Crystal Paine Show
Crystal Paine
- 41 minutes 14 seconds291. Breaking the Patterns That Break You (with Tori Hope Peterson)
Tori Hope Petersen is the author of the book Breaking the Patterns That Break You: Healing from the Pain of Your Past and Finding Real Hope That Lasts! Tori’s journey is nothing short of inspiring! In our conversation, she opens up about growing up in the foster care system, dealing with trauma, and the powerful transformation that began when she truly understood God’s love for her.
Tori shares how having broken free from patterns of self-doubt and striving for approval became so integral to her healing, and we discuss the unspoken lies that we often believe about ourselves and how those beliefs shape the way we live. Tori reflects on how recognizing these patterns, such as the need to prove our worth or seek validation from others, can be the first step toward truly finding healing and freedom from limiting beliefs and lies. She also offers up some practical advice on how to stop living to prove ourselves and start living from a place of knowing that we are unconditionally loved.
This episode of the show is for anyone who has struggled and/or is struggling with feelings of unworthiness or been caught in the vicious cycle of seeking validation from others. Tori’s story and wisdom encourages you to stop trying to earn God’s love and instead embrace the truth of how God did a good job of making you! I can almost guarantee you are going to walk away from this episode feeling encouraged and inspired!
In This Episode
[0:35] - Tori shares how we first connected -- something I'd completely forgotten about!
[2:34] - Growing up in foster care, Tori struggled with feeling unworthy until she embraced God’s love.
[5:28] - Tori feels that Christians often mistake self-hatred for humility but that honoring God’s creation isn’t prideful.
[6:37] - We learn that Tori's upbringing taught her that love had to be earned, but she has since learned that it’s freely given.
[9:36] - Therapy, writing, and mentors helped Tori process trauma and overcome fears of repeating abuse.
[12:59] - I discuss someone having asked me recently how to identify and unpack their negative thoughts.
[13:25] - Reading and hearing others’ stories helps Tori reflect, grow, and better understand herself.
[14:45] - Tori's new book reinterprets familiar ideas to help trauma survivors embrace God’s love.
[17:42] - Understanding God’s love as personal transformed Tori's relationships and helped break unhealthy cycles
[22:20] - A savior complex can stem from personal wounds rather than pure intentions to help others.
[24:44] - Tori points out that God's approval frees us from seeking validation.
[27:21] - Tori has learned to assume the best in people, despite past trauma.
[29:24] - For Tori, encouraging her kids' potential means balancing high expectations while also allowing them individuality.
[32:07] - Hear how an unexpected apology helped Tori appreciate a flawed but ultimately safe and supportive program.
[34:39] - Tori shares that she and her husband prioritize apologizing, believing that it encourages reflection and accountability in others.
[36:05] - Sharing our stories can lead to healing and connection.
[38:28] - I encourage people to read Tori’s first book Fostered before Breaking the Patterns That Break You.
Links & Resources
Books
Love-Centered Parenting: The No-Fail Guide to Launching Your Kids by Crystal Paine
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I loved getting to have Annie F. Downs back on the podcast again! Annie’s new children’s book, Where Did TJ Go?, was written as a practical resource to help kids better understand and process grief.
Grief can be a heavy topic, but this episode isn’t all dark and gloomy, trust me! We start out with a funny discussion on Bone Broth Hot Cocoa (yes, for real!) and how to not have it taste like chocolate beef. Plus, protein and getting older and even menopause. 🙂
And then we move to Annie sharing her unexpected journey of writing this book and walking the road of losing her precious nephew, TJ. I appreciate Annie sharing so openly about the deep loss and challenges and also the beautiful moments of TJ’s life. We discuss how to better love others who are going through grief and loss and some of the hardest parts of this experience for Annie personally.
This is truly an emotional yet uplifting conversation that reminds us all of the importance of holding space for both grief and joy and supporting each other through life’s most difficult moments and you will not want to miss this conversation. I also highly recommend Annie’s new book, Where Did TJ Go?: A Book for Kids on Grief and Loss!
In This Episode
[0:35] – I welcome my friend Anne F. Downs back to the show!
[1:45] – Annie shares having mistakenly bought the wrong bone broth for a hot chocolate recipe, resulting in beef flavored hot cocoa. 🙂
[7:25] – Cottage cheese, protein, good intentions, and menopause.
