If we've heard it once, we've heard it a million times: "Cliques in the lifestyle are a problem!" Is that the case? As two self-proclaimed non-joiners, we dissect the world of cliques in the lifestyle, when they can be of value, and when they become downright toxic. Plus, what's the most common form of gatekeeping in the hotwife lifestyle?

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After several months of no play in the lifestyle, we have started to ponder one important question: Are we even still in the lifestyle? We discuss what it means to take a hiatus, why we personally aren't sure how or when to re-enter the lifestyle, and our plans for FPS as we move forward. 

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Men online love to talk a big game about their standards and preferences when it comes to whom they will engage with sexually. But from hosting hundreds of lifestyle events, we can tell you that most of those standards go RIGHT out the window when these guys are interacting with women in-person. So it begs the question, why are women so concerned about male validation if it's all BS anyway?

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As a special treat for Episode 400, we thought it would be soooo fun to each go back and listen to one of our episodes from years past. But the little social experiment was anything but fun. Instead, we saw glimpses into very different versions of ourselves, versions we were not necessarily thrilled about. Listen to this episode to find out why!

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For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of distraction and escapism. In this episode, we get VERY honest about how chasing validation and excitement left us feeling emptier than ever. A darker side of ENM that others wouldn't dare to tell you about... And how we're fixing it now!

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As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual for all, other instances had us questioning if group play rooms are the "perfect" place for predatory behavior... 

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We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the lifestyle? And what happens if that marketing goes just a little too far, into the territory of being straight-up dishonest? We discuss this, plus one HELLUVA dick show we went to...

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It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us questioning.... When is it ok to be a little selfish in the lifestyle? And more importantly, when can that selfishness go a little too far? 

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A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take! 

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We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you call it? All of that and much more discussed on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast. 

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Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your mind and play in the lifestyle. We share our opinions on this, including the pros and cons to "pre-consent." 

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