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This week, Marko and Steve are getting cuddly as they dive into the surprisingly important role cuddling plays in our dating lives and relationships. From casual hookups to long-term partnerships, physical affection can communicate comfort, safety, attraction, and connection in ways words often can't.

The guys discuss why cuddling matters so much to our emotional and physical well-being, what science says happens in our brains when we cuddle, and why some people crave constant physical touch while others need their personal space after five minutes. They also break down popular cuddling positions, what they might reveal about personality and relationship dynamics, and whether being the big spoon or little spoon says anything about who you are.

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Psychology Today | 4 Reasons Couples Should Cuddle More

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This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve are skipping the research, ditching the structured topic, and just sitting down for a real conversation. No deep dives. No hot takes. No agenda. Just two friends checking in with each other about life as it’s happening right now.

From dating and relationships to stress, routines, burnout, the state of the world, and the weird emotional weight everyone seems to be carrying lately, Marko and Steve talk candidly about what’s been on their minds — and how important it is to sometimes pause and reconnect without needing a “theme” or a perfectly packaged conversation.

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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This week, Marko and Steve dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of lavender marriages — relationships historically formed to conceal someone’s sexuality in order to protect careers, reputations, family expectations, or personal safety. From Old Hollywood to everyday life decades ago, lavender marriages were often less about romance and more about survival in a society that left little room for LGBTQ+ people to live openly.

The guys unpack why these arrangements became so prevalent, the emotional complexity behind them, and whether they were always as transactional as people assume. Were some built on genuine friendship, companionship, or even love in a different form? And now that LGBTQ+ acceptance is far more visible in today’s culture, do lavender marriages still exist — just under different labels or pressures?

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Psychology Today | The Return of Lavender Marriages

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Somewhere between the first date and settling into a routine, “please” and “thank you” tend to fall off. This week, Marko and Steve dig into the quiet shift from intentional politeness to comfortable carelessness—and whether that shift is harmless… or actually harmful.

They unpack why basic manners aren’t just surface-level niceties, but signals of respect, appreciation, and effort. From early dating, where kindness can sometimes feel performative, to long-term relationships where familiarity can breed complacency, the guys explore how politeness evolves—and what it says about your connection.

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. National Library of Medicine | Putting the "You" in "Thank You": Examining Other-Praising Behavior as the Active Relational Ingredient in Expressed Gratitude

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This week, Marko and Steve are getting real about the quiet pressure many people feel in the bedroom—specifically, the idea that “good sex” means constantly switching things up. Blame it on porn, hookup culture, or just plain insecurity, but somewhere along the line, a lot of us started believing we’re supposed to cycle through multiple positions during any session.

But is that actually true?

The guys unpack where these expectations come from, especially in the dating and hookup phase, where sex can sometimes feel more like an audition than a connection. They also explore how those habits can carry into long-term relationships—where comfort and routine aren’t necessarily a bad thing, but can sometimes be mistaken for boredom.

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Bespoke Surgical | THE 10 BEST GAY SEX POSITIONS: A GUIDE

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This week, Marko and Steve are diving into the real foundation of modern relationships: values. Because let’s be honest—chemistry might get you through the first few dates, but alignment is what determines whether something actually lasts.

The guys unpack what value-based dating really means and why it’s becoming non-negotiable for so many people. From political beliefs to social awareness, they explore how shared values shape not just attraction—but long-term compatibility, communication, and emotional safety. Marko and Steve also get into the nuance: Can relationships survive fundamental differences in beliefs, or does that create cracks that eventually turn into dealbreakers?

To wrap things up, the guys  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. The Guardian | Swiping Right review – punchy questions about dating across the political divide

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This week, Marko and Steve sit down with Dr. Thomas Whitfield (@drthomaswhitfield) to unpack one of the most talked-about trauma therapies right now: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Whitfield breaks down what EMDR actually is, how it works in real time, and why it’s especially impactful for LGBTQ+ patients navigating everything from identity-based trauma to rejection, internalized shame, and the long tail of growing up feeling unsafe to be fully themselves. The conversation demystifies the process—what a session feels like, whether you have to relive painful memories, and why healing doesn’t mean forgetting, but finally being able to move forward without the emotional weight.

To wrap things up, Dr. Thomas Whitfield joins the guys to  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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This week, Marko and Steve dive into the world of work spouses—the coworker you vent to, laugh with, and probably talk to more than your actual partner during the day. They break down why these relationships feel so essential at work, and why they can make even the worst jobs bearable… but also question when that closeness starts to look a little too close.

Because let’s be real—what happens when your real partner isn’t exactly a fan? The guys get into the discomfort, jealousy, and side-eyes that can come with having a work spouse, especially when boundaries start to blur and outsiders (or your significant other) think something more is going on.

To wrap things up, Eduardo joins the guys to  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Psychology Today | The Work Spouse: Indispensable Friend or Playing with Fire?

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In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most frustrating modern dating behaviors: breadcrumbing. You know the type—just enough attention to keep you interested, but never enough to actually go anywhere. The guys break down what breadcrumbing really looks like in action, why people do it (and yes, they call themselves out too), and how to spot the signs before you get too invested.

They get into the psychology behind why breadcrumbing is so hard to walk away from, and debate whether it might actually be worse than ghosting. Plus, they unpack the blurred lines between genuine interest and inconsistent communication, and why so many of us keep responding even when we know better.

To wrap things up, Marko and Steve tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Psychology Today | Breadcrumbing

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Part two is here, and Marko and Steve are back with Eduardo to continue unpacking the occasionally hopeful world of dating apps. 

This week, the trio dives deeper into the psychology of swiping—why we make snap decisions in milliseconds, what we’re really looking for (or avoiding), and how the apps might be shaping our standards more than we realize. 

But it’s not all just swiping and overanalyzing. The guys tackle a major sticking point in app dating: the endless messaging phase. When is it time to stop DM’ing and actually meet in person? And why do so many connections fizzle before they ever leave the chat?

Of course, it wouldn’t be Relationsh!t without asking the big question: is any of this actually worth it? Between ghosting, mixed signals, and swipe fatigue, Marko, Steve, and Eduardo weigh the pros and cons of app dating—and whether the potential payoff justifies the emotional rollercoaster.

To wrap things up, Eduardo joins the guys to  tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. The Hollywood Reporter | Oscars: Full List of Winners
2. Vogue.com | See Every Look From the 2026 Oscars Red Carpet
3. PinkNews | One Battle After Another editor kisses partner after Oscars win in viral clip

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This week, Marko and Steve are joined by their bestie Eduardo to dive headfirst into the wild world of dating on the apps: the good, the bad, and the deeply confusing. From matches that go nowhere to conversations that mysteriously die mid-sentence, the guys unpack the ongoing struggle of trying to keep someone engaged long enough to actually meet in real life.

They question users' intentions for being on the apps, swap frustrations, mixed signals, and the decision to take an app hiatus . But Marko throws a wrench into the whole conversation by asking an important question: Are these behaviors really unique to app dating… or is this real life behavior acted out on an app?

Together, the trio debate whether the apps are the problem—or if they’re just exposing the way people date now.

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Articles:

1. Queerty | New study reveals the US states with the biggest d*cks

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