[9:06] – The inspiration behind Where Did TJ Go?
[11:53] – Unable to find resources for grieving children, Annie wrote Where Did TJ Go? for her nephew Sam, TJ’s brother.
[14:39] – TJ miraculously survived for 56 days! Annie shares some of his life and memories with him.
[20:06] – I talk about losing two siblings as a child.
[23:03] – Annie points out some beautiful things illustrator Jenny Poh included in the book.
[25:35] – I compare The Hope of Heaven to Where Did TJ Go?, appreciating their shared message of hope.
[29:36] – Annie reflects on having signed over 300 bookplates in loving memory and recognizing families’ need for remembering their loved ones by name.
[31:49] – Annie sees how TJ’s death reshaped her family and her perspective.
[34:30] – Hear how grief overwhelmed Annie after TJ’s death but that writing the book helped her process it.
[37:07] – Although she is still grieving, Annie finds healing in writing and trusting that pain can have a purpose.
[40:22] – It’s important to continually check on grieving friends, even years after the loss.
[42:04] – Comparing TJ to a friend’s child was difficult, but the book’s personal details bring comfort.
Links & Resources
The Crystal Paine Show – 246. The Best Way to Encourage Your Single Friends
Books
Where Did TJ Go?: A Book for Kids on Grief and Loss by Annie F. Downs, Tatum Green, & Jennie Poh
The Hope of Heaven: How the Promise of Eternity Changes Everything by Sheila Walsh
Social Media
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January has truly felt longer than ever, and in this episode, Jesse and I are back to reflect on the wild start to our year. From celebrating 22 years of marriage and 20 years of parenting to taking on unexpected challenges (including a basketball injury that led to a surprise concussion diagnosis and a late-night flood in our home), we have really had no shortage of adventures!
Listen in as we share what we learned from Silas’s recovery process, how Tennessee’s concussion laws helped us with his school accommodations, and why this experience gave us a fresh perspective on parenting, patience, and gratitude.
We also touch upon an unexpected upside to our household flood (my decluttering goal for the year got a big boost!) and discuss a book that has deeply challenged me to rethink family rhythms and intentional parenting. Jesse also shares what he has been reading lately, from Civil War history to a fascinating biography about former president Teddy Roosevelt.
Since big milestones naturally bring about reflection, Jesse and I also take a moment to look back on our marriage and how we have grown over the years - what we have learned about communication, grace, and the little things that keep a relationship strong, even when there is chaos! Whether you are here to hear us share some life updates, book recommendations, or just a little encouragement, we hope that you will take away something meaningful in today’s episode!
In This Episode
[0:35] - We are reflecting on 22 years of marriage and 20 years of parenting!
[2:29] - Silas suffered a basketball accident, requiring hospital visits and later revealing concussion symptoms.
[4:10] - Hear how Silas struggled with a math quiz, leading to a concussion diagnosis and recovery restrictions.
[5:39] - Silas struggled with boredom during recovery but was ultimately cleared for school with accommodations.
[8:33] - Hear how a bathroom flood accelerated my decluttering goal, though we had to discard many items.
[10:42] - We are grateful for minimal damage after the flood, again having used it as an opportunity to declutter.
[12:57] - Jesse has struggled to resume reading but has enjoyed historical fiction, especially books on Civil War battles.
[14:52] - I am enjoying the book Habits of the Household and find it challenging and convicting in family rhythms.
[17:00] - I appreciate the book’s flexible approach to family rhythms, focusing on intentionality and grace.
[18:67] - We segue into parenthood, with Jesse expressing that parenting lessons must be learned through experience, not advice or hindsight.
[19:35] - David’s progress has helped me change perspective, celebrating messes as signs of growth and learning.
[22:23] - I value the importance of perspective, teaching her kids that accidents aren’t worth stressing over.
[24:00] - Micah offered a sincere apology about something which reminded me of life’s gifts of grace and love.
[27:32] - Jesse admits to struggling with apologizing but sees humility as important for personal growth.
[28:08] - I highlight owning one’s actions in marriage and communication, avoiding silent treatment, and always learning!
