Good Moms Bad Choices
Good Moms Bad Choices
Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.
- 50 minutes 8 secondsIs Santa A Dominatrix?
If you’re managing kids, traditions, expectations, and still trying to find a moment for yourself... WELCOME TO THE TRIBE!
This week, Good Moms chat about their Crenshaw mall holiday pictures with Black Santa, mom gift-buying guilt, their "I still dont like YOU!" list and some HO-HO-HOLIDAY WHORIES.
You can expect to hear:
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Family Pictures with Black Santa at the Crenshaw mall
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The pressure to buy the “right” gifts, the procrastination that always wins, and raising kids who suddenly dress like mini adults
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Why psilocybin, Christmas lights, and budget décor somehow feel like self-care this time of year
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Go-to holiday DRANKS (coquito, eggnog + Henny, whiskey season) for when bedtime can’t come fast enough!
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Their holiday alter-egos, from leather-and-lipstick Santa fantasies to “baking in lingerie” energy
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Holiday party stories that prove moms were out here living long before mom life
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A Tarot pull that brings in balance, patience, and choosing the high road… even when it’s hard
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If you’ve ever felt torn between loving the season and being overwhelmed by it, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and part of a community that gets it. Share it with a friend though<3!
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April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷
July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!
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10 December 2025, 11:00 am -
- 59 minutes 42 secondsShocked In Bangkok
Hey Tribe, Good Moms are back from hosting their 19th retreat in Bali! It's crazy the things that can happen when you listen to your intuition! Right now you can get 20% off the upcoming Good Vibes Retreats in Costa Rica and Jamaica , details at the bottom of the description!
This week the ladies recap their Bali retreat, their "chaotic" experience in Bangkok, and the importance of SLOWING DOWN.
You can expect to hear:
- The spiritual softness of Bali and the influence it had on the pace of life
- What it's like raising preteens and the realization that their babies are actually growing up!!
- Bangkok's " red-light district"
- Bangkok Ping-pong shows and the grossness of White Men
- The airport luggage fiasco story
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💰🧢👚 40% OFF GMBC MERCH 🧢👚💰
Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! You might as well get your holiday shopping out of the way now and buy a mom, dad, auntie, or kid some cuteeee merch from our fully owned and operated BLACK BUSINESS!!! We have something for everyone.
🛫🏝️ 20% OFF GOOD VIBES RETREAT 🛫🏝️
Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! We have 2 upcoming trips and only a few more spots left
🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (2 more spots left)
April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷
July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!
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3 December 2025, 2:00 pm - 49 minutes 44 secondsYour Pre-Holiday Grounding Session Feat Lizzy Jeff
This week, Good Moms are resurfacing an episode we know you probably need right now.
As the holidays creep in with family drama, emotional burnout, pressure to “be on,” and zero time for yourself, we wanted to bring back a conversation that helps you slow down and remember your power before the season sweeps you up.
We’re revisiting our episode with the magical Lizzy Jeff because it’s grounding, soothing, and low-key a whole self-care ritual in audio form. If you’re already feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or like you need a little feminine reset…this is the one.
You’ll hear:
- What “toxic goddess culture” looks like in real life (and why you don’t have to be perfect to be in your goddess bag)
- How to reconnect with your feminine energy on the days you don’t feel divine at all
- Simple rituals, herbs, roses, and sensory practices that help you get back into your body
- How to deal with emotional sensitivity without spiraling
- Why your perception of yourself matters more now than ever
- How to actually use your “goddess toolbox” when life gets chaotic
We brought this episode back because it genuinely brings you back to you, your softness, your intuition, your pleasure, your peace. And with everything this season demands, you deserve a reminder that you’re allowed to slow down and honor yourself too.
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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26 November 2025, 2:00 pm - 1 hour 31 minutesWhy You Need To Stop Apologizing Feat. Mel Robbins
This week, Good Moms resurface an important conversation with international best-selling author and wellness thought leader, Mel Robbins. The ladies talk about why saying "i'm sorry" is annoying, weakens your power, invalidates your needs, and denies the support that you deserve. Mel leaves us with some science based tips/tools to soothe the nervous system, and gain our power back.
You can expect to hear:
- How replacing “I’m sorry” with “thank you” shifts responsibility and restores confidence
- Anxiety in the body: how it starts, how it travels, and what actually helps calm it
- The story behind Mel’s “High 5 Habit” and the science that makes it work
- Why taking up space feels uncomfortable for so many women
- The moment Mel gathered us about “disrespecting our business” and leveling up systems
- Childhood patterns, internal voices, and how they follow us into adulthood
- What it looks like to build something out of passion before realizing it’s a real business
- How saying no can be a power move in negotiations and life
- Navigating self-doubt, self-rejection, and why affirmations sometimes fall flat
- The connection between trauma, survival mode, and daily overwhelm
- Tools like high-fiving your heart to soothe the nervous system
- Why celebrating yourself, even for the small things, matters more than you think
- Parenting, identity, and watching our children grapple with the same insecurities we once had
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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19 November 2025, 2:00 pm - 1 hour 25 minutesMy Life & Kid Feat. Parker McKenna Posey
This week Erica & Milah sit down with Parker McKenna Posey AKA Katie from My Wife and Kids about growing up in Hollywood, motherhood at 25, body confidence, birth trauma, and why Parker’s mantra is “I',m a Good Mom first, and a bad btch immediately after.”
