- 1 hour 25 minutesThe Problem With Bad Luck: Paul Sloane
Paul Sloane joins James Smith to dismantle the myth of bad luck and reveal why the most successful innovations in history happened entirely by accident. A Cambridge engineer, former IBM marketer, and bestselling author, Sloane argues that what most people write off as misfortune is actually a hidden opportunity, and the people who notice it are the ones who change industries.
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He explains:
◼️ Why most "bad luck" is unrecognised opportunity
◼️ The four traits that actually lucky people share
◼️ How psychological safety unlocks radical ideas in any team
◼️ Why polymaths produce more creative solutions than specialists
◼️ The one question every business must be able to answer
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:15 The Two Problems With Bad Luck
02:37 J.K. Rowling, Trains and Hidden Opportunities
04:26 The Four Traits of Lucky People
05:32 Why Superstition Is the Wrong Direction
06:34 Penicillin, Velcro and Happy Accidents
08:48 Why Successful People Never Blame Others
10:23 Mindset, Identity and Why Dating Felt Different
12:01 Testing Thumbnails and the 4K Trick
14:17 The Brutal Role of Timing in Success
15:14 Building Psychological Safety for Wild Ideas
17:22 James on Steroids, Status and Being 22
20:00 Why Carwow's YouTube Strategy Is Genius
24:02 Innovation vs Creativity Defined
24:22 Doing Something Different Every Day
25:45 Closing Open Loops and the Zeigarnik Effect
27:37 The Random Greyhound Approach to Travel
29:37 James's Red Bull Can You Make It Story
32:37 Wilson Greatbatch and the Pacemaker Accident
34:26 Why Polymaths Find Better Solutions
35:26 Using AI to Introduce Useful Randomness
37:27 Red Bull's Trojan Horse Marketing
39:51 Productive Boredom and Shower Thoughts
44:55 Survivorship Bias and the Quiet Years of Work
46:23 The Cellar Door Lateral Thinking Puzzle
47:45 The Most Important Question in Business
50:02 Why People Really Leave Money to Charity
52:27 Polarising Marketing on the Tube
55:29 Paddy Power and the Blind Football Advert
58:13 The C-Word and Brave Brand Choices
01:01:28 Burger King's Left-Handed Hamburger Hoax
01:02:24 ASDA Opticians and the Swiss Referee
01:07:56 Rory Sutherland, HS2 and Demolishing Birmingham
01:08:59 Edward de Bono's Ford Car Parks Idea
01:12:24 The Case for Self-Driving Cars
01:16:49 AI, Useless Jobs and Paying People Properly
01:20:42 Will Self-Driving Cars Steal Our Thinking Time?
01:21:54 Who This Book Is For
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5 May 2026, 5:04 am - 1 hour 19 minutesThe Problem With Air Fryers: Lucy Lord
Lucy Lord joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation that starts with the air fryer sitting unused on 70% of UK kitchen counters and ends up tearing apart everything from protein marketing scams to the slow death of the British night out. A best-selling cookbook author and the woman behind Supper Club, Lucy is back with her third book, Love Your Air Fryer, and makes the case that cooking your own food is the most underrated act of self-care left in the modern world.
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She explains:
◼️ Why the air fryer is the most underutilised tool in your kitchen
◼️ How cooking is the lowest-hanging fruit for looking and feeling better
◼️ The protein con quietly corrupting your supermarket shop
◼️ Why "increasing your surface area for luck" works in dating, business and life
◼️ How "touching your future" rewires what you think you're capable of
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:00 The Air Fryer Problem No One Talks About
03:50 Why Cooking Is the Most Underrated Form of Self-Care
06:37 Air Fryer vs Oven — Why the Oven Is Becoming Obsolete
11:19 The Apple vs Probiotic Soda Con
12:54 Skipping the Foundations and Chasing the Trends
15:33 The Protein Ball Scam Exposed
19:23 Protein Water, Huel and the Death of the Real Meal
22:05 Why Britain's Grab-and-Go Culture Is Broken
23:15 James's Brutally Honest Review of Japan
27:44 Karoshi — Japan's Death From Overwork Crisis
29:09 The Birth Rate Collapse Hitting the Western World
32:11 Hustle Culture Is Stealing Men's Best Years
34:35 The 200 Dates That Led James to Tay
37:11 Lucy on Whether She Actually Wants Kids
39:01 Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck
39:45 Volume vs Intensity — The Dating Strategy That Works
43:52 GLP-1s, Smartphones and the Death of the Night Out
45:55 The Quiet Crisis of Men Disappearing From University
47:03 The Mumps, the Missed Lectures and James's Year of Chaos
50:21 Is a University Degree Even Worth It Anymore?
