chaos, drug policy, fatherhood, hormones, hair transplants, and the uncomfortable truth that being very good at performing doesn't automatically make you good at business. Haskell is funnier, more self-aware, and more switched-on than most people give him credit for — and this is the version of him you don't usually get to see.

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    7 April 2026, 5:31 am
  • 1 hour 18 minutes
    The Problem With Trying to Feel Better: Dr Julie Smith

    Dr Julie Smith joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation on the psychology of emotion, mental health, and what it really means to feel better. A clinical psychologist and international bestselling author, Dr Smith dismantles the idea that difficult emotions are problems to be solved and challenges James on everything from catastrophising and shame-based motivation to the surprising emotional cost of success.


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    James opens up about his experience of lockdown, being cut off from Australia, the relief (not happiness) of hitting major milestones, and why he uses financial goals as a psychological permission slip to keep overworking.


    She explains:

    ◼️ Why wanting to feel better is sometimes part of the problem

    ◼️ How to recognise when distress is situational vs something deeper

    ◼️ The double standard we apply to ourselves vs others

    ◼️ Why self-compassion isn't weakness (it's the harder skill)

    ◼️ What status loss does to mental health and identity


    Chapters:

    00:00 The Problem With Trying to Feel Better

    04:20 When Anxiety Means You're a Good Parent

    07:23 Is Low Mood Situational or Something Deeper?

    12:10 When Should You Actually Get Therapy?

    13:52 James Being Locked Out of Australia

    15:36 Not Feeling Like You Qualify for Help

    17:34 The Workaholics Trap and Honest Feedback

    18:45 Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy — Where Does Dr Smith Stand?

    20:23 James's LSD Day in the Park

    21:49 The Periodic Table of Emotions

    27:12 Vulnerability, Fatherhood and Opening Up

    29:08 Redefining Success Beyond the Metrics

    32:26 Giving Good Advice You Don't Take Yourself

    34:49 Severance and the Work-Life Split

    38:07 The Hidden Cost of Living a Very Public Life

    41:24 When Followers Tell You You've Saved Their Life

    44:28 How a Relationship Changed James's Relationship With Work

    45:13 Status, Mental Health and the Fear of Losing It

    53:01 The Double Standard We Have for Ourselves

    55:42 Using Financial Goals as a Coping Mechanism

    57:28 Catastrophising as Motivation

    01:00:04 Why Every Goal Feels Empty After You Hit It

    01:02:51 Fear of Success vs Fear of Failure

    01:08:30 The Journey Is the Point — Not Just the Outcome

    01:09:18 Sneak Peek: Dr Smith's New Book

    01:10:21 Generational Amnesia and the Young People of Today

    01:15:08 Closing Takeaways: What Actually Helps


    This conversation takes a candid look at the psychology behind overwork, the emotional emptiness that can follow achievement, and the courage required to actually let people in. Dr Smith's clinical perspective on self-compassion, attachment, and the standards we hold ourselves to offers a grounding counterweight to James's trademark candour — and the result is one of the most honest conversations on mental health the podcast has produced.

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    31 March 2026, 10:16 am
  • 1 hour 29 minutes
    The Problem With Self Sabotage: Connor Beaton (ManTalks)

    Connor Beaton joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about self-sabotage. Far from being a simple lack of discipline, self-sabotage is a sophisticated survival strategy your brain uses to maintain control. Beaton explains why your psyche would rather choose a familiar disaster over an unfamiliar victory, keeping you locked in a cycle of destructive behavior to protect a fragile sense of identity.


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    They dismantle the myth that dark motivation is a sustainable fuel for success and expose the biological cost of running on shame. From adoption trauma and attachment theory to the high-stakes world of elite performance, this conversation uncovers the invisible weights that stop men from being present in their own lives.


    He explains:

    ◼️ Why your brain actively avoids healthy new habits

    ◼️ How shame-based fuel creates a performance ceiling

    ◼️ What happens when achievement replaces human connection

    ◼️ Why mastery and addiction share the same neurology

    ◼️ How radical transparency prevents relationship resentment


    Chapters:

