• 20 minutes 40 seconds
    Present, Not Perfect

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante unpack the transformative shift from performance-based fathering to presence-based fathering. Anchored in1 Thessalonians 2:11-12, the discussion reveals how Paul's model of leadership—focused on exhorting, comforting, and imploring—requires active relational proximity rather than flawless execution. By challenging the myth that fathers must maintain a spotless record, the episode emphasizes that a child's character is shaped most profoundly when a dad owns his mistakes, seeks forgiveness, and actively chooses repair over pride. Packed with actionable takeaways like the "five-minute rule" for confessing short tempers, this conversation equips men to model Christ's grace by showing up authentically, putting expectations aside, and committing to being fully present in their kids' lives today.

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    30 July 2026, 12:26 pm
  • 20 minutes 38 seconds
    The Blessing You Never Received

    In this powerful episode of Legacy Dads, we confront a quiet pain carrying through generations of men: the ache for a father's blessing that was never spoken. Grounded in the tragic desperation of Esau's cry in Genesis 27 and the transformative redemption of Jacob blessing his sons in Genesis 48–49, "The Blessing You Never Got" explores why silent love is never enough. We unpack the four crucial ingredients of a biblical blessing—spoken, specific, future-shaping, and unconditional—and reveal how Jesus's own identity was spoken before His public performance ever began. Whether you are carrying the weight of a silent past or wondering if it's too late to speak life into your own children, this episode serves as an urgent invitation to break the cycle, step into God's full favor, and leave an enduring legacy of spoken identity.

    23 July 2026, 9:26 pm
  • 17 minutes 9 seconds
    Planting for the Unseen Generation

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante challenge fathers to shift their focus from short-term parenting goals to building a multi-generational legacy that outlives them. Drawing from Proverbs 22:6 and Psalm 78:4-7, the episode reframes fatherhood not as a formula for guaranteed immediate outcomes, but as the intentional, long-term act of planting trees whose shade will only be enjoyed by future generations. By examining the biblical "relay race" of faith, the hosts emphasize that passing down values requires specific, simple, and repeatable mechanisms rather than just good intentions. Fathers are ultimately challenged to implement one concrete, transferable spiritual practice this week, leaving behind a intentional blueprint for descendants they may never live to meet.

    13 July 2026, 4:03 pm
  • 43 minutes 24 seconds
    The Eyes that are Watching
    In this episode of Legacy Dads, hosts Dave and Dante share a moving letter from a mother at Dave's church to highlight how a godly man's influence extends far beyond his own home. They emphasize that fatherless or deeply wounded children are constantly watching the men around them, looking for examples to piece together what healthy manhood actually looks like. By simply showing up with consistent integrity, patience, and humility in everyday moments, men can ease the burdens of single mothers and rewrite the concept of fatherhood for a child who has known only absence or abuse. Ultimately, they challenge listeners to embrace the quiet, everyday responsibility of being a living signpost that points broken families toward the healing love of a perfect Heavenly Father. Connect With Us
    29 June 2026, 4:00 am
  • 49 minutes 16 seconds
    Ambassadors for Christ
    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante dive into 2 Corinthians 5:20 to redefine a father's role from a burdened owner to a faithful ambassador of Christ. They tackle the heavy performance pressures, shifting identities, and daily frictions that modern men face, offering a liberating perspective: a dad's authority is delegated, his identity is immutably fixed by the King, and his home is his embassy. By shifting from ownership to stewardship, Dave and Dante challenge fathers to relieve the pressure of perfection, anchor their souls in their divine title, and embrace a ministry of reconciliation over retaliation. Ultimately, they call men to be the chief de-escalators and grace-givers in their homes, strategically winning the hearts of their families rather than trying to win arguments. Connect With Us
    16 June 2026, 1:59 am
  • 55 minutes 21 seconds
    Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch
    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante sit down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to discuss the often-overlooked challenges of parenting adult children. Centered around her book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, the conversation addresses the "identity crisis" many fathers face when their role shifts from protector and fixer to a more hands-off, supportive influence. Dr. Koch offers practical, biblical strategies for releasing control, overcoming "dad guilt" from past mistakes, and navigating the tension between loving a child and endorsing their lifestyle choices. Ultimately, the episode serves as a powerful guide for fathers to surrender their children to God's timing while maintaining a faithful, grace-filled presence that prioritizes reconciliation over being right. Connect With Dr. Kathy Connect With Us
    26 May 2026, 3:13 am
  • 56 minutes 57 seconds
    Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads podcast, host Dante Girolimon and guest co-host Joe Svoboda are joined by leadership expert Mac Lake to discuss the intersection of ministry, multiplication, and intentional fatherhood. Drawing from his decades of experience and the framework of the "Leadership Pipeline," Lake shares how his philosophy evolved from a passion for church reproduction to a deep conviction that every father is called to be a "multiplier" in his own home.

    The conversation moves through the distinct seasons of parenting—from the high-energy early years of building family culture to the nuanced shift of maintaining influence with adult children. Lake emphasizes that leadership development is, at its heart, a form of high-level discipleship that balances character and competency, a lesson he applied while raising his own children, including worship leader Brandon Lake. The episode concludes with a forward-looking vision of legacy, where Lake encourages fathers to view their homes not just as places of management, but as the primary training ground for the next generation of Kingdom leaders.

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    19 May 2026, 3:49 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

    In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world.

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    22 April 2026, 7:03 pm
  • 30 minutes 17 seconds
    Discipling through the years: the young adult era

    In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you're learning to trust the foundation you've built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode challenges you to stop trying to control the outcome and start trusting the God who brings the growth. It's time to move from holding the bow to watching the arrow fly, confident that your legacy is anchored in faithfulness rather than perfection.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The Role Shift: Transitioning from daily control to foundational investment and coaching.

    • Staying Connected: Practical ways to maintain a spiritual bond without being intrusive.

    • Handling Doubt: How to remain a "safe harbor" if your child deconstructs or walks away from their faith.

    • Trusting the Growth: Remembering that you planted the seeds, but God brings the increase.

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    14 April 2026, 12:59 am
  • 35 minutes 37 seconds
    Discipling through the years: the teenage years

    The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child's life to a "mentor" of their soul. It's about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence.

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    30 March 2026, 4:05 am
  • 36 minutes 13 seconds
    Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante dive into the "Training Wheels" phase of fatherhood—discipling adolescents aged 8 to 12. This is a critical developmental window where children shift from simply absorbing their parents' beliefs to investigating the "why" behind them.

    The conversation centers on Proverbs 4:23, highlighting the father's role in helping children "guard their hearts" as they begin to encounter more complex social and cultural pressures. Dave and Dante discuss the transition from providing "spiritual milk" to "solid food," offering practical strategies for teaching kids how to read the Bible independently and apply a biblical worldview to school, sports, and friendships.

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    16 March 2026, 4:47 pm
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