53:13 Inside Lucy's New Book — Love Your Air Fryer
58:39 Why James Is Forcing Lucy Onto YouTube
01:04:02 The Random Idea That Sold 3,500 Hats
01:06:28 How to Start a YouTube Channel With Just an iPhone
01:10:18 The Advice You Give Is the Advice You Need
01:10:33 Why James Avoids Gratitude
01:12:18 The Car as Forced Gratitude
01:13:04 Touching Your Future — The Concept That Changed Everything
01:17:46 Where to Find the Book, the Hats and Supper Club
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28 April 2026, 4:51 am - 1 hour 11 minutesThe Problem With Tribalism: Michael Morris
Michael Morris joins James Smith to dismantle the popular myth that tribalism is humanity's curse. A renowned cultural psychologist and Columbia Business School professor, Morris argues that our tribal instincts aren't hardwired hatred for outsiders, they're the very adaptations that allowed humans to outcompete Neanderthals, build civilisations, and cooperate at scales no other species can match.
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He explains:
◼️ Why tribal instincts are the glue of human cooperation, not division
◼️ How the peer, hero, and ancestor instincts shape every group you join
◼️ Why dating apps and social media distort our perception of attractiveness
◼️ How cults and extremist groups exploit our conformist psychology
◼️ Why ordinary Germans went along with the Nazis — and why you probably would too
Chapters:
00:00 The Myth of Hardwired Tribal Hatred
01:51 What's Actually Wrong With Tribalism
03:30 Defining Tribal Instincts Properly
05:08 The Three Waves: Peer, Hero, Ancestor
07:07 Why Humans Evolved Differently to Apes
10:17 Do Chimpanzees Have Culture?
12:02 How Culture Shapes Political Systems
15:22 The Overlooked Positives of Tribalism
19:05 The Small Tribes All Around Us
22:04 How Leaders Actually Change Culture
24:02 Ancient DNA and the Neanderthal Story
28:21 Cannibalism and Neanderthal Inbreeding
29:28 The Trolley Test of Human Decency
33:41 How Homo Sapiens Outcompeted Neanderthals
36:48 Why Groups of Humans Become Apex Predators
37:35 Modern Family Structures and Dating Apps
40:06 The Body Dysmorphia Crisis Online
44:10 Social Media as a Funhouse Mirror
45:14 James on American Political Polarisation
47:11 The Addiction of Virtue Signalling
49:19 Hot Takes and the Race for Status
51:36 Where Status Sits in Tribal Psychology
54:21 Why We Imitate Celebrities and Heroes
56:01 The Asch Experiment and Conformity
59:04 Heaven's Gate and the Mechanics of Cults
01:00:58 The Decline of Young Men's Social Groups
01:03:16 Would You Have Been a Nazi?
01:05:36 The Milgram Shock Experiment
01:06:47 Why Tribalism Is the Solution, Not the Problem
01:10:00 Where to Find Tribal
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21 April 2026, 6:07 am - 1 hour 52 minutesThe Problem With Comfort: Anthony (Staz) Stazicker CGC
Anthony "Staz" Stasziker, a former special forces officer, shares essential life advice on the importance of hard work, discipline, and the problem with living a comfortable life. Staz highlights that true success, much like military training in special ops, is not easily achieved but requires dedication. It's about putting in the effort, not just romanticizing the idea.
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Chapters
00:00 - Why Comfort Is Making Us Weak
01:33 - The Friction We Desperately Need
06:34 - How Jiu-Jitsu Changed Everything
08:12 - Leaving Special Forces With Nothing
12:14 - The Hidden Force Controlling Your Life
19:28 - Are We Raising a Generation of Losers?
