Tom Bilyeu joins James Smith to discuss how broken the modern economy really is. The host of Impact Theory and co-founder of Quest Nutrition argues that inflation is theft, that you cannot save your way to success anymore, and that elites are quietly funneling wealth from the working class.

He explains:

◼️ Why a balanced budget changes every policy argument

◼️ How property markets get fixed by deregulation, not taxes

◼️ Why men should be encouraged to go hard in the paint

◼️ How AI is shrinking headcount while multiplying output

◼️ Why paying down debt can quietly beat the stock market

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Chapters:

00:00 The Problem With Not Understanding The Economy

02:30 Inflation Theft and The Hidden Wealth Transfer

03:10 Australia's Capital Gains Tax Bombshell

05:03 The Negative Gearing Property Trap

08:01 Why The Stock Market Is Basically Gambling

11:19 Tom's Advice For An Ambitious 22-Year-Old

13:11 Why Society Now Hates Male Ambition

15:39 Women, The Patriarchy and Sexual Selection

17:48 Why People Demonise Billionaires

21:41 The American Buying Mentality vs The UK

23:14 What Actually Made America Great

26:42 Generational Amnesia and Forgotten Hardship

30:43 Living in Los Angeles and California

33:01 Can The Whole World Live The American Dream?

35:46 Japan, Assimilation and Shared Values

38:38 American Political Corruption as Entertainment

42:01 Human Nature, Greed and AI Government

45:00 Why AI Is The New Internet Moment

45:59 How AI Is Transforming Tom's Business

49:09 Video Games, VR and Escaping Reality

54:04 Addictive Personalities and Gaming

55:34 The Simple Financial Playbook

58:06 The Truth About Paying Down Your Debt

1:01:46 Should You Be Buying Bitcoin?

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Lara Acosta joins James Smith for a no-holds-barred conversation about LinkedIn, the corporate world, and what it really takes to build a personal brand that actually moves the needle. A LinkedIn growth expert and founder who's helped thousands of professionals turn themselves into trusted authorities, Lara breaks down why most people are doing LinkedIn wrong — and why the platform isn't the problem, corporate is.

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She explains:

◼️ Why LinkedIn isn't cringe — corporate is

◼️ What's actually changed in the algorithm and how to ride it

◼️ Why AI slop is killing engagement (and why Lara doesn't care)

◼️ How to micro-dose failure instead of betting the house

◼️ Why following your skill beats following your passion every time

Chapters:

00:00 The Real Problem With LinkedIn

01:16 Why LinkedIn Feels So Cringe

03:19 James's Years in the Corporate Trenches

05:46 Hacks to Leave Work Early Without Being Noticed

08:06 Sales, Recruitment, and the Posh Hotel Voice

11:11 What's Actually Wrong With the Algorithm

12:48 Carousels and Picture-First Posting

14:21 The Great LinkedIn Articles Debate

21:06 The Three-Hour Workday Conspiracy

24:05 Social Loafing and Bloated Departments

26:06 Cocaine, Cider Hands, and Surviving Corporate

28:18 Three Weeks at Activision Doing Nothing

30:35 Failing First Year of University

33:00 The Birmingham Housemates Story

35:00 Failing Spanish as a Native Speaker

38:31 The AI Slop Problem on LinkedIn

40:29 Why Engagement Prompts Actually Work

43:53 Entrepreneur vs Business Owner in Britain

45:45 The Texas Barbecue New Tonic Story

50:15 The Zero Sum Mentality Trap

52:57 Lara's NPower Door-to-Door Scam Job

56:00 James in a Prom Suit Selling Energy

58:32 One in a Hundred and the Power of Rejection

01:01:35 Enjoying Every Stage of Business

01:02:55 The Problem With Remote Working

01:09:03 Giving Your Team Rope to Climb or Hang

01:10:44 The Problem With Leadership on LinkedIn

01:15:32 The Goalposts That Never Stop Moving

01:16:00 James's Complacency in Lockdown

01:19:13 Closing Takeaways: Follow Skill Not Passion

This conversation is part LinkedIn masterclass, part corporate exorcism. Lara's clear-eyed take on the platform — what the algorithm rewards, what AI is doing to the feed, and why most leadership content is fake — meets James's lived experience of faking pisses to scroll Twitter, calling Cornwall County Council 100 times a day, and getting binned from a job he never figured out. The result is a candid look at why so many people stay stuck in jobs they hate, and a practical case for micro-dosing failure until you build the life you actually want.

