Love, Dating & Relationship support, guidance, advice and tips with Lyn Smith – The Queen of HEARTS.
Lyn examines how best to approach first dates and the common mistakes people make when evaluating potential partners, focussing upon the importance of not dismissing someone after just one meeting, especially if overall there was a feel good vibe.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"Sometimes on first dates, people are very nervous... there might not automatically be chemistry and sparks flying to start with."
"If you've had a good time... it doesn't mean that it can't happen further down the line."
"What do you feel about yourself after that date? If there's loads of negatives and red flags, fair enough, no second date."
"It does take more than a first date to get to know somebody properly, doesn't it?"
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn welcomes special guest Chelsea Ann, author of "The Feminine Effect." Chelsea shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and the importance of returning to our feminine nature. Drawing from her personal experiences, including her marriage and subsequent divorce, she discusses the societal pressures that lead women to adopt more masculine traits, often at the expense of their emotional and spiritual well-being.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"You're not in your nature as a woman. That's what you're missing."
"If we were just more in our authentic nature... we can then heal mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually."
"We don't need to keep ruining our lives to try to touch into that."
"We don't appreciate them. We don't say, thank you. We're always looking for lack."
ABOUT THE GUEST - Chelsea Ann - Women's Health Practitioner/ Author
Chelsea Ann, MSN, FNP, a Board-Certified Nurse Practitioner, integrative medicine and women’s health practitioner, modern healer, and podcast host.
Chelsea Ann’s mission is to take women back to their authenticity—to who they really are—she does this by asking women to feel and see her life as she did: a life that has taken her from the extremes of poverty and wealth, of great fear and power, of divorce and death, and finally into laughter and joy and unconditional love.
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn looks at the complex and controversial topic of trans and self-identification. Drawing from her personal experiences and extensive research, Lyn expresses her concerns about gender dysphoria and what's been offered as a one treatment fits all 'trans' pathway (transition to look/ identify as the opposite sex) solution, and the harrowing implications, particularly on young children and adolescents.
She discusses the potential risks associated with transitioning, including mental health issues, irreversible sexual function, sterilisation and the permanent removal of healthy body parts.
Lyn also raises the alarm on predetory male perpetrators who are exploiting self identity/ trans to gain accessibility to women/ girls private spaces and sports.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
1. Homosexual transsexuals, who may transition due to gender dysphoria or traumatic childhood experiences, and
2. Autogenophiles, men who have a sexual fetish related to seeing themselves as female.
BEST MOMENTS
"I think this is an area in our lives at the minute which is leaving the door open for predatory men to be able to access vulnerable women and girls."
"There are lots of reasons why people and children in particular, might suffer from gender dysphoria, especially through their vulnerable years of adolescence and puberty."
"What comes after that? Certainly, possibly surgeries, where for boys that can lead to them having their genitals removed."
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn talks to Jeffrey Nuziard, a sexual health and wellness expert and the developer of the patented RegenMax treatment.
Jeffrey shares his personal, devastating experience with erectile dysfunction (ED) that began in his 40s, which ultimately led him on a 15-year quest to find a genuine cure. He explains the root cause of physical ED is not poor blood flow (as conventional medicine suggests), but rather the degeneration of collagen in the penile tissue due to dropping testosterone levels as men and women age
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"I discovered that everybody says [poor] blood flow is the cause of erectile dysfunction, but it’s not."
"Losing testosterone activates the ageing process."
"The first thing that your body shuts down is our production of collagen."
"Our bodies are able to regenerate themselves... that’s how we were designed."
ABOUT THE GUEST - Jeffrey Nuziard - Sexual Health & Wellness Expert
Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial.
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/
Website - https://regenmax.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
This deeply personal episode explores the phases of emotional detachment within a relationship, specifically from a woman's perspective, using a powerful analogy of an emotional "bank account."
Lyn shares her own experiences across two long-term relationships, detailing five stages—from the initial unconscious observation of negative feelings to the final, total emotional and physical withdrawal
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"Neither relationship was a toxic relationship... but it just got to the stage where we were on different paths and the relationships had run their course."
"What I noticed is that, first and foremost, I was observing myself, but not actually consciously at the time... that I was silently observing, certain feelings... like disappointment, feeling unfulfilled."
"Unconsciously, you start to stop communicating, and this can have a draining effect, it can really be a phase where you're feeling exhausted and frustrated."
"I suppose in hindsight, I realise now that these things were going on, but I felt powerless to actually stop the train now that it was pulling out the station, so to speak."
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn talks to family law expert and retired judge Peggy Walsh about the challenges of high-conflict co-parenting, offering strategies for separating couples to resolve disputes and prioritise their child's well-being.