25:02 - From Failed Footballer to Elite Sniper
31:34 - What They Don't Tell You About Special Forces
41:53 - The Future of War Is Terrifying
51:59 - The Real Reason Men Are Falling Apart
56:04 - The Trauma Nobody Talks About
01:00:57 - The Drug Curing PTSD Overnight
01:06:34 - Why He Climbed Everest in 7 Days
01:22:19 - Buried Alive on the World's Highest Mountain
01:43:38 - What He Learned at 29,000 Feet
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17 April 2026, 11:16 am - 1 hour 12 minutesThe Problem With Being Honest: Ian Leslie
Ian Leslie joins James Smith to unpack the uncomfortable truth about honesty: we can't actually handle it. A bestselling author and host of the Where Shall We Meet podcast, Ian argues that lying isn't a bug in human nature but an evolutionary feature — the very thing responsible for our big brains, our creativity, and our capacity for art.
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James opens up about being honest with his employees, hiring a brutally candid editor for his next book, and how a rugby coach telling him he "played like shit" taught him more than any polite feedback ever could.
He explains:
◼️ Why lying is a sign of intelligence, creativity and empathy in children
◼️ How the online world breeds dishonesty
◼️ Why office politics is passive aggression at scale
◼️ How trust is the prerequisite for any productive disagreement
◼️ Why sport is civilisation's greatest cage for our warrior instincts
Chapters:
00:00 Why Lying Is Hardwired Into Our Intelligence
01:22 The Problem With Honesty Is We Can't Handle It
03:14 The Invention of Lying and Useful Deception
06:12 Why Lying Sits in Our Moral Grey Zone
08:37 When Your Child Should Start Lying to You
10:48 Autism, Theory of Mind and Honesty
12:01 Conformity as a Form of Social Lying
14:30 Self-Deception and the Lizard Brain
15:59 Cults, Ideologies and Online Group Lies
19:37 Interrogation Tricks and Cognitive Load
22:05 Telling Stories Backwards to Catch Liars
22:46 The Jiu-Jitsu Ringworm Test
25:18 Artists as Legitimised Liars
26:24 Bob Dylan's Reinvention and the Line Between Lying and Art
27:18 Embellishment, Storytelling and Social Incentives
28:50 Advertising as a Lie We Collude In
30:08 Dating Dynamics and Honesty With Women
32:29 Why Honesty Is Your Best Bet in the Long Run
34:09 The Woman Who Lied About Her Age
36:04 Botox, Makeup and Physical Deception
38:13 Height, Ethnicity and the Online Dating Filter
41:13 How Digital Breaks Humans Into Packets
41:56 Why Workplaces Are Full of Bullshit
44:14 Office Politics as Passive Aggression at Scale
45:06 James Getting Dropped From His Rugby Team
47:22 Hiring a Brutally Honest Editor
48:40 Trust as the Prerequisite for Honesty
50:00 The Two Channels of Every Difficult Conversation
52:19 Jiu-Jitsu, Conflict Resolution and Primal Urges
55:06 Sport as Civilisation's Substitute for War
57:37 Michael Jordan as a Roman Warrior
57:58 John Jones and the Beautiful Cage of MMA
58:24 The Ashes, the Barmy Army and Sportsmanship
01:00:24 The Gilded Cage of Rules and Norms
01:01:13 Zero-Sum Games and Honest Feedback
01:03:09 Why Participation Medals Miss the Point
01:05:16 Giving Brutal Feedback on Content
01:07:16 Have You Earned the Right to Be Honest?
01:08:26 Ian's Book: John and Paul — A Love Story in Songs
01:11:22 The Creative Power of Love
This conversation takes a candid look at why deception is woven into the fabric of human intelligence, the corrosive cost of workplaces where nobody says what they think, and the trust that has to exist before honesty can actually land. Ian's perspective on disagreement, creativity and the relationship channel beneath every argument offers a sharp counterpoint to James's trademark bluntness — and the result is a conversation that will change how you think about every hard conversation you've ever avoided.
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14 April 2026, 5:46 am - 1 hour 39 minutesThe Problem With Being Your Business: James Haskell
James Haskell joins James Smith for a brutally honest conversation about life after professional sport, the chaos of building multiple businesses, and what it actually takes to stay relevant when the game is over. A former England rugby star, Sunday Times bestselling author, and DJ, Haskell pulls no punches on the mental cost of reinvention — and why his obsession with performing has never really left him.