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Paul Sloane joins James Smith to dismantle the myth of bad luck and reveal why the most successful innovations in history happened entirely by accident. A Cambridge engineer, former IBM marketer, and bestselling author, Sloane argues that what most people write off as misfortune is actually a hidden opportunity, and the people who notice it are the ones who change industries.

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He explains:

◼️ Why most "bad luck" is unrecognised opportunity

◼️ The four traits that actually lucky people share

◼️ How psychological safety unlocks radical ideas in any team

◼️ Why polymaths produce more creative solutions than specialists

◼️ The one question every business must be able to answer

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:15 The Two Problems With Bad Luck

02:37 J.K. Rowling, Trains and Hidden Opportunities

04:26 The Four Traits of Lucky People

05:32 Why Superstition Is the Wrong Direction

06:34 Penicillin, Velcro and Happy Accidents

08:48 Why Successful People Never Blame Others

10:23 Mindset, Identity and Why Dating Felt Different

12:01 Testing Thumbnails and the 4K Trick

14:17 The Brutal Role of Timing in Success

15:14 Building Psychological Safety for Wild Ideas

17:22 James on Steroids, Status and Being 22

20:00 Why Carwow's YouTube Strategy Is Genius

24:02 Innovation vs Creativity Defined

24:22 Doing Something Different Every Day

25:45 Closing Open Loops and the Zeigarnik Effect

27:37 The Random Greyhound Approach to Travel

29:37 James's Red Bull Can You Make It Story

32:37 Wilson Greatbatch and the Pacemaker Accident

34:26 Why Polymaths Find Better Solutions

35:26 Using AI to Introduce Useful Randomness

37:27 Red Bull's Trojan Horse Marketing

39:51 Productive Boredom and Shower Thoughts

44:55 Survivorship Bias and the Quiet Years of Work

46:23 The Cellar Door Lateral Thinking Puzzle

47:45 The Most Important Question in Business

50:02 Why People Really Leave Money to Charity

52:27 Polarising Marketing on the Tube

55:29 Paddy Power and the Blind Football Advert

58:13 The C-Word and Brave Brand Choices

01:01:28 Burger King's Left-Handed Hamburger Hoax

01:02:24 ASDA Opticians and the Swiss Referee

01:07:56 Rory Sutherland, HS2 and Demolishing Birmingham

01:08:59 Edward de Bono's Ford Car Parks Idea

01:12:24 The Case for Self-Driving Cars

01:16:49 AI, Useless Jobs and Paying People Properly

01:20:42 Will Self-Driving Cars Steal Our Thinking Time?

01:21:54 Who This Book Is For

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Lucy Lord joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation that starts with the air fryer sitting unused on 70% of UK kitchen counters and ends up tearing apart everything from protein marketing scams to the slow death of the British night out. A best-selling cookbook author and the woman behind Supper Club, Lucy is back with her third book, Love Your Air Fryer, and makes the case that cooking your own food is the most underrated act of self-care left in the modern world.

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She explains:

◼️ Why the air fryer is the most underutilised tool in your kitchen

◼️ How cooking is the lowest-hanging fruit for looking and feeling better

◼️ The protein con quietly corrupting your supermarket shop

◼️ Why "increasing your surface area for luck" works in dating, business and life

◼️ How "touching your future" rewires what you think you're capable of

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:00 The Air Fryer Problem No One Talks About

03:50 Why Cooking Is the Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

06:37 Air Fryer vs Oven — Why the Oven Is Becoming Obsolete

11:19 The Apple vs Probiotic Soda Con

12:54 Skipping the Foundations and Chasing the Trends

15:33 The Protein Ball Scam Exposed

19:23 Protein Water, Huel and the Death of the Real Meal

22:05 Why Britain's Grab-and-Go Culture Is Broken

23:15 James's Brutally Honest Review of Japan

27:44 Karoshi — Japan's Death From Overwork Crisis

29:09 The Birth Rate Collapse Hitting the Western World

32:11 Hustle Culture Is Stealing Men's Best Years

34:35 The 200 Dates That Led James to Tay

37:11 Lucy on Whether She Actually Wants Kids

39:01 Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck

39:45 Volume vs Intensity — The Dating Strategy That Works

43:52 GLP-1s, Smartphones and the Death of the Night Out

45:55 The Quiet Crisis of Men Disappearing From University

47:03 The Mumps, the Missed Lectures and James's Year of Chaos

50:21 Is a University Degree Even Worth It Anymore?

