In this episode, we get to know Patrick Lum, CEO and founder of AsteroidX. We talk about learning how to validate your feelings, commitment issues, not repeating the same mistakes and Patrick shares his formula for happiness. Resources: Patrick’s Website: https://www.asteroidx.ca/  Patrick’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3tjij8y2Xz6GPFuEP2OLyA Be Our Guest by The Disney Institute - https://www.amazon.com/Be-Our-Guest-Perfecting-Institute/dp/1423145844 Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill - https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Landmark-Bestseller/dp/1585424331 Principles by Ray Dalio - https://www.principles.com/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Who is Patrick Lum? - 0:45 * We Are Earth Signs - 1:05 * Growing With a Set of Attributes and Identifying My Strengths - 2:35 * Being Observant and Analytical - 3:30 * The Phone Case Personality - 4:13 * Where the Phone Case Came From - 7:10 * My Haggling Skills - 8:38 * Improving the Services - 9:54 * How Where You Able to Care About the Details? - 11:00 * Be Our Guest - 12:18 * Principles By Ray Dalio - 13:30 * Genetic Testing and Not Learning from My Mistakes - 14:52 * How Do You Deal with Mistakes and Not Repeating Them? - 16:22 * Do You Have Commitment Issues? - 18:00 * Sticking to the Recipe - 20:00 * What Are Your Biggest Most Beneficial Impacts - 21:37 * What’s Your Formula for Happiness? - 26:26 * Being Able to Feel Your Feelings and Validating Them - 28:25 * Trying to Understand “Think and Grow Rich” - 33:38 * How Do You Know When to Ask for Help? - 38:50 * Which Conferences Do You Enjoy Going To? - 41:51 * Seeking Groups of Like Minded People - 43:30 * Working Remotely - 45:57 * How Do You Manage Your Time? - 48:28 * What Has Been a Productivity Hack? - 49:59 * What Do You Do When You Don’t Know the Answer to Something? - 53:05 * Last Thoughts and Naked Bike Parade - 54:38 * Closing - 57:00

In this episode, we get to know Benny Ausmus and his journey getting to starting his company, Big Change Agency. We discuss the differences and affects on leadership to going on a complaining detox to give yourself and the world a chance to level you up. Resources: LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/bennyausmus Big Change Agency - https://www.bigchangeagency.com/ The Bold Type - Mentioned Show from Hulu Fyre Festival Documentary Trailer Hulu - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljkaq_he-BU Fyre Festival Documentary Trailer Netflix - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZ0KNVU2fV0 Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Clearing Up a Moment in the Show - 0:35 * Who is Benny Ausmus? - 3:18 * Big Change Agency - 3:48 * My Day to Day - 4:18 * My Interests - 4:30 * How Did You Get Into This Work? - 4:50 * Similar Stories and Variety - 9:00 * Needing Variety and Adventure - 9:58 * Did You Find Some Books Repetitive? - 10:27 * Did You Start Seeing Consistencies In What You Learned? - 11:22 * What is Leadership Awareness? - 12:45 * My Definition of Leadership - 14:09 * People Centric Leadership - 16:15 * Power In It’s Simplest Definition - 17:25 * Examples of People Centric Leadership - 18:20 * Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz - 19:15 * Triggering a Transformation - 21:41 * Leaders Affecting to a Change - 24:19 * What Makes a Difference in These People - 25:31 * A Belief That Every Leader Has the Answer - 28:54 * An Example: Fyre Festival - 31:44 * What Would a Leader ‘A’ Do vs. Leader ‘B’? - 36:10 * The Paradox on Personality Traits - 39:50 * Influence and the Ego Drive - 41:01 * The Biggest Problem With Self Awareness - 42:37 * Do Unaware Leaders Attract Unaware Employees - 43:40 * Will Leader ’B’ Attract and Train More ’B’ Typer Leaders - 45:11 * There’s No Going Backwards - 45:55 * How Would You Able to Look for a Leader ’A’? - 49:45 * The Issue with Self-Awareness and a Leader - 53:00 * How to Move Towards Empathetic, Courageous, Responsible and Resourceful - 55:10 * Closing - 58:12