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James opens up about the fear of failure that drove him through rugby, the strange emptiness that follows success, and why 40 felt like the moment everything had to change. From DJing in a music industry that doesn't return emails, to launching Black Eye Gin with a £1.50-per-bottle charity model, to finally getting his testosterone tested — this one covers ground most people won't.
He covers:
◼️ Why being your own business is feast or famine — and how to future-proof it
◼️ The DJ career no one takes seriously (yet)
◼️ Building undeniable proof against self-doubt
◼️ Why catastrophising your future can be a legitimate motivational tool
◼️ What testosterone at level 3 actually feels like — and what TRT changed
◼️ The email list gap that's costing him (and you) real money
Chapters:
00:00 There Are a Lot of Lost Men Out There
01:23 The Problem With Being Your Own Business
03:22 Life After Rugby — Planning vs Panic
05:05 Finding What You Actually Want to Do
05:30 The DJ Career: 12 Years, 31 Records
07:22 MMA, Surgeries and the Body Paying the Price
09:24 Going Back to Basics in 2026
10:18 Why Haskell Got Into DJing
12:01 Building Undeniable Proof Against Self-Doubt
13:31 Imposter Syndrome, Evidence Bases and Therapy at 17
15:35 Creating Common Enemies as Motivation
18:06 Catastrophising as a Motivational Mechanism
18:44 Defining What Success Actually Looks Like
19:21 Why Very Wealthy Men Lose Their Money
20:01 The Rocky Montage Years: Fear of Failure as Fuel
20:52 Learning to Sit In the Moment
22:00 The Music Industry Is a Wild West Shambles
24:50 The 50 Cent Tour Story — Music vs Every Other Business
27:03 Drug Culture, Harm Reduction and the Honest Conversation
30:49 What He'd Tell His Daughter About Drugs
32:02 Social Media, Innocence and Raising Kids Today
33:39 Does Civilisation Correct Itself?
35:40 On Politics, Reform and Weak Leaders
37:13 Hair Transplants, Prince William and Shaving Your Head
39:14 The James Haskell Effect on Rugby Back Rows
41:47 Henry Pollock, Pranks and the England Camp
44:03 The Witch Teeth Prank at the Dentist
45:24 The 2007 World Cup — and Ronny Ring's Band of Brothers Moment
49:01 Maidenhead RFC, Getting Dropped and a Mate's Game of His Life
53:41 Black Eye Gin — The Charity, the Recipe and the Origin
57:06 Rugby, UFC and Sports That Don't Apologise for Themselves
59:55 Trying Neutonic for the First Time
01:01:05 Building an Event That Combines Sport, Music and Fitness
01:07:19 Peptides, BPC-157 and Healing a Torn Bicep
01:09:05 Testosterone at Level 3 — Getting on TRT
01:20:32 The Relevancy Trap and Running Active Businesses
01:22:38 The Infinity Pool Story — Getting the Balance Right
01:26:36 Why Haskell Doesn't Have an Email List (Yet)
01:27:46 The Email Marketing Masterclass He Didn't Ask For
01:37:57 What's Coming Next: Music, DJ Gigs and the Tequila Launch
This is one of those conversations that goes everywhere — rugby war stories, music industry chaos, drug policy, fatherhood, hormones, hair transplants, and the uncomfortable truth that being very good at performing doesn't automatically make you good at business. Haskell is funnier, more self-aware, and more switched-on than most people give him credit for — and this is the version of him you don't usually get to see.
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7 April 2026, 5:31 am - 1 hour 18 minutesThe Problem With Trying to Feel Better: Dr Julie Smith
Dr Julie Smith joins James Smith for a wide-ranging conversation on the psychology of emotion, mental health, and what it really means to feel better. A clinical psychologist and international bestselling author, Dr Smith dismantles the idea that difficult emotions are problems to be solved and challenges James on everything from catastrophising and shame-based motivation to the surprising emotional cost of success.
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James opens up about his experience of lockdown, being cut off from Australia, the relief (not happiness) of hitting major milestones, and why he uses financial goals as a psychological permission slip to keep overworking.
She explains:
◼️ Why wanting to feel better is sometimes part of the problem
◼️ How to recognise when distress is situational vs something deeper
◼️ The double standard we apply to ourselves vs others
◼️ Why self-compassion isn't weakness (it's the harder skill)
◼️ What status loss does to mental health and identity
Chapters:
00:00 The Problem With Trying to Feel Better
04:20 When Anxiety Means You're a Good Parent
07:23 Is Low Mood Situational or Something Deeper?
