I live in the Tampa Bay area of Florida, and I like it here. I never have to shovel snow, I don’t have to drive on ice, and earthquakes are pretty rare. I can ride my bike almost year-round.

But - one of the worst things about living in Florida is going through hurricane season. I’m in the Tampa Bay area, which is on the Gulf of Mexico side, so we’re a little more sheltered. But even here, we sometimes have hurricanes that come up into the gulf and cause some damage when the decide to finally come on land. My son David was actually born during a hurricane.

Tara knows about hurricanes because she’s been through a terrifying one. A few years ago she came on the podcast and talked about her experience with Hurricane Dorian.

She and her family were at home, in the direct path of this category 5 hurricane. The flood waters were rising, the high winds were threatening to tear their roof off, and all they could do was sit in the dark attic and watch the water keep rising.

If you’d like to contact Tara, this is her website:

https://tarapyfrom.com/

Get her book here:
https://tarapyfrom.com/order

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https://WhatWasThatLike.com/269

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What do you wish you didn't like?

Links for this episode:

Hu Chocolate:

https://hukitchen.com/

How to turn off YouTube watch history:

https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/95725

Jordan Harbinger episode about alcohol:
https://www.jordanharbinger.com/alcohol-skeptical-sunday/

Bushwacker cocktail recipe:
https://www.liquor.com/bushwacker-cocktail-recipe-5198246

MeUndies:

https://www.meundies.com/

90 Day Fiance -

https://go.tlc.com/show/90-day-fiance-tlc-atve-us

Hot Dudes Reading:
https://www.instagram.com/hotdudesreading/?hl=en

Hector’s Voice:

https://www.instagram.com/hectors_voice/?hl=en

DuckDuckGo:
https://duckduckgo.com/

Down For Everyone, or Just Me?
https://downforeveryoneorjustme.com/

The Flash Food app – for grocery’s best kept deals:

https://flashfood.com/

Meredith’s podcast is The Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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Today marks the 25th anniversary of one of the darkest days in American history.

On Tuesday, September 11, 2001, terrorists hijacked some airplanes and crashed them in New York, Virginia, and Pennsylvania. Nearly 3,000 innocent people lost their lives that day in those attacks.

Many people remember that day very clearly. It’s one of those times where you recall exactly where you were when you first heard the news, and as the events unfolded throughout that morning.

Here on the podcast, every year in September we dedicate an episode to the memory of 9/11. We hear someone tell their story of what they experienced on that day. The past episodes have featured guests who were in New York City.

For a long time, I’ve wanted to have a guest on who was at the Pentagon on September 11. Those stories are not as easy to find. Earlier this year, Felicia contacted me to tell me about her experience at the Pentagon, and I’m pleased to bring that to you today.

May we never forget.

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https://WhatWasThatLike.com/268

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A lot of people have a serious fear – they can’t stand the feeling of being trapped in some way.

And really, there are a variety of ways this can present itself. It could be a really crowded, small room where the exits are not easy to access. Or it could be when you’re on your back and going into an MRI machine and the top surface is like an inch from your face. Some people fear being in a stuck elevator.

I remember having that feeling in high school PE class. We had a few classes where the boys were taught wrestling. So one by one, we’d get paired up with an opponent who was hopefully somewhat similar in size, on a large mat in the gym. And whenever I happened to be underneath the other guy, feeling his weight holding me down, unable to move, I’d briefly get a real panicky feeling until I was able to get up. Did not like that at all – and I was only there for a few seconds.

My guest today, Kevin, knows that feeling. Except in his case, he was stuck there for a lot longer than a few seconds. And what had him trapped weighed about 8000 pounds.

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What group or singer did you see at your first concert?

Links for this episode:

What color are Scott’s shorts?

(see the photo in the episode notes)

Rodney Atkins:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rodney_Atkins

Billy Bob’s Texas -

https://www.billybobstexas.com/

James Taylor

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Taylor

Reduce your hospital bill through charity care:
https://dollarfor.org

Claude AI:
https://Claude.ai

Suno for creating a song:
https://suno.com

Meredith’s podcast is The Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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Scott tells a story: September 11 escapes

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Please note that this episode of What Was That Like has a content warning, for discussion of suicide.

Do you remember when you were seven years old?

At that age, your biggest concerns are playing with your friends, learning new things at school, riding your bike, and what to put on your Christmas list. At least that’s how it is for a lot of kids.

And that’s pretty much how it was for Tracie, who you’re about to hear from. She got along with her older brother and sister, and she loved her mom and dad. To anyone who knew the family, everything seemed fine.

But one day, Tracie’s mom made a decision that no one expected – and it changed their family forever.

