- 2 minutes 22 secondsNavigating the GRAY ZONE: It's Complicated...
This season we’re diving into the unspoken questions of Christian dating—think making the first move, hearing God’s voice, and navigating attraction—by tackling the conversations everyone’s afraid to have!
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3 June 2026, 8:00 am - 11 minutes 53 secondsUltimate Guide to Masculine and Feminine Energy in Christian Dating
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22 May 2026, 8:00 am - 8 minutes 2 secondsTrapped in Relationship Limbo? Here's What's Really Happening
This month for our bonus epsode in Patreon we're tackling the biggest question we've been asked lately. How long should you stay in something confusing? They're not sure about you...now what? Should you stay or should you leave? Tune in to get answers!!! Join School of Dating Now! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true . . . . .
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24 April 2026, 8:00 am - 54 minutes 12 secondsS17 Ep293: Bitterness, Comparison, and Scarcity: Navigating Singleness and Disappointment with Bianca Juarez
Today we’re diving in with Bianca Juarez, who gets real about heartbreak, disappointment, and the power of holding onto hope. Plus, she shares her journey of restoration after loss and what it means to find redemption in unexpected places!
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18 March 2026, 8:00 am - 45 minutes 24 secondsS17 Ep 292: Breaking the Cycle of Body Shame and Finding Confidence in Dating with Jordan Lee Dooley
Today we’re joined by Jordan Lee Dooley, who vulnerably shares her journey with body image, body shame, and embracing health as an act of worship, plus practical encouragement for showing up confidently in dating!
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11 March 2026, 8:00 am - 1 hour 3 minutesS17 Ep291: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People with Stefanie and Caleb Rouse
Today we’re unpacking the signs of emotional unavailability with relationship coaches Caleb and Stefanie Rouse as they share their personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips for breaking toxic dating cycles!
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4 March 2026, 9:00 am - 51 minutes 1 secondS17 Ep290: Overcoming People Pleasing and Codependency in Dating and Relationships with Debra Fileta
Today we’re breaking cycles with Deb Fileta as she dives deep into people pleasing, unpacking its roots, how it affects dating and relationships, and sharing practical steps to walk in healthy, God-centered connection!
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25 February 2026, 9:00 am - 9 minutes 5 secondsChristian Bachelor and Q&A
Join us today to listen in to a bonus episode in Patreon. A couple weeks ago we had a Christian bachelor event with two different bachelors. We finish up with a Q&A!
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20 February 2026, 9:00 am - 48 minutes 46 secondsS17 Ep289: Limerence vs Infatuation: How to Recognize and Heal Unhealthy Romantic Fixation
Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for anyone struggling to break free from obsessive romantic fantasies!
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18 February 2026, 9:00 am - 48 minutes 46 secondsS17 Ep288: Breaking Cycles of Weak Discernment and Blind Trust with Lysa TerKeurst
Today we’re joined by the incredible Lysa TerKeurst as she gets real about healing from betrayal, rebuilding trust, and finding hope in dating again after an unwanted divorce!
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11 February 2026, 9:00 am - 1 hour 5 minutesS17 Ep287: Healing the Mother and Father Wound with Justin and Abi Stumvoll
Today we’re diving deep with Justin and Abi Stumvoll as they unpack the realities of mother and father wounds, discuss how our childhood impacts our dating lives, and share practical steps for healing and self-compassion!
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