12:10 When Should You Actually Get Therapy?
13:52 James Being Locked Out of Australia
15:36 Not Feeling Like You Qualify for Help
17:34 The Workaholics Trap and Honest Feedback
18:45 Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy — Where Does Dr Smith Stand?
20:23 James's LSD Day in the Park
21:49 The Periodic Table of Emotions
27:12 Vulnerability, Fatherhood and Opening Up
29:08 Redefining Success Beyond the Metrics
32:26 Giving Good Advice You Don't Take Yourself
34:49 Severance and the Work-Life Split
38:07 The Hidden Cost of Living a Very Public Life
41:24 When Followers Tell You You've Saved Their Life
44:28 How a Relationship Changed James's Relationship With Work
45:13 Status, Mental Health and the Fear of Losing It
53:01 The Double Standard We Have for Ourselves
55:42 Using Financial Goals as a Coping Mechanism
57:28 Catastrophising as Motivation
01:00:04 Why Every Goal Feels Empty After You Hit It
01:02:51 Fear of Success vs Fear of Failure
01:08:30 The Journey Is the Point — Not Just the Outcome
01:09:18 Sneak Peek: Dr Smith's New Book
01:10:21 Generational Amnesia and the Young People of Today
01:15:08 Closing Takeaways: What Actually Helps
This conversation takes a candid look at the psychology behind overwork, the emotional emptiness that can follow achievement, and the courage required to actually let people in. Dr Smith's clinical perspective on self-compassion, attachment, and the standards we hold ourselves to offers a grounding counterweight to James's trademark candour — and the result is one of the most honest conversations on mental health the podcast has produced.
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31 March 2026, 10:16 am - 1 hour 29 minutesThe Problem With Self Sabotage: Connor Beaton (ManTalks)
Connor Beaton joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about self-sabotage. Far from being a simple lack of discipline, self-sabotage is a sophisticated survival strategy your brain uses to maintain control. Beaton explains why your psyche would rather choose a familiar disaster over an unfamiliar victory, keeping you locked in a cycle of destructive behavior to protect a fragile sense of identity.
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They dismantle the myth that dark motivation is a sustainable fuel for success and expose the biological cost of running on shame. From adoption trauma and attachment theory to the high-stakes world of elite performance, this conversation uncovers the invisible weights that stop men from being present in their own lives.
He explains:
◼️ Why your brain actively avoids healthy new habits
◼️ How shame-based fuel creates a performance ceiling
◼️ What happens when achievement replaces human connection
◼️ Why mastery and addiction share the same neurology
◼️ How radical transparency prevents relationship resentment
Chapters:
00:00 The Psychology of Working With Men
03:37 The Real Problem With Self-Sabotage
04:11 Sabotage as a Protective Strategy
05:37 James’ Experience With Wild Weekends
07:15 Reinforcing Your Negative Identity
08:06 Carl Jung and The Shadow
09:11 Why Your Brain Prefers Familiarity
11:16 The John Jones Sabotage Pattern
12:46 Relational Trauma and Attachment Issues
13:45 Breaking Your Nervous System Set Point
16:02 George St-Pierre on Real Courage
17:51 James' Battle With Cognitive Dissonance
19:52 The Truth About Cocaine Habits
23:00 High Performers and The Control Trap
24:18 Dark Motivation: Using Shame as Fuel
26:42 Why Success Often Feels Empty
27:23 James’ Story of Adoption and Spite
30:35 Shifting From Spite to Family
32:48 Dating Volume and Almond Croissants
35:43 Healing Trauma Through Your Children
43:43 Rebuilding Trust and True Intimacy
47:14 Addiction as an Attachment Issue
49:33 Mastery vs The Addictive Tendency
53:07 Learning to Let Go of Control
57:17 The Dangers of Mental Masturbation
59:12 Diminished Versions of Yourself
01:02:14 Learning to Choose Your Regrets
01:04:02 The Psychological Fear of Retirement
01:08:40 The Cost of Professional Relevancy
01:12:19 Communicating Trade-offs in Relationships
01:15:51 Modern Dating’s Silent Plague
01:17:46 Re-infusing Choice into Relationships
01:21:53 Navigating the Psychological Map
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24 March 2026, 6:23 am - 1 hour 15 minutesThe Problem With Perfectionism: Jonny Wilkinson
Rugby legend Johnny Wilkinson joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about the problem with perfectionism, why the pursuit of "perfect" is a quiet crisis that creates a dangerous lie of future salvation while destroying your current reality. Wilkinson explains how living in a constant state of survival and impending doom reshapes our biology and threatens the very essence of human potential.
