Everything Happens with Kate Bowler

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<p>Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.</p> <p>Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media <a href="https://lemonadamedia.com/">https://lemonadamedia.com/</a>  </p>

  • 46 minutes 9 seconds
    The Randomness of Everything with Mark Rank

    We live in a world that wants life to be fair. Work hard, make good choices, believe the right things—and things should turn out okay. But what happens when they don’t? In this live conversation, Kate talks with sociologist Mark Rank, author of The Random Factor, about the role of chance in our lives. From the lottery of birth to the timing of a missed phone call, Mark’s research shows how much of what we call success—or failure—comes down to forces we never chose.

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    10 March 2026, 7:30 am
  • 50 minutes 26 seconds
    The New Shape of American Religion with Ross Douthat and Molly Worthen

    Kate Bowler invites two of her sharpest friends—Ross Douthat and Molly Worthen—to help her make sense of the current American religious landscape: why the long “decline” story may be shifting, why religious curiosity is popping up in unexpected places, and why the loudest forms of Christianity often feel more online, more political, and more embarrassing. Together they sort through what people mean by “Christian nationalism,” how much of it is symbolism versus policy, what weak institutions and internet incentives are doing to faith, and what still gives them hope for the church.

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    3 March 2026, 8:30 am
  • 49 minutes 45 seconds
    What If Happiness Isn’t What You Think It Is? with Patrik Hagman

    What does it mean to live well when danger, loss, and grief are never far away?

    Kate Bowler talks with theologian, pastor, and writer Patrik Hagman, whose life has been shaped by profound loss—including the death of his father, his young son, and later his wife. Raised in Finland and now living in Sweden, Patrik brings a distinctly Nordic perspective on happiness—not as constant joy or self-optimization, but as contentment, trust, and gratitude that survives close proximity to fragility.

    This is a conversation about living with fewer explanations and more honesty. About faith that refuses easy answers. About the strange clarity that comes when life gets very small and very bright at the same time. And about learning to be less surprised by tragedy—and more surprised by goodness.

    If you’re trying to hold grief and gratitude at once, this episode is for you.

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    24 February 2026, 8:30 am
  • 39 minutes 36 seconds
    There Is More Good Among Us Than We Think with Bishop Michael Curry

    When many people hear the word Christian today, it comes with a lot of baggage—power, certainty, exclusion, and culture-war posturing. But there are still people of faith whose lives look nothing like that. People whose beliefs show up as love. Patient, persistent, deeply practical love.

    Bishop Michael Curry is one of those people. A priest, pastor, and former Presiding Bishop of the Episcopal Church, Bishop Curry has spent a lifetime reminding people that Christianity is not an argument to win or an identity to defend—it’s a practice of love.

    Recorded in front of a room full of pastors, this conversation is a kind of holy pep talk for anyone who feels worn down by a fractured, exhausting world.

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    17 February 2026, 8:30 am
  • 47 minutes 1 second
    Anne Lamott on Love, Shame, and Being Human

    What do we do when the world feels unbearably heavy—and no one is coming to save us?

    To kick off Season 16 of Everything Happens, Kate Bowler sits down live with beloved author and truth-teller Anne Lamott for a luminous, funny, and deeply honest conversation about shame, joy, faith, aging, love, and what it means to keep showing up anyway.

    Recorded in front of a packed house at the historic Carolina Theatre in Durham, Kate and Anne talk about the shame that follows us from childhood, the relief of putting down our armor, and the small, ordinary acts of love that still matter. This is a conversation for anyone who feels tender, overwhelmed, skeptical of easy answers—and still hungry for hope.

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    10 February 2026, 8:30 am
  • 37 minutes 48 seconds
    Listen Again: Clear Eyes, Full Hearts with Minka Kelly

    How do we stay soft in a world that has taught us to be tough? Actress Minka Kelly is known for her roles as Lyla Garrity on Friday Night Lights or as Samantha in HBO’s Euphoria. Despite her fame on the big screen, one might not realize the chaos that surrounded her childhood. Being raised by a single mom who worked as a stripper and struggled with addiction, Minka had to learn how to take care of herself and the adults around her, and, eventually, to forgive her mom. 