Episode Description: In this episode, we get to know Irwin Hau of Chromatix and get a walkthrough on the book he’s writing. He shares his knowledge on clarity, models, and having a fantastic 4 that helps your personal journey. Resources: Chromatix - https://www.chromatix.com.au/   LinkedIn - https://au.linkedin.com/in/irwinhau   Streetlights App - https://www.streetlightsbible.com/downloadslapp/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Bose Noise Canceling Headphones - 0:48 * Melbourne Is a Quiet City - 2:10 * Digging Into Irwin’s Brain and Feelings - 2:32 * The 5 Areas of Irwin - 3:35 * Clarity Has Been a Big Part of My Journey - 7:27 * Realizing When and Giving a Tip - 8:08 * 5 Words for My 5-Year-Old - 11:19 * Chapter 1 of My Book - 13:04 * Having a Fantastic 4 - 14:00 * Cross-Pollinating Hobbies, Interests, and Business Together - 18:00 * Finding Myself in My Early 30s - 20:28 * 100s of Notebooks I Don’t Look At - 23:05 * Has Writing Everything Down Given You Clarity? - 24:10 * The Power of the Right Question - 24:48 * What’s Your Unfair Advantage? - 26:31 * Finding Your Passion - 28:38 * Seeing How Unlike Things Connect - 30:24 * Knowing How to Read People In Magic and In Business - 33:42 * Being Into Transferable Skills - 35:10 * Being An Emotional Person With Mental Models - 36:28 * Legacy Book, Not Changing the Past, and Helping Others - 37:52 * What’s My Purpose? - 40:32 * Knowledge and God - 41:30 * Asking 5 Things You’ve Learned in Life - 42:26 * The View of What My Parents Have Given Me - 43:30 * The Tangible and The Intangible - 45:36 * What’s the Definition of Success In Writing? - 46:40 * How Do You Ask Better Questions? - 47:48 * The Idea of Success, Growth, and Content - 48:54 * Getting to a Place of Contentment - 54:00 * Finding About My Faith and What I Was Made For - 54:38 * Modeling Off Jesus and the 4 Key Areas - 57:25 * Streetlights - 58:30 * Working On Physical - 59:00 * Helping Others and Give Them Mental Models - 59:42 * A Lot of Great Advice On How to Live - 1:00:30 * Asking the Right Question - 1:01:55 * Wrap Up - 1:03:24 * Last Thoughts/Suggestions - 1:04:15 * Closing - 1:06:37

In this episode, we get to know Thomas Rudge of Consult Power. We discuss his journey and life growing up in New Zealand. He also goes over on the process of taking control of your life and being positive to be the manager of your life. Resources: Consult Power - https://www.consultempower.com/ https://www.facebook.com/consultempower/ Life Strategies By Dr. Phill McGraw - https://www.amazon.com/Life-Strategies-Doing-Works-Matters/dp/0786890983 Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Who Is Thomas Rudge? - 0:38 * Transitioning from Resort to Mining Sector - 2:19 * Chevron and Bechtel - 3:37 * What is Mining Camp? - 4:28 * Being In Multiple Projects - 6:40 * When Did You Realize Your Purpose? - 7:46 * It Takes a Little Extra Thought to Make a Difference - 10:08 * What Took You Longer to Dig Deeper and Lift That Barrier? - 10:49 * The Reaction of Pushing Away and Not Facing It - 12:54 * Leaving the Mining Sector - 14:41 * 9 Weeks of Stress Levels Coming Down - 18:45 * Knowing When to Reach Out for Help - 20:53 * How to Relate With Excelling in a Career - 23:55 * Talking About the Process - 25:20 * The Effect of Balance