Links & Resources
Books
The Killer Angels: The Classic Novel of the Civil War (Civil War Trilogy) by Michael Shaara
Gods and Generals: A Novel of the Civil War (Civil War Trilogy) by Jeff Shaara
Films
Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
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Grab a pen and paper to take notes because this episode is packed with helpful insights! I am joined today by Karen Ehman, author of 21 books (yes, you read that right!), including her new book co-authored with Ruth Schwenk, The Love Your Life Project: 40 Days to Prioritize Your Passions, Cultivate Productive Habits, and Refuel with Times of Rest!
We discuss some practical ways to prioritize what truly matters most – building healthy habits and prioritizing rest. We talk about how to recognize your priorities, set boundaries (especially with your screens!), and make space for what really nourishes your soul!
Karen shares lessons learned from balancing work, writing, and faith an talks about how to discern when to say “yes” and when to say “no” to opportunities, reflecting on how our decisions ultimately affect our relationships and responsibilities.
We also touch on why it’s important to take an intentional day of rest each week and we dive into how Karen has created habits that allow her to unplug, recharge, and battle phone addiction. I love how she challenges us to be sure our phone is not the boss of us and some red flags we can pay attention to to discern if the phone is consuming too much of our time and energy.
If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries with your phone, or if you’ve found it hard to prioritize rest in a busy life, Karen’s tips and insights are sure to help you find balance. If you are (also) feeling overwhelmed by life’s demands and are feeling unsure where to start, then this episode is definitely for you, and you will not want to miss this!
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In This Episode
[0:37] – I introduce Karen Ehman to the show to discuss prioritizing passions, habits, and rest.
[1:54] – Karen shares her family life, writing career, and the increasing workload of social media.
[3:45] – I highlight prioritizing and creating meaningful habits, especially through Karen’s new book The Love Your Life Project.
[5:46] – Karen reflects on the ripple effect of decisions, balancing personal priorities with family and work.
[7:59] – We discuss saying “no for now” to opportunities while trusting in God’s timing.
[10:01] – Karen warns about screens controlling lives, urging us to set boundaries to prevent distraction and harm to our relationships.
[13:23] – The book The Unplugged Hours has inspired me to spend 1,000 hours unplugged and focus on relationships, projects, and growth.
[16:18] – I limit my phone notifications to calls and texts and have almost all other notifications disabled.
[17:25] – Karen tracks her phone usage, setting boundaries after realizing the excessive time that she was spending on social media.
[20:07] – I am working on replacing late-night scrolling with reading and sleep.
[23:39] – Although there are occasional exceptions, Karen also uses time limits on apps to control her phone usage.
[24:45] – Karen makes Sundays her Sabbath, prioritizing rest and hobbies to recharge for the week ahead.
[27:42] – Karen’s family cherishes Sundays with traditions like mystery trips, church, and quality family time.
[30:26] – Karen suggests removing social media apps on Saturday night to avoid being tempted to scroll on Sunday.
[32:27] – The Love Your Life Project grew from a dark time, offering hope and joy through struggles.
[34:41] – I really appreciate the book’s group study setup and gentle, practical approach to changing habits.
[36:10] – The Love Your Life Project is definitely a book that you should read if you’re feeling stuck and/or wanting better priorities.
Links & Resources
Crystal Paine
Karen Ehman
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Books
Karen’s Books
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We unexpectedly had to take another hiatus recently due to family illness, and Jesse and I are here today to share the story! What was supposed to be a peaceful start to 2025 turned into a whirlwind of illness and hospital visits. From a delayed start to the year to dealing with a series of unexpected health scares, it was truly so much to have to handle!
Listen as we recount how things took a sudden turn when one of our kids, Kathrynne, became seriously ill with the flu. The situation worsened when Micah, too, faced breathing problems, leading us to the ER. The stress of trying to manage it all while feeling under the weather myself was truly overwhelming, but we pressed on, making tough decisions such as rushing Kathrynne to urgent care and later discovering that her flu had escalated into something much more serious.
Our journey continued with a series of hospital visits, including a critical stay in a step-down unit. I discuss the gut-wrenching moments of being away from the kids, trusting my instincts to get them the care that they needed, and the emotional toll that it took on our family.
This episode of the show is a raw and honest reflection on the challenges that we faced, the importance of trusting your gut as a parent, and how we found strength in each other and our community! Join us as we share the highs, the lows, and everything in between during one of the toughest starts to the year that we have ever had!
In This Episode
[0:36] - My unexpected three-week break disrupted my usual routine, which I had hoped would be peaceful.