    00:00 The Psychology of Working With Men

    03:37 The Real Problem With Self-Sabotage

    04:11 Sabotage as a Protective Strategy

    05:37 James’ Experience With Wild Weekends

    07:15 Reinforcing Your Negative Identity

    08:06 Carl Jung and The Shadow

    09:11 Why Your Brain Prefers Familiarity

    11:16 The John Jones Sabotage Pattern

    12:46 Relational Trauma and Attachment Issues

    13:45 Breaking Your Nervous System Set Point

    16:02 George St-Pierre on Real Courage

    17:51 James' Battle With Cognitive Dissonance

    19:52 The Truth About Cocaine Habits

    23:00 High Performers and The Control Trap

    24:18 Dark Motivation: Using Shame as Fuel

    26:42 Why Success Often Feels Empty

    27:23 James’ Story of Adoption and Spite

    30:35 Shifting From Spite to Family

    32:48 Dating Volume and Almond Croissants

    35:43 Healing Trauma Through Your Children

    43:43 Rebuilding Trust and True Intimacy

    47:14 Addiction as an Attachment Issue

    49:33 Mastery vs The Addictive Tendency

    53:07 Learning to Let Go of Control

    57:17 The Dangers of Mental Masturbation

    59:12 Diminished Versions of Yourself

    01:02:14 Learning to Choose Your Regrets

    01:04:02 The Psychological Fear of Retirement

    01:08:40 The Cost of Professional Relevancy

    01:12:19 Communicating Trade-offs in Relationships

    01:15:51 Modern Dating’s Silent Plague

    01:17:46 Re-infusing Choice into Relationships

    01:21:53 Navigating the Psychological Map



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    24 March 2026, 6:23 am
  • 1 hour 15 minutes
    The Problem With Perfectionism: Jonny Wilkinson

    Rugby legend Johnny Wilkinson joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about the problem with perfectionism, why the pursuit of "perfect" is a quiet crisis that creates a dangerous lie of future salvation while destroying your current reality. Wilkinson explains how living in a constant state of survival and impending doom reshapes our biology and threatens the very essence of human potential.


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    They discuss the myths around "mastery" being a finished destination, the toxic nature of avoiding failure, and the real reasons behind the mental time bomb that elite performance often hides. From the pressures of a World Cup final to the quiet struggle of starting a business, this episode explores how the need for control can break down the whole system of human performance.


    We Cover:

    ⬛ Why Perfectionism is a Survival State not a Success Strategy

    ⬛ How the Myth of "Making It" Destroys Human Curiosity

    ⬛ Why Mastery Requires Self-Awareness over Mechanical Replication

    ⬛ How to Harness Pressure as Energy instead of Enduring it as Truth

    ⬛ What Happens when You Stop Chasing Outcomes and Start Healing the Gut


    Chapters:

    00:00 Intro: Harder Than a World Cup Penalty

    00:32 Who Is Johnny Wilkinson?

    01:19 What Is the Problem With Perfectionism?

    03:01 Nobody's Perfect: Is the Journey the Point?

    05:34 Regression to the Mean & the Pressure of Kicking

    07:07 Martin Johnson, Teammates & Carrying the Weight

    09:46 Pressure Is Just a Thought — Reframing It Entirely

    12:29 The Bell Curve of Arousal in Sport

    14:15 Growing Up in Survival Mode

    16:43 Opening the Door to Yourself

    19:14 Identity, Expectations & Tipping Over

    20:40 Missing a Kick in Front of the England Camp

    23:39 From Running Away to Owning the Space

    25:51 One Living — Born From a Changing Room in Toulon

    27:02 Why Johnny Started a Health Brand

    31:37 When Your Body Can't Keep Up With Your Mind

    34:48 One Living: The Rebrand Story

    38:31 Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset in Business

    40:45 Listening to Your Body Like You Listen to a Kick

    43:30 Stress, Food Choices & What You Actually Want

    49:06 What One Living Really Stands For

    53:13 Opening Doors: The Philosophy Behind the Brand

    57:44 The Virtue of Suffering — Is Misery Masculine?

    59:16 Thoughts as Truths & the Stray Cat Problem

    1:03:46 The Mind Gym: Switching Energy States

    1:07:03 Cold Water, Nature & Resetting Your Energy

    1:08:59 The One Living Shots Explained

    1:11:39 Stop, Breathe, Drink: A Philosophy for Life

    1:14:13 Closing Thoughts & Where to Find One Living

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    10 March 2026, 6:00 am
  • 1 hour 38 minutes
    The Problem With Finance Gurus: Michael Taylor

    Michael Taylor, a professional trader and author, joins James to break down why most finance gurus are full of it. They discuss the red flags of get-rich-quick trading schemes, how brokers make money when you lose, and why Forex attracts scammers. Michael explains the difference between real investing and fake lifestyles, the dangers of blindly following trading signals, and why most people fail at currency trading. Whether you're thinking about investing in your 20s or deciding between paying off your mortgage versus building wealth through stocks, this conversation cuts through the BS and gives you real talk about money.


