Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What's one of the stupidest things you've ever done?

Links for this episode:

Meredith’s plant identification app – Picture This -
https://picturethisai.com

Scott’s recommendation for installing software quickly and safely:
https://Ninite.com

Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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If you’re in the Austin, Texas area – let’s meet up. I’ll be in Austin the second week of March – and this is 2026, for you listeners of the future – we’ll have another in-person Listener Meetup on March 11. This is where you can come and hang out with me and other podcast listeners, have a drink, ask a question, whatever. I’d love to get to know you! All of the details can be found in the What Was That Like Facebook group, at WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook.

And now, on with today’s episode, which needs a content warning for discussion of suicide.

Here in the US, 1 out of every 3 women have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner. My guest in this episode is Alyssa. She WAS that 1 out of 3.

This is a Flashback episode. Alyssa told this story on the podcast way back in episode 16, more than 7 years ago. Unfortunately, as sometimes happens, I was not able to get in touch with her recently for an update.

Alyssa lives in Tennessee and she’s really into music. She’s a musician, a songwriter, and an audio engineer. Her boyfriend, Jared, was abusive to her - emotionally and physically – and police were actively planning to arrest him. But before that could happen, Jared decided he would take his own life. And he wanted to do it in a way that would be disturbing and traumatic for anyone nearby.

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/247

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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As parents, you want your child to be healthy and happy. And you’ll do anything to make that happen.

But that’s not always easy when your child is autistic.

Science and medicine has learned a lot about autism, but there’s still a lot of mystery around it as well. What causes it (if anything), how to treat it… there are lots of questions that are still unanswered. And a successful treatment protocol for one person might not work as well for another one.

My guest today is Sarah. She and her husband, Brian, have a son named Devon, who has severe autism. Devon would have sudden behavior incidents that often turned violent, and he could hurt himself, or his parents, or his siblings. Of course, as his mother, Sarah wanted desperately to help him. But it got to the point where she didn’t know what to do.

Then she found out about a hospital that could possibly help Devon. After years of frustration and exhaustion, there was maybe some hope. And with an adjustment in medication, she saw some progress with Devon.

What horrified her was finding out what was actually happening at that hospital.

This is the organization that Sarah mentioned as a resource:

https://collaborateaba.com

The Little Soul and the Sun:

https://www.amazon.com/Little-Soul-Neale-Donald-Walsch/dp/1571740872/ref=sr_1_1

If you’d like to contact Sarah, she’s in the Facebook group:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/246

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What did your boss do that made him/her the worst boss ever?

Links for this episode:

Meredith webcam privacy screen:
https://a.co/d/0hMs0zQF

Scott’s recommended app called Pizza Compass:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/pizza-compass/id642652985

Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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The case of William Moldt shows us that sometimes a mystery has to wait for technology to catch up.

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Here on the podcast we’ve several episodes with guests who have told the story of being attacked by an animal.

These include a grizzly bear, a monkey, a shark, a rattlesnake, a tiger, a pair of dogs, an alligator, and a swarm of yellow jackets. But we haven’t yet had a story about a hippo attack.

Until today.

My guest today is Honor. She was traveling throughout Africa and she learned about the list of animals in Africa that cause the most fatalities. Hippos are number TWO on that list, and number one may surprise you. She told me what it was in our conversation.

Hippos look like they would just want to roll over and scratch their belly. But don’t be fooled. They are extremely territorial, and can get very angry. And, as Honor saw first-hand, they are also quite fast.

If you’d like to contact Honor, she’s in the Facebook group -

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/245

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What are you starting to hate as you get older?

Links for this episode:

Planes, Trains and Automobiles airplane scene -

https://youtu.be/Kw-f9B7FAdQ?si=3V9qMhG1KqQ4cDPj

Children International -
https://children.org

Meredith’s OtO sprinkler system -

https://www.amazon.com/OTO-Lawn-Smart-Sprinkler-Solar-Powered/dp/B0C78GV866/ref=sr_1_6

Scott’s carry-on suitcase -

https://www.briggs-riley.com/products/global-carry-on-spinner

Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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Sometimes, there comes a moment in your life when everything changes.

You might have a little warning ahead of time, or it might come as a complete surprise. It might be a surprise that makes your whole life better, or it could be news that’s devastating. We never know – that’s just how life works.

Justin had a moment like that. He was adopted the day after he was born, so he never knew his birth mother. He had a wonderful childhood, and he loves his family, but he always wondered about the woman who actually gave birth to him.

Then, that moment came – they found each other.

Justin told this story on the podcast more than 7 years ago. And one of the things that I love about this episode is a surprise I had for him during our conversation. You’ll hear it right after the second ad break. I hope you love this story as much as I do.

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/244

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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I wonder if this ever happens to you.

Maybe you’re visiting someone and you’re staying overnight. Or you’re on a trip and you’re staying in a hotel or an Airbnb. And that first time you wake up, you have a brief few seconds where you’re a little disoriented. Like, “Hey, where am I? This is not my bedroom. This is not my bed”. But then it comes back to you – oh yeah, I’m away from home right now.

I would think it would be even worse if you woke up and realized you’re in a hospital bed.

For the podcast, I typically don’t do stories that are mainly centered around the guest being in a coma. It’s an interesting concept for sure, but just the fact that someone was in a coma would make for a difficult episode. I mean, how can you tell a detailed story when you were asleep for most of it?

Today we’re going to hear from Scott. He was in a coma for a while. And then he had that experience of trying to figure out “why am I in a hospital...what is going on”. But his story is not really about him being in a coma.

It’s about what the doctor told him when he woke up.

To get Scott’s book, Play From Your Heart:

https://librarytalespublishing.com/products/play-from-your-heart

If you’d like to contact Scott by email:
[email protected]

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/243

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What’s the craziest thing you have put your body through?

Links for this episode:

Bruce the cow causing disruption:

https://youtube.com/shorts/WNM0cV7bViM?si=cKREAXmSXdeqHxaX

Krav Maga – Israeli hand to hand combat fighting:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krav_Maga

Guided tours from a local person -
https://getyourguide.com

Meredith’s site for finding alternatives –
https://dupe.com ok

Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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Tom and Eileen trusted others for their safety, but that trust was misplaced.

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