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They discuss the myths around "mastery" being a finished destination, the toxic nature of avoiding failure, and the real reasons behind the mental time bomb that elite performance often hides. From the pressures of a World Cup final to the quiet struggle of starting a business, this episode explores how the need for control can break down the whole system of human performance.
We Cover:
⬛ Why Perfectionism is a Survival State not a Success Strategy
⬛ How the Myth of "Making It" Destroys Human Curiosity
⬛ Why Mastery Requires Self-Awareness over Mechanical Replication
⬛ How to Harness Pressure as Energy instead of Enduring it as Truth
⬛ What Happens when You Stop Chasing Outcomes and Start Healing the Gut
Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Harder Than a World Cup Penalty
00:32 Who Is Johnny Wilkinson?
01:19 What Is the Problem With Perfectionism?
03:01 Nobody's Perfect: Is the Journey the Point?
05:34 Regression to the Mean & the Pressure of Kicking
07:07 Martin Johnson, Teammates & Carrying the Weight
09:46 Pressure Is Just a Thought — Reframing It Entirely
12:29 The Bell Curve of Arousal in Sport
14:15 Growing Up in Survival Mode
16:43 Opening the Door to Yourself
19:14 Identity, Expectations & Tipping Over
20:40 Missing a Kick in Front of the England Camp
23:39 From Running Away to Owning the Space
25:51 One Living — Born From a Changing Room in Toulon
27:02 Why Johnny Started a Health Brand
31:37 When Your Body Can't Keep Up With Your Mind
34:48 One Living: The Rebrand Story
38:31 Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset in Business
40:45 Listening to Your Body Like You Listen to a Kick
43:30 Stress, Food Choices & What You Actually Want
49:06 What One Living Really Stands For
53:13 Opening Doors: The Philosophy Behind the Brand
57:44 The Virtue of Suffering — Is Misery Masculine?
59:16 Thoughts as Truths & the Stray Cat Problem
1:03:46 The Mind Gym: Switching Energy States
1:07:03 Cold Water, Nature & Resetting Your Energy
1:08:59 The One Living Shots Explained
1:11:39 Stop, Breathe, Drink: A Philosophy for Life
1:14:13 Closing Thoughts & Where to Find One Living
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10 March 2026, 6:00 am - 1 hour 38 minutesThe Problem With Finance Gurus: Michael Taylor
Michael Taylor, a professional trader and author, joins James to break down why most finance gurus are full of it. They discuss the red flags of get-rich-quick trading schemes, how brokers make money when you lose, and why Forex attracts scammers. Michael explains the difference between real investing and fake lifestyles, the dangers of blindly following trading signals, and why most people fail at currency trading. Whether you're thinking about investing in your 20s or deciding between paying off your mortgage versus building wealth through stocks, this conversation cuts through the BS and gives you real talk about money.