53:13 Inside Lucy's New Book — Love Your Air Fryer

58:39 Why James Is Forcing Lucy Onto YouTube

01:04:02 The Random Idea That Sold 3,500 Hats

01:06:28 How to Start a YouTube Channel With Just an iPhone

01:10:18 The Advice You Give Is the Advice You Need

01:10:33 Why James Avoids Gratitude

01:12:18 The Car as Forced Gratitude

01:13:04 Touching Your Future — The Concept That Changed Everything

01:17:46 Where to Find the Book, the Hats and Supper Club

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Michael Morris joins James Smith to dismantle the popular myth that tribalism is humanity's curse. A renowned cultural psychologist and Columbia Business School professor, Morris argues that our tribal instincts aren't hardwired hatred for outsiders, they're the very adaptations that allowed humans to outcompete Neanderthals, build civilisations, and cooperate at scales no other species can match.

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He explains:

◼️ Why tribal instincts are the glue of human cooperation, not division

◼️ How the peer, hero, and ancestor instincts shape every group you join

◼️ Why dating apps and social media distort our perception of attractiveness

◼️ How cults and extremist groups exploit our conformist psychology

◼️ Why ordinary Germans went along with the Nazis — and why you probably would too

Chapters:

00:00 The Myth of Hardwired Tribal Hatred

01:51 What's Actually Wrong With Tribalism

03:30 Defining Tribal Instincts Properly

05:08 The Three Waves: Peer, Hero, Ancestor

07:07 Why Humans Evolved Differently to Apes

10:17 Do Chimpanzees Have Culture?

12:02 How Culture Shapes Political Systems

15:22 The Overlooked Positives of Tribalism

19:05 The Small Tribes All Around Us

22:04 How Leaders Actually Change Culture

24:02 Ancient DNA and the Neanderthal Story

28:21 Cannibalism and Neanderthal Inbreeding

29:28 The Trolley Test of Human Decency

33:41 How Homo Sapiens Outcompeted Neanderthals

36:48 Why Groups of Humans Become Apex Predators

37:35 Modern Family Structures and Dating Apps

40:06 The Body Dysmorphia Crisis Online

44:10 Social Media as a Funhouse Mirror

45:14 James on American Political Polarisation

47:11 The Addiction of Virtue Signalling

49:19 Hot Takes and the Race for Status

51:36 Where Status Sits in Tribal Psychology

54:21 Why We Imitate Celebrities and Heroes

56:01 The Asch Experiment and Conformity

59:04 Heaven's Gate and the Mechanics of Cults

01:00:58 The Decline of Young Men's Social Groups

01:03:16 Would You Have Been a Nazi?

01:05:36 The Milgram Shock Experiment

01:06:47 Why Tribalism Is the Solution, Not the Problem

01:10:00 Where to Find Tribal

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Anthony "Staz" Stasziker, a former special forces officer, shares essential life advice on the importance of hard work, discipline, and the problem with living a comfortable life. Staz highlights that true success, much like military training in special ops, is not easily achieved but requires dedication. It's about putting in the effort, not just romanticizing the idea.

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00:00 - Why Comfort Is Making Us Weak

01:33 - The Friction We Desperately Need

06:34 - How Jiu-Jitsu Changed Everything

08:12 - Leaving Special Forces With Nothing

12:14 - The Hidden Force Controlling Your Life

19:28 - Are We Raising a Generation of Losers?

