In the second-ever video episode of Deepen with Christina, host Christina Weber sits down with legendary relationship cartographer Annie Lala. With 17 years of partnership and a wealth of "love codes," Annie explores why she fell for "Mount Everest" (famous dating coach Eban Pagan), how she moved him from a "no" on marriage to a "hell yes," and why your partnership is the ultimate gym for emotional musculature. This episode is for those who refuse to settle for "good enough" and are ready to treat love as their highest life accomplishment.

Main Topics Covered

• The Path of the Love Coach: Annie's journey from IT consulting to becoming a "pain detective" for the heart.

• Climbing Mount Everest: The origin story of Annie and Eban Pagan, and how she navigated a partner who initially didn't believe in love or kids.

• Marriage vs. Being in Love: Why Annie believes marriage should be a "decoration" for a life already filled with ungovernable, mythic love.

• Relationship as a Gym: Why conflict is actually "hormesis" (good stress) that creates the micro-tears necessary for emotional growth.

• The Visionary Leader: How the feminine acts as the "steering wheel" (direction) while the masculine acts as the "engine" (execution).

• The "Baby Daddy" Trap: Navigating the biological clock without settling for "good enough" just to have children.

• Graduation vs. Breakup: Reframing the end of a relationship as a successful education rather than a failure.

• Manufacturing Faith: How to find your way back to connection when you're in the middle of relational darkness.

Key Takeaways

• Don't Settle for "Familiar": We often mistake "familiar" for "safe" because it mimics childhood patterns. Real safety is found in a partner who acts as a sanctuary for your heart and a trampoline for your dreams.

• Enrollment Over Ultimatums: To inspire growth in a partner, you must love them exactly as they are while creating a "marketing campaign" for their greatness based on their values.

• Love is an Accomplishment: High-stakes intimacy is an earned experience that requires due diligence, practice, and the removal of the ego.

• Desire is Sacred: Your intuition is your future successful self whispering what's next—don't ignore it for the sake of "building an empire."

Connect with the Guest

• Instagram: @lallabird