The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Jamie Scrimgeour
- 53 minutes 41 secondsWhat F You Money Really Is & Why Every Woman Needs it, RHOBH Tea, Don't Date Broke Dudes with Pattie Ehsaei
Women's financial expert and the author of Never Date a Broke Dude Pattie Ehsaei joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to shift your perspective on finances, self worth and how to get what you financially deserve as a stepmom.
Pattie gives her thoughts on being financially dependent on men, why all women need 'F*** You Money', the real work and strategies necessary to manifest money, the importance of being 'financially intimate' with your partner, and even why RHOBH is such a great case study for financial relationship red flags.
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20 April 2026, 9:00 am - 46 minutes 6 secondsEmotions Stepmoms Are Afraid To Admit, Feeling Like An Outsider & The Childless Stepmom Experience with The Sober Stepmom
This week's episode is for every stepmom who has ever felt something and immediately felt guilty for feeling it. Jen from The Sober Stepmom joins me this week and we go there. Jealousy, grief, nervous system overload, the control trap. All of it. This is the conversation I wished I'd had years ago. Here's what we cover, but honestly, just go listen. This one got personal fast. In this week's episode, Jen and I discuss:
- How becoming a stepmom inspired Jen's journey with sobriety
- The emotions that catch stepmoms completely off guard and why feeling them doesn't make you a bad person
- Jealousy in the stepmom role, what it actually is and why so many stepmoms carry shame around it
- The nervous system science behind why stepmoms feel so on edge, especially around transition days
- Grief that stepmoms never name and how it shows up sideways when you least expect it
- The unique experience of the childless stepmom, including Jen's raw and honest take on navigating infertility while stepparenting
- Why trying to control everything in your blended family is quietly costing you more than you realize
- How to create space between the feeling and your reaction and why that gap is where your power lives
- Practical nervous system regulation tools you can actually use in real stepmom moments
I think this one is going to stay with you.
Find Jen on Instagram @the_sober_stepmom
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13 April 2026, 9:00 am - 1 hour 1 minuteStep-Parenting Teenagers, Blended Family Finances + Conversations You Need To Have With Emily Bouchard
Step-family advisor, speaker and author Emily Bouchard joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to dive into step-parenting teens, navigating money conversations in blended family estates, effective approaches for teaching healthy money habits to your kids, and important conversations you need to have to improve your stepfamily dynamic.
For more from Emily:
https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/
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6 April 2026, 9:00 am - 1 hour 3 minutesWhy Stepmoms Take Everything Personally and the Shift That Changes Your Relationship With Your Stepchildren with Laurie Oakes
Intuitive coach and stepmom Laurie Oakes joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to discuss the positive changes she's experienced in her stepmom life through her coaching work with Jamie.
Laurie will share how shifts in her perspectives and expectations led her to less stress, more harmony in her home, and stronger relationships with her stepkids and her husband. Plus, she'll share about her work as a medium and intuitive coach.
Learn more about Laurie's work:
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30 March 2026, 9:00 am - 41 minutes 11 secondsMoney Mindset, A Convo With A Prostitute, Child Support Mentality
On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast Jamie discusses all things money mindset - and how your money mindset might be affecting your stepmom life.
Jamie shares how her money mindset has evolved over the years, knowing your worth, how the money stories we were told as children affect our outlook on money as adults, and how a healthy money mindset can make all the difference when you're navigating common stepmom challenges like child and spousal support.
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23 March 2026, 9:00 am - 23 minutes 45 secondsMy Biggest Stepmom Regrets and What Stepmoms Need to Stop Feeling Bad About
Stepmom guilt can quietly keep you stuck, second-guessing yourself and making a complicated role even more complicated. In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie shares what stepmoms need to stop feeling guilty about, plus her biggest stepmom regrets. If she could go back, these are the things she would do differently.
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16 March 2026, 9:00 am - 51 minutes 30 secondsRebuilding After Divorce, When Kids Don't Blend, Navigating Major Life Transitions with Joanna from Nesting Story
On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast parenting blogger and life transition coach Joanna Fowler of Nesting Story joins Jamie to discuss divorce, blending families, and the power of self-confidence.
Joanna will share how she navigated her divorce while being a well-known parenting blogger, the challenges she experienced when she stepped into the role of stepmom and blended families with her new husband, and how self-confidence, systems, and doing it her own way have made all the difference.
Check out Joanna's first episode on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast:
https://jamiescrimgeour.com/podcast/130/
Learn more about Joanna and her coaching:
https://nestingstory.ca/coaching/
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9 March 2026, 9:00 am - 53 minutes 32 secondsStepmom Insecurity Made Me Shop, Finding Your Style, Shopping With Intention with Hannah Blass of The Style Audit
Hannah Blass from @thestyleaudit joins Jamie on the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to share how to shift from compulsive shopping to healthier financial habits through embracing intentional style.
Hannah will share how her own compulsive shopping journey led her to wake up to the ways that social media, societal pressures, and negative stereotypes of women inform our shopping habits. You'll hear practical strategies to build a more authentic wardrobe and maintain a healthier money mindset, all while keeping your love of fashion alive.
Check out more from Hannah on Instagram @thestyleaudit
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2 March 2026, 10:00 am - 38 minutes 11 secondsSolo: Lessons From A Nude Beach, Weight Loss, A Breakdown, A Business Plan, and a New Season of Stepmotherhood
On today's episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast Jamie gives a life update on her 40th birthday, the realities of being a stepmom to adult stepkids, going all in on the podcast, and more.
She'll give you insight into how to reset your life and goals if you're feeling overwhelmed, how to ensure that your stepkids will want to visit when they're adults, her health and wellness approach now that she's 40, and why 2026 is the year that The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is going bigger than ever before.
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23 February 2026, 10:00 am - 51 minutes 24 secondsCodependency, Resentment + Communicating That You're Taking A Step Back with Erika Wright
Codependency counselor Erika Wright joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to help you untangle the codependency patterns that are keeping you stuck in stepmom life - overgiving, overfunctioning, and losing yourself in relationships. Erika's straight shooting style will leave you feeling empowered to regain your self trust and integrity in relationships.
Today you'll hear about what codependency is and how it forms, why truth is the key to unraveling codependent patterns, how women are societally conditioned to prioritize others, how to tell the difference between healthy boundaries and codependency, and much more.
Connect with Erika:
https://www.instagram.com/erikawrighthcd/?hl=en
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16 February 2026, 10:00 am - 56 minutes 21 secondsLoyalty Binds, Co-Parenting Mistakes and Reconnection With Your Stepkids/The Ex with Jody Carrington
In this week's episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews renowned psychologist Dr. Jody Carrington. Jody has a no-nonsense and candid approach backed by her clinical knowledge, it's that combination that makes her one of our favourite guests.
Join them for an unfiltered conversation on life in your 40s, parenting and anxiety in the digital age, the power of reconnection, loyalty binds and what's really going on for our kids in transitions, and how we can use acknowledgement and reconnection to improve the mom stepmom relationship
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