of Right and Wrong - 30:56 * Next Step: What Is Your Belief System - 32:45 * Bringing Out the Joy Before the Pain and BDSM - 37:14 * Constructing Your Character - 38:55 * Do Some People Still Struggle Afterwards? - 41:30 * My Character and Growing Up in New Zealand - 43:10 * Playing Rugby Around the World - 46:50 * Have You Always Had a Positive Outlook About Your Past? - 49:37 * Highly Emotional Moment - 50:43 * You Are the Manage of Your Life, You Are the Designer of Your Destiny - 52:03 * You Have Control Over Your Life - 53:23 * Closing - 55:13

In this episode, we get to know Ray Good on his life as a DJ to starting up his own company in mindfulness meditation, The Good Place. Not to be confused with the tv show of the same name. Resources: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/raygood/ Website - https://www.goodplace.com.au/ The Seat of the Soul - https://www.amazon.com/Seat-Soul-Anniversary-Study-Guide/dp/147675540X/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_14_t_0?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=DJZZWE52JMHBD4DFG4JC Viktor Frankl - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viktor_Frankl Calm - https://www.calm.com/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Who Is Ray Good and The Good Place - 1:00 * What Type of Business Where You In Before? - 1:42 * How Did You Learn You Were Unhappy? - 4:26 * Making a Change and Trying a New Lifestyle - 7:03 * Making a Living Out of Mindfulness and Meditation - 11:31 * The Avicii Documentary and Keeping Up the Lifestyle - 12:47 * The Word Balance - 14:45 * Did You Practice TM for a While? What Has Your Mediation Journey Been? - 15:20 * What’s a Scientific Statement On Mindfulness That Stands Out For You? - 18:27 * What’s Your Relationship on Mindfulness and the Research? - 19:45 * An Increase Population in Practicing Mindfulness and Mediation - 22:00 * Working On a Festival and Meditation Practices - 23:14 * Focus Awareness, Open Monitoring, Metta/Love and Kindness Meditation - 24:08 * Meditation Journey - 27:11 * Working On Yourself Effects Everyone Around You Also - 29:10 * You Gotta Power Down to Power Up - 31:00 * Meditation Is an Exercise for Your Mental Health - 31:40 * Recognizing the Investment of 2% of Your Day - 32:25 * How Long Does It Take Someone to Realize Their Return On Investment - 33:34 * The Biggest Challenge On Adopting This Practice - 34:23 * We’re Always Working and We Need to Set Boundaries - 37:44 * Making It a Priority to Adapt It - 38:48 * Setting The Time Aside Is the Most Difficult Part - 39:28 * Having Your Space You Can Always Come Back To - 40:00 * Is Being a DJ and Playing Music Like Meditating? - 41:19 * Endless Possibilities In Mediation - 44:33 * Learning Not to Caught Up In Our Thoughts, Feelings, and Emotions - 46:18 * Tips On a Daily Basis with Micro Meditation - 47:32 * How Long is Your Morning Mediation? - 50:18 * What Is Your Morning Mediation Like? - 50:33 * Observing Mediation - 52:04 * Do You Experience Any Emotionally Attached Experiences? - 53:54 * The Seat of the Soul - 57:02 * Last Thoughts/Closing - 58:22

In this episode, we get to know Daniel Teitelbaum, the walking encyclopedia on Play, and how he focuses on adults with play work development. Resources: LinkedIn -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-teitelbaum-4a785b51 Website - http://www.danielteitelbaum.com/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Who Is Daniel? - 0:48 * Meeting Daniel at a Play Workshop - 1:15 * 150 Books on Play - 2:41 * The Right Way On Play with Children - 3:13 * What is Play Work? - 6:18 * The Metalude - 6:32 * Are Most Adults Play Annihilators? - 9:00 * A Bad Muscle Memory That Stops Us When We Feel Self Conscious - 10:42 * A Situation in the Book Free Play - 11:44 * We Don’t Realize the Rules We Follow Without Realizing It - 12:50 * Can Play Help Your Relationships? - 13:30 * Putting a Constraint On Something Is a Form of Play - 16:44 * I’ve Been Studying the Soul - 20:38 * The Value of Play In Different Cultures - 23:18 * Is Possible to Play with People Who Aren’t Playful - 25:24 * Playing Out An Activity - 27:26 * How Play Can Help In a Situation? - 30:43 * What Are Your Personal Go To? - 36:33 * Lego Serious Play - 38:36 * Being Very Intuitive - 40:32 * What Is Clown Work? - 42:20 * What Is the Internal Journey of Taking the Class? - 46:11 * What Kind of People Do This and Why? - 47:22 * Have You Been Practicing? - 48:47 * The Sensitivity That Makes Life More Enjoyable - 49:24 * A Moment In Clowning Class - 51:25 * Play Is Something to Look Into - 53:00 * Extra Real Life Examples - 54:10 * Closing - 57:18

In this episode, we get to know Abrar Patel of AP Web Solutions. He explains to us how search engine optimization works and why it’s importing for your business growth. Resources: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/abrarpatel AP Web Solutions - https://www.apwebsolutions.com.au/ DISC Test - https://www.tonyrobbins.com/disc/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected] Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Who Is Abrar? - 0:54 * What Is AP Web Solutions? - 2:19 * Babe Ruth - 4:40 * A Hairstylist Picking One Specialty - 5:00 * Being Recommended On What You Do Well - 5:38 * A Tweetable Moment - 6:27 * So Many Different Ways of Using Google - 6:45 * Organic Growth and Search Optimization - 8:05 * Amazon’s Search Keywords - 11:08 * Hating Adwords Express - 11:52 * Amazon and SEO - 13:42 * There’s Nothing Better Than the Human Touch - 14:34 * How Do You Help Identify a Target Customer? - 16:22 * The Initial Stages of Research for the Customer - 18:28 * Attributing During the Holiday Seasons - 18:58 * The Challenges of Convincing Clients Why You Need SEO - 22:05 * Identifying the Buying Stages - 26:52 * My DISC Profile is Flat - 28:48 * Going from Medical Medicine to SEO - 32:15 * Not Knowing What You’re Getting Into - 39:15 * Make Changes So You Can Be Where You Want to Be - 39:48 * How I Opened My Mind to The Larger Ideas - 42:58 * Finding the Way You Choose to Live Your Life Now is More Enjoyable - 46:14 * Transferable Life Skills - 48:31 * Closing - 51:40

In this episode, we get to know how Gretchen Williams got to start up her own business with Heartbreak Coffee Roasters and her experience working for Blue Bottle Coffee. Resources: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-williams-968b06a2/ Heartbreak Coffee Roasters - http://www.heartbreakcoffeeroasters.com/ Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected]   Episode Notes: * Intro - 0:00 * Not Trusting Myself in Being a Good Manager - 0:38 * Sometimes You Need Something to Do Work for You - 0:50 * The Challenge On Hiring New People - 1:10 * Learning About Trust and Working With Other People - 1:44 * First Starting Heartbreak and Opportunities - 2:24 * Holding Yourself Back - 3:35 * Building Skill By Practicing - 4:38 * Feeling It Wasn’t Good Enough - 5:51 * Putting In the Work - 6:31 * Opportunities That Were Turned Down - 7:11 * A Lesson in Interdependence - 10:32 * Having a Hard Time Asking for Help - 11:32 * Do You Know When Others Need Help? - 11:58 * Atuned to Other People’s Needs - 13:38 * Sensitive to Energy - 15:10 * The 5 Love Languages - 16:37 * Relationships - 17:15 * Anxiety, California, and the Social Level - 18:45 * Making