The Queer Families Podcast
Lacey, a former Mormon and lesbian mom, shares her journey of coming out and building her family with her wife, Gabby. They unexpectedly conceived their first child through at-home insemination and later decided to have more children. After struggling with infertility, they turned to fertility treatments and ended up having triplets. Amidst the joy of their growing family, their oldest child, Jonah, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Lacey recounts the challenges they have faced and the strength and newfound faith they have found as a family navigating this journey together.
Join us for this truly moving episode, which not only celebrates the uniqueness of LGBTQIA families but also highlights the universal aspects of parenting under extraordinary circumstances. Tune in to hear Lacey's full story, and don't forget to subscribe for more inspiring and thought-provoking content that celebrates families in all their diverse beauty.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Lacey is a former Mormon and a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Gabby, has faced significant life challenges. With a deep love for her family, Lacey navigates the complexities of raising four children, one of whom is courageously battling cancer. Her family's journey is a testament to their strength and resilience, with values that emphasize love, acceptance, and the beauty of being true to oneself, regardless of the circumstances.
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Corey Allen, a former Secret Service agent and current future dad on a surrogacy journey shares his experience of leading a double life while working in law enforcement and the challenges he faced as a gay man. He also discusses his surrogacy journey, including the setbacks and the decision to use two surrogates. Corey highlights the financial and legal obstacles that LGBTQ+ families often encounter and the importance of sharing stories to create awareness and promote change. Tune in for an inspiring and informative conversation.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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Corey Allen is a former Secret Service agent with a compelling story to share about his life and experiences. He has served in law enforcement as a police officer and has provided protection for high-profile figures including the Obamas. Corey has also authored the book "Breaking Free," where he shares his saga of self-discovery as a gay Secret Service agent. Currently, he's an advocate for LGBTQIA+ family building.
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Host Jaimie sits down with Megan, Taylor, and Jessica, three married lesbian non-bio moms fighting for legal recognition of their parental rights in Louisiana. They discuss the challenges they're facing in the legal system, the archaic "presumption of paternity" civil code 185 being used against them, and the impact it has on their families. The guests share their personal experiences and the uncertainty they face as non-biological parents. They also highlight the importance of second-parent adoption and the need for better legislation to protect LGBTQ+ families.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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Megan, Taylor and Jessica are residents of Louisiana and members of the LGBTQ+ community. They are advocates for LGBTQ+ rights. Meghan founded NELA Pride, an organization that aims to improve and enrich the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals in Northeast Louisiana.
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Host Jaimie sits down with Kay Anderson, host of the Lost Spaces podcast, for a candid discussion about the complexities of queer family planning, nature vs nurture, and the individual choice to have children. The conversational journey offers a deep dive into not only Kay's personal musings regarding family and parenting but also the diverse ways queer individuals approach these life choices. The episode is rich with exploration of various family-building options such as surrogacy, adoption, fostering, and the roles that genetics and environment play in shaping familial relationships.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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K Anderson is the creator and host of the Lost Spaces podcast, which nostalgically dives into the lost queer venues and spaces that were once integral parts of many LGBTQIA individuals' youth. The podcast is not only about the queer spaces themselves but also explores the significant personal memories and experiences of those who frequented them. With a passion for storytelling and uncovering the forgotten chapters of queer culture, Kay brings a reflective exploration of what these spaces meant for personal growth and communal identity.
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S15 EP9 l Host Jamie sits down with Courtney, Whitney, and their dad Glenn to discuss their unique family story. Glenn came out as gay after 33 years of marriage, and his daughters were in their 20s at the time. The conversation delves into the challenges Glenn faced in coming to terms with his sexuality and the impact it had on his family. The episode highlights the power of acceptance and the transformative change that can come from embracing one's true self. They also discuss the importance of telling these stories to create a more accepting world.
Keep your ears tuned for more episodes from the Queer Family podcast, where love is celebrated in all its forms.
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*Glenn's coming out as a gay man led to a profound transformation within the family, fostering greater acceptance and openness amidst challenges.
*The episode addresses the importance of representation and the impact it can have on an individual's journey to self-acceptance.
