• 55 minutes 21 seconds
    Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch
    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante sit down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to discuss the often-overlooked challenges of parenting adult children. Centered around her book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, the conversation addresses the "identity crisis" many fathers face when their role shifts from protector and fixer to a more hands-off, supportive influence. Dr. Koch offers practical, biblical strategies for releasing control, overcoming "dad guilt" from past mistakes, and navigating the tension between loving a child and endorsing their lifestyle choices. Ultimately, the episode serves as a powerful guide for fathers to surrender their children to God's timing while maintaining a faithful, grace-filled presence that prioritizes reconciliation over being right. Connect With Dr. Kathy Connect With Us
    26 May 2026, 3:13 am
  • 56 minutes 57 seconds
    Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads podcast, host Dante Girolimon and guest co-host Joe Svoboda are joined by leadership expert Mac Lake to discuss the intersection of ministry, multiplication, and intentional fatherhood. Drawing from his decades of experience and the framework of the "Leadership Pipeline," Lake shares how his philosophy evolved from a passion for church reproduction to a deep conviction that every father is called to be a "multiplier" in his own home.

    The conversation moves through the distinct seasons of parenting—from the high-energy early years of building family culture to the nuanced shift of maintaining influence with adult children. Lake emphasizes that leadership development is, at its heart, a form of high-level discipleship that balances character and competency, a lesson he applied while raising his own children, including worship leader Brandon Lake. The episode concludes with a forward-looking vision of legacy, where Lake encourages fathers to view their homes not just as places of management, but as the primary training ground for the next generation of Kingdom leaders.

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    19 May 2026, 3:49 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

    In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world.

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    22 April 2026, 7:03 pm
  • 30 minutes 17 seconds
    Discipling through the years: the young adult era

    In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you're learning to trust the foundation you've built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode challenges you to stop trying to control the outcome and start trusting the God who brings the growth. It's time to move from holding the bow to watching the arrow fly, confident that your legacy is anchored in faithfulness rather than perfection.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The Role Shift: Transitioning from daily control to foundational investment and coaching.

    • Staying Connected: Practical ways to maintain a spiritual bond without being intrusive.

    • Handling Doubt: How to remain a "safe harbor" if your child deconstructs or walks away from their faith.

    • Trusting the Growth: Remembering that you planted the seeds, but God brings the increase.

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    14 April 2026, 12:59 am
  • 35 minutes 37 seconds
    Discipling through the years: the teenage years

    The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child's life to a "mentor" of their soul. It's about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence.

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    30 March 2026, 4:05 am
  • 36 minutes 13 seconds
    Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage

    In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante dive into the "Training Wheels" phase of fatherhood—discipling adolescents aged 8 to 12. This is a critical developmental window where children shift from simply absorbing their parents' beliefs to investigating the "why" behind them.

    The conversation centers on Proverbs 4:23, highlighting the father's role in helping children "guard their hearts" as they begin to encounter more complex social and cultural pressures. Dave and Dante discuss the transition from providing "spiritual milk" to "solid food," offering practical strategies for teaching kids how to read the Bible independently and apply a biblical worldview to school, sports, and friendships.

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    16 March 2026, 4:47 pm
  • 33 minutes 34 seconds
    Discipling through the years: The Toddler Stage
    Episode Summary

    Parenting a toddler feels like planting a garden in the middle of a windstorm—chaotic, messy, and loud. But it is also the most critical season for planting seeds that will last a lifetime. In this episode, Dave and Dante break down the "why" and "how" of discipling children ages 2–7. We're moving away from the pressure of perfection and leaning into the beauty of simple, faithful rhythms that point little hearts toward their Creator.

    Key Scriptures

    • Deuteronomy 6:6-7 – The mandate to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life.

    • Matthew 18:3 – Why the simplicity of a child's faith is the blueprint for our own.

    • Numbers 6:24-26 – The power of the priestly blessing.

    • 1 Corinthians 11:1 – Modeling faith for those who are always watching.

    What We Cover

    • The Toddler's Spiritual World: Why their "concrete" thinking isn't a limitation, but a gift. We discuss why heart formation beats theological precision every time.

    • Practical Rhythms: From morning gratitude to the transformative power of bedtime blessings.