25:02 - From Failed Footballer to Elite Sniper

31:34 - What They Don't Tell You About Special Forces

41:53 - The Future of War Is Terrifying

51:59 - The Real Reason Men Are Falling Apart

56:04 - The Trauma Nobody Talks About

01:00:57 - The Drug Curing PTSD Overnight

01:06:34 - Why He Climbed Everest in 7 Days

01:22:19 - Buried Alive on the World's Highest Mountain

01:43:38 - What He Learned at 29,000 Feet

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Ian Leslie joins James Smith to unpack the uncomfortable truth about honesty: we can't actually handle it. A bestselling author and host of the Where Shall We Meet podcast, Ian argues that lying isn't a bug in human nature but an evolutionary feature — the very thing responsible for our big brains, our creativity, and our capacity for art.

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James opens up about being honest with his employees, hiring a brutally candid editor for his next book, and how a rugby coach telling him he "played like shit" taught him more than any polite feedback ever could.

He explains:

◼️ Why lying is a sign of intelligence, creativity and empathy in children

◼️ How the online world breeds dishonesty

◼️ Why office politics is passive aggression at scale

◼️ How trust is the prerequisite for any productive disagreement

◼️ Why sport is civilisation's greatest cage for our warrior instincts

Chapters:

00:00 Why Lying Is Hardwired Into Our Intelligence

01:22 The Problem With Honesty Is We Can't Handle It

03:14 The Invention of Lying and Useful Deception

06:12 Why Lying Sits in Our Moral Grey Zone

08:37 When Your Child Should Start Lying to You

10:48 Autism, Theory of Mind and Honesty

12:01 Conformity as a Form of Social Lying

14:30 Self-Deception and the Lizard Brain

15:59 Cults, Ideologies and Online Group Lies

19:37 Interrogation Tricks and Cognitive Load

22:05 Telling Stories Backwards to Catch Liars

22:46 The Jiu-Jitsu Ringworm Test

25:18 Artists as Legitimised Liars

26:24 Bob Dylan's Reinvention and the Line Between Lying and Art

27:18 Embellishment, Storytelling and Social Incentives

28:50 Advertising as a Lie We Collude In

30:08 Dating Dynamics and Honesty With Women

32:29 Why Honesty Is Your Best Bet in the Long Run

34:09 The Woman Who Lied About Her Age

36:04 Botox, Makeup and Physical Deception

38:13 Height, Ethnicity and the Online Dating Filter

41:13 How Digital Breaks Humans Into Packets

41:56 Why Workplaces Are Full of Bullshit

44:14 Office Politics as Passive Aggression at Scale

45:06 James Getting Dropped From His Rugby Team

47:22 Hiring a Brutally Honest Editor

48:40 Trust as the Prerequisite for Honesty

50:00 The Two Channels of Every Difficult Conversation

52:19 Jiu-Jitsu, Conflict Resolution and Primal Urges

55:06 Sport as Civilisation's Substitute for War

57:37 Michael Jordan as a Roman Warrior

57:58 John Jones and the Beautiful Cage of MMA

58:24 The Ashes, the Barmy Army and Sportsmanship

01:00:24 The Gilded Cage of Rules and Norms

01:01:13 Zero-Sum Games and Honest Feedback

01:03:09 Why Participation Medals Miss the Point

01:05:16 Giving Brutal Feedback on Content

01:07:16 Have You Earned the Right to Be Honest?

01:08:26 Ian's Book: John and Paul — A Love Story in Songs

01:11:22 The Creative Power of Love

This conversation takes a candid look at why deception is woven into the fabric of human intelligence, the corrosive cost of workplaces where nobody says what they think, and the trust that has to exist before honesty can actually land. Ian's perspective on disagreement, creativity and the relationship channel beneath every argument offers a sharp counterpoint to James's trademark bluntness — and the result is a conversation that will change how you think about every hard conversation you've ever avoided.

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James Haskell joins James Smith for a brutally honest conversation about life after professional sport, the chaos of building multiple businesses, and what it actually takes to stay relevant when the game is over. A former England rugby star, Sunday Times bestselling author, and DJ, Haskell pulls no punches on the mental cost of reinvention — and why his obsession with performing has never really left him.

