Marriage and Martinis

Adam Silverstein

Marriage and Martinis is an attempt to present a real, authentic marriage at its core: the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ever-changing dynamics that comprise spousal relationships. Join Danielle and Adam as they explore ev...

  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    "Adolescence" and the Rise of Bro Culture

    When Danielle asked Adam to watch Adolescence, he was a little confused at first. But as he kept watching, he started to put the pieces together as to why. In this episode, they discuss aspects of the series, including how much there's still to learn about teenage life nowadays, and how much we, as parents, have to keep up with.


    Topics include:

    • Andrew Tate's influence on our younger generation.
    • How" Adolescence" relates to the movie "Fight Club."
    • Why podcasters such as Joe Rogan are more insidious than they seem.
    • How Right Wing influencers use "pop culture" and "gossip" to lure people in.
    • In what ways does the Wellness industry lead to "tradwife" culture?
    • What aspects of Danielle and Adam's own parenting do they think they've done well concerning these situations, and how can they improve?


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    7 April 2025, 11:46 am
  • 57 minutes 2 seconds
    Much Ado About....Everything??

    In this "catch up" episode, Danielle and Adam do their best to keep things more on the lighthearted side despite everything being complete chaos. Of course, it's virtually impossible to do that right now, so it winds up being a blended conversation of a lot of different timely subjects for them, including:


    • Adam selling his Tesla, which he also calls, "his favorite thing he ever bought."
    • Adam's thoughts about Danielle's episode with her mom.
    • Danielle's first trip, at age 47, to a dispensary.
    • The reliance of "vices" right now, while we're all on "airport time."
    • Why Danielle just canceled her trip to speak at the largest mom's convention in the world.
    • Why it's hard to bond as partners right now, and how we need to work harder to maintain connection.


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    Episodes mentioned in this episode that you might love:

    Get in B*tches, We're going to F*ck Sh*t Up!

    Eight Decades: An Episode With Danielle's Mama

    Pivot Episodes

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    31 March 2025, 11:26 am
  • 1 hour 17 minutes
    "Chaos, Crafting, and Consumerism," With Gina From The Shabby Creek Cottage

    Danielle has been wanting to sit down with some people who have been inspiring her throughout this new movement to fight for Democracy and humanity. Gina is a content creator whom Danielle has come to really respect and admire for her incredible voice and insight. She was so excited that Gina agreed to be a guest on the podcast. Danielle and Gina discuss:


    • How Gina's brand has morphed and evolved recently.
    • Gina's thoughts about the election results and why there's so many issues surrounding the outcome.
    • Growing up in the south, and how it impacted her ideals and views.
    • Participating in a 100 day consumer boycott.
    • How Gina is staying grounded and "calm-ish" during this period.
    • The process of becoming a "self-sufficient" household.
    • The "extinction burst" of the patriarchy.
    • The necessary conversation Gina had with her husband immediately following the election.

    And so much more!


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    21 March 2025, 12:37 am
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    Eight Decades - A Conversation With Danielle's Mama

    Danielle fully realizes what a privilege it is to be able to sit down with her mom, Linda, and discuss eight decades of her life! And right now, we need to learn from the wisdom and experiences of older women more than ever! In this episode, Danielle and her mom discuss:


    • Linda's childhood: growing up in Trenton, NJ. Which inventions/advancements she most remembers
    • Polio and the vaccine
    • Whether or not there was ever a thought that a woman could choose not to get married and have kids
    • How she raised three activists
    • Did she and her husband ever disagree about politics
    • How worried is she about the state of our democracy
    • The rise in vaccine skepticism, intolerance of immigrants, and the attack on women and other marginalized groups
    • AND SO MUCH MORE!

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    17 March 2025, 11:43 am
  • 1 hour 9 minutes
    ....Brought To You By The Letters "A, D, H, and D"

    Adam and Danielle discuss Danielle's most recent diagnosis. Danielle talks about how this new "revelation" about herself has been somewhat emotional, even though the diagnosis is something she's known about herself for so long. Other subtopics include:


    • Why didn't Danielle tell Adam she was going to get evaluated?
    • What aspect of ADHD has been the most eye-opening for Danielle?
    • How ADHD is further exposing the unfairness of gender roles for women
    • When did Danielle first become suspicious that she has ADHD?
    • Why hasn't Adam done more research, gotten more help concerning his ADHD?


