- 50 minutes 37 secondsEp. 407 - How to Stop Dimming Your Light & Start Living in Your Power
What if the very thing you desire most—love, abundance, purpose, fulfillment—is waiting on the other side of feeling safe to truly be seen?
This week, Jessica, Lacy, and Janelle unpack the roots of visibility wounds and how childhood conditioning, family dynamics, societal programming, and nervous system protection can keep us hiding from our authentic selves. They explore the subtle ways we abandon our truth to stay safe from people-pleasing and shape-shifting to fear of vulnerability and rejection, and why reclaiming your gifts is the key to true magnetism.
If you've ever felt afraid to fully express yourself, share your gifts, speak your truth, or take up space, this conversation is a loving permission slip to stop hiding and finally let yourself bloom.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Stop playing small in your career, relationships, and life and let your authentic light shine.
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The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- ARMRA - Get 30% off your first subscription order with code TBM
- Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit
In this episode we talk about:
- The root wounds behind fear of visibility
- Why being seen is a primal human need
- Childhood experiences that create self-protection patterns
- The connection between authenticity and manifestation
- Shape-shifting, people-pleasing, and abandoning the self
- Visibility wounds in relationships, career, and creativity
- Nervous system safety and self-expression
- How expanders mirror our authentic gifts
- The difference between ego-driven attention and authentic magnetism
- Vulnerability as the pathway to intimacy
- Parenting, attunement, and reflecting children’s gifts
- Reclaiming your purpose-led identity
- Letting your “inner radiance” shine
- Why aligned action matters more than perfection
- The healing power of community and being witnessed
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Energetic Boundaries DI, Self Love DI, and the Be Seen Quiz)
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
15 May 2026, 7:00 am - 57 minutes 19 secondsEp. 406 - Breaking Generational Cycles Through Boundaries & Self-Worth: The Process with Alexis Marie West
What if the hardest part of manifestation isn’t getting what you want, but feeling worthy enough to deserve it?
In this deeply expansive episode, Jessica welcomes Alexis Marie West for a conversation on manifestation, generational healing, boundaries, and the art of truly receiving. Alexis shares her remarkable journey from growing up amidst addiction, instability, and survival-mode conditioning to manifesting a peaceful dream home, financial security, creative freedom, and authentic self-worth.
Together, they unpack the uncomfortable integration phase that happens after manifestations land, the emotional reality of setting boundaries with loved ones, and how reclaiming creativity becomes the gateway back to your authentic self.
This episode is a powerful reminder that healing isn’t about perfection—it’s about choosing yourself again and again until your external reality finally reflects the safety and abundance you've always deserved.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Where are you afraid to be seen? Take the free quiz to uncover what's blocking your manifestations and how to step into your power.
Plus, receive early access to our Summer Sale (starting May 11)!
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge? Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
In this episode we talk about:
- Manifesting a dream home connected to feelings of safety
- The integration phase after receiving big manifestations
- Postpartum identity shifts and nervous system regulation
- Breaking generational trauma and survival conditioning
- Growing up with emotional unpredictability and hypervigilance
- Healing people-pleasing and rescuer patterns
- Learning to set boundaries with family and loved ones
- Financial boundaries and self-worth expansion
- Reconnecting with creativity after years of suppression
- Emotional intelligence as a survival adaptation
- Transforming longing into creative energy
- Manifestation rituals and daily subconscious reprogramming
- Receiving luxury and quality without guilt
- Authentic code and designing a life aligned to your truth
- The healing power of radical honesty and energetic boundaries
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Why Journaling Actually Works: Ritual, Healing, and Clarity with Tara Schuster | Ep. 391
- This Journal F*cking Works: The Science, Ritual, and Art of Journaling
- How to Build Wealth Authentically with Elizabeth Ralph the Spiritual Investor | 402
- Recommended Wayne Dyer vid
- Alexis’s recommended Self Love Playlist
- Listen to manifestation success stories: The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Find our Nervous System Rest plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Energetic Boundaries DI, Self Love DI, and the Return to Magic Challenge)
Connect with Alexis Marie!
