Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case. 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast.

Handy links

Send Mrs H your phrase at [email protected] 

Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder 

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date! 

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Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

You can read about us in USA Today here: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/03/07/swinging-emotions-sex-relationships/72675532007/

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today!

Thanks for hopping in to our podcast!

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you. 

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at [email protected]

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Links and stuff

Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream...

https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK

https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77

https://twitter.com/jakrox23

https://twitter.com/funcouple512

https://twitter.com/newforestcouple

If we missed you off, sorry!

Don't forget, club tickets to our B&W event with Wanderlust Swingers are still on sale. Head here to grab yours now: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!

This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled episode that we hope we keep those January blues well away! 

Thanks for hopping into our bed! 

Handy links

FYI - our Southampton Social for January is now sold out - as are hotel tickets for the B&W Ball with Wanderlust Swingers.

Get club only tickets to the B&W Ball here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Check out our website here: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

Find out more about Xstasia here: https://www.xtasia.co.uk/ 

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email ([email protected]) or DM us on X (https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK) 

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more about the room crawl, action on the buses and why we went to bed so late.

We talk a little bit about our next event and also announce our bed hoppers social in January.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Important info

Want to come to our social event on 27 January 2024? Drop us a message and we'll send you the deets as soon as they are available.