    • Discipling Through the Senses: Faith shouldn't just be heard; it should be seen, touched, and experienced. Learn how to translate big theology into language a 4-year-old understands.

    • Modeling Over Teaching: You are your child's first "Bible." We get real about what happens when you blow it and how saying "I'm sorry" is a crucial discipleship tool.

    • The Long View: Trusting the "compound effect" of small, consistent habits even when you don't see immediate fruit.

    Action Step for the Week

    The Bedtime Blessing: This week, we're keeping it simple. Whether you've never done it or just got out of the habit, commit to implementing a consistent bedtime prayer or blessing routine for your toddler. Speak the truth of God's love over them before they drift off to sleep.

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    9 March 2026, 4:01 am
  • 30 minutes 19 seconds
    Why God's Plan for Discipleship is Important

    In this hard-hitting episode, Dave and Dante tackle a sobering question: Have churches in the West gotten discipleship wrong?

    The data is alarming. The mission is clear. And the stakes are generational.

    Jesus' final command in Gospel of Matthew 28:19–20 wasn't to build programs, grow attendance, or launch niche ministries. It was simple and direct:

    "Go therefore and make disciples…"

    So why are so few men being discipled? And what does that mean for our families, churches, and culture?

    The Discipleship Crisis

    • 90 million men in America are NOT involved in discipleship

    • Only 1 out of every 18 men is engaged in discipleship

    • Only 10% of born-again believers are actively discipling others

    • Only 6% of self-identified Christians hold a biblical worldview

    • Even among born-again Christians, only 13% hold a biblical worldview

    This isn't a programming issue. It's an obedience issue.

    Why This Matters for Fathers

    Men are called to lead their homes spiritually. When fathers are discipled:

    • Marriages grow stronger

    • Children are more likely to follow Christ

    • Churches grow healthier

    • Culture shifts from the inside out

    When fathers are absent spiritually, the ripple effects last for generations.

    The Strategic Questions Every Church Must Ask

    • Are we producing disciples or just attendees?

    • Can our men articulate and defend biblical truth?

    • Are fathers equipped to lead spiritually at home?

    • Are we making disciples who make disciples?

    If not, it's time to recalibrate.

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    25 February 2026, 3:25 am
  • 31 minutes 28 seconds
    Fathers as Spiritual Leaders: Leaving a Legacy that Lasts

    In this episode, we dive deep into the generational mission of fatherhood. We move beyond the traditional metrics of "success"—finances and career—to explore the weight and beauty of building a spiritual legacy. It's not about being a perfect theologian; it's about being a present, consistent, and humble leader who treats God as a reality, not just a concept.

    Pick one spiritual habit to start this week. Don't overcomplicate it. Whether it's praying before bed, reading one verse at dinner, or simply blessing your children with your words—start small, but start now. Remember: God doesn't need your ability; He needs your availability.

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    18 February 2026, 7:13 pm
  • 27 minutes 54 seconds
    By Faith: Building a Legacy that Endures

    In this episode of the, we dive into Hebrews 11—often called the Hall of Faith—to explore what biblical faith really looks like and how it shapes the legacy we leave as men, husbands, and fathers. This chapter isn't about flawless heroes; it's about ordinary people who trusted God in extraordinary circumstances. Their faith wasn't passive belief, but active obedience—often costly, uncomfortable, and unseen by the world.

    Hebrews 11 challenges modern dads to rethink success, security, and legacy. The men and women highlighted here lived with their eyes fixed on God's promises rather than immediate comfort or cultural approval. Their stories invite us to ask: What kind of faith are we modeling for our children.

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    3 February 2026, 5:33 pm
  • 36 minutes 55 seconds
    The Destruction of Disagreement
    Why does disagreement so quickly turn into outrage, mob mentality, or even violence in today's culture? In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante examine the spiritual and relational roots behind the destruction of disagreement. From the loss of a shared moral center to identity-driven conflict and the rejection of authority, they explore what Scripture says about restraint, suffering, and peacemaking. This timely conversation challenges Christian fathers to model conviction with humility, truth with love, and strength under control in a fractured world. For more about Legacy Dads, click here: Legacy Dads Website Legacy Dads Facebook Group: Legacy Dads Facebook Legacy Dads Instagram: Legacy Dads
    27 January 2026, 2:05 am
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