- Alexis on IG: https://www.instagram.com/alexismariewest/
- Alexis on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@AlexisMarieWest
- A sneak peek at Alexis’s poetry book!
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
8 May 2026, 7:00 am - 56 minutes 44 secondsEp. 405 - How to Overcome Fear & Show Up Authentically in Any Space with Courtney Johnson
What if the opportunities you’re waiting for don’t go to the most qualified… but to the most visible? What if being seen is the missing piece to your next level?
Today, we’re stepping into something new with our first-ever in-studio recording featuring TBMer, author, and career strategist Courtney Johnson. She joins Jessica to break down the truth about visibility, personal branding, and authentic career expansion in today’s evolving landscape.
Together, they explore why success is no longer about grinding harder, but about showing up more truthfully, consistently, and unapologetically. Courtney cuts through the noise with clear, actionable ways to shine your light and share your magic.
This conversation redefines what it means to be seen—and that it’s not about oversharing or abandoning your boundaries. You’ll learn practical ways to express your value and build a personal brand that reflects both your internal and external world.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur, creative, or navigating corporate life, this episode offers tools to expand your visibility without compromising your authenticity. And if you’ve been feeling stuck, unseen, or unsure how to step into your next level, this episode will remind you that your voice, story, and perspective are exactly what the world is waiting for.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
The 7-Day Nervous System Reset
A gentle, guided week to move you out of dysregulation and back into ease, so you can hold the life you truly want. Now live inside The Pathway.
Which nervous system pattern is blocking your next level? Take the quiz and get your free personalized reset protocol from TBM.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge? Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
- Infrared PEMF Mat
- The BON CHARGE Infrared PEMF Mat is my absolute go-to product! I use it almost daily to ground my nervous system, drop in deeper into my meditations & help my body recover after big hikes. The highest quality and most biohacking stacked mat I’ve seen on the market! Use code MAGNETIC at checkout for 15% off. us.boncharge.com/MAGNETIC
- Anima Mundi - Use code TBM20 for 20% off purchase
In this episode we talk about:
- Visibility is the gateway to opportunity—not just qualifications
- You already have a personal brand, whether you own it or not
- Authenticity is your competitive advantage in any industry
- Internal visibility at work is just as powerful as external presence
- Opportunities flow to those who consistently show up
- Creating a “wins folder” rewires your ability to receive and recognize impact
- Receiving compliments is directly tied to your capacity to receive abundance
- Thought leadership starts by sharing your perspective, not being perfect
- You don’t need to go viral to create meaningful impact
- Consistency matters more than talent or perfection
- Your unique combination of skills makes you a category of one
- Boundaries vs. fear: knowing the difference is key to authentic sharing
- Delegation and receiving support are essential for scaling impact
- Content creation is a balance of structure and intuitive inspiration
- The biggest barrier isn’t skill—it’s moving through discomfort and being seen
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Courtney’s original episode: How To Be Seen & Grow Your Career Authentically with Courtney Johnson | Ep. 330
- Check out Courtney’s expander catGPT on IG
- Find our Nervous System Rest plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Driver’s Seat DI, Unblocked Inner Child DI, and the Worst Case Scenario DI)
Connect with Courtney!
- Connect with Courtney on IG: https://www.instagram.com/courtlynnjohnson/
- Connect with Courtney Johnson on Tiktok
- Courtney’s LinkedIn course: Level up on LinkedIn
- Courtney’s Book: Career Cheat Codes
- Courtney’s Podcast: Built in Public
- Membership community: Sunrise Content Club
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
1 May 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 51 secondsEp. 404 - Why Your Old Ways Aren’t Working Anymore: Staying Authentic in the New Paradigm
Are you torn between being authentic and just surviving in today's world? What if authenticity, rather than effort or optimization, is the real currency now?
This episode dives deep into the energetic shifts of the new paradigm and why so many people are feeling tension, confusion, and major internal clearing. Lacy and Jessica explore what it means to live in alignment while operating inside an outdated system—and why authenticity, integrity, and inner truth are becoming the true drivers of manifestation. From nervous system regulation and energetic cord cutting to redefining success beyond hustle culture, this conversation unpacks how to navigate the in-between without surrendering your truest desires.
