This week, it’s just us girls.

We start off strong with a little chat about water sports which somehow turns into a history lesson. We get into trusting your gut, decentering partners in healthy relationships and some very necessary advice on rejection and getting out of your own head.

The dilemmas this week are insane. One listener loves her boyfriend but is starting to question his very intense brand of spirituality. Another listener needs advice for their sister, who is considering putting her dreams on hold to fund her boyfriend’s master’s degree. As always, we wrap things up with wonderful advice and enough laughs to get you through the week.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s Gin, Kuda Bank & Busha.

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This week, we’re joined by Fareedah Abdulsalam, Product Marketing Manager at Busha, to talk about all things money. We get into our personal money problems, the habits we’ve inherited, investing, the concept (or myth?) of building generational wealth and how finances can shape our friendships and romantic relationships. We also get a little delulu about the levels of wealth we’d love to attain.

The dilemmas don’t disappoint either. One listener is in serious distress after lending her fiancé $10,000, while another has been paying for everything in her relationship only to receive a prayer for her birthday.

It’s a banger as always. Enjoy this special episode brought to you by our friends at Busha! Busha! Busha!

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This week, the ladies are joined by Alexis Adelu Sanya-Kawa and Zulu Anyaogu from the Mirabel Centre for a very important conversation on sexual assault, domestic violence and survivor advocacy.

As usual, they start the episode with a quick catch-up, dive into a few listener dilemmas, including some exciting updates from previous entries.

Alexis and Zulu then guide us through the incredible work the Mirabel Centre has championed over the last 13 years as a sanctuary for survivors. They break down the institutional gaps in the system, the challenges survivors face when seeking help and healing, and the legislative reforms required to ensure lasting protection and justice.

This is an eye-opening and deeply insightful episode.

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This week, it’s just the girls and they had a timeee.

From Nigeria’s endless stress and FK’s hair drama to Jola’s Abuja adventures, the episode quickly goes from ranting to reminiscing. The ladies get into parenting in the age of social media, Nigerian boarding school stories and the very questionable ways adults treated teenage girls experiencing puberty.

Unsafe spaces are back this week, along with FK’s glow up mission and hilarious dilemmas to round things off.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Smirnoff Ice & Busha.

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This week, the ladies are joined by the sensational Chef Demilade Akingbe for a hilarious and completely unfiltered episode. 

We kick things off with the heavy realities of living in Nigeria and the big debate over whether public figures actually have a responsibility to speak up.

Things take an extra chaotic turn as the group gets into sex work, oddly specific turn-offs, and Demilade’s iconic grocery store date. For this week's unhinged dilemmas, we tackle the messy fallout of sleeping with a close friend’s younger sister, and toxic exes who suddenly realize you’re wife material. Finally, Demilade spills all the behind-the-scenes tea on her MasterChef Nigeria journey and shares the exciting things she has cooking next for My Friend’s House.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha!

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This week, the ladies are joined by Ayanfe for a truly unforgettable episode. We start with a quick catch-up, then get into some dilemmas that go from confusing to completely unhinged. One listener’s husband is refusing to have children until his siblings do, another is grieving her sister while secretly falling in love with the husband she left behind.

Then Ayanfe takes us through his incredible life story, from how he first got to Lagos to ending up in an orphanage after an accident. He shares what daily life was like, the relationships he built there and what it took to eventually reconnect with his family. He also opens up about living on the streets with hustling boys and choosing to hold on to his honest craft instead of going back to that life. It is honest, emotional, hilarious and a beautiful reminder of resilience, grace and finding your way back to yourself.

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This week, we’re joined by Call of My Life stars Uzoamaka and Andrew, alongside producer Blessing and somehow, we spent the entire episode screaming “God when?” because what we were witnessing was more than the movie. We talk about Arsenal fans creative celebrations and some crazy dilemmas, including a listener who is trying to get his wife to forgive him after his infidelity.

We obviously dive right into Nigeria's rom-com of the moment - examining the magic behind the story and how our favourite lovebirds prepared for their roles and like you all, we are left wondering if it's still just acting. We also talk about the major milestones they’ve hit and all the exciting plans they have coming up next.

It’s hilarious, sweet and will definitely have you crying for justice for the singles!

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Happy Africa Day boys and girls! For our final special Africa Day series with Facebook, we’re joined by the incredible actress, Osas Ighodaro.

Starting with some spicy dilemmas on friendship loyalty, we navigate what to do when you catch your friend’s man cheating and why age gap relationships will always have the group chat divided. Osas takes us through her journey from pageantry to acting, moving back to Nigeria, building a global career and what “Made by Africa, Loved by the World” really means to her. She also shares some tips for young creatives trying to find their own people in this social media age. We hope you enjoy!

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It’s another special Facebook Africa Day episode! Today, we’re joined by the best actor in the world, Tobi Bakre.

We start with our usual catch-up and some very juicy dilemmas, including a listener wondering if she should stay in a long-distance relationship and another trying to figure out how to set boundaries with her husband’s family. Tobi tells us all about his journey from reality TV to becoming one of Nollywood’s biggest stars, building a global community with the help of Facebook, how fatherhood changed him, his hopes for African cinema and his dreams for the future.

It’s always an amazing time when Tobi is in the house. Enjoy!

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Surprise! We have a very special episode!!!

To celebrate Africa Day with Facebook, we are joined by the amazing, ever-talented Kehinde Bankole.

We start with a quick catch-up on what we’ve been getting up to, a little Ibadan gist and some hilarious dilemmas, including what to do when you’re basically bankrolling your boyfriend’s life. Then we get into her incredible career journey, her many talents and side quests (she’s literally a Jill of all trades) and how Facebook has helped her and other African creatives build and connect with their communities globally.

It’s insightful, fun and amazing as always. You already know Kehinde is THAT GIRL. Enjoy!

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This week, the ladies are joined by George, a very hardworking driver with an unforgettable story. We start with our usual weekend recap and then get into the AMVCAs and the proof is in the pudding because coming on the pod is clearly the secret to success.

The dilemmas were juicy as always. We advise a listener whose mother’s staff is a little too attached to her, unpack a listener who is married-men-sexual and discuss what to do when your boyfriend is preparing you to be his second wife.

George takes us into a completely different world as he opens up about what life in prison is really like. From the rules and politics of living behind bars to the different characters, survival tactics and so many other wild stories, he shares moments that are hilarious, heavy and eye-opening.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha.

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