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*"I think our parents getting a divorce, our dad coming out is the best thing that ever happened to our family." - Courtney
*"I have this amazing life. I have these girls that I absolutely adore and my granddaughters that are beyond precious to me." - Glenn
*"I truly believe the universe has provided us with all of these gifts that have led us to where we are today." - Whitney
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
*Courtney and Whitney Ashley are sisters who host the podcast, “Hey Sis, Eat This," where they explore family relationships through the lens of food and dinner table conversations.
*Glenn Ashley is a former advertising agency Creative Director and commercial film director. He studied art and design at The University of Texas
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*Courtney and Whitney's podcast, "Hey Sis, Eat This," can be found on various platforms such as Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeartRadio.
*Glenn's artwork can be viewed and pursued on his website, glennashleyart.com.
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In this episode of the Queer Family Podcast, host Jamie sits down with Miles Borrero, a trans queer yoga teacher and author of the memoir "Beautiful Monster: A Becoming." Miles shares their journey of self-discovery and transition, discussing the labels and identities they have explored along the way. They also delve into their experience as a bonus parent to teenagers and the importance of representation in queer families. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about embracing change, finding love, and redefining what it means to be a family.
Tune in for a poignant exploration of identity, transformation, and belonging that speaks to us all. Subscribe to The Queer Family Podcast Stay tuned for more enlightening content exploring the diverse tapestries of queer families.
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*The queer community's stories are essential for representation and can act as life-saving narratives for those who feel unseen.
*Familial transitions, such as a parent's death or one's own gender transition, can deepen connections when met with love and understanding.
*Language plays a pivotal role in identity, but it also has limitations; the nuances of self-identity often transcend simplistic labels.
*The formation of queer families often involves non-conventional paths that challenge and enrich traditional notions of kinship.
*The involvement of a non-binary or transgender parent can add a unique layer of support and representation within a family unit.
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*”You cannot have too many queer stories. You cannot have too many trans stories. They're all so essential." - Miles
*”What we have in common is much wider and much more interesting than what makes us different." - Miles
*”I’ve lived as a girl, as a boy, as something in between." - Miles
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Miles Borrero is a trans, queer yoga teacher based in New York City. They are also a writer, artist, and storyteller. Miles has a diverse background, having lived in Brazil, Colombia during the Pablo Escobar years, and various parts of the United States. They began their gender transition around the age of 40 and have shared their experience of identity, family, and belonging through various mediums
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*Miles Borrero's website: milesyoga.com where you can buy their book "Beautiful Monster: A Becoming"
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Haley King is a donor-conceived gay mom who ALSO used donor conception to start her own family. Haley shares her journey of discovering her donor-conceived status at the age of 30 and how the challenges she faced in finding information and support led her to become an advocate for donor-conceived people and families. She and Jaimie delve into the importance of open communication, navigating relationships with donor siblings, the impact of modern technology on anonymity, and the nuanced feelings of being a non-bio parent.
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*Haley King was one of the first IVF babies and later found out she was conceived using donor sperm, leading her to become an advocate for donor-conceived individuals.
*The importance of choosing an open ID donor and ensuring that children have access to their biological origins is highlighted.
*Haley discusses the nuances of being a non-bio, non-gestational parent and the reassurances that family bonds extend beyond genetics.
*The podcast delves into the evolving challenges surrounding anonymity, the impact of modern technology on donor conception, and the complications arising from donor siblings connections.
*Perspectives on parenting and donor conception can differ significantly between the queer and non-queer communities, underlining the need for continuous dialogue and support.
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*”I’m very proud to be donor conceived... it would have been an absolute travesty if [my dad] couldn't have been a parent. He is wonderful." Hayley
*”No one donor conceived person will feel the same... listen to lots of different sort of perspectives." Hayley
*”Anonymity is very difficult to keep... They've got adult photos of donors... parents are sticking them into Google image searches and finding people across the Internet." Hayley
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Haley King is a pioneering voice and advocate within the queer and donor-conceived communities. As someone who discovered their donor conception status as an adult, Haley offers a unique and multifaceted perspective. She is the Director of Operations at Paths to Parenthub, an online support platform dedicated to assisting parents via donor conception. Combining her personal experiences with professional expertise, Haley provides counsel and creates resources to normalize and support donor-conceived families through her website and social media channels.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*Hayley’s Website *Hayley’s Instagram *Paths to Parenthub
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Jennifer and Vanessa are in the middle of creating a family as a lesbian couple, yet Vanessa's recent hysterectomy and Jennifer's epilepsy add intricate layers of complexity to their journey. Faced with legal uncertainties surrounding adoption as an LGBTQIA+ couple, they shifted towards using donor sperm at a bank, only to confront profound societal biases and systemic hurdles in the fertility industry. The conversation delves deep into these challenges, fostering an argument for true inclusion in family planning, irrespective of disability or sexual orientation. Their narrative serves as a compelling call to action, advocating for the fundamental right of ALL individuals to embrace parenthood on their own terms.