If you've been questioning your path, purpose, or how to move forward in a rapidly changing world, this episode is your permission slip to trust your intuition, honor your authenticity, and step into a more easeful, aligned way of living.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
The 7-Day Nervous System Reset
A gentle, guided week to move you out of dysregulation and back into ease, so you can hold the life you truly want. Now live inside The Pathway.
Which nervous system pattern is blocking your next level? Take the quiz and get your free personalized reset protocol from TBM.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge? Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- OSEA - Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code MAGNETIC at OSEAMalibu.com
In this episode we talk about:
- Nervous system regulation and releasing stored tension in the body
- Vagus nerve stimulation and orientation practices
- Energetic cords, aura clearing, and visualization techniques
- Deep clearing cycles connected to astrological events
- Using DI (Deep Imaginings) as healing sessions
- Inner child breakthroughs and uncovering subconscious wounds
- Reframing childhood shame and emotional responsibility
- The concept of the new paradigm vs old paradigm
- Hustle culture, scarcity mindset, and outdated success metrics
- Authenticity and integrity as the new energetic currency
- Living between two worlds during transitional times
- Manifestation shifting from material goals to core feelings
- Creative expression without financial attachment
- Integrity work and resolving inner conflict to unlock magnetism
Mentioned In the Episode:
- How to Build Wealth Authentically with Elizabeth Ralph the Spiritual Investor | 402
- Speeding up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe | Ep. 318
- Purpose Over Perfection: How to Have Your Most Aligned Year in 2026
- Baz Luhrmann’s “Everybody’s Free (to Wear Sunscreen)”
- Tune into Jenna Zoe's substack
- Find our Nervous System Rest plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Clear Your Aura DI, Unblocked Inner Child DI, and the Worst Case Scenario DI)
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
24 April 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 11 secondsEp. 403 - How to Surrender & Trust Your Timeline: Navigating Long-Term Manifestations
What if what you deserve is already here, just waiting for you to be ready? Could releasing the timeline be the medicine that finally lets you connect with it?
In this episode, Jessica pulls back the curtain on a major manifestation that's been unfolding over 4 years. She shares the layers of healing, growth, and understanding she's moved through—and what she discovered was actually standing between her and what she was calling in.
Jessica opens up about her own blocks and unhealed parts of her inner narrative, including the trap of obsessing over optimization and future-proofing. She explores how releasing control and stepping into embodied presence became the real work—and why trusting the present moment, rather than fixating on what's next, actually moved her toward her goals.
If you're waiting on something big to manifest, this episode will help you trust your unique timeline, get out of your own way, and connect with what’s meant to be yours.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
The 7-Day Nervous System Reset
A gentle, guided week to move you out of dysregulation and back into ease, so you can hold the life you truly want. Now live inside The Pathway.
Which nervous system pattern is blocking your next level? Take the quiz and get your free personalized reset protocol from TBM.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge?
Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
- Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit
In this episode we talk about:
- Long manifestation timelines are not proof that something is wrong with you
- The trap of tying your worth to how fast something arrives
- How control and “optimization” block true surrender
- The concept of deservingness as a state of trust, not effort
- Why your nervous system capacity determines what you can receive
- The role of “protector parts” in delaying manifestations
- How fear of uncertainty disguises itself as productivity
- The difference between aligned action and forceful action
- Why manifestations often require emotional and identity expansion first
- The importance of inner child work in releasing subconscious blocks
- How comparison disconnects you from your authentic timeline
- The “finger trap” effect of gripping too tightly to outcomes
- Why making your present self feel safe is the real manifestation work
- How relationship dynamics mirror manifestation patterns
- The energetic shift that happens when you stop future-tripping
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 182 - Growing in Conscious Partnership - The Process With Jessica and Daniel
- Expanded x Ep. 197 - EXPLAINED Divorce and Relationships w. LMFT Janelle Nelson
- Ep. 397 - Why Your Nervous System Is Blocking Your Manifestation with Sarah Baldwin
- Find our Nervous System Rest plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Blind Spot DI, Unblocked Inner Child DI, and the Return to Magic Challenge)
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
17 April 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 16 minutesEp. 402 - How to Build Wealth Authentically with Elizabeth Ralph
What if financial freedom wasn’t about hustling and doing more, but about becoming the version of you who can receive it?