Peggy focusses upon the fact that the people who love the child are best suited to make decisions, not a judge or "stranger," and explains that intense conflict often arises when deep, intimate relationships end
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"The people who love the child are the best people to make decisions about him/ her."
"If you don't want a stranger to make decisions about your life, you don't want a stranger to make decisions about your child's life."
"They stop talking about that person, they gain the power of, well, where is the attention focused? I want to talk about my kid and the good things that are happening with my kid, or I want to talk about my life."
"You're also setting examples for children. When you stay in a relationship that you don't want to stay in, that's what they're going to think about when they are in that place too."
ABOUT THE GUEST - Peggy Walsh - Family Law Expert Peggy Walsh is a retired family court and state Supreme Court judge. Before she became a judge, she represented people in divorce custody and other litigation. Peggy is a New York-licensed attorney but has chosen to stay out of the courtroom because there are better ways of resolving disputes.
During her eighteen years on the bench—fourteen in family court and four in supreme court handling matrimonial cases—she witnessed firsthand how court proceedings can inflict irreparable damage on both children
and adults. More importantly, Peggy learned that this suffering is often
preventable.
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/peggy-walsh-1a5b2133
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/peggy.walsh.558076?_rdc=1&_rdr#
Website - https://thecoparentcoach.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn sits down with Daniel Ryan, "the family law guy," to discuss a difficult topic: what happens when couples reach the point of separation and divorce?
Daniel, a family law practitioner & relationship expert shares his unique perspective on a legal system that he says often unnecessarily turns breakups into battlefields.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"The approach you're currently taking is perhaps not the most appropriate one, and you're not really thinking about your children."
"My remit is not to destroy one of you."
"I am on second and third generation clients, where I think, 'Oh yeah, I did your mum's divorce,' and here I am doing yours."
"All children have an absolute right to a fantastic childhood."
ABOUT THE GUEST - Daniel Ryan - Family Law Expert
Daniel Ryan is the voice behind That Family Law Guy, a candid and compassionate advocate for parents navigating the storm of separation, custody battles, and domestic abuse conflict. He provides unfiltered expertise with real-world impact.
Daniel brings many years of frontline experience supporting families through divorce, custody, and domestic conflict—without hiding behind legal jargon. His no-nonsense, story-driven approach helps audiences truly understand the human cost of family breakdown and what they can do to navigate it more wisely.
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100073234334134 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/that_family_law_guy YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThatFamilyLawGuy Website - https://www.mckenziepicave.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn talks to Wonder Wendy, a podcaster dedicated to providing open-source programming for the human mind, about the concept of "riding the next wave of life," particularly for women, emphasising the importance of resilience and adaptability in each phase.
Wendy shares her personal journey, including her experiences with marriage, motherhood, and the lessons learned from each chapter of her life, and discusses how challenges can lead to growth and self-discovery.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"I just want to help people live better lives, what I call the wonderful bucket list life, and be the fullest person they can be, especially at this point in my life."
"If you make someone's life too easy, you don't let them fight a little bit; they don't develop the necessary strength they need to be their best self."
"The best way to ride the next wave is to both be alert and open. You need to position yourself so that you're ready for those challenges."
"I realised I need time alone... if I can't bring it all back in and shut down every so often, that's where I draw my energy."
ABOUT THE GUEST
Wonder Wendy: The Imperfect Prophet
Wonder Wendy doesn't just talk about living boldly—she embodies it. At 59, she's rappelling off nine-story buildings, hosting podcasts from hotel rooms in Paris, and proving that your most wonder-full life isn't behind you but waiting for you now.
As the host of The Imperfect Prophet, Wonder Wendy delivers unfiltered wisdom to women aged 40-65 who refuse to let their lives get smaller. Her podcast isn't just content—it's open-source help for the soul, offering prophetic messages that come from a place even she doesn't fully understand. With her signature blend of spiritual insight, practical wisdom, and fearless authenticity, she gives women permission to age boldly, not quietly.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wonder.wench
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wonderfullbucketlistlife
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wonderwendyfarrell
Website - https://wonderwendyandfriends.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
Contact Method [email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn discusses how masculine and feminine energy works in the dynamic of a romantic relationship, highlighting how societal conditioning sometimes leads women to (often unconsciously) exude more masculine energy in their lives, and the impact this may have on their romantic relationships. Lyn explains the significance of being aware of how masculine & feminine energy affects our behaviours and results, so we can have/ attract healthier relationships with more intimacy, passion and fulfillment.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
There is a difference between masculine & feminine energy, masculine energy is associated with doing, thinking and action, while feminine energy is about being, intuition, and flow.