Don't miss out on the full episode to hear Jennifer and Vanessa's compelling narrative that emphasizes love, choice, and the pursuit of a family that defies traditional boundaries. Subscribe to The Queer Family Podcast for more enlightening content exploring the diverse tapestries of queer families.
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*Jennifer and Vanessa challenge the concept of ruling out potential sperm donors based on medical history, advocating for the rights of individuals with disabilities to become parents.
*They stress the importance of having more choices in donor selection to reflect broader human experiences and conditions, including those of the disabled community.
*Issues with the fertility industry highlight the significant underrepresentation and medical challenges that come with queerness and disability.
*The couple underscores the struggle with decision-making due to the vast amount of choices and stress the importance of ultimately following their hearts.
*Their story is a call to action for more inclusive practices within family-building processes and the broader acknowledgment of queer parents.
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*”I wanted to make the point that not everybody wants to weed out certain genetics, and who are the banks or the powers in charge to say which donors get through versus which donors don't?" Jennifer and Vanessa
*”To hear somebody say you shouldn't choose a donor based on their medical history sounds to us like, well, then you're not qualified to be parents because of your medical history." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”I think just saying because you have a genetic predisposition for something doesn't mean that you should not have the opportunity to contribute your genetic material." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”As queer people, we're a marginalized group that's been overlooked... It's just up to the individuals building a family to make those decisions for themselves and their families." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”We do have a concern that's like, well, what if we have an Id donor and our kid turns 18 and they can meet their donor? We don't know if that person is going to be homophobic." Jennifer and Vanessa
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Host Jaimie sits down with Tom Tracy, an award-winning author and proud gay dad, to explore his inspiring journey to parenthood through adoption. Together, they delve into the joys and challenges of raising children, drawing from Tom's experiences that have inspired his acclaimed book series, Scoochie and Skiddles. Tom's work aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by portraying them in everyday life, showcasing the ordinary yet extraordinary moments. The episode emphasizes the importance of representation in media and literature, offering a heartfelt discussion on the significance of diversity and inclusion. Plus, don't miss a special guest appearance by Jaimie's 10-year-old daughter, Rose, as they discuss the importance of starting conversations about origin stories early on.
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*Tom Tracy's family-building journey through adoption defied common narratives of complications in LGBTQIA+ adoption, offering an unexpectedly smooth experience.
*His children's books aim to normalize queer families by portraying them in familiar, everyday scenarios.
*Tom shares an emotionally charged, authentic moment when his daughter proudly explained her adoption story to a new friend, illustrating the importance of open discussions about family diversity with children.
*The "drop the seed theory" is mentioned, highlighting the importance of talking to children about their origin stories from a young age, planting informative seeds for later understanding.
*The episode underlines the significance of representation in children's literature and the need for more stories that include diverse family structures.
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"The stories are incidentally gay... This is really a story about a family." Tom
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Tom Tracy is a dedicated father, author, and social worker. His book series, Scoochie and Skittles, is inspired by his family's adventures and aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by showcasing them in everyday life. He is also a passionate advocate for the queer community and gives voice to underrepresented families through his literature, earning several book awards for his work.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*tomtracybooks.com , scoochieandskittles.com *Find Tom on Facebook and Instagram.