In this expansive conversation, Jessica sits down with spiritual investor Elizabeth Ralph to explore what it really means to engage with money, wealth, and investing from a conscious, heart-led place. They unpack the shift from the old paradigm of hustle, control, and fear-based earning to a new paradigm rooted in alignment, authenticity, trust, and true financial freedom.
Elizabeth shares how redefining freedom as ease transformed her life, why money is just energy, and how investing can become an act of expansion rather than fear. She also reveals what building wealth looks like without sacrificing your integrity.
This episode is a powerful invitation to release scarcity, reclaim your power, and step into a more liberated relationship with abundance, business, and your most authentic self.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
The 7-Day Nervous System Reset
A gentle, guided week to move you out of dysregulation and back into ease, so you can hold the life you truly want. Now live inside The Pathway.
Which nervous system pattern is blocking your next level? Take the quiz and get your free personalized reset protocol from TBM.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge?
Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
- Infrared PEMF Mat
- The BON CHARGE Infrared PEMF Mat is my absolute go-to product! I use it almost daily to ground my nervous system, drop in deeper into my meditations & help my body recover after big hikes. The highest quality and most biohacking stacked mat I’ve seen on the market! Use code MAGNETIC at checkout for 15% off. us.boncharge.com/MAGNETIC
- Cozy Earth - go to cozyearth.com use code TBM for up to 20% off.
In this episode we talk about:
- Conscious wealth and integrity with money
- The shift from old paradigm hustle into new paradigm receiving
- Why alignment creates less effort and more magnetism
- The difference between forcing outcomes and creating space for them
- Using old structures like marketing and business from a new energetic foundation
- Authentic essence, self-worth, and peeling back conditioning
- Defining personal freedom instead of inheriting society’s definition
- Financial freedom as ease rather than a fixed number
- Money neutrality and releasing emotional charge around finances
- Presence, certainty, and singular focus in manifestation
- Inner child work, emotional processing, and the observer self
- Radical accountability in personal growth and manifestation
- Energetic currency and authentic expression as the future of abundance
- Investing as expansion rather than fear or deprivation
- Diversification, intuitive investing, and conscious financial independence
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Jessica’s feature on Spiritual Investor
- Nervous System Reset is available now!
- Expanded x Ep. 289 - How To Manifest Money
- How to Move from Scarcity to Abundance & Manifest Money
- Ep. 397 - Why Your Nervous System Is Blocking Your Manifestation with Sarah Baldwin
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Money Challenge DI, Worst Case Scenario DI, and the Competency DI)
Connect with Elizabeth!
- Connect with Elizabeth on IG: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethralph/
- Website: https://www.thespiritualinvestor.com
- Podcast: https://www.thespiritualinvestor.com/podcast
- Apply for Elizabeth’s Mastermind launch
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
10 April 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 9 minutesEp. 401 - Navigating Loss, Surrender, and the Path Home to Yourself: The Process with Carly Ottaway
This week, we're sitting down with Carly Ottaway—Pathway member and author of Coming Home—to explore the profound transformation that emerges from life's most destabilizing moments. From navigating fertility struggles to losing her home in a fire, Carly opens up about how surrender, self-trust, and deep inner work became her greatest anchors through the unthinkable.
Together, they unpack the illusion of control, the healing power of authenticity, and how speaking from the heart unlocks your most magnetic self. This conversation is a reminder that even in your darkest chapters, you are being guided toward something more aligned, expansive, and true.
If you've ever felt like everything is falling apart, this episode will show you how it might actually be falling into place. And if you’re ready to start understanding your patterning, now is the time to take advantage of our Pathway Membership Spring Sale. $30/month $23/month now until April 5th at 11:59 PST.
Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Pathway Membership Spring Sale - $30/month $23/month now until April 5th at 11:59 PST
TBM’s 7-day Nervous System Reset is LIVE - join here https://tobemagnetic.com/nervous-system-reset
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - $23/month $30/month now until April 5th at 11:59 pst
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Anima Mundi - Use code TBM20 for 20% off purchase
- Pique Tea - get 20% off your first order at piquelife.com/tbm
In this episode we talk about:
- The myth of over-preparation and why authenticity creates deeper connection
- Learning to trust your voice as a channel rather than a script
- How perfectionism blocks true expression and magnetism
- The role of surrender in manifestation, especially during uncertainty
- Navigating fertility struggles and releasing control over timing
- Experiencing loss and trauma as catalysts for expansion
- The importance of nervous system regulation in times of crisis
- Using presence as a tool for healing in the messy middle
- Reparenting yourself while actively parenting your children
- How inner child wounds shape control patterns and people-pleasing
- The shift from external validation to internal safety
- Visibility as a spiritual and emotional expansion process
- Writing and storytelling as a healing modality
- Recognizing signs and synchronicities as guidance from the universe
- Building a life rooted in authenticity rather than performance
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Carly’s feature on the TBM page!
- Read Coming Home: The Path to Your Favourite Self and Permission to Do It Your Way by Carly Ottaway
- Ep. 397 - Why Your Nervous System Is Blocking Your Manifestation with Sarah Baldwin
- Ep. 376 - Dr. Tara Swart on Signs from the Other Side: Love, Loss, and Connection Beyond Death
- Take the Nervous System Quiz
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Safe DI, Worst Case Scenario DI, and the Competency DI)
Connect with Carly!
- Carly Ottaway on IG: https://www.instagram.com/itscarlyottaway/
- Order Coming Home
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
3 April 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 12 minutesEp. 400 - How to Regulate Your Nervous System to Hold More Abundance
You’re fine…so why do you feel stuck? Where is the fear coming from, even when you know you’re safe?
The truth is, lasting change requires more than mindset work alone. It means training your nervous system to build new associations with things that once felt uncertain or threatening.
Today, Lacy, Jessica, and somatic expert Janelle unpack the true role of the nervous system in manifestation. They explore how your body's sense of safety determines when to shut down and protect you from potential threats—and when to expand, receive, and take aligned action towards your goals. Plus, the small, doable steps ("small steppies") that lead you back to yourself.
If you've ever felt stuck despite doing all the inner work, this episode is your roadmap back to safety, embodiment, and sustainable growth.
Want to know where you stand with your nervous system? Take our free Nervous System Quiz and check the show notes for more DIs and resources inside the Pathway membership.
Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Join our 7 Day Nervous System Reset (Pathway Membership Exclusive) Take the Nervous System Quiz
Join the Pathway Membership with our Spring Sale! - https://tobemagnetic.com/ Only $23/month now until April 5th at 11:59pm pst
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Cozy Earth - go to cozyearth.com use code TBM for up to 20% off.
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
In this episode we talk about:
- Why nervous system regulation is essential for manifestation—not optional
- A regulated system isn’t always calm; it’s flexible and adaptive
- Why self-sabotage often comes up – and how it’s related to the nervous system
- The “upper limit problem” reflects your nervous system’s capacity for receiving
- Expanding your “energy well” allows you to hold more success and joy
- Why overwhelm and shutdown are protective responses, not failures
- “Small steppy” actions help avoid burnout and build sustainable growth
- Overstimulation from modern life impacts your ability to regulate
- Somatic practices help the body align with mental breakthroughs
- Beauty, nature, and sensory experiences regulate the nervous system
- Avoidance habits that may signal dysregulation
- Authenticity reduces pressure and supports nervous system safety
- How relationships and co-regulation are deeply healing
- Movement, sound, and breathwork activate the vagus nerve
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 304 - How to Regulate Your Nervous System
- Expanded x Ep. 303 – Are You Standing in Your Own Way? How to Tell if You’re Self-Sabotaging
- Ep. 318 - Speeding up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe
- The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
- Jessica’s Youtube Channel! @jessicaashleygill
- Expanded x Ep. 192 - Navigating 2022 Astrology with Jill Wintersteen (Spirit Daughter)
- Virtual NYC Speaking Tour + New DI & Journal Prompts
- Return to Magic - 15 Day Manifestation Challenge
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Reset, Freeze or Fawn DI, and the NYC Speaking Tour Session)
Connect with Janelle!