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James opens up about the fear of failure that drove him through rugby, the strange emptiness that follows success, and why 40 felt like the moment everything had to change. From DJing in a music industry that doesn't return emails, to launching Black Eye Gin with a £1.50-per-bottle charity model, to finally getting his testosterone tested — this one covers ground most people won't.

He covers:

◼️ Why being your own business is feast or famine — and how to future-proof it

◼️ The DJ career no one takes seriously (yet)

◼️ Building undeniable proof against self-doubt

◼️ Why catastrophising your future can be a legitimate motivational tool

◼️ What testosterone at level 3 actually feels like — and what TRT changed

◼️ The email list gap that's costing him (and you) real money

Chapters:

00:00 There Are a Lot of Lost Men Out There

01:23 The Problem With Being Your Own Business

03:22 Life After Rugby — Planning vs Panic

05:05 Finding What You Actually Want to Do

05:30 The DJ Career: 12 Years, 31 Records

07:22 MMA, Surgeries and the Body Paying the Price

09:24 Going Back to Basics in 2026

10:18 Why Haskell Got Into DJing

12:01 Building Undeniable Proof Against Self-Doubt

13:31 Imposter Syndrome, Evidence Bases and Therapy at 17

15:35 Creating Common Enemies as Motivation

18:06 Catastrophising as a Motivational Mechanism

18:44 Defining What Success Actually Looks Like

19:21 Why Very Wealthy Men Lose Their Money

20:01 The Rocky Montage Years: Fear of Failure as Fuel

20:52 Learning to Sit In the Moment

22:00 The Music Industry Is a Wild West Shambles

24:50 The 50 Cent Tour Story — Music vs Every Other Business

27:03 Drug Culture, Harm Reduction and the Honest Conversation

30:49 What He'd Tell His Daughter About Drugs

32:02 Social Media, Innocence and Raising Kids Today

33:39 Does Civilisation Correct Itself?

35:40 On Politics, Reform and Weak Leaders

37:13 Hair Transplants, Prince William and Shaving Your Head

39:14 The James Haskell Effect on Rugby Back Rows

41:47 Henry Pollock, Pranks and the England Camp

44:03 The Witch Teeth Prank at the Dentist

45:24 The 2007 World Cup — and Ronny Ring's Band of Brothers Moment

49:01 Maidenhead RFC, Getting Dropped and a Mate's Game of His Life

53:41 Black Eye Gin — The Charity, the Recipe and the Origin

57:06 Rugby, UFC and Sports That Don't Apologise for Themselves

59:55 Trying Neutonic for the First Time

01:01:05 Building an Event That Combines Sport, Music and Fitness

01:07:19 Peptides, BPC-157 and Healing a Torn Bicep

01:09:05 Testosterone at Level 3 — Getting on TRT

01:20:32 The Relevancy Trap and Running Active Businesses

01:22:38 The Infinity Pool Story — Getting the Balance Right

01:26:36 Why Haskell Doesn't Have an Email List (Yet)

01:27:46 The Email Marketing Masterclass He Didn't Ask For

01:37:57 What's Coming Next: Music, DJ Gigs and the Tequila Launch

This is one of those conversations that goes everywhere — rugby war stories, music industry chaos, drug policy, fatherhood, hormones, hair transplants, and the uncomfortable truth that being very good at performing doesn't automatically make you good at business. Haskell is funnier, more self-aware, and more switched-on than most people give him credit for — and this is the version of him you don't usually get to see.

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Dr Julie Smith joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation on the psychology of emotion, mental health, and what it really means to feel better. A clinical psychologist and international bestselling author, Dr Smith dismantles the idea that difficult emotions are problems to be solved and challenges James on everything from catastrophising and shame-based motivation to the surprising emotional cost of success.

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James opens up about his experience of lockdown, being cut off from Australia, the relief (not happiness) of hitting major milestones, and why he uses financial goals as a psychological permission slip to keep overworking.

She explains:

◼️ Why wanting to feel better is sometimes part of the problem

◼️ How to recognise when distress is situational vs something deeper

◼️ The double standard we apply to ourselves vs others

◼️ Why self-compassion isn't weakness (it's the harder skill)

◼️ What status loss does to mental health and identity

Chapters:

00:00 The Problem With Trying to Feel Better

04:20 When Anxiety Means You're a Good Parent

07:23 Is Low Mood Situational or Something Deeper?

