Ever feel like you are a fish out of water trying to date later in life? Maybe you feel rusty at the dating game or maybe you never dated at all!? This week’s episode is all about building confidence to date in your second act. Listen in if you're ready to get real about “midlife fulfillment.” Episode 344 of The Charisma Quotient, ‘Finding Fulfillment Dating in Midlife: Interview with Bernie Borges, Kimmy dives deep into relationships, legacy, and finding that sweet spot of purpose with midlife podcast expert, Bernie Borges. 

Bernie joins Kimmy for a heart-to-heart on all things midlife fulfillment. They hash out the nitty-gritty of how to navigate the waters of dating in the golden years with sexy confidence.  They cover everything from the ever-shifting 5 pillars of fulfillment to the journey of reinvention and finding joy in midlife dating. Get ready for inspiring stories of people who've truly hit their stride and found new love and passion, even in the midst of life's challenges as you age.

If you are having a hard time trying to get out there and date during your midlife, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Tired of feeling like your social interactions are hitting a dead end? What if you could unlock the key to confidence starting with your style and body language? In Episode 343 of The Charisma Quotient, “Overcoming Rejection and Unlocking Confidence: Where Are They Now with Scot,” Kimmy catches up with former client, Scot, as they dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence, personal growth, and the impact of clothing on confidence and performance. 

Scot shares his personal journey, from struggling with social interactions to finding love and confidence after seeking help from Kimmy. They cover the importance of not personalizing rejections, recognizing self-worth, and the impact of gratitude and positivity on your mindset. You’ll hear about Scot's remarkable transformation and how his new outfits gave him the “costume confidence” to approach women and eventually find his long term girlfriend who he will be marrying soon!

If you realize that you need to feel more confident with your clothes and body language to go out there and date, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, First Impression Makeover coming up soon.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com  to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! 

 

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com  

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

 

Are you feeling frumpy, low energy and unattractive?  Is that affecting your motivation to put yourself out there?  Get ready to ignite your inner fire and spark your sexy confidence. This episode is dedicated to the ladies out there!  In Episode 342 of The Charisma Quotient, “Spark Your Sexy: Ignite Your Love Life,” Kimmy shares powerful tools and success stories to help you embrace your best self and feel irresistible. Kimmy reveals her 5 “F” Tips to sexy confidence and how to reclaim your sparkle as a woman. She walks you through a self-assessment in the key areas of feeling attractive and provides actionable tips to boost confidence.  In this episode, Kimmy provides practical tools to help you assess and enhance your fashion sense, flirting skills, and feminine energy. From wardrobe audits to embracing spontaneity and vulnerability, she offers valuable advice for personal transformation and self-embodiment.  Kimmy invites listeners to her unique "spark your sexy retreat" and "First Impression Makeover" workshop, designed to help you feel confident and attractive in an experiential way.

If you are feeling frumpy and not very confident when meeting new people, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop First Impression Makeover coming up soon.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com  to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! 

 

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com     Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you finding yourself making excuses or feeling powerful around your dating life?  The truth is you do have the power to create the love life you want but it’s often hard to see that.  In Episode 341 of The Charisma Quotient, “Achieving Greatness in Love: Interview with Dr. Dravon James,” Kimmy sits down with Dr. Dravon James, the founder of The Next Step Leadership Academy, a transformation specialist, best-selling author, radio host, and actress. 

Dr. James and Kimmy get into how to use everything that shows up in your life, to finally achieve greatness, especially when it comes to dating and love! They talk about how to get specific about your goals, and how to cultivate habits in order to get there. You’ll pick up tips to increase self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and consistency in your wins.

If you are fed up with the direction of your love life and want help achieving greatness in attracting the love you deserve, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com  

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

 

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

 

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

 

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Do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through dating apps? Swiping right, swiping left, but getting nowhere? It’s time to dial in some mindfulness to your dating life and beyond.  Mindfulness means living the present moment and being more intentionally aware.  In Episode 340 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mindfulness And Dating: Interview with Bruce Langford,” Kimmy sits down with Bruce Langford, a mindfulness coach, speaker, podcaster, and best-selling co-author of Cracking the Success Code.

Bruce shares his personal story of finding his voice, and how he became so passionate about helping people find theirs through mindfulness. Kimmy and Bruce get into some techniques including the C.A.L.M method to incorporate mindfulness in your dating life, to help you stay present, give yourself permission to embrace a different outcome, and ultimately find love. Bonus: Bruce shares how he found the love of his life using mindfulness! 

If you have difficulties being present and anxiety is paralyzing you to the point of it affecting your dating life, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

 

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

 

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

 

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

 

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

 

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

 

Struggling with body image? Weight issues? How you feel about your body can impact every aspect of your life...especially dating. In Episode 339 of The Charisma Quotient, “Body Confidence and Self-Acceptance When Dating: Interview with Katie Bramlett,” Kimmy sits down with the insightful Katie Bramlette, CEO and co-founder of WeShape. 

Katie offers valuable expertise in promoting self-love and emotional intelligence in the world of fitness, as well as insight into the toxic weight loss culture and its impact on mental well-being. Katie offers practical advice for redirecting energy towards self-acceptance and away from societal standards. Kimmy and Katie discuss the importance of community support, curating social media for positive body image reinforcement, and finding fulfillment in activities and friendships. Katie also shares her personal journey of breaking free from diet and exercise perfectionism, finding food freedom, and shifting her relationship with herself.