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
27 March 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 10 minutesEp. 399 - Why You Can't Manifest Your Way Out of an Unhealed Nervous System with Jill Wintersteen of Spirit Daughter
What if the moments that completely unravel your life are actually the ones that reveal your purpose?
This week, Jessica sits down with Spirit Daughter founder Jill Wintersteen for the untold story behind her spiritual work. Known for her astrology insights, moon rituals, and intuitive teachings, Jill opens up about the chaotic chapter that shaped it all: a federal investigation connected to her partner, life under constant fear, and what it took to rebuild from rock bottom.
Through breathwork, meditation, and deep inner healing, Jill shares how nervous system regulation, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and forgiveness moved her from survival mode into alignment with her intuition. As she released shame and healed old relationship patterns, she found her purpose, built Spirit Daughter, and manifested the grounded partnership she once thought was impossible.
If manifestation feels clear in theory but difficult in practice, this episode explores why tending to your nervous system and working with your protector parts may be the key to finally expanding into the life you want.
Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Which nervous system pattern is blocking your next level? Take the quiz and get your free personalized reset protocol from TBM.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge? Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC
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In this episode we talk about:
- Jill Wintersteen’s raw backstory behind Spirit Daughter and her spiritual teachings
- Navigating a federal investigation and rebuilding life after extreme uncertainty
- The power of nervous system regulation during crisis
- How meditation helps move from fight-or-flight into manifestation mode
- Understanding Internal Family Systems and working with protector parts
- Why familiar patterns keep us stuck in anxiety and hypervigilance
- The neuroscience of fear conditioning and deconditioning the brain
- Using scent and sensory rituals to regulate the nervous system
- Manifesting from rest-and-digest versus scarcity and survival
- Why purpose evolves and how to follow intuitive career paths
- Releasing shame through empathy and trusted relationships
- Forgiveness as the highest form of energetic release
- Recognizing healthy love after healing relationship patterns
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 192 - Navigating 2022 Astrology with Jill Wintersteen (Spirit Daughter)
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Worst Case Scenario DI, Fight or Flight DI, and the NYC Speaking Tour Session)
Connect with Jill!
- Spirit Daughter on IG
- Learn more about Jill’s offerings at spiritdaughter.com
- Spirit Daughter Book Pre-Order Link (The Own Your Power Challenge - a bonus for pre-ordering the book - begins March 20th!)
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
20 March 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 6 minutesEp. 398 - How to Come Home to Yourself When Everything Falls Apart: The Process with Allie Carr
We’ve never done an episode quite like this before.
We sat down with writer and creative Allie Carr—twice. In October 2025, she was just beginning to emerge from a really difficult chapter. When we spoke again in February 2026, her spark for life was fully back, and the seeds she had planted were unfolding in real time.
In the months between, Allie moved through a Saturn return, career pivots, financial uncertainty, and a deep shedding of who she used to be. What looked like falling apart was actually falling into place.
This conversation is a reminder that manifestation often has a full arc: the breakdown, the becoming, and the moment it all clicks. If you’re in your own hard season right now, this episode is your life raft.
Want to see where her journey began? Watch her original episode on our YouTube channel.
Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Virtual NYC Speaking Tour + New DI & Journal Prompts
Missed the speaking tour? We’re bringing our NYC conversation straight to your screen—featuring an intimate dialogue with Lacy, Jessica, Jenna Zoë, and Elizabeth Orrigo, plus the Purpose & Soul Essence Deep Imagining and guided journal prompts.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge? Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- ARMRA - Get 30% off your first subscription order with code TBM
- Cozy Earth - go to cozyearth.com use code TBM for up to 20% off.