You can expect to hear:
- The truth about being a child star turned mom + artist
- Body image after fame & motherhood
- Speaking your truth even when it makes people uncomfortable
- Sex, weed & wellness confessions
- Patriarchy, pleasure, and the power of women who refuse to shrink
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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12 November 2025, 11:00 am - 1 hour 42 minutesIs Every Woman A Witch? Feat. Jessyka Winston
This week Good Moms are joined by founder of Haus of Hoodoo Jessyka Winston to chat what it really means to be a modern day "witch" and why maybe, just maybe, it’s not as scary (or sinful) as they told us in Sunday school!
The three unpack how you're the architect of your reality, what it means to “jump timelines,” and why your vibration might be the only protection spell you actually need. Listen, even the baddest witches still need a reminder to believe in themselves!!
You can expect to hear:
- What the hell is a “fixed candle”?
- The truth about ancestral veneration (and nosy spirits lol)
- Mommy guilt & mystic grace
- Why healing isn’t cute but it’s necessary
- How to stop letting “belief” block your blessings
- Affirmation: “I am the architect of my own reality.”
Light your incense, grab your drink, and remember sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do… is make a “bad” choice.
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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5 November 2025, 11:00 am - 1 hour 12 minutesChristian Witches Do Exist
Happy 7th Halloween with Good Moms!!!
This year Erica and Milah talk about how Christianity scared them out of celebrating Halloween as a kid, discovering that the church has its own "rituals" but condemns "witchcraft" , and respond to some listener horror stories. (The real horror is... people aren't having s*x anymore)
You can expect to hear:
- Halloween & witchy protection
- Bad choices & divine intervention
- Christians can be witches too
- Why men can own their Whoredom and women need a "co-signer"
- Netflix should add a new category called "Whites That Want To Do Better"
- Listener horror stories: ghosts, stalkers & threesomes
- Tarot Segment: Eight of Pentacles
- Affirmation: “It’s Scorpio season B*tch"
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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29 October 2025, 2:56 pm - 1 hour 26 minutesShe was a fairy Feat. Flyana Boss
This week Good Moms, are joined with Flyana Boss, the pink-haired, elf-eared duo who met on Hollywood Boulevard, dropped out of music school, and built a non-traditional sisterhood and a career together.
From following Swedish boys to opening for Janelle Monáe; Join the ladies as they talk about fentanyl birth balloons, fake Karens, buffet religions, and share some of their bad choices.
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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22 October 2025, 1:00 pm - 1 hour 1 minutePower over Dick Feat. We Talk Back Podcast
This week, Erica and Milah link up with their Black Effect Network cousins, AJ and TamBam from We Talk Back Podcast, for a conversation about dating YNs, ghost sex stories, living with your partner, and how to stop settling for bullshit.
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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
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15 October 2025, 1:00 pm - 1 hour 5 minutesLove, Labels, and Motherhood Feat. The Thick Podcast
This week, Good Moms sit down with Tabria Majors and Mindy from The Thick Podcast and talk about evolving through different seasons of life.
Mindy opens up about overcoming religious and cultural guilt to embrace her sexuality, while Tabria shares what motherhood has taught her about balance, body image, and letting go of perfection.
Timestamps:
(08:20) Mindy on coming out and shedding Christian and Caribbean guilt
(9:00) Dating soft men and the double standard around sexuality
(18:22) Making out with your friends
(24:00) Tabria on postpartum, motherhood, and identity after modeling
(30:34) Bad Choice of the week, setting emotional boundaries with friends
(40:00) Navigating conflict within friendships
(45:00) White grandma gets 3 monkeys tattooed on herself to represent her mixed-race grand children
(55:23) Whorie Segment
(58:00) Tarot Segment: Six of Wands
(1:02:12) Affirmation:
- Don't stress over the things you can't control
- Scrub A Dub, Double Scrub, leave me the fuck alone
- Everything I desire, desires me
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8 October 2025, 1:00 pm - 1 hour 26 minutesGood Moms Bad Choices: Misconceptions of a Wild Mom
The Black Effect Presents... Good Moms Bad Choices!
Motherhood doesn’t mean losing your identity, your sensuality, or your freedom.
This week, Erica and Milah confront the outdated “perfect mom” stereotype and challenge the idea that motherhood means: dressing conservatively, hiding your sex life, or being ashamed of smoking weed.
This episode is a reminder that you can be a loving, responsible parent and still show skin, smoke a blunt, and have good sex. It’s not about being reckless, it’s about being real.
You can expect to hear:
- The biggest lies society tells about “wild moms”
- Why it’s perfectly fine to smoke weed
- How to survive your hoe phase after motherhood
- The importance of showing kids how to properly clean themselves, even if you need to include props and Nutella
- Why Banana Republic and kitten heels might be a crime against moms everywhere
- The line between freedom and “put some damn clothes on, mom!”
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