[2:45] - A trip back from Kansas was delayed as our older kids left early and Kathrynne became very ill.
[5:56] - I share how a longer drive and caring for Kathrynne meant that I missed the start of 2025.
[8:57] - Jesse felt helpless as Micah struggled to breathe, leading to an overwhelming, exhausting night.
[11:13] - Hear how, after a trip to the ER, Micah's condition improved, but Kathrynne's worsened.
[13:40] - Jesse learned that the flu can cause symptoms such vomiting and diarrhea, while Kathrynne's ER visit truly highlighted her adulthood.
[16:07] - We reveal that Kathrynne was diagnosed with flu and bronchitis, receiving fluids and a breathing treatment at the ER.
[19:04] - Although Kathrynne improved briefly after fluids, by day five, her condition worsened significantly.
[20:52] - Concern over Kathrynne's worsening symptoms led to an urgent care visit to rule out serious illness.
[24:02] - Jesse discusses how, at urgent care, Kathrynne's critical symptoms led to a quick transfer to the E.R. nearby.
[26:01] - The E.R. handled Kathrynne's symptoms urgently, performing tests and using ultrasound for accuracy.
[28:24] - Kathrynne felt disoriented and was diagnosed with pneumonia and sepsis, requiring immediate fluid treatment.
[31:20] - Hear how Kathrynne's condition improved after antibiotics in spite of lingering guilt over missed signs.
[34:41] - I express gratitude for Jesse's help at the hospital, as I nearly missed visiting hours before he texted.
[36:43] - I reflect on how surreal it felt arriving at the hospital but that I was relieved to see Kathrynne in good spirits.
[39:55] - Despite her illness, Kathrynne showed great determination to recover and leave the hospital early.
[43:14] - I share how Kathrynne made significant progress from being bedridden to doing her own laundry and cooking.
[44:15] - After Silas needed stitches, we are hopeful for fewer hospital visits ahead!
[47:04] - Trusting your gut, especially as a mom, is crucial when something feels off with loved ones.
[48:29] - The kindness of others was truly a gift that we deeply appreciated.
[51:34] - We are excited to return to regular podcasting with upcoming interviews and new content for the year!
Links & Resources
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Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@crystaliscleaning)
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Join Jesse and me for this final episode of 2024 as we reflect on the past year and look ahead to 2025 and talk about our goals and hopes for the coming year! The beginning of 2025 feels like a great time to reset, refocus, and embrace a new approach to personal growth, and I share why I’m shifting from yearly goals to monthly ones, how this change brings about flexibility and prevents burnout, and the five key areas I plan to prioritize (all of which happen to be words that start with M!).
We dive into the specific goals I set for January, why I set them, and how I'm really excited to walk them out. I also talk about the 12 areas I hope to become proficient in in 2025 and why I set this goal!
If you are looking for practical tips to set achievable goals for the new year, encouragement to prioritize your health and passions, or maybe even just some general inspiration to make 2025 your best year yet, I hope this episode inspires and encourages you!
In This Episode
[0:35] - Why I am setting specific, actionable monthly goals for 2025 instead of my usual yearly goals.
[3:59] - Hear how Jesse finds it challenging to stay motivated toward year-end goals even though he is so close to reaching them.
[7:17] - Hear how I organize my goals into five “M” categories to prioritize important areas of my life.
[8:05] - 2024 brought about some unexpected challenges, which made it harder to achieve some of my goals.
[9:20] - I celebrate personal growth in 2024 and am focusing on realistic monthly goals for 2025.
[13:05] - By prioritizing health via circadian rhythm, less sugar, and more protein, I saw real marked improvement in my overall health in 2024.
[14:56] - Why I focus on strong spiritual rhythms instead of setting a lot of specific spiritual goals.
[19:33] - I also plan, for 2025, to master twelve DIY items, a new one each month.
[21:11] - This coming year, Jesse is prioritizing flexibility and sustainable habits over rigid programs such as 75 Hard.
[24:30] - I highlight setting goals that are actionable and achievable even during difficult times.
[27:04] - Jesse shares how his coach suggested starting small, like exercising twice weekly, in order to build consistent habits.
[28:01] - I reveal how I adjusted my goals, like decluttering 500 items, to be realistic and attainable.