In this episode we talk about:
- Navigating a Saturn return and the deep identity shifts it brings
- Leaving corporate life and the emotional reality of freelancing
- Financial fear, unexpected taxes, and learning to trust the process
- How confrontation and difficult conversations create growth
- Facing family challenges and first experiences with grief and loss
- Understanding blocks and protector parts through parts work and IFS
- The power of naming fear without becoming identified with it
- Daily meditation and silence as tools for reconnecting to the true self
- Why joy and nervous system regulation are essential for manifestation
- Learning to feel difficult emotions rather than strategizing around them
- Letting go of control and cultivating trust in the universe
- Removing success, clients, and achievements from the pedestal
- Treating the work directly in front of you as the most important opportunity
- How art and creativity become portals back to authenticity
- Creating purely for expression rather than validation or optimization
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 280 Double Your Income, Jump Off The Corporate Cliff, and Create Your Dream Career: The Process with Allie Carr
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Worst Case Scenario DI, Inner Child DI, and the NYC Speaking Tour Session)
Connect with Allie!
- Get into Allie’s spirituality meme account
- Book a 1-on-1 session with Allie!
- Check out Allie’s substack
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
Where To Find Us!
- @tobemagnetic (IG)
- @Lacyannephillips
- Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here
- @Jessicaashleygill
- @tobemagnetic (youtube)
- @expandedpodcast
13 March 2026, 7:00 am - 1 hour 6 minutesEp. 397 - Why Your Nervous System Is Blocking Your Manifestation with Sarah Baldwin
What if your core wounds aren't things to conquer, but parts of yourself that just need to be seen, heard, and understood? And what if the reason manifestation feels effortless in your imagination but impossible in action has nothing to do with motivation…and everything to do with your nervous system?
This week, Jessica sits down with somatic therapist and parts work expert Sarah Baldwin for a conversation that will completely reframe how you understand manifestation. Together, they explore why your nervous system calls the shots on what you attract, and how the self-protective patterns you developed as a child are quietly keeping you from stepping into your purpose, relationships, visibility, and expansion as an adult.
Using Somatic Experiencing & Internal Family Systems (IFS) and spiritual practices, Sarah explains how our minds are made up of different "parts" — inner voices or emotional states, each with their own fears and roles. The parts that learned to protect you in childhood don't disappear; they keep running in the background, quietly shaping what you believe you're allowed to have. Unblocking starts with getting curious about those parts rather than fighting them, and learning to become a loving, attuned parent to your inner child. With nervous system regulation and parts work, you'll move through fear without forcing it, gradually expanding your capacity to hold more goodness.
If manifestation feels clear in theory but sticky in practice, this episode will show you why, and guide you in softening the walls that have been keeping you from the life you've been waiting for.
Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
Resources:
Virtual NYC Speaking Tour + New DI & Journal Prompts
Missed the speaking tour? We’re bringing our NYC conversation straight to your screen—featuring an intimate dialogue with Lacy, Jessica, Jenna Zoë, and Elizabeth Orrigo, plus the Purpose & Soul Essence Deep Imagining and guided journal prompts.
Manifested during the Return to Magic Challenge?Take our Survey to share your thoughts!
Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!
The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.
Get the latest from TBM
- Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge available now!
New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started
- Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire
- Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library
- Ready to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise
Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story
- Submit to Be a Process Guest
- What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!
This Episode Is Brought to You By:
- Anima Mundi - Use code TBM20 for 20% off purchase
- Wildgrain - Use EXPANDED at checkout for $30 off your first box and free Croissants for life!
In this episode we talk about:
- Why your nervous system is the true gatekeeper of manifestation
- The three states of regulation: sympathetic, dorsal vagal, and freeze
- The “invisible wall” that shows up when you try to uplevel
- Why manifestation often feels uncomfortable before it feels good
- Building capacity to receive more goodness in your life
- The role of parts work in unblocking and reparenting
- Vulnerable parts vs. protective parts — and how they work together
- Why procrastination, perfectionism, and overachieving are protectors
- Becoming a “competent protector” for your inner child
- The lioness metaphor: soft and attuned, yet ferociously protective
- How adult self-energy creates safety for expansion
- Why intuition is quiet and unbothered (and how to distinguish it from fear)
- Why shining big is an act of healing — not selfishness
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Find our Return to Magic Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Freeze or Fawn DI, Fight or Flight DI, and the NYC Speaking Tour Session)
Connect with Sarah Baldwin!
- @sarahbcoaching on IG
- https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/
- You Make Sense on Apple Podcasts
- You Make Sense - Sarah’s somatic healing program - join the waitlist
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Available now!
The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
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