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    10 March 2025, 11:34 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    Do You Feel What I Feel? - An Episode About Support

    In this part follow-up to the post election episodes, part "how do we best support one another in hard times?" episode, Danielle highlights an obvious shift in Adam's overall attentiveness and sensitivity towards her recently. She wonders what has prompted this change, and how Adam feels since making it. What is Adam doing differently that Is totally making Danielle feel seen and heard in a way she never has before? She also asks whether or not he's still listening to Joe Rogan, and what he thinks about "bro culture" amidst the current state of things in the country. Additionally, as Adam is facing new endeavors in his business life, how can Danielle best support him? What methods of care and comfort are most effective for Adam from Danielle? Plus, we polled around 5,000 members of our audience about the current state of their relationship and mutual support at the present moment. Danielle reads the answers, and discusses what their audience thinks about how differing views of the current administration is affecting their relationships.


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    3 March 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 13 minutes
    MnM Vintage - The Challenge

    Danielle and Adam have the opportunity to choose one challenge for each other to complete in the next thirty days. They discuss how they came up with these challenges, how they think one another should go about doing the work to complete them, and what the ultimate goal is for each.

    Start your challenge now!

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    24 February 2025, 10:53 am
  • 1 hour 30 minutes
    What does Danielle REALLY need?

    Following up to their episode from two weeks ago, "What does Adam REALLY need?" it's Danielle's turn to discuss what it is she most wants and needs from a partner at this stage of life. Danielle and Adam discuss:


    • What does "romance" even mean anymore?
    • What's the difference between being "sweet" and being "romantic?"
    • What did Adam ask Danielle for the first time a few days ago that he had never asked her before?
    • Why "companionship" is taking on a more important role the older Danielle gets?
    • In what ways has Adam really stepped up and showed he's finally listening to certain needs that Danielle has long expressed?
    • Why "self-awareness" can help avoid so many issues in a relationship.


    Want to follow the same steps as Adam and Danielle when they were working on healing their relationship? Check out the 30 Day Challenge!


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    17 February 2025, 10:00 am
  • 47 minutes
    Get In, B*tches. We're Going To F*ck Shit Up.

    In this highly requested episode, Danielle gives her perspective concerning the current F*ckedupedness happening in our country. Things seem REALLY bleak. And yes, we have a sh*t ton of work to do. But Danielle also wants everyone to remember, that this HAS always been our country. This time, we just have no choice but to not look away. In this episode:

    • Why Danielle is optimistic, while also enraged and of course, worried.
    • How our upbringings as Gen-Xers and Millennials give us a false sense that our country is "more divided than ever."
    • Her very philosophical comparison of Trump to Charlie and The Chocolate Factory.
    • Why we CANNOT look away right now, and what we can do to stay motivated.
    • Small ways we can make a different even while being exhausted AF.


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    12 February 2025, 1:48 pm
  • 58 minutes 13 seconds
    What Does Adam REALLY Need?

    After what was possibly the most volatile year of their relationship, Danielle asks Adam what he truly, at this point in his life, needs from a partner. Also, how is Danielle doing satisfying these needs? How have his needs changed over the years?


    Some other things discussed:

    • Why did Adam recently think Danielle might be cheating on him, and how did he react?
    • What romantic gesture did Danielle make in an attempt to kickstart the two of them "dating" each other again?
    • Adam's semi-viral text to their kids, and why Danielle calls it, "one of the sexiest things" Adam has ever done.


    Look out for next week's episode when it's Danielle's turn to tell Adam what she really needs.


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    27 January 2025, 10:00 am
  • 58 minutes 25 seconds
    And on the 9th day he said, "Do not throw a DIY Bar Mitzvah!"

    One week after throwing their third child a "DIY" Bar Mitzvah, Adam and Danielle reflect on the process leading up to the event, and the service/party themselves. Some questions/topics include:


    • What's involved with becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anyway?
    • What untraditional practices did they decide to include, and which traditions did they not follow?
    • How do they feel their family's connection to their religion might change moving forward?
    • How much does a Bar/Bat Mitzvah actually usually cost?
    • What were each of their favorite parts of the event?
    • What parts were the most stressful/overwhelming?
    • What advice would they give other parents planning any type of big celebration for their chil(ren)?
    • If they had to do it again, what would they do differently?


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    There are so many party decoration services out there these days, it's truly hard to know which one to hire! Luckily, Danielle has done the work for you! Time To Party is above and beyond when it comes to everything from customer service, to creativity, down to the small but impactful details. This isn't your average party decorating brand, and your guests will realize that the second they walk into the room and are blown away! And follow on instagram to see just how phenomenal these masterpieces are.


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    9 December 2024, 10:00 am
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