[30:39] - I plan family-focused activities, personal goals, and savings with Jesse for January.
[33:31] - It's important to budget conservatively with variable income in order to maintain financial stability.
Links & Resources
Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
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Welcome back to the show, everyone! While not intentional, we have been MIA from your ears for three whole weeks. We originally intended to only be absent for Thanksgiving week, but one week somehow managed to turn into two weeks which turned into three. That was in large part because of lots of things happening during that time, so we definitely have some exciting updates!
Hear about things such as the two trips that I took to Kansas, the offer that Jesse and I put on a rental house, and how I recently took on a new position at our company! We also dealt with a round of hand, foot, and mouth disease in the family and have, of course, been prepping for Christmas, so yeah, we have had A LOT going on, but we are back!
As I said, I took on a new role at our company and am so excited to be going into 2025. However, Jesse and I discuss how saying yes to things often means having to say no to others, so I discuss the small sacrifices I am making in exchange. We touch upon the importance of having consistency and fixed times for chores, tasks, and activities during the day and also why it’s good to give yourself grace when on a journey of self-development, celebrating wins and progress despite setbacks and unmet goals.
Jesse and I also discuss three shows and movies that I watched recently, all on Disney+. Together, we watched a four-part docu-series titled Tsunami: Race Against Time, and we talk about what we loved about it and how enlightening we found it. I also recently watched a movie called Out of My Mind, and I reflect on some of the important lessons that the movie offers its viewers. Lastly, I discuss a documentary titled Endurance which tells the story of Ernest Shackleton and his ship that got stuck off the coast of Antarctica.
I also reflect on a really important question that I got from a listener recently asking about approaching the major decision of adding more children to their family, especially when it will mean a big age gap between the kids that they already have and their new additions. As those of you who know our story know, that is pretty much exactly what our arrangement is like, so we discuss how we have made it work and what we have learned - not just us two but also our older kids.
As always, I hope that our discussion is helpful and insightful, and I hope that you will join us next time! It will be our final episode of 2024, and we will be talking about our 2025 goals!
In This Episode
[0:35] - We have been MIA lately!
[2:03] - How was I able to take a new position in my own company?
[5:07] - We also recently had a round of hand, foot, and mouth disease in the family.
[7:02] - Taking on a new role in the company has meant giving up some things.
[9:41] - I describe the wise advice that Jesse gave me about my new role.
[12:59] - Jesse likes that we have set aside fixed times for tasks and activities.
[14:52] - Jesse recently signed up for a personal training coach!
[17:24] - You have to be honest with yourself and your coach to make a mindset shift.
[20:41] - I have been so much better lately about not scrolling on my phone in bed at night.
[22:14] - Jesse and I recently watched the series Tsunami: Race Against Time together.
[24:07] - A tsunami research center in Hawaii was tracking it but had no way to warn a lot of people.
[26:22] - I also recently watched the movie Out of My Mind.
[28:50] - Hear about the third movie I saw recently, Endurance.
[32:20] - Incredibly, not one of Shackleton’s crew members died!
[34:30] - I open up discussion around a question that I got from a listener recently.
[37:23] - Learn why we have enjoyed having little kids a lot more the second time.
[40:00] - We discuss how having little kids has affected our older kids.
[43:18] - When you have teenagers and little kids, someone always needs you.
Links & Resources
TV Shows & Films
Books
Out of My Mind by Sharon M. Draper
Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage by Alfred Lansing
Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@crystaliscleaning)
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This week, we did something rare – we sat down and actually watched a movie, Twisters! Our kids have been raving about it, and turns out, it wasn’t just because we’re from Kansas. It's a thrilling and quite clean movie (just a small bit of language), which is not always easy to find these days, so if you haven't seen it, I definitely recommend it!
We also talk about politics -- something I don't do much of on the internet. We talk about our setup on election night with multiple screens and streams, my Electoral college predictions, and how I tried to really listen to what people were saying on both sides this election and what I learned from that.
In addition, we share about hosting guests recently and how we practical very simple hospitality and some ideas for reaching out and loving people well. We also discuss a message we heard at church recently and the hope it gives us, despite the division we can feel in our country.
In This Episode
[0:35] - We recently sat down and watched a movie - Twisters - together.
[2:16] - I am currently reading Word Before World by Gretchen Saffles.