If you’d like to contact Tracie, her website is:

https://meetmeridian.co/

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/266

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What was the best surprise you've ever received?

Links for this episode:

Meredith’s episode on PSI:

https://www.meredithforreal.com/podcast-episodes/episode/7b964c6f/ep-343-developing-psychic-abilities-in-a-world-on-fire-is-this-really-that-important

Dr Dean Radin on the best evidence for Psi:

https://youtu.be/6XN93YwLZbY?si=B3b3eO-T_AfH3PtC

James Randi exposes a psychic fraud:

https://youtu.be/7CASghTzNhc?si=NfFMN1reRQPzoQHw

MeUndies:

https://www.meundies.com/

Turn your handwriting into a font:

https://arcade.pirillo.com/fontcrafter.html

Meredith’s podcast is The Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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I’ve never had to testify in court. If I’m ever in a courtroom, I hope it will be as a juror. That hasn’t happened yet, but I’m still hopeful.

For many people, having to appear in court, in front of a judge, and a jury, and maybe a room full of people, can be really nerve-wracking. Every word you say is going into the official record, and you’re under oath – what if you say something wrong, or you remember something incorrectly? There could be a lot at stake, and it could depend on YOUR testimony.

But lawyers know that. And the lawyer that’s on your side, whether you’re the plaintiff or the defendant, is probably going to give you some helpful advice about how to handle the situation.

For my guest today, Ryan, that was part of his job. Today he’s gonna tell the story of when he had to prepare someone to testify in court. This young person was the victim of a sexual assault, so yes, there’s a content warning for this episode.

For Ryan, it’s difficult enough to prepare an adult for what to expect in a courtroom. In this case, he was working on behalf of a seven year old child. And what he learned after prosecuting this case is something he never would have expected.

If you’d like to contact Ryan:

Website: 

https://thebaggagepodcast.com/

Universal link: https://thebaggagepodcast.com/listen

Facebook: 

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559706070847

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/thebaggagepodcast/

YouTube: 

https://www.youtube.com/@TheBaggagePodcast

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/265

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Some people are just not able to handle being put in the Friend Zone.

It’s a pretty common thing. Two people meet by circumstance. Maybe they’re college students who have a class together, or they could be co-workers in an office. They get to know each other, and they become really good friends. They end up spending a lot of time hanging out together outside of work or school. They develop a close relationship, maybe even confiding in each other and having some deep conversations.

Then there’s a problem that comes in. And I know this doesn’t just happen in male-female relationships, and I don’t have any statistics or studies to back this up; it’s just anecdotal. But from what I’ve seen and read, one of the people, commonly the woman, sees the relationship as platonic. They’re just wonderful friends, and there’s no romance involved. But her male friend, thinks otherwise. He’s developed feelings for this woman, and thinks she might have feelings for him too.

Eventually he might express those feelings verbally, or maybe he waits for what he thinks is the right moment and tries to kiss her. That’s when things fall apart. She explains to him that she sees him not as a romantic partner, but just as a close friend. She just put him in the Friend Zone.

And different people handle this in different ways. He’s gonna be disappointed of course, but what about beyond that? After he declared his feelings for her, can they still be friends? Sometimes they can.

But not always. My guest today, Marina, has experienced this. She told this story on the podcast in one of the earliest episodes, back in 2019. She had a friend who actually scared her – because he took things way too far.

Show notes for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/264

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Every other Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.

The question for this episode:

What was your most memorable vacation?

Links for this episode:

Disclosure Day trailer:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCYT8vb2siQ

Carnival cruise to Cozumel:

https://www.carnival.com/cruise-to/mexico-cruises/cozumel-cruises#

Disney adults:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disney_adult

Dark tourism:

https://www.dark-tourism.com/

Meredith’s episode with the lucid dreaming artist:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Omwx67juTKYWymgTaj3rc?si=r6oHbH02R8CuZtmyWTdLJw

Meredith’s episodes related to her trip to Mongolia:

257 https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ZaeMBDjokkgRenRJTUOOb?si=hk0FhoOaRsitaZ4d649evg

250 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7HxpwdF51xhTzmHsjvht7Z?si=uIZoe5hlS7akTT4YzejYzA

246 https://open.spotify.com/episode/0WzkwIYAwdqxylzJjjmSsG?si=-9U7W4nPSQ6HcsMI4P_SbA

241 https://open.spotify.com/episode/0H8Inp10YtwQO6aN03y0qz?si=fIhHKPhWT66aSxaDckldEA

“Jenny” by Tommy Tutone:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WTdTwcmxyo

All Day I Dream About Food:

https://alldayidreamaboutfood.com/

Meredith’s podcast is The Curious Introvert:

https://MeredithForReal.com

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