DB sits down with Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk sexual fantasies, threesomes, and the impact of porn on our sex lives. Gain psychological insights into why we do what we do in the bedroom, and learn strategies for expressing your sexual fantasies to a partner. Plus, don't miss DB and Justin's advice to a listener hoping to improve their body image!   16:02 Improving relationships through sexual Ffntasies 25:46 Debunking the myth of porn addiction 29:53 Psychological insights into human sexual behavior 36:31 The fantasy and reality of threesomes 47:28 Listener voicemail- how do I improve my body image?   Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world.   ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard? Send us a voicemail for a chance to be featured on the podcast! 

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Are you a sexual health professional? Check out DB’s workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand.

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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer: Sadie Lidji

Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn

Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser

In this minisode, listen to snippets of some of the BEST orgasm tips from the archives of Sex Ed with DB! DB and Mariah from Sex Ed Files share their go-to techniques for reaching the big O. Then, stick around as DB tackles a listener's question on how to make orgasms even more intense.

Hear the full episodes:

Curious Sex Ed: Orgasms

More Sex Ed: How can I have a stronger orgasm? 

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Lion's Den, Uberlube, and Magic Wand.

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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer: Sadie Lidji

Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn

Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser

Endometriosis affects an estimated 1 in 10 people assigned female at birth, including women, non-binary, and trans folks; however, the condition remains shrouded in stigma, leaving many people undiagnosed and in chronic pain. This needs to change. In this powerful episode of From First Period To Last Period, Rescripted Co-Founder Kristyn Hodgdon has a raw, open, and honest conversation about endometriosis with two women who have been there: Jacqueline Solivan, VP of Partnerships at Rescripted, and Emma Maxwell, a tireless endometriosis advocate. You won't want to miss it.

From First Period To Last Period, brought to you by Rescripted, is a science-backed health and wellness podcast dedicated to shining a light on all of the women's health topics that have long been considered taboo. Learn more here, and follow Rescripted on Instagram and TikTok.

We're kicking off Season 10 with none other than the legendary Dr. Emily Nagoski, the trailblazing author of "Come as You Are." We tackle everything from the art of sustaining a fulfilling sexual relationship to polyamory, and delve into the myths surrounding desire that sex educators hear the most. Plus, Dr. Nagoski generously shares her top three tips for cultivating a vibrant sex life with a long-term partner. And don't miss our new segment, Booty Call, where we share a funny listener sex story!

(08:48) - Navigating conversations about sex life in long term relationships (25:18) - Emily's Top 3 secrets for a satisfying sex life (31:31) - Dual control model in sexual response (37:40) - Sex trivia! DR. EMILY NAGOSKI is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestselling Come As You Are and The Come As You Are Workbook, and coauthor, with her sister, Amelia, of New York Times bestseller Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. Her latest book is Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. Emily earned an M.S. in counseling and a Ph.D. in health behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies. She lives in Massachusetts with two dogs, a cat, and a cartoonist. ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard? Send us a voicemail for a chance to be featured on the podcast! 

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Are you a sexual health professional? Check out DB’s workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand.

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Lion's Den, Uberlube, and Magic Wand.

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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer: Sadie Lidji

Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn

Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser

Season 10 debuts next week! In the meantime, enjoy this favorite episode from Season 7 with Dr. Blair Peters (@queersurgeon), a plastic surgeon who performs gender-affirming surgeries, including facial, chest and genital gender affirming surgery and complex peripheral nerve surgery. They discuss what gender-affirming care and surgery entail, debunk myths and misunderstandings, and talk about how the media plays into anti-trans rhetoric. They also discuss Dr. Peters' surgical work and rearch on the nerves in the clitoris.

CW: gender dysphoria, suicidality, graphic descriptions of surgery

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Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disabilitity, HIV, sex in the media, and more. 

