• 45 minutes 25 seconds
    Mary H.K. Choi On Her New Book and her AuDHD Diagnosis

    Author Mary H.K. Choi is back! They discuss her new novel, Pool House, and why this mother-daughter story had to take place in Los Angeles. They also touch on her foray into hormone replacement therapy, how she dealt with her late diagnoses of AuDHD, and what it’s like in New York as a creative these days. 


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    15 June 2026, 9:00 am
  • 34 minutes 4 seconds
    You Ask, We Answer: Summer Recs and Feminist Takes

    Listeners ask for recs for bathing suits and comfy, chunky sandals. They also have thoughts on romance books as feminist literature and advice for the listener about to go through hip surgery. 


    Plus, Elise gets another square in her LA bingo card by visiting a party with a Kardashian and Doree shares her results from tennis sectionals.


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    8 June 2026, 9:00 am
  • 43 minutes 18 seconds
    Why We Get Married, and Should We Still? with Stephanie Coontz

    America’s leading historian on marriage, Stephanie Coontz visits the show to talk about her latest look into how the value of marriage has changed over the years, why we’re so interested in the idea of tradwives right now, and what she thinks makes for a strong modern marriage. Plus, she expounds on her joy of wild mushroom foraging!


    Before they get into it, Doree and Elise chat about the hot divorcee summer aesthetic, Doree’s birthday party, and Elise’s very LA weekend.


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    1 June 2026, 9:00 am
  • 35 minutes 42 seconds
    You Ask, We Answer: What To Read and Where To Live

    Listeners send in their thoughts on women supporting women, fart walks and taking work breaks, deciding between homeownership without community or high-cost of living with community, and a disagreement about whether reading romance is similar to porn. Plus, some book and alarm clock recs and a call out for post-surgery recovery tips.


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    25 May 2026, 9:00 am
  • 46 minutes 21 seconds
    A Five-Minute Break Can Change Your Life with Manoush Zomorodi

    Host of NPR's TED Radio Hour and author Manoush Zomorodi joins the show to discuss the (literally) life-changing effect of taking breaks during the day, how to separate these good health habits from diet culture, why teens and screens are not the biggest indicator of mental health, and her new book Body Electric: The Hidden Health Costs of the Digital Age and New Science to Reclaim Your Well-Being. 


    Doree and Elise also chat about Doree’s fun birthday plans and the school play Elise has seen four times.


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    18 May 2026, 9:00 am
  • 43 minutes 11 seconds
    You Ask, We Answer: The New Format Debuts!

    This episode is the mini-ep you know and love, but twice as long and with a new name! You ask, we answer! 


    Listeners ask about how to fit hobbies around a busy life, offer advice for the listener whose husband is in rehab, and have recs for tech-related books and alarm clocks. Plus, Doree and Elise reflect on nearly two (!) years with Elise as a co-host.



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    11 May 2026, 9:00 am
  • 15 minutes 30 seconds
    The "10 Year" or "30 Wears" Clothing Test presented by Depop

    This is a bonus episode brought to you by Depop! 


    Doree and Elise walk you through some personal tips and tricks for refreshing your closet, finding those special pieces, and how to curate your own Depop feeds. 


    Download the app today so you can start finding some absolute gems for your closet.



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    6 May 2026, 9:00 am
  • 48 minutes 5 seconds
    Episode 400: We Mark A Milestone with Kate Spencer

    It’s the 400th (!!) full length episode of Forever35! 


    To celebrate, we brought Kate Spencer, beloved former host and author, back to the pod! The ladies chit chat about what Kate has termed “pep-talk journaling,” what it’s like raising teens today, how pickleball is going, and allll the book and Costco recs your heart desires.


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    4 May 2026, 2:26 pm
  • 28 minutes 34 seconds
    Mini-Ep 490: Lucky In Living

    Listeners have things to say about ways to reduce your spending, group dynamics, and learning how other people live at a young age. Plus, some questions about alarm clocks and tinted moisturizers!


    This is our final mini-ep before the show goes to Monday episodes only. Every other week we will feature listener mailbag episodes (the same format as the episodes formerly known as “mini-eps”), just not “mini” anymore – they’ll be at full length. If you have thoughts on what to rename mini-eps please send us an email or leave a comment.


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    29 April 2026, 9:00 am
  • 36 minutes 7 seconds
    Episode 399: Joyspotting with Alex Elle

    New York Times bestselling author (and highly-requested guest!) Alex Elle joins the show to ask how we are playing a role in other people’s lives, setting expectations for what we need from others, and what friendship means at midlife. They discuss her new book, The Company We Keep: Friendship, Connection, and Redefining What It Means to Grow Together, her quick form of journaling, and deepening her understanding of what it means to hold grief and gratitude together.


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    27 April 2026, 9:00 am
  • 28 minutes 51 seconds
    Mini-Ep 489: Your Whole Messy Self Is Welcome Here

    Doree and Elise have a few updates for the show (in case you missed them in the newsletter!). Then they hear from listeners about taking care of yourself while working through a spouse’s addiction treatment and how to help a child navigate the confusing time of puberty, and then they respond to a listener’s question about good novels about the tech industry.


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    22 April 2026, 9:00 am
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