12:10 When Should You Actually Get Therapy?

13:52 James Being Locked Out of Australia

15:36 Not Feeling Like You Qualify for Help

17:34 The Workaholics Trap and Honest Feedback

18:45 Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy — Where Does Dr Smith Stand?

20:23 James's LSD Day in the Park

21:49 The Periodic Table of Emotions

27:12 Vulnerability, Fatherhood and Opening Up

29:08 Redefining Success Beyond the Metrics

32:26 Giving Good Advice You Don't Take Yourself

34:49 Severance and the Work-Life Split

38:07 The Hidden Cost of Living a Very Public Life

41:24 When Followers Tell You You've Saved Their Life

44:28 How a Relationship Changed James's Relationship With Work

45:13 Status, Mental Health and the Fear of Losing It

53:01 The Double Standard We Have for Ourselves

55:42 Using Financial Goals as a Coping Mechanism

57:28 Catastrophising as Motivation

01:00:04 Why Every Goal Feels Empty After You Hit It

01:02:51 Fear of Success vs Fear of Failure

01:08:30 The Journey Is the Point — Not Just the Outcome

01:09:18 Sneak Peek: Dr Smith's New Book

01:10:21 Generational Amnesia and the Young People of Today

01:15:08 Closing Takeaways: What Actually Helps

This conversation takes a candid look at the psychology behind overwork, the emotional emptiness that can follow achievement, and the courage required to actually let people in. Dr Smith's clinical perspective on self-compassion, attachment, and the standards we hold ourselves to offers a grounding counterweight to James's trademark candour — and the result is one of the most honest conversations on mental health the podcast has produced.

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Connor Beaton joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about self-sabotage. Far from being a simple lack of discipline, self-sabotage is a sophisticated survival strategy your brain uses to maintain control. Beaton explains why your psyche would rather choose a familiar disaster over an unfamiliar victory, keeping you locked in a cycle of destructive behavior to protect a fragile sense of identity.

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They dismantle the myth that dark motivation is a sustainable fuel for success and expose the biological cost of running on shame. From adoption trauma and attachment theory to the high-stakes world of elite performance, this conversation uncovers the invisible weights that stop men from being present in their own lives.

He explains:

◼️ Why your brain actively avoids healthy new habits

◼️ How shame-based fuel creates a performance ceiling

◼️ What happens when achievement replaces human connection

◼️ Why mastery and addiction share the same neurology

◼️ How radical transparency prevents relationship resentment

Chapters:

00:00 The Psychology of Working With Men

03:37 The Real Problem With Self-Sabotage

04:11 Sabotage as a Protective Strategy

05:37 James’ Experience With Wild Weekends

07:15 Reinforcing Your Negative Identity

08:06 Carl Jung and The Shadow

09:11 Why Your Brain Prefers Familiarity

11:16 The John Jones Sabotage Pattern

12:46 Relational Trauma and Attachment Issues

13:45 Breaking Your Nervous System Set Point

16:02 George St-Pierre on Real Courage

17:51 James' Battle With Cognitive Dissonance

19:52 The Truth About Cocaine Habits

23:00 High Performers and The Control Trap

24:18 Dark Motivation: Using Shame as Fuel

26:42 Why Success Often Feels Empty

27:23 James’ Story of Adoption and Spite

30:35 Shifting From Spite to Family

32:48 Dating Volume and Almond Croissants

35:43 Healing Trauma Through Your Children

43:43 Rebuilding Trust and True Intimacy

47:14 Addiction as an Attachment Issue

49:33 Mastery vs The Addictive Tendency

53:07 Learning to Let Go of Control

57:17 The Dangers of Mental Masturbation

59:12 Diminished Versions of Yourself

01:02:14 Learning to Choose Your Regrets

01:04:02 The Psychological Fear of Retirement

01:08:40 The Cost of Professional Relevancy

01:12:19 Communicating Trade-offs in Relationships

01:15:51 Modern Dating’s Silent Plague

01:17:46 Re-infusing Choice into Relationships

01:21:53 Navigating the Psychological Map

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