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    THIS PODCAST IS NOT FINANCIAL ADVICE


    Timestamps

    00:00 Finance Gurus and Lamborghini Scams

    00:12 Professional Trader Michael Taylor Interview

    00:24 Casino Risk Management vs Trading

    01:07 Problems with Fake Finance Influencers

    02:32 Chauffeur Knowledge and Information Replication

    03:55 Broker Commission Models Explained

    05:06 Red Flags in Trading Education

    06:13 Forex vs Stock Market Fundamentals

    09:04 Why Forex Trading Is Dangerously Hard

    10:15 Survivorship Bias in Finance Content

    11:50 Mortgage Payoff vs Stock Investment

    12:16 Calculated Risk and Personal Finance

    14:02 Global Equities Beat Interest Rates

    15:21 Why People Avoid Financial Education

    16:12 Wealthy People Talk About Money Differently

    17:44 Taking Responsibility for Your Finances

    18:36 James Smith's Investment Journey Begins

    19:07 Getting Lucky in the Stock Market

    20:54 Borrowing Money to Invest Early

    22:33 Finding Your Sweet Spot in Stocks

    23:24 Balance Sheet Analysis for Beginners

    25:46 Shorting Businesses and Ethics

    27:26 Identifying Cash Flow Problems Early

    28:40 Bitcoin and Cryptocurrency Allocation

    31:23 Long-Term Investing vs Day Trading

    32:03 Social Media as Interest Savings Account

    32:22 2008 Financial Crisis Impact

    34:34 Market Crashes Create Opportunities

    36:11 Pandemic Trading During Market Chaos

    37:45 First Steps for New Investors

    39:05 Picking Individual Stocks Strategy

    40:25 Emotional Investment Decisions

    41:31 Tax-Efficient Investment Accounts UK

    44:02 Lifetime ISA Government Top-Up

    45:04 State Pension Won't Exist

    46:36 Compounding Interest Over Decades

    51:04 Warren Buffett Started at 15

    52:40 Starting Late at 35

    54:20 Inflation Erodes Purchasing Power

    55:11 Fiscal Drag and Wage Stagnation

    56:00 Property Ladder vs Stock Market

    57:06 Stamp Duty Killing UK Stock Market

    59:18 IPO Market Decline in UK

    01:00:17 Making LSE Attractive for Listings

    01:02:07 Class of 2020 IPO Disasters

    01:03:35 Reviving the UK Stock Market

    01:05:28 Boring Businesses Make Real Money

    01:06:03 Newborn Investment Fund Idea

    01:07:05 Private School vs Index Funds

    01:09:10 Spending Strategy and Fun Money

    01:11:02 Business vs Personal Investment Accounts

    01:16:03 Main Dos and Don'ts of Investing

    01:20:04 Delayed Settlement Promotes Gambling

    01:22:17 Intraday Trading Is Mostly Gambling

    01:27:25 Supporting Small Businesses Locally

    01:33:46 How to Make Six Figures Book

    01:35:16 Klarna Buy Now Pay Later Problems

    01:37:50 Building Wealth Through Solid Businesses

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    3 March 2026, 6:00 am
  • 1 hour 43 minutes
    The Problem With Net Zero: Konstantin Kisin

    Konstantin Kisin joins James Smith to discuss the problem with Net Zero, a quiet crisis where ideological virtue signaling is actively making the West poor, weak, and strategically irrelevant.


    Kisin explains how our obsession with carbon metrics functions as a dangerous accounting trick that exports British industry to China while gaslighting citizens into accepting a lower standard of living. They strip back the myths of modern activism to expose a deeper civilizational time bomb: a generation suffering from historical amnesia and a lack of meaning, now being incentivised toward economic suicide by a government that prioritizes "waffle" over the survival of its own industrial base.


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    We cover:

    ⬛ Why Net Zero is an accounting trick that exports emissions and imports poverty

    ⬛ The "Status Game" behind climate activism and doomsday narratives

    ⬛ How the welfare state traps young men in a cycle of dependency and video games

    ⬛ Why mass immigration is used to conceal the reality of a shrinking economy

    ⬛ The urgent need to prioritize cheap, reliable energy over ideological virtue signals


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Net Zero's Economic and Geopolitical Failures

    05:42 Energy Prices and Carbon Accounting Illusions

    07:18 Why Ideologies Appeal to Lost Generations

    10:00 Status Games Drive Activist Movements

    12:22 Greta Thunberg and Incentive Structures

    15:13 Personal Branding and Business Mentorship

    16:21 Historical Amnesia and Educational Gaps

    19:03 Travel Exposes Western Privilege and Safety

    22:30 Direction of Travel Matters More Than Absolutes

    25:03 Parasites Need Problems to Solve

    31:33 Soviet Subversion and Western Self-Destruction

    34:38 Israel-Palestine Through an Ideological Lens

    37:53 Ukraine Support and European Weakness

    41:03 National Pride Erosion and Military Service

    45:00 Podcast Success Takes Years of Investment

    51:34 Welfare Dependency Traps Young Men

    58:01 Video Games Cannot Replace Real Life Achievement

    1:02:15 Long-Form Conversations Change Political Discourse

    1:09:06 Police Officers Make Split-Second Life-Death Decisions

    1:23:25 Economic Solutions: Energy, Taxes, and Growth

    1:28:30 Illegal Immigration and British Values

    1:34:21 Integration Over Diversity Politics

    1:39:50 Wealthy Brits Leaving Due to Cultural Hostility

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    24 February 2026, 5:50 am
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