    In this tender conversation, Kate and Minka discuss:

    • How we can be built from the outside in through our friendships and how our friends become our chosen family
    • How anger tells us that a boundary has been crossed
    • The unfinished ways people love us—reconciling our complicated childhoods with the love we feel for each another
    • How Minka has processed her difficult childhood through a lens of love and grace
    • The way Minka’s mom was changed by her cancer diagnosis, and how once they found their way to one another again, there could never, ever be enough time

    CW: colon cancer, death of a parent, brief mentions of abuse and neglect

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    This episode originally aired May 2023.

     

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    3 February 2026, 8:30 am
  • 32 minutes 3 seconds
    Listen Again: Life After Dark with Barbara Brown Taylor

    Author and Episcopal priest Barbara Brown Taylor is no stranger to darkness. After experiencing devastating loss, Barbara explores our culture’s pursuit of the sunny side of life. But perhaps there are things we learn in the dark that we can’t learn in the light. Kate and Barbara discuss the two halves of our lives and how to practice courage even in the scariest of circumstances.

    CW: Death of parents, tongue cancer

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    This episode originally aired December 2022.

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    27 January 2026, 8:30 am
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    Listen Again: Loving Mercy with Bryan Stevenson

    Bryan Stevenson (founder of the Equal Justice Initiative) is committed to ending mass incarceration and excessive punishment, to challenging racial and economic injustice, and to protecting basic human rights for the most vulnerable among us.

    In this episode, Kate and Bryan discuss: 

    • The hope that motivates Bryan in this slow, sometimes frustrating work of justice
    • What it means to be a ‘stonecatcher’ (and why it serves both the one being condemned and the one doing the condemning)
    • The power of forgiveness, maybe especially toward those who don’t deserve it

     

    CW: discussion of slavery, lynching, and other racist violence, death row

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    This episode originally aired December 2022.

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    20 January 2026, 8:30 am
  • 57 minutes 13 seconds
    Listen Again: Living with the End in Mind with Kathryn Mannix

    What if you started thinking really concretely about small, hard choices? That’s exactly what palliative care physicians do every day. They help us think about what we really want—knowing that we have limited time and limited resources. You’re going to love our guest today, Dr. Kathryn Mannix, palliative care physician and cognitive behavioral therapist. She offers practical steps to help people and their loved ones make sense of what limited choices they have, navigate any pain and fear they may experience, and gives the most comforting speech on what the end of a life looks like that we’ve ever heard. (I promise this is not scary at all. It is perfect.)

    In this conversation, Kate and Kathryn discuss:

    • Why we want to keep a lid on the scary things of life 

    • What even is palliative care

    • How palliative care-type thinking can help us live better 

    • What happens to hope when facing end of life

    This is a masterclass in walking right up to the edge with people, in the most gentle, compassionate way. 

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    This episode originally aired October 2024.

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    13 January 2026, 8:30 am
  • 44 minutes 3 seconds
    Listen Again: Oliver Burkeman on New Year, Same Me

    Does life ever feel like an endless to-do list? Like if you could just wake up tomorrow with a little more discipline, you’d finally master your schedule, achieve balance, and feel…enough? 

    On today's episode, Oliver Burkeman (bestselling author of Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals) and Kate unravel some of the beautiful lies we cling to about time and control, the fantasy of hyper-efficiency, and what it might look like to embrace the limits that make us who we are. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Oliver discuss: 

    • Some of the most common self-help myths that stand in our way

    • Why the relentless pursuit of self-improvement often leaves us feeling empty, anxious, and overwhelmed. 

    • How embracing our limits can lead to more contentment

    This is a conversation about limits—not as something to overcome, but as a doorway to something richer, deeper, and (dare I say) more human.

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    This episode originally aired December 2024.

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    6 January 2026, 8:30 am
  • 54 minutes 4 seconds
    Third Annual Happy Crappy: Let’s End with the Happies

    What happens when joy shows up anyway? In their third annual Happy Crappies, Kate and her dear friend Kelly Corrigan dare to name what went right in 2025 — personally, professionally, and globally — without apology or superstition. From deeply human moments that no machine could replicate, to long-overdue reckonings that reframe decades of pain, they trace the quiet ways meaning emerges when people really see one another. Along the way, they explore what joy actually is (and isn’t), why it so often arrives as a surprise, and how naming the cost of love might be one of the most hopeful acts we have.

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    30 December 2025, 8:30 am
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