Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.

  • 35 minutes 45 seconds
    The 3 P's that Will Poison Your Marriage (Revisited)

    Marriage is God’s gift for joy and sanctification — but three subtle poisons can kill it: Pennies, Perversion, and Pride.

    1. Pennies – Loving money breeds fear, comparison, and discontent. Antidote: Seek first God’s kingdom (Matt 6:25–34).
    2. Perversion – Porn, withholding, or distortion twist God’s good gift of sex. Antidote: Pursue regular, healing intimacy as worship (1 Cor 7:5).
    3. Pride – “I know better” fuels unforgiveness and division. Antidote: Look to the humble Servant-King and forgive as Christ forgave us (Matt 20:28, Eph 4:32).

    Spot the poison, repent fast, and watch God restore joy to your covenant. Short, scriptural, and straight to the heart — hit play with your spouse.


    RESOURCES:

    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    9 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 41 minutes 41 seconds
    Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response

    In this raw and urgent episode, Ryan and Selena respond directly to a viral clip from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (Love & Respect) where he calls out wives who “continually mock their husbands,” put them down mentally, and secretly make fun of their opinions.

    If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “He’s just not the man I thought I married” … this episode is for you.


    We dive deep into:

    • The devastating long-term fruit of a disrespectful speech and a critical spirit (Prov 21:19, Prov 27:15)
    • Why even “small” condescending comments, eye-rolls, and corrections are spiritual poison
    • Genesis 1–2 and Ephesians 5:22–33 – God’s original design for husbands to WORK and wives to RESPECT
    • The moment a wife stops seeing her husband “in his element,” her view of him becomes dangerously incomplete
    • The 4 C’s every wife must confront: What are you Consuming? Who are you Consulting? Who are you Complaining to? It’s time to CUT it out.
    • The 200-year plan: How today’s sarcasm and discontent become tomorrow’s bitterness, affairs, or divorce
    • Practical steps to break the cycle: Repent to God → Repent to your husband → Replace criticism with gratitude → Renew your mind daily (Romans 12:2)

    Husbands: this isn’t permission to be passive. A wife’s biblical respect flows most naturally when her husband loves her as Christ loves the church. We talk about that too.

    Whether you’re the wife struggling with disrespect or the husband feeling crushed under constant criticism—this episode will challenge and encourage you toward the fierce, gospel-centered marriage you both long for.


    Scriptures covered: Genesis 1–2, Ephesians 5:22–33, Proverbs 21:19, Proverbs 27:15–16, Romans 12:1–2


    Resources mentioned: → Join the Fierce Men brotherhood (YouTube + private community)

    → Fierce Fellows on Patreon – exclusive marriage content

    → Partner with Fierce Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    If this episode hit home, text it to a friend who needs it. Leave a rating/review—it truly helps more couples find biblical hope.

    Have a question? Call or text 971-333-1120 — we may answer it on the air!

    #ChristianMarriage #RespectYourHusband #Ephesians5 #LoveAndRespect #StopNagging #BiblicalWife #FierceMarriage


    2 December 2025, 9:24 am
  • 44 minutes 38 seconds
    Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe

    God designed marital closeness not only for physical connection but also to nurture emotional and spiritual unity. When husbands and wives pursue intimacy regularly, they often experience a deeper sense of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and valued by their spouse. Join us as we explore how Christ-centered surrender and Christ-honoring intimacy can transform both our inner lives and our marriages.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    18 November 2025, 11:00 am
  • 22 minutes 11 seconds
    The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited

    What keeps a marriage thriving through the highs and lows of life? In this episode we discuss some wisdom given to us by another couple who have been walking hand in hand for decades — and they shared something powerful. You’ll hear about a simple, practical “experiment” designed to help diffuse tension, deepen connection, and invite God’s peace into your relationship. The answer may surprise you! Tune in to discover how you can start your own marriage experiment today and watch love grow in new ways.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    12 November 2025, 11:00 am
  • 26 minutes 47 seconds
    Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage Part 2

    Listen as we uncover God’s mission for marriage — to raise children who walk in the Lord and to reflect His love through our covenant relationships. Husbands are called to love their wives, and wives to submit to their husbands, walking in unity to bear lasting fruit. Though the enemy seeks to destroy the sanctity of marriage, godly couples stand as living proof of God’s perfect design — to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth for His glory.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    4 November 2025, 11:00 am
  • 26 minutes 46 seconds
    Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage (Part 1)

    Marriage isn’t just a contract — it’s a covenant before God. Join us as we dive deep into the sacred reality that when a marriage ends, it’s more than the loss of a relationship — it’s the death of a family, the breaking of a divine promise. Because when we understand what and who we’re fighting for, we can stand firm in the promise that what God has joined together, no one can separate.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    30 October 2025, 8:00 am
  • 40 minutes 51 seconds
    The One Habit That Will Change Your Marriage Quickly and Forever

    A Christ-centered home is built through daily habits of worship and trust. Family worship is how we honor God together—not perfectly, but faithfully.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    14 October 2025, 10:00 am
  • 51 minutes 20 seconds
    What Women Really Need in Marriage

    Join us as we explore God’s design for men and women in marriage. When men step into their God-given calling—leading with love, humility, and strength—it creates an environment where women can feel safe, secure, honored, and deeply loved. This frees wives to fully embrace who God has called them to be. Together, we’ll unpack what it looks like for husbands to walk in their role and how that opens the door for wives to flourish in theirs, leading to stronger, Christ-centered marriages.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    7 October 2025, 10:00 am
  • 41 minutes 52 seconds
    The World Needs Spartan Wives

    In this episode, we explore what it means for wives to stand guard over their marriages by guarding their hearts, staying rooted in God’s Word, and committing to prayer. We’ll discuss how a wife’s words and actions reflect the strength of her marriage and offer encouragement to remain steadfast in faith as she nurtures her home and relationship.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    30 September 2025, 2:37 pm
  • 46 minutes 44 seconds
    The World Needs Fierce Men

    What does it truly mean to be a godly man in today’s world? In this podcast, we dig into Scripture and real-life application to uncover God’s design for men as leaders, servants, and disciples. From the church pew to the dinner table, from the workplace to the neighborhood, men are called to live with courage, humility, and integrity.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    16 September 2025, 10:00 am
  • 33 minutes 8 seconds
    How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change

    Change is a natural part of marriage—whether it’s a new job, a move, children, loss, or simply entering a new season of life. These moments can stretch and shape us, but they’re also opportunities to lean into God’s plan for your marriage. In this episode, we’ll share how to be intentional in times of transition, inviting God into the process so you and your spouse can stay grounded in faith, grow in love, and not just endure change—but truly thrive together.


    Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com


    To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com


    This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 


    Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

    2 September 2025, 10:00 am
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