Women may default into masculine energy as a protection mechanism due to past traumas or heartbreaks. This can hinder their ability to attract healthy masculine energy partners
It's important for individuals to become more aware of their behaviours and how they show up in relationships. Some women need to shift from a mindset of needing to control to one of 'letting go' to help nuture healthier connections.
Feeling feminine is personal and varies from woman to woman. It’s essential to identify what makes YOU feel more feminine, whether it’s through activities, clothing, accessories, or personal grooming
BEST MOMENTS
"The masculine and feminine energy dynamic really plays a huge part in the success of our relationships."
"If we've had past trauma and heartbreaks, it's quite common for women to default into masculine energy as protection."
"The feminine energy is all about relinquishing control."
"Be aware that if you've not done the work on yourself, then you might need to delve into doing some of that to actually heal."
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now loving herself & being fulfilled, which makes her feel alive, full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
CONTACT METHOD
[email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn welcomes Dr. Alexia Harrigan, a powerhouse physical therapist and founder of Pelvis Power PT. Together, they delve into the crucial topic of women's health, specifically focusing on menopause and the intimacy challenges that can arise during this phase. Dr. Lexie shares her personal journey into pelvic health physical therapy, highlighting the importance of addressing pelvic pain and bladder issues that many women suffer with in silence. With over 20 years of experience, she emphasizes the significance of open communication with healthcare providers and partners, as well as the benefits of pelvic floor physical therapy
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Many women suffer from pelvic pain and intimacy challenges after childbirth, often feeling guilt and shame. It's important to recognise that these issues can be treated and are not just a normal part of being a woman.
Practicing diaphragmatic breathing can help improve pelvic floor function and reduce tension. This technique involves deep breathing that engages the diaphragm, promoting relaxation and coordination of pelvic floor muscles.
Open communication with partners about intimacy challenges is crucial. Sharing preferences and concerns can lead to better experiences and help partners understand how to provide support.
Hormonal changes during perimenopause and menopause can lead to intimacy challenges, such as decreased lubrication and pain during intercourse. Women may need to use more lubrication and engage in more foreplay to enhance comfort.
BEST MOMENTS
"We don't have to live life with leakage. We don't have to live life with pelvic pain... just because we're women, that doesn't mean we can't get treatment and live our best lives."
"When those hormones decrease... the quality of the tissues... gets more fragile. They're not as plump, they're not as strong, they're not as springy."
"Diaphragmatic breathing can help re-coordinate that pelvic floor function and also exercise those muscles."
"I think a lot of women are suffering in silence over this... we don't really know how to address it in terms of knowing that it can actually be relieved."
ABOUT THE GUEST - Dr. Alexia “Lexi” Harrigan
Dr. Alexia “Lexi” Harrigan, PT, DPT is the founder of Pelvis Power PT, a
concierge physical therapy practice based in the DFW metroplex. With 20 years of experience, she specializes in women’s pelvic health, chronic pain
management, and oncology rehab.
Dr. Lexi is passionate about educating and empowering women to take radical ownership of their health. She is also the author of Sunny with a Chance of Showers: A Story of Love, Loss, and Hope, a heartfelt memoir blending personal grief with resilience and healing.
Website: https://www.pelvispower.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/DrLexiHarrigan
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
CONTACT METHOD
[email protected]
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Lyn welcomes back loving relationship mentor and author Barbara Magro Berg to discuss her book, The Science of Attracting Your Soulmate. Barbara shares her personal journey from a challenging divorce to finding lasting love, emphasising the importance of self-discovery and emotional healing by using self-help techniques such as EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique also known as tapping) and journaling.
The conversation delves into the significance of admitting one's desires for love, the impact of societal conditioning on relationships, and the power of thoughts in manifesting a soulmate.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"I think the first thing is to admit to yourself that this is what you really want and not to be ashamed of it."
"Thoughts become things. If you think you can't, you can't. If you think you can, you can."
"When we have trauma in our youth, our soul actually fractures."
"I think quite a lot of us do get conditioned by our environment, whether that's our parents, our friendship groups, the media that we consume."
"You set your intention for what you want. You admit to yourself that you want love and that you're deserving of it."
ABOUT THE GUEST
Barbara Magro Berg - Loving Relationship Mentor & Author
From the outside, it looked like Barbara had created a dream life with a successful career in the travel publishing industry that included frequent international trips, many wonderful friends, and a close family. Yet on the inside, something was missing, and she yearned for a special man to share her life with.
After being encouraged by family and friends for many years to “give up on finding love” and appreciate the positive aspects her life already held, at the age of 59, her heartfelt dream of attracting and marrying her soulmate came true! By this time Barbara had been single for 20+ years and finally, her desire to love and be loved was achieved by mastering a set of scientific and spiritual principles.
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/571693563724261
Email [email protected]
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.
CONTACT METHOD
This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/