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🎙️ Episode Chapters:
0:00:00 Introduction and sponsorship message from Pregnant Together
0:03:07 Importance of normalizing LGBTQ+ families and discussing origin stories
0:08:57 Interviewing Tom Tracy about his book series and mission to normalize LGBTQ+ families
0:13:12 Jaimie and Tom discuss the importance of telling LGBTQIA+ family stories and normalizing them
0:17:06 Tom shares how his own family inspired him to write children's books that reflect families like his own
0:20:48 Tom explains their decision to pursue private domestic adoption instead of surrogacy, and their intention to support a child who needed a family
l S15 EP4 l Heidi and Trine, lactation consultants and friends, join host Jaimie to discuss feeding babies in the queer community. They explore induced lactation, chest feeding, and inclusive feeding practices. Sharing their own queer journeys, they provide valuable insights into the challenges and possibilities of feeding babies in the queer community. They emphasize the importance of seeking help and finding the right lactation consultant. Don't miss this informative and inclusive conversation.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
Diverse Family Feeding: Insight into lactation consultancy for LGBTQIA+ families, including chest feeding and induced lactation.
Personal Journeys: Heidi and Trina share their coming-out narratives and their paths to becoming lactation consultants.
Heidi candidly shares her emotional journey through stillbirth, underscoring the importance of milk management after loss—an area often uncharted in lactation support.
D-MER Awareness: Bringing attention to dysphoric milk ejection reflex, offering solace to those who may be affected during their lactation journey.
Feeding Preparedness: Stressing the importance of early consultation to set realistic expectations and better prepare for potential challenges in breastfeeding.
Insurance Coverage: The revelation that lactation consultancy services may often be covered by insurance, making them more accessible to a wider audience.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
"Feeding your baby at breast or at chest is natural and normal, but so is walking; you're going to have to practice." - Trine
" Parenthood isn't meant to be done alone. Reach out to your community." - Heidi
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Heidi Kim and Trine Bradshaw are both seasoned lactation consultants and work together at their agency, Breast for Baby. They specialize in a gamut of feeding methods and techniques, from traditional breastfeeding or chestfeeding to induced lactation and milk management, catering to a diverse array of family structures, including LGBTQIA+ families. With their own queer stories, Heidi and Trine bring not only expertise to the table but also rich, personal experiences that shape their inclusive practice.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
Breast for Baby: Heidi and Trina work together as lactation consultants at Breast for Baby. **Mention the Queer Family Podcast in your intake form, for a discount!
Newman-Goldfarb Protocol: A commonly referenced guide for induced lactation.
Breastfeeding Outside the Box Podcast: Recommended for further insights into non-traditional breastfeeding scenarios.
Breast for Baby on Social Media: Follow them on Instagram and Facebook @breastforbaby.
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l S15 EP3 l Wendy Cole transitioned genders at the age of 67, even though she was convinced from the age of 5 that her “male facsimile” was not her true authentic self. A life of suppression and maintaining a heteronormative identity took a tremendous toll on her well-being, and caused strained relationships within her family, leading to a powerful transformation later in life. Now, finally living her truth, she works as a transition coach for anyone going through a difficult life transition. Wendy's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be your true authentic self. Moreover, it underscores the crucial importance of acceptance and inclusion in our society. “Let my life be an example of what not to do.” Wendy
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*It's never too late to embrace your authentic self, as evidenced by Wendy who transitioned at 67, demonstrating the power of resilience and hope.
*Gender identity is more about self-perception and one's internal understanding rather than physical attributes; it is what is "between the ears," as Wendy puts it.
*Society often imposes repressive norms that make it difficult for individuals to express their true gender identity, leading to long-standing emotional and mental health challenges.
*Accepting major life transitions often require rewriting internal narratives, fostering self-awareness, and creating supportive environments, a concept Wendy now passionately shares through her work.
*Families of transgender individuals can benefit from understanding and support, recognizing that their loved one's journey to authenticity doesn't diminish the person they've always been.
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*Wendy Cole's professional website for coaching and transition mentorship: meetwendycole.com
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*"I knew at age three there was something very different about me." Wendy
*” Gender is between your ears, not between your legs." Wendy
*” It's less about transitioning and more about correcting a condition you're born with so you can be who you've always been." Wendy
*” I’m just being for the first time after 67 years." Wendy
*” All life changes begin and are between your ears. 80% between your ears." Wendy
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Wendy Cole is a transition coach, a role she embodies to assist others in navigating complex life challenges, drawing from her own profound personal journey. With her firsthand experience, Wendy serves as a beacon of hope and resilience, proving that it's never too late to redefine one's life and embrace authenticity.
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