Heartbreak Unique and Separate from Others - 26:30 * Things Are a Lot Harder in California - 28:16 * The Process of Opening Up a Business - 29:09 * The Health Department - 30:15 * Succeeding Means Surviving - 31:42 * Believing That Being Relevant and Having Wealth Is Success - 33:48 * The Essence of a Unique Place - 36:52 * Creating Something Sustainable - 39:40 * People I Know Vs. Those I Don’t - 40:18 * Having a Dry Sense of Humor - 43:09 * Being a Woman in a Male Dominant Coffee Industry - 44:17 * A Coffee Shop Experience in Long Beach - 47:45 * Tiffany’s Experience in the Coffee Industry - 49:10 * Not Being Taken Serious as a Woman - 50:18 * It Must Be Really Tough Being a Man - 53:10 * Not Being On Social Media - 54:25 * Introducing Something New to a Community - 55:20 * Learning About the Coffee Industry - 1:01:52 * Being Ok With Mediocre Things - 1:03:23 * I Love Good Service - 1:05:54 * The Competition Is the Person Who Would Go the 2 Inches - 1:06:24 * Working At Blue Bottle - 1:08:00 * Wanting to Create The Same Experience - 1:17:07 * The Turnover of Employees - 1:18:21 * Having the Best Service in Vietnam - 1:21:05 * Blue Bottle Has An Infusion of a Family Mentality - 1:23:18 * Places Hiring People With Specialty Coffee Experience - 1:24:11 * Something Unique About Blue Bottle - 1:26:42 * Taking the Time to Hire the Right People and Train - 1:30:32 * Closing - 1:34:22

In this episode, we get to know who Jose is and the work he does with starting this channel. We dive into setting up, notes you should take on projects, and the hurdles of applying your podcast to sites. Resources: Personal Website - thegnsubspace.com LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseemiliogalvan/ Email - [email protected] or [email protected] Posh Incredible Transformations - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/posh-incredible-transformations/id1377517663?mt=2 Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyrz1fZpMDHSfGm7t29ieOA/featured Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected] Timeline: Intro - 0:00 Did You Enjoy Your Lunch? - 0:06 Show Guest Intro - 0:16 Guests With Mic Placement and Recording - 0:25 Welcome to the Podcast - 3:42 What Jose Does - 3:53 When I Gave You This Project, Was It Intimidating? - 4:54 I’m Paying Jose to Watch Me Be a Weirdo - 6:22 I Have a Hard Time Managing People - 6:40 Jose Is Always Looking to Improve - 7:30 What Difficulties Did You Come Across? - 8:45 Look Out for Your Transitions - 11:13 Working Remotely From Different Locations - 11:33 I Can Be Very Meticulous - 12:07 Nobody Is Gonna Listen to the First Episodes - 12:32 It’s Been a Learning Step - 13:03 The Hurdles with Application Process - 13:52 Zoom Recording Settings - 18:18 What Is Your Setup? - 19:11 What You Need When Starting a Podcast - 21:32 Preferred Audio Settings - 22:49 Understanding Quality - 23:50 Going Over the Specifics - 29:53 Optimization Is New To Me - 30:48 Knowing Things Makes You Appreciate Quality - 33:14 Procrastinating to Be Perfect - 34:55 Being to Myself - 36:35 Anything Else You Want to Share? - 38:47 Preferred Time Of Day to Work - 43:55 Closing/Last Thoughts - 45:08

