What if the athlete you think you could never become is actually already inside you?

In this episode of the Becoming Elli Podcast, we talk with Hildee Weiss, author of Embracing My Inner Athlete, about what happened when she decided to stop putting everyone else first and start making her own health and well-being a priority.

At 46, Hildee describes herself as a couch potato. She was a wife and busy mother of five who had spent years taking care of her family and putting herself last. Then she began working with a personal trainer, discovered running, and gradually began to see herself in a completely different way.

What started with the goal of running eventually led to 5Ks, 10Ks, half marathons, trail runs and Spartan races. Along the way, Hildee has also faced injuries, illness and surgery — experiences that could have brought her athletic journey to an end but instead became part of her story of resilience.

In this episode we discuss:

• Making the decision to put yourself first
• Discovering running later in life
• When you start thinking of yourself as an athlete
• Consistency when you don't feel like working out
• Coming back from injuries, illness and surgery
• Changing the way you see your body
• How becoming an athlete changed her identity
• Embracing your inner athlete
• It's never too late to start
• What's next?

Links:

Hildee's book, Embracing My Inner Athlete, is available through Simon & Schuster. Website/blog: Hildee Weiss https://youwantmetodowhat.home.blog Instagram: @momoffive68 Facebook: Hildee Weiss

Elli Overton is a three-time Australian Olympic swimmer, mom, TEDx speaker and children's book author. After a successful career in elite swimming, she experienced firsthand the challenges of transitioning away from a career that had defined her identity.

Today, she is pursuing a master's degree in professional counseling while developing her work as a speaker. Her interests include performance, mental health, resilience, self-awareness and what she calls sustainable excellence.

Her current work brings together her professional education and the lived experience she gained as an elite athlete.

Elli Overton competed in three Olympic Games, won multiple World Championship medals and other major international titles, and built her identity around becoming the very best swimmer she could be.

In this episode, we have a candid and surprisingly relatable conversation about what happens when achievement becomes intertwined with identity. Elli shares how coming fifth at two Olympic Games affected the way she viewed herself, how her inner critic took over, and how she eventually began to understand the difference between what happened and the story we tell ourselves about what happened.

While Elli's story begins in elite swimming, the lessons go far beyond sports.

For women over 50, there can be so many moments when the definition of success needs to change. Careers change. Children grow up. Parents age. Bodies change. Relationships evolve. Activities we once did easily may become more difficult.

So how do we decide what success means , rather than continuing to measure ourselves against who we used to be?

We discuss:

• When achievement becomes identity
• The difference between achievement and self-worth
• Why our 50s and beyond can be a time for reinvention
• The inner critic and perfectionism
• Sustainable excellence
• Comparison versus learning from others
• Creating healthier habits
• Finding joy in the process
• A different definition of success

Links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellioverton/

What if living a longer, healthier life has less to do with winning the genetic lottery and more to do with the choices we make?

In episode 197 of the Fit Strong Women Over 50 podcast, Chris and Maria take a closer look at cardiologist and scientist Dr. Eric Topol's recent appearance on NPR's TED Radio Hour, How to be a "Super Ager" (it's not your genes.)

Dr. Topol discusses the science—and the myths—surrounding longevity and anti-aging. His central message is an important one: rather than focusing simply on lifespan, we should be paying more attention to healthspan—the years we live in good health and free from major age-related diseases.

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We have some exciting news to share! If you listened to our Spring Break episode, you know that we asked if anyone would like to join us as a cohost on this podcast.

After 8 years, we had been feeling a bit fatigued with producing our podcast so we were delighted when Maria Molvin contacted us and said she was interested in joining the Becoming Elli team.

It's actually rather nice to be a team instead of just two of us. You may remember that we interviewed Maria in April 2024, just over two years ago. You can check out episode 152 if you want to hear that discussion.

Maria and Jill worked together earlier in our careers, so we've known each other a long time.

In our Spring Break episode, we discuss the switch from soups to salads, getting outside for exercise and new beginnings.

Spring is in the air, and we're feeling energized to shake things up—both in and out of the kitchen.

