Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico.

Episode Highlights:

• Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica.
• Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure.
• Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally.
• Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important.
• Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation.

Key Takeaways:

• Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo.
• The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options.
• Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles!
• Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip.

Links & Resources:

• Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com
• Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com
• Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube

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But wait...there's more!

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media.

Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

One Size Fits All?

Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate!

Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events.

We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round.

Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate.
• [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned.
• [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect.
• [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out!
• [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags.
• [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication.
• [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit.
• [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you.
• [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks.
• [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success.

Special Guest:

• Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com.

Resources & Links:

• Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com
• Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com
• Libertine Events: libertineevents.com
• Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie

Contact:

• Email: [email protected]

Support the Show:

• Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources.

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

Podcast Title:
Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About

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Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content.

With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month!

Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered.

Keywords:
AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news

Show Notes:

00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer
Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode.

03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle
The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle.

12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II
Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique.

20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained
Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content.

What is AVS?
Which states are affected?
The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work
International implications (UK, EU, etc.)

40:00 – The Real-World Impact
Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire.

Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs
The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites

55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility
Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation.

Tips for parents
The importance of sex-positive education

1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month
Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite.

1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved
Links and organizations mentioned:

Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/
Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/
Contact your representatives

1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger

Website: casualswinger.com
Email: [email protected]
Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy
Event info: casualswingerweek.com

Support the Show:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media.

Links & Resources Mentioned:

Free Speech Coalition
Age Verification Policy
Hedonism II
The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast

Disclaimer:
This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.

In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion.

Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging.

With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences.


www.casualswingerweek.com

www.wanderlustswingers.com

www.thexclub.net

www.hedonism.com

www.libertineevents.com

In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town.

The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating.

Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene.

Links

Casual Swinger Week

Libertine Events

The X Club

Well, it's been a while!

Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why.  We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up.

Not with each other!  With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it.

Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon!

Hedonism II

Casual Swinger Week

Libertine Events

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Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2

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In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts.

Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2.

00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger

01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures

02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week

04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights

07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience

17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica

31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager

39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises

40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info

41:40 Introduction to David Graham

42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2

43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts

52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2

56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges

01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events

01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff

01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts

Casual Swinger Week

Casual Toys

Hedonism II

IOS Connections

Fluffernutters

Rachal's Rebels

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People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.  

Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn."

In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode!

Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH!

Links:

Casual Toys

Casual Swinger Week

Vedo Toys

Wicked Sensual Care

Uberlube

XR Brands/Creature Cocks

Coochy Shave Cream

NS Novelties

Podcast-A-Palooza

Hedonism II

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The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it?

Links

Casual Toys
Naughty Gym

Be Better @ Being Bad Week

Casual Swinger Week

Hedonism II Resort

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Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it.

What's the origin of the d!ck pic?  Why do guys keep sending them?
Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them?  (Pardon the pun)

Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients.

Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger!

Bonus!

The whiskey of the month is BACK!
Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish!


Links:

Expansive Connection

Casual Toys

Casual Swinger Week

Dirty Perv Week

Fluffernutters

Hedonism II

IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine

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"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days.  The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle.

In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles:

1) As content creators ourselves
2) As event promoters
3) And finally, as a lifestyle couple

Spoiler alert...we don't agree!  

Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world!


Links:

Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II

Hedonism II

Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II

Casual Toys
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