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Timestamps
00:00 Finance Gurus and Lamborghini Scams
00:12 Professional Trader Michael Taylor Interview
00:24 Casino Risk Management vs Trading
01:07 Problems with Fake Finance Influencers
02:32 Chauffeur Knowledge and Information Replication
03:55 Broker Commission Models Explained
05:06 Red Flags in Trading Education
06:13 Forex vs Stock Market Fundamentals
09:04 Why Forex Trading Is Dangerously Hard
10:15 Survivorship Bias in Finance Content
11:50 Mortgage Payoff vs Stock Investment
12:16 Calculated Risk and Personal Finance
14:02 Global Equities Beat Interest Rates
15:21 Why People Avoid Financial Education
16:12 Wealthy People Talk About Money Differently
17:44 Taking Responsibility for Your Finances
18:36 James Smith's Investment Journey Begins
19:07 Getting Lucky in the Stock Market
20:54 Borrowing Money to Invest Early
22:33 Finding Your Sweet Spot in Stocks
23:24 Balance Sheet Analysis for Beginners
25:46 Shorting Businesses and Ethics
27:26 Identifying Cash Flow Problems Early
28:40 Bitcoin and Cryptocurrency Allocation
31:23 Long-Term Investing vs Day Trading
32:03 Social Media as Interest Savings Account
32:22 2008 Financial Crisis Impact
34:34 Market Crashes Create Opportunities
36:11 Pandemic Trading During Market Chaos
37:45 First Steps for New Investors
39:05 Picking Individual Stocks Strategy
40:25 Emotional Investment Decisions
41:31 Tax-Efficient Investment Accounts UK
44:02 Lifetime ISA Government Top-Up
45:04 State Pension Won't Exist
46:36 Compounding Interest Over Decades
51:04 Warren Buffett Started at 15
52:40 Starting Late at 35
54:20 Inflation Erodes Purchasing Power
55:11 Fiscal Drag and Wage Stagnation
56:00 Property Ladder vs Stock Market
57:06 Stamp Duty Killing UK Stock Market
59:18 IPO Market Decline in UK
01:00:17 Making LSE Attractive for Listings
01:02:07 Class of 2020 IPO Disasters
01:03:35 Reviving the UK Stock Market
01:05:28 Boring Businesses Make Real Money
01:06:03 Newborn Investment Fund Idea
01:07:05 Private School vs Index Funds
01:09:10 Spending Strategy and Fun Money
01:11:02 Business vs Personal Investment Accounts
01:16:03 Main Dos and Don'ts of Investing
01:20:04 Delayed Settlement Promotes Gambling
01:22:17 Intraday Trading Is Mostly Gambling
01:27:25 Supporting Small Businesses Locally
01:33:46 How to Make Six Figures Book
01:35:16 Klarna Buy Now Pay Later Problems
01:37:50 Building Wealth Through Solid Businesses
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3 March 2026, 6:00 am - 1 hour 43 minutesThe Problem With Net Zero: Konstantin Kisin
Konstantin Kisin joins James Smith to discuss the problem with Net Zero, a quiet crisis where ideological virtue signaling is actively making the West poor, weak, and strategically irrelevant.
Kisin explains how our obsession with carbon metrics functions as a dangerous accounting trick that exports British industry to China while gaslighting citizens into accepting a lower standard of living. They strip back the myths of modern activism to expose a deeper civilizational time bomb: a generation suffering from historical amnesia and a lack of meaning, now being incentivised toward economic suicide by a government that prioritizes "waffle" over the survival of its own industrial base.
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We cover:
⬛ Why Net Zero is an accounting trick that exports emissions and imports poverty
⬛ The "Status Game" behind climate activism and doomsday narratives
⬛ How the welfare state traps young men in a cycle of dependency and video games
⬛ Why mass immigration is used to conceal the reality of a shrinking economy
⬛ The urgent need to prioritize cheap, reliable energy over ideological virtue signals
Timestamps:
00:00 Net Zero's Economic and Geopolitical Failures
05:42 Energy Prices and Carbon Accounting Illusions
07:18 Why Ideologies Appeal to Lost Generations
10:00 Status Games Drive Activist Movements
12:22 Greta Thunberg and Incentive Structures
15:13 Personal Branding and Business Mentorship
16:21 Historical Amnesia and Educational Gaps
19:03 Travel Exposes Western Privilege and Safety
22:30 Direction of Travel Matters More Than Absolutes
25:03 Parasites Need Problems to Solve
31:33 Soviet Subversion and Western Self-Destruction
34:38 Israel-Palestine Through an Ideological Lens
37:53 Ukraine Support and European Weakness
41:03 National Pride Erosion and Military Service
45:00 Podcast Success Takes Years of Investment
51:34 Welfare Dependency Traps Young Men
58:01 Video Games Cannot Replace Real Life Achievement
1:02:15 Long-Form Conversations Change Political Discourse
1:09:06 Police Officers Make Split-Second Life-Death Decisions
1:23:25 Economic Solutions: Energy, Taxes, and Growth
1:28:30 Illegal Immigration and British Values
1:34:21 Integration Over Diversity Politics
1:39:50 Wealthy Brits Leaving Due to Cultural Hostility
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