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Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Co-Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Editor: Brian Peoples

Social Media Intern: Sarah Kelly

As Season 10 approaches (!!!), let's revisit one of our favorite episodes from Season 8 featuring Alex Hall from The Bottom’s Digest to discuss all things bottoming! Alex shares insights from his personal experiences with bottoming and debunks some of the common misconceptions associated with it. The two dive into the topic of food and its impact on sexual play, revealing some surprising connections between diet and sexual performance. Who knew that what you eat could have such an impact on your sex life?! Whether you're a seasoned bottom or just curious about the world of bottoming, you won't want to miss this one! ——

• What is bottoming? [00:11:00]

• Myths about bottoming and how they relate to diet culture [00:16:18]

• Myths about bottoming and food [00:19:00]

• Why accidents in the bedroom while bottoming are completely normal. [00:23:00]

• Alex’s personal favorite recipes for bottoming [00:32:25]

• Learn which foods to avoid before bottoming! [00:45:06]

Find more from Alex:

TikTok: The Bottom's Digest

IG: @BottomsDigest

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Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 is Sponsored by:

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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. ——

Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Associate Producer: Sadie Lidji

Marketing Coordinator: Kate Fiala

In this minisode, listen to snippets of some of the BEST relationship advice from the archives of Sex Ed with DB! Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, shares some of her top tips for couples in marriage counseling. Then Logan Ury, Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, lets us know why hard work is the sign of a good relationship, not a bad one.

Hear the full episodes:

Maintaining Long-Term Relationships and Keeping The Spark Alive with Therapist, Dr. Lexx Brown-James How to Date Better with Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science Logan Ury

In this minisode, hear from two badass abortion activists, Winnie and Steph Herold. Winnie, a clinic escort, talks to DB about SWAN's viral anti-respectability politics approach to supporting folks seeking abortion, and Steph Herold, abortion researcher, shares two examples of the best and worst on-screen representations of abortion to date. 

Hear the full episodes:

Help Keep An Independent Florida Abortion Clinic Open with Winnie from SWAN

Abortion on Screen with Steph Herold on Apple Podcasts

In this minisode, hear snippets from some of our fav queer trailblazers. Zachary Zane reminds us that yes--you ARE bi enough, while Jamie and Shaaba share their experiences of finding radical support through sharing their queer journeys online

Hear the full episodes:

Coming Out As Bisexual with "Boyslut" Author, Zachary Zane 

Sharing Your LGBTQ+ Journey with The World with YouTubers, Jamie Raines PhD (@Jammidodger) and Shaaba Raines PhD (@Shaaba)

 

Today, hear a special preview episode from the Queer News podcast!

The South comprises 38% of the U.S. population but it represents over half, yes over half at 52% of all new HIV diagnoses. Let me drop another stat on you. Out of the 17 states defined as being in the South by the U.S. Census; 13 of them have HIV-Specific Criminal Laws or Statutes on the books & 11 of them have actually prosecuted people for living with HIV. HIV Criminalization is still real. I’m sharing these stats because you need to know. I didn’t know and we must change the pattern.

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About Queer News

An intersectional approach to a weekly news podcast where race & sexuality meet politics, entertainment and culture. Tune-in to reporting which centers & celebrates all of our lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & comrade communities. Hosted by Anna DeShawn. New pod every Monday by 7am CT. 

We want to hear from you. Tune in and tell us what you think. email us at [email protected]. Follow Anna DeShawn on Twitter: @annadeshawn. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here, https://bit.ly/3ohYXAw 

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Get ready for a steamy trip down memory lane! In this special minisode, we've handpicked the juiciest sex stories from Sex Ed with DB's past. Hear snippets from Come Curious' escapades at a sexy swingers resort and Goody Howard's expert oral sex advice. Don't miss out on the best of the best!

Hear the full episodes:

Swingers vacations and fetishes with Come Curious Hosts, Reed Amber and Florence Bark

Blow jobs are performance art with Pleasure Professional, Goody Howard, MSW, MPH

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Are you a sexual health professional? Check out DB’s workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand.

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Sex Ed with DB, Season 9 is Sponsored by:

Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, and Plan C.

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—— About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 9 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Producer and Communications Coordinator: Sadie Lidji

Marketing Coordinator: Kate Fiala