Chris shares the excitement (and learning curve!) of getting a new bike and figuring out all its features, while Jill has been enjoying time on her e-bike and the freedom it brings to get outside more. Staying active doesn't have to look the same every season, and we're both leaning into what feels fun right now.

Speaking of fun, Chris talks about why she's been line dancing every chance she gets—it's a great way to move, laugh, and connect. Jill is feeling inspired too and is on the hunt for pickleball lessons as she looks to pick up a new sport this spring.

We also dive into some simple food swaps to refresh your routine. Chris shares how she's transitioning from winter comfort foods to lighter options, trading in hearty soups for fresh, satisfying salads. Jill is ready to break out of her food rut and is looking for easy ways to add variety and excitement back into her meals.

Chris highlights a new protein bar she's been enjoying, and Jill shares a quick update on electrolytes—what they are, and why they might be helpful as activity levels increase with the warmer weather.

Finally, we talk about some upcoming changes to the podcast. As we look ahead, we're beginning the search for a co-host who could eventually step in and continue the Fit Strong Women Over 50 mission when we decide to retire.

If you've been thinking about trying something new—whether it's a different workout, a new sport, or a simple food swap—this is your sign to go for it.

As 2025 comes to a close, Chris and Jill slow things down for a thoughtful end-of-year conversation. Instead of a highlight reel or checklist of accomplishments, this episode focuses on reflection, intention, and what it really means to age strong — physically, mentally, and emotionally.

They also share an important announcement:

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In this episode, Jill and Chris welcome back Dr. Glenn Livingston, psychologist, researcher, author, and creator of Defeat Your Cravings. You may remember him from Episode 155—or from his work helping thousands of people stop binge-eating, quiet food cravings, and rebuild a peaceful relationship with food.

Glenn draws on decades of research, including studies with more than 40,000 participants, and his own personal journey out of food addiction. His insights combine practical behavioral strategies with deep compassion for anyone struggling with overeating.

For links and more information visit our website at BecomingElli.com.

This week, Jill and Chris talk with Suzy Rosenstein, master certified life coach, midlife mentor, and host of the Women in the Middle podcast. Suzy has helped thousands of women who feel stuck in midlife rediscover clarity, joy, and purpose. Her signature blend of humor, curiosity, and encouragement inspires women to see aging not as something to fear—but as an incredible opportunity.

Together, we explore the mindset traps that keep women stuck, how to embrace aging with intention, and why midlife can be one of the most meaningful and fulfilling chapters of life.

We discuss:

• Why Midlife Women Get Stuck
• Using Envy as a Tool for Growth
• Fitness, Motivation & Taking Small Steps
• Food, Hormones & Midlife Changes
• Her "FUN" process for navigating midlife with clarity and purpose
• Celebrating Life After 50

For more information and links, visit our website at BecomingElli.com.

In this inspiring episode, Jill and Chris chat with Melissa Wilson, a vibrant grandmother who's redefining what it means to be fit and strong after 60. Jill met Melissa at the gym and has watched her incredible transformation firsthand — from hesitant beginner to confident, strong, and motivated athlete.

Melissa shares her personal fitness journey, the turning point that motivated her to start, and how her mindset and lifestyle have evolved along the way. She opens up about challenges, surprises, and the role that community, consistency, and courage have played in her success.

Whether she's tackling a tough challenge like the Murph, perfecting her lifts, or planning her next goal, Melissa shows that it's never too late to become your strongest self — inside and out.

For more information and links, visit our website at BecomingElli.com.

189 - Mediterranean Diet with Chris and Jill

In this episode of Fit Strong Women Over 50, we're diving back into one of our favorite topics — food! Many of us reach a point where we want to eat healthier, feel better, and still enjoy the foods we love. This past summer my doctor has recommended that I follow the Mediterranean diet, which inspired this episode all about three of the most researched and effective eating styles for women over 50: the Mediterranean, DASH, and MIND diets.

We talk about what makes each plan unique, how they overlap, and why they're all considered top choices for long-term health and wellness.

For links and more information visit our website, BecomingElli.com.