[3:06] - We talk about me being a political junkie and how that surprises people and how I researched and listened before this election and what I learned from that.
[13:54] - Why I steer clear of political debates online.
[14:33] - Jesse shares about the importance of conversations over soundbites.
[15:11] - I value curious, empathetic conversations to understand diverse perspectives.
[17:09] - Listening can help lead to compassion, revealing shared passion and care despite differing opinions.
[19:29] - I emphasize placing hope in Jesus, not politicians, as true change comes from faith.
[21:28] - We hosted overnight guests recently, reminding me that simple hospitality is meaningful and sufficient.
[24:17] - I advocate for offering specific help for those who are struggling instead of vague offers of support.
[29:33] - Be sure to download our freebie, 20 Ways to Boost Your Christmas Budget!
Links & Resources
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Film
Books
Word Before World: 100 Devotions to Put Jesus First by Gretchen Saffles
Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@crystaliscleaning)
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Today's guest is actually a threepeat guest, Jeannie Cunnion! And today we get to have a conversation about building a deeper relationship with God, inspired by her new devotional, Closer to God: A 40-day Pursuit of God's Personal Presence.
Jeannie has the remarkable ability to push us deeper in our walk with Jesus and her new devotional is full of profound questions and encouragement to challenge and inspire us to grow closer to God.
In this episode, Jeannie shares her journey, drawing from her previous book Don't Miss Out, which explores the vital role of the Holy Spirit in our lives. Her new devotional continues this exploration with questions like "Who is the Holy Spirit?" and "What does true intimacy with God look like?" These are just a few of the 40 questions which she discusses, ultimately designed to stir our spirits and deepen our hunger for a more vibrant life with God.
Jeannie also opens up about overcoming barriers to intimacy with God such as resisting the Holy Spirit or being caught in a performance mindset with God. She emphasizes the freedom and refreshment found in daily repentance and how it cultivates intimacy with God. In this episode, we dive into these subjects and also discuss practical ways to experience God's presence in our every day lives -- from washing dishes to carpooling, recognizing that God's presence isn't limited to just extraordinary moments.
Whether you're new to Christianity or a long-time believer looking to deepen your relationship with God, I think you will be so blessed and challenged by what Jeannie shares in this episode on how to deepen your relationship with God -- in the midst of real life!
In This Episode
[0:33] - Jeannie's new devotional book Closer to God challenges readers with deep, reflective questions and inspiration.
[2:48] - The Holy Spirit stirs a deeper hunger for God within us, Jeannie explains.
[4:15] - God's presence is for everyday moments, not just mountaintop or valley experiences.
[6:47] - Understanding the Holy Spirit's role removes barriers to intimacy with God.
[10:22] - Embracing repentance, rather than performance, helps cultivate closeness with God.
[11:24] - Repentance is refreshing and transformative and is not meant for reprimand.
[14:15] - Jeannie states that practicing God's presence involves daily conversation and reading His Word.
[17:45] - Pursuing holiness by following Jesus invites abundant life and peace.
[21:10] - Worship and community can help us remember God's faithfulness in difficult times.
[24:09] - Choosing God in daily moments leads to strength and hope.
[27:50] - I observe how faith grows through cultivating intimacy, repentance, and obedience.
Links & Resources
The Crystal Paine Show - 3. The Secret to Being a Happier Mom
The Crystal Paine Show - 136. Don’t Miss Out on This Superpower!
Books
Closer to God: A 40-day Pursuit of God’s Personal Presence by Jeannie Cunnion
Don’t Miss Out: Daring to Believe Life Is Better with the Holy Spirit by Jeannie Cunnion
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Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands12 November 2024, 11:00 am - 34 minutes 19 seconds282. Something I just learned about Jesse, cows, disappointment, and voting
After knowing Jesse since I was 9 years old (I'm 43 now!), I just found out something I had no idea about him. We share the funny story on the podcast. I'm honestly still so shocked that I just discovered this!!
We also dive into some really fun listener feedback, with one of you pointing out how I had incorrectly called beef you buy for the freezer cow and that turned into a fun discussion on things beef and cattle-related!
