In this part 1 of 2, we expose the spiritual battle currently raging for your home and the specific strategies the enemy uses to tear husbands and wives apart. We break down how subtle shifts in your priorities allow the devil to gain a foothold.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

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Today, we expose the single biggest predictor of divorce: Contempt. We dive into the psychology of the four horsemen and the theology of Matthew 18 to show you how self-righteousness and entitlement rot marriages from the inside out.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Is modern dating unbiblical? Today we expose the worldly origins of casual dating and hookup culture, and why these modern constructs are actively destroying Christian marriages before they even begin. We break down the lost biblical art of courtship and the weight of the marriage covenant.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Today, we uncover 9 common ways husbands functionally forsake their wives—often without even realizing it. From spiritual laziness and poor communication to the subtle ways we let intimacy die, this is an important reminder for every Christian husband.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

In a world that normalizes wives only respecting their husbands when they "earn" it, many Christian marriages are falling into a trap. Today we dive into the needed truths of Ephesians 5 and identify nine common ways that wives dishonor their husbands.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Communication is the single biggest downfall in marriages—bigger than finances, chores, and even sex. Today, we are taking an inverse approach by giving you 10 "horrible" tips guaranteed to ruin your relationship and kill intimacy.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Christians, please don’t enter the New Year without doing this… Today we discuss the startling statistic that 94% of families lack a written vision statement and share the three-part framework for creating a biblical family vision.



RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Today we explore the theology of contentment, challenging believers to stop calling their sin a "personality trait" and start fighting for the peace that only comes from a life fully surrendered to God’s sovereignty.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Is your perspective on sex hurting your marriage? In this episode, Ryan and Selena tackle the often misunderstood topic of intimacy in the Christian life. We break down the 5 biblical keys to a healthy perspective on sex.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Marriage is God’s gift for joy and sanctification — but three subtle poisons can kill it: Pennies, Perversion, and Pride.

1. Pennies – Loving money breeds fear, comparison, and discontent. Antidote: Seek first God’s kingdom (Matt 6:25–34).
2. Perversion – Porn, withholding, or distortion twist God’s good gift of sex. Antidote: Pursue regular, healing intimacy as worship (1 Cor 7:5).
3. Pride – “I know better” fuels unforgiveness and division. Antidote: Look to the humble Servant-King and forgive as Christ forgave us (Matt 20:28, Eph 4:32).

Spot the poison, repent fast, and watch God restore joy to your covenant. Short, scriptural, and straight to the heart — hit play with your spouse.

RESOURCES:

Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com

This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner 

Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

In this raw and urgent episode, Ryan and Selena respond directly to a viral clip from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (Love & Respect) where he calls out wives who “continually mock their husbands,” put them down mentally, and secretly make fun of their opinions.

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “He’s just not the man I thought I married” … this episode is for you.

We dive deep into:

• The devastating long-term fruit of a disrespectful speech and a critical spirit (Prov 21:19, Prov 27:15)
• Why even “small” condescending comments, eye-rolls, and corrections are spiritual poison
• Genesis 1–2 and Ephesians 5:22–33 – God’s original design for husbands to WORK and wives to RESPECT
• The moment a wife stops seeing her husband “in his element,” her view of him becomes dangerously incomplete
• The 4 C’s every wife must confront: What are you Consuming? Who are you Consulting? Who are you Complaining to? It’s time to CUT it out.
• The 200-year plan: How today’s sarcasm and discontent become tomorrow’s bitterness, affairs, or divorce
• Practical steps to break the cycle: Repent to God → Repent to your husband → Replace criticism with gratitude → Renew your mind daily (Romans 12:2)

Husbands: this isn’t permission to be passive. A wife’s biblical respect flows most naturally when her husband loves her as Christ loves the church. We talk about that too.

Whether you’re the wife struggling with disrespect or the husband feeling crushed under constant criticism—this episode will challenge and encourage you toward the fierce, gospel-centered marriage you both long for.

Scriptures covered: Genesis 1–2, Ephesians 5:22–33, Proverbs 21:19, Proverbs 27:15–16, Romans 12:1–2

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