In this episode, we learn about Tim Smith. The stories range from how he started a weekly networking event and hosting his own events to the importance of business cards and the benefits of having a networking circle. Resources: Soda Rock Diner in Melbourne - Yelp! Posh Incredible Transformations - Subscribe to Our Show Here! Youtube Channel - Subscribe to Our Channel Here! Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected] Social media handle: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tim-smith-fx/ Blog Post from Our Site About Tim Smith - http://poshinc.com/speed-networking-skills-practice-immediately/ Episode Notes: Intro - 0:00 Wanting a Milkshake - 0:50 Ordering Food - 2:00 Meeting Over a Year Ago - 2:25 Starting a Weekly Networking Event - 2:40 How Did the Newsletter Start? - 4:00 How Did it Start with You Hosting Your Own - 5:30 Running a Network Group - 6:35 Being Associated with Something - 8:04 My Elevator Pitch - 9:04 You Gotta Have a Niche - 10:20 How Many People Are in Your Direct Network? - 12:43 What Types of Networking Events Give you the Best Type of ROY? - 14:28 Introducing Yourself - 15:24 Having Business Cards - 16:48 Speed Networking - 17:35 How I Refer My Business Cards - 18:30 Coffee Chats - 19:38 Collection of Business Cards - 20:55 Understanding How to Network and Follow Up - 21:34 How Much Do You Give Into Your Network Before Getting Anything Back - 23:32 Launching a Cold Calling - 27:07 Scammers in the Foreign Exchange - 31:18 Has Your Quality of Life Changed with the Freedom From Work? - 33:44 Being a People Person Having Aspergers -35:35 Do You Have Any Tips For Parents with Kids or People That Are In the Spectrum - 41:59 Do You Listen to Music? 47:00 What Do You Do to Relax? - 48:24 My Poetry - 50:36 Where Do You Go to Get Your News Updates? - 51:20 If You Had to Come Up with a New Name for Nappie, What Would it Be? - 53:23 Closing/Last Thoughts - 58:31 Outtakes - 59:32

In this episode, we learn about Oz Chen. The stories range from how he started as a writer and getting back into work to working on your creative self and working with a long distance relationship. Resources: Posh Incredible Transformations - Subscribe to Our Show Here! Youtube Channel - Subscribe to Our Channel Here! Website - Poshinc.com Email - [email protected] Social media handle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ozchen/ https://www.ozchen.com/ Links to his course: https://www.udemy.com/user/osbornechen/ https://www.uxbeginner.com/ux-career-coaching/ Episode Notes: Intro - 0:00 Flying Back from Taiwan - 5:37 Does Traveling Take A Lot Out of You? - 6:05 Melatonin and Sleep Apnea - 6:23 What Got You Into Working Again? - 7:20 Remote Work - 8:00 The glamorization of Having Your Own Business and Entrepreneurship - 8:30 Wanting a Team in Entrepreneurship - 10:10 How Do You Feel About Going for a Position You Have No Experience In? - 11:30 Blogging In The Old Days - 12:30 What Have You Notice About Yourself Since You Started Your Entrepreneurial Journey - 14:28 How, What and When Caused this Step Back? - 15:48 How Objective Are You is a Very Subjective Question - 17:00 You’re Pretty Go with the Flow - 19:18 You’re Writing Has Flavor and to the Point - 21:02 How Has Your Creative Process Changed? - 22:42 Tackling Low Self Confidence - 23:40 Find the Earliest Work of the People You Admire - 25:25 Desi Perkins -25:52 What Are Your Current Goals? - 27:20 Doing All of the Drugs - 31:10 I Wanna Build Something Big - 32:20 This Struggle In Writing - 33:40 Choosing Your Default Path - 35:00 What Would Your Older Self Tell Your Younger Self - 36:00 The Idea of Starting a Podcast Too - 37:30 Following Your Curiosities - 39:34 Have You Talked About Your Dating Life? - 41:00 If Someone Shows You the First Time Who They Are, Believe Them - 41:40 If Someone Where to Judge You Harshly, What Would That Say About Them? - 44:10 Giving Off Mean Vibes - 46:20 Chasing This Girl Around Spain - 47:10 Long Distance Relationships - 49:10 Taking a Weekend Trip Together - 51:04 Potential Boyfriend Checklist - 51:50 Do You Like Who You Are When You’re With Her? - 52:20 Last Thoughts and Wrap Up - 53:05