Our family plans also took an unexpected turn recently when a storm rescheduled Silas’s baseball tournament, clashing with our trip to Silver Dollar City. We came up with plan B which split up the family, but despite the big changes of plans and what I had hoped for and envisioned, both groups had fantastic experiences. Jesse and the boys had a memorable baseball weekend, and I got some special time with the girls and their boyfriends. It was a great reminder that even if you have a completely different experience than you had expected and planned for, you can lead to beautiful memories!
We also touch on early voting and how we try to include our kids in these civic duties is so important. It's been so heartwarming to see how invested Kathrynne has become in politics -- and how she's gotten many opportunities we would have loved at her age, that she never sought out but have been so good and exciting!
In This Episode
[0:35] - My recent discovery about Jesse that surprised me so much!
[6:11] - Astigmatism and how struggling to remember right and left causes uncomfortable eye doctor visits.
[7:30] - We share some listener feedback on cows vs. beef.
[10:23] - Does the age of cows affect meat quality?
[11:06] - A listener suggests roasting beets, and I recount a fire alarm causing the arrival of a fire truck.
[13:46] - Hear a story from a listener about a fireproof deep freeze keeping rotten meat safe after a wildfire.
[15:33] - I talk about a Silver Dollar City family trip with the older girls and their boyfriends, which proved wonderful.
[16:54] - Storms rescheduled a baseball tournament, leading to special family weekends and a successful trip!
[19:08] - I enjoyed creating special memories with Kierstyn.
[21:05] - We voted early recently due to potential long lines on voting day.
[23:19] - Even though I enjoy politics, I have avoided running for office due to past stressful experiences.
[26:04] - Kathrynne is politically active and has received many unexpected opportunities.
[27:36] - Jesse discusses how Kathrynne took anxiety-filled steps into political involvement, which led to personal growth.
[28:18] - I recount how Kathrynne gained confidence from a challenging training experience, opening new opportunities.
[31:04] - Jesse explains that we encourage our kids to step out of their comfort zones and know their values.
[31:28] - I am very supportive of Kathrynne's small steps as character-building for future opportunities!
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One of our big goals for 2024 was to go on an overnighter just the two of us (Jesse and me) — something we hadn’t done in 5ish years!! We weren’t sure if we were going to be able to make it work with all the moving parts it would require, but WE DID IT a few weeks ago.
It was the best trip and, in this episode, we share all about it -- why we chose NYC, how we did this trip on a budget, and how the trip more than exceeded our expectations!
We discuss why this trip was so special, from navigating the city’s public transportation to making use of loyalty points for our hotel right in the heart of Times Square. The city was bustling, the weather was perfect, and Central Park on a Sunday afternoon was such a fun experience!
We packed so much into 36 hours, from exploring Fifth Avenue to enjoying a meal at the boathouse overlooking a beautiful pond, and for the first time in years, we truly and fully relaxed. It was so good for our souls!
This trip wasn’t just a getaway; it was a reminder of how important it is to prioritize our marriage and ourselves, so join us as we look back on this unforgettable trip and share some tips for anyone planning a quick yet meaningful escape to the Big Apple!
In This Episode
[0:35] - I am excited for Jesse and I to be talking about our recent trip to NYC!
[1:32] - Jesse discusses a nonfiction book called The Pledge to America by Drago Dzieran, which details the author's experiences with socialism and immigration.
[4:33] - I discuss the book From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks, which focuses on success and happiness in later life.
[9:09] - Inspired by an airport meal, I share how I discovered I enjoy fresh beets.
[12:17] - We also laugh about me wanting to have chickens -- only they need to be noiseless and invisible and not need any care! :)
[15:06] - All about our trip to NYC.
[18:29] - Jesse describes previous short trips to NYC and navigating public transportation with family.
[20:19] - I share NYC's cost-effective options for couples and advise against using public transportation if you're alone at night.
[22:28] - How we got our hotel for free -- right in the heart of Times Square.
[25:26] - We really appreciated uninterrupted time together!
[27:26] - I express gratitude and reflect on the smooth return trip amidst a busy Prime Week and hurricane concerns.
[30:01] - The kids successfully managing at home during our trip was also incredibly reassuring!
[31:58] - Jesse experiences relaxation and health benefits from the New York City trip.
Links & Resources
Books
The Pledge to America: One Man’s Journey from Political Prisoner to U.S. Navy SEAL by Drago Dzieran
Slow Productivity: The Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout by Cal Newport
Social Media
Crystal Paine on Instagram (@moneysavingmom)
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