We Met At Acme

Dear Media

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

  • 56 minutes 30 seconds
    Love Is Better In Your 30s ft. Lindsi Lane

    Lindsi Lane is on the podcast today! Lindsi is a fashion, motherhood, and beauty influencer. We discuss finding a partner in your 30s, weeding out the bad ones when dating, second child infertility, the “perfect time” to be a mom, and so much more.


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Chapters:

    06:49 Family Planning and Pregnancy Challenges

    23:33 The Struggles of Sharing Personal Journeys on Social Media

    25:08 Balancing Privacy and Openness in Relationships

    29:20 Navigating Motherhood and Family Dynamics

    35:00 Rapid Fire Questions and Life Advice


    Sponsors:

    Go to myskylight.com/ACME for $20 off your 10 inch frame.

    Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme

    Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.


    Produced by Dear Media. 


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    14 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 54 minutes 26 seconds
    I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To Part 2

    For part 2 of this series, I scoured TikTok for more dating advice. We discuss what makes the happiest relationships, why you should choose a partner like you choose a puppy, if they are avoidant or just not into you, why you have to want to be friends with your partner, and so much more. 


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Chapters

    14:45 Current Priorities and Family Time

    14:58 Accepting and Normalizing Feelings

    15:07 Giving Yourself Grace

    15:20 Embracing Seasonal Changes


    Sponsors

    Go to ritual.com/ACME for 25% off your first month

    If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table or bed, head over to Article.com

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

    Go to kachava.com and use code ACME for 15% off your next order.


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    7 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 49 minutes 5 seconds
    It All Comes Down to Communication ft. Tay Lautner

    Taylor Dome Lautner is a registered nurse, mental health advocate, and digital content creator. She hosts The Squeeze podcast with her husband Taylor Lautner. We discuss how to have better communication in your relationship, meeting her husband at a game night, therapy and the ways it’s healed Tay and also her communication, love languages, and so much more!


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:

    Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartner

    Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

    If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table or bed, head over to Article.com

    Skylight is offering our listeners $20 off their 10inch frames by going to myskylight.com/ACME


    Chapters:

    02:06 Love Stories and Relationship Advice

    22:04 The Benefits of Couples Therapy

    23:58 Navigating Modern Dating


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    30 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 39 minutes 49 seconds
    Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant

    I sit down with Andy and Katie Mant from Bon Charge and we discuss all things sleep and relationships. How important your sleep compatibility is, how couples can improve their bedroom energy, and what it’s like running a business with your significant other. They also share the sneaky changes we can make to change our sleep habits for the better. Better sleep, better relationships!


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    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    09:04 The Birth of BonCharge

    25:53 DNA Testing and Sleep Insights

    27:25 Human Connection and Modern Life


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    23 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 50 minutes 44 seconds
    Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus

    Nate Berkus joins us to talk about the beautiful intersection between love, design, and the spaces we call home. He shares the story of how he met his husband Jeremia, and opens up about what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship. We dive into how someone’s personal taste can shape attraction, what your home might reveal about your dating style, and the subtle green and red flags you can spot just by stepping into someone’s apartment. Nate also offers his take on manifesting love through your space, how to intentionally “design” a relationship that lasts, and even the one design trend he’d happily see disappear forever.


    Get Nate's Book 'Foundations: Timeless Design That Feels Personal'


    Sponsors:

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

    Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartner

    Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.

    Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Nate's Favorite Romantic Gesture

    00:58 Meeting Jeremiah and Early Relationship

    06:48 Navigating Long Distance and Family Life

    20:30 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

    24:02 Lessons from Oprah

    26:04 Design Tips and Personal Insights


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    16 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 58 minutes 18 seconds
    The Loneliness Between Life Stages

    Today’s solo is about the loneliness we feel throughout different stages of our lives. I talk about the post-college void, the mid 20s relationship and splinter era, and the post-baby or settled down loneliness. I also discuss rules for dating around the holidays, texting habits in the talking stage, and so much more!


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:

    Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACME

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

    Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.

    Go to kachava.com and use code ACME for 15% off your next order.


    Chapters:

    02:46 Navigating Post-College Loneliness

    13:49 Mid-Twenties Relationship Shifts

    24:22 Settling Down and Parenthood

    36:38 Dating and Holiday Rules

    45:15 Texting Habits


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    9 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 19 minutes
    The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall

    Married couple Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall join Lindsey on the podcast today to discuss breaking generational molds, conscious parenting, starting a relationship when you come from different fighting styles, how to be patient with a new partner, not “bringing the news home,” and so much more. Mosheh is the creator and founder of the Mo News network, https://www.mo.news/, which you should absolutely check out if you haven’t already!


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:09 The Last Name Dilemma

    03:34 Romantic Gestures and Love Languages

    33:29 Starting a Family: Preconception and Fertility Journey

    37:40 Parenting Challenges and Joys

    42:07 Dating Rules and Relationship Insights


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    2 November 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 8 minutes
    What Everyone Hates About Dating Right Now ft. Davide De Pierro

    I sit down with the internet’s favorite guy in his car, Davide De Pierro. We discuss what is wrong with the current state of dating right now, why more religious couples stay together, how honest we should be during the dating process, why he’s not on the apps, what he wishes he knew in his 20s, what he is looking for when dating now, and so much more.


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:


    Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

    Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.


    Chapters:

    06:17 Journey into Social Media and Dating Insights

    30:45 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

    33:09 The Future of Dating

    36:21 Challenging Romantic Beliefs

    43:30 Navigating Modern Dating


    Produced by Dear Media.

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    26 October 2025, 7:00 am
  • 41 minutes 1 second
    The Difference Between A Boyfriend And A Husband

     In today’s solo episode, I’m talking all about the difference between a boyfriend and a husband. I also discuss if we are all having enough sex. 


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:


    Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

    Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartner

    Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.

    Simplify your kids' mealtimes. Go to: littlespoon.com/ACME and enter our code ACME at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon order.

    Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme


    Chapters:

    00:30 Celebrating Eight Years of We Met at Acme

    01:32 Boyfriend vs. Husband: Key Differences

    04:25 Real-Life Examples and Anecdotes

    07:47 Listener Insights and TikTok Discussion

    19:54 Are We Having Enough Sex?


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    19 October 2025, 7:00 am
  • 53 minutes 50 seconds
    We Need To Talk About Sex ft. Jamie Norwood

    Winx co-founder Jamie Norwood is on the podcast and we are discussing all things sex-ed, UTIs, when to discuss sex with the next generation, what a man’s role in sex should look like, and so much more. 


    Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:

    Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACME

    Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme


    Chapters:

    06:32 Sexual Health and Business Ventures

    21:48 Insecurities and Societal Pressures on Women's Bodies

    25:42 The Orgasm Gap and Sexual Education

    34:07 Business Challenges and Personal Growth


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    12 October 2025, 7:00 am
  • 47 minutes 59 seconds
    The Motherhood Journey No One Talks About ft. Savannah Simon

    Savannah Simon is an incredible friend, new mom, and fitness trainer at PUSH, a pre and postnatal fitness and functional training studio. Sav and I discuss everything from meeting her husband, to experiencing loss, postpartum, supporting our friends, the “bounce back,” and so much more.


    Get More We Met At Acme!

    Youtube: @wemetatacme

    IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

    Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

    Website: @wemetatacme


    Sponsors:

    Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartner

    Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

    Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

    Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme


    Chapters

    00:57 Romantic Gestures and Meeting Noah

    04:08 Motherhood and Dealing with Loss

    20:40 Navigating Early Parenthood

    25:17 Balancing Career and Motherhood

    32:30 Marriage and Personal Growth Post-Baby


    Produced by Dear Media. 

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    5 October 2025, 7:00 am
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