Ready to shift YOUR focus and enhance your love life? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence:  The Art Of Attraction & Chemistry.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and attract people with charm and charisma so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

 

Are you ready to be inspired? Ever think it’s too late to learn how to flirt and find the one?  Meet Rachel, an extraordinary woman who overcame immense dating struggles to find true love and happiness.  Episode 338 of The Charisma Quotient, “Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now with Rachel” dives into her inspiring journey of self-discovery and the invaluable transformation she experienced after seeking help from Kimmy herself. 

Rachel's dating journey was riddled with challenges - from attracting the wrong type of partners to battling shyness and anxiety.  She had a ton of confidence issues and found flirting and owning her beauty extremely hard.  But after a breakthrough call, personal coaching and attending a dating retreat with Kimmy, her life took a beautiful turn. Through Kimmy’s coaching, Rachel learned to stand up for herself, own her worth, and navigate dating with sexy confidence. And she learned to let go and flirt and have fun with confidence which made her more present.  She shifted her focus from fleeting chemistry and anxiety to meaningful connections, and the results were nothing short of miraculous as she ended up attracting a great man in her life. If you’ve been yearning for a love story that defies the odds, this episode is a must-listen for you!

If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and seeing your self-worth to attract a healthy relationship, hop on a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you ready to unleash your inner superhero and take control of your confidence and success? In Episode 337 of The Charisma Quotient, “Using Your Alter Ego To Attract Love: Interview with Todd Herman” Kimmy sits down with the incredible Todd Herman about the transformative power of alter egos and how they can revolutionize your life. 

Todd Herman has been a powerhouse in the field of elite performance coaching for over two decades. From developing alter egos for elite athletes to harnessing the power of creative imagination, Kimmy and Todd dive into the interconnectedness of body language, appearance, and mindset when it comes to embodying an alter ego. They also explore the concept of "act as if" to overcome self-doubt and anxiety, and share real-life examples of how alter egos have transformed lives.  Listen in to hear the concept of authentic selves and the impact of understanding and embracing different roles in life.  You’ll even hear Todd reveal his personal journey of creating and utilizing an alter ego called "Super Richard" to overcome self-doubt and achieve success.

Ready to transform YOUR life with your alter ego? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ever wonder how to make yourself more emotionally attractive? Get ready to dive deep into emotional attraction and vulnerability with Kimmy’s powerful LIVE coaching segment. In this Episode 336 of The Charisma Quotient: Progressing Your Dates With Emotional Attraction: Coaching with Kimmy, Kimmy coaches Corbin by exploring the challenges of building emotional connections and overcoming self-doubt in relationships.

Corbin, a passionate ballroom dancer with a heart of gold, joins Kimmy to share his personal struggles with opening up emotionally in relationships. They delve into the impact of childhood experiences on confidence, self-worth, and the ability to connect with others. He is a dedicated and skilled professional in his work life but struggles with socializing in his personal life, especially when it comes to interacting and being vulnerable with women he's attracted to. He's aware of his difficulty flirting and letting his guard down to deepen connections with attractive and powerful women. With Kimmy’s help, he is determined to conquer his nerves and find a way to navigate flirting with confidence and ease.  Listen in while Kimmy gives Corbin on-the-spot exercises for him to do to increase his self worth and express emotions through storytelling.  You’ll hear a shocking revelation Corbin has while doing this exercise live on the show.

If you have a hard time progressing on dates and finding emotional intimacy in relationships difficult, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ready to unlock your inner compass and harness your personal power? In Episode 335 of The Charisma Quotient:  Setting Healthy Boundaries When Dating: Interview with Laura Powers, Kimmy invites celebrity psychic and intuitive guide Laura Powers to dive deep into trusting your intuition and setting healthy boundaries. With a diverse background spanning politics, acting, writing, entrepreneurship, and more, Laura brings a unique blend of experiences and insights to the table. 

Kimmy and Laura explore the importance of trusting your gut and techniques for establishing healthy boundaries in all aspects of life, especially dating. Laura shares her remarkable story, and teaches listeners how to tune into their body to release foreign energy in order to connect with their authentic desires.  Tune in to hear the importance of having clear standards and setting even clearer boundaries and how to trust your gut in decision-making and avoid people-pleasing behaviors.  Whether you're navigating romantic relationships or personal growth or both, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and equipped to access your inner wisdom. 

If you have a hard time listening to your gut to know what is right for you and need help setting boundaries when dating, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you find yourself feeling exhausted by the thought of small talk, constantly analyzing conversations, and striving for the perfect outcome? Sounds like you’re either an introvert or a high achiever or BOTH. In Episode 334 of Charisma Quotient- Dating Hacks for Introverts and High Achievers, Kimmy gets into the challenges that introverts and high achievers face when it comes to dating and making connections. 

She shares personal and client stories and insights into the importance of playfulness and fun in dating and relating. From struggles with small talk, getting in your head to difficulty in flirting, Kimmy offers practical advice and tips to help navigate the dating world with confidences as an introvert and high achiever. She also announces an upcoming interactive workshop designed to help introverts and high achievers boost their conversation and social skills. Tune in to find out how to overcome dating fatigue and fear of rejection in a lighthearted and fun way.

Sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday Feb 21 at 4pm PST/7pm EST.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast!   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers