• 27 minutes 30 seconds
    On what basis do we FORGIVE? (Sola Gratia, Mature Marriage, 2/5)

    Why does your spouse love you? And why do you love them? It sounds like an easy question, but the answer might change how you see your whole marriage. Today we break down the one truth that shapes how you forgive, how you love on hard days, and how you build a marriage that lasts for decades.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

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    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

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    Selena:

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    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    27 October 2026, 9:00 am
  • 35 minutes 16 seconds
    Who Has Ultimate AUTHORITY in Your Marriage? (Sola Scriptura, Mature Marriage, 1/5)

    Every marriage runs on something, and most couples never stop to ask what. Today we dig into what separates marriages that keep maturing from marriages that stall out. If you want a marriage that is still strong decades from now, this one is worth your time.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.

    Ryan:

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    20 October 2026, 9:00 am
  • 32 minutes 20 seconds
    How Can We Build a MATURE Marriage? (Mature Marriage Series Intro)

    What separates a couple who just stays together from a couple who actually grows? What are the marks of a mature marriage? Today Ryan and Selena Frederick break down what real marital maturity looks like and what it's built upon.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    14 October 2026, 9:00 am
  • 33 minutes 59 seconds
    The ONE Weapon Few Christians Use to Guard their Household (Staying Close in the Chaos, 5/5)

    Nothing will change the culture of your home and the strength of your marriage like this one habit: Family Worship.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    6 October 2026, 9:00 am
  • 25 minutes 34 seconds
    Keeping Short Accounts (Staying Close in the Chaos, 4/5)

    Marriages don't only fall apart from big blowups — they can also crumble from a hundred small moments nobody ever addresses. Today we unpack one habit we call "keeping short accounts," a practice that's helped carry our marriage through 23 years.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    2 October 2026, 3:50 pm
  • 31 minutes 14 seconds
    Prioritizing Consistent Intimacy (Staying Close in the Chaos, 3/5)

    Many couples think intimacy should just happen on its own — but what if that belief is harming your marriage? Today we dig into what the Bible actually says about consistency, connection, and why "spontaneous" might not be the correct goal.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    24 September 2026, 2:37 pm
  • 25 minutes 34 seconds
    Warm Regard: How Tiny Reactions Make a Huge Impact (Staying Close in the Chaos, 2/5)

    Marriages don't only fall apart from big blowups — they can also crumble from a hundred small moments nobody ever addresses. Today we unpack one habit we call "keeping short accounts," a practice that's helped carry our marriage through 23 years.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    17 September 2026, 9:00 am
  • 45 minutes 59 seconds
    "Coffee Time": The Habit that Changes Everything (Staying Close in the Chaos, 1/5)

    How can you protect your connection with your spouse despite being busy? Today, Ryan and Selena Frederick share the one practical daily habit they believe has the highest return on investment for staying connected as a couple.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com 

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. 

    Ryan: 

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    9 September 2026, 8:00 am
  • 47 minutes 51 seconds
    Emotionalism: The Invisible Toddler Harming Many Marriages

    Today we unpack the difference between healthy emotions and something far more dangerous: emotionalism. From the silent treatment to storming off to feeling "unloved" even when your spouse is trying, we break down where feelings cross the line from real to ruling, and what Scripture says about putting them back in their place.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.

    Ryan:

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    2 September 2026, 4:51 pm
  • 38 minutes 32 seconds
    Making the Most of Your Wedding and Honeymoon (Nearly-weds and Newlyweds, 3 of 3)

    Today we wrap up our three-part series for nearly and newlywed couples. We talk about things we wish someone had told us before our wedding, our honeymoon, and the moment we came back home to real life.

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.

    Ryan:

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    25 August 2026, 9:00 am
  • 38 minutes 35 seconds
    Stewarding Your Engagement for the Glory of God (Nearly-weds and Newlyweds, 2 of 3)

    It's wedding season! How can a couple who is headed into marriage best position themselves for success? Last week, today, and next week, we'll talk about exactly that!

    • Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com

    • Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com

    • Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com

    To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com

    If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.

    Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

    Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast

    Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage

    More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com

    Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com

    Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com

    For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com

    Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.

    Ryan:

    https://instagram.com/ryan_fred

    https://twitter.com/ryanfred

    https://facebook.com/ryanfred

    Selena:

    https://instagram.com/selenafred

    https://facebook.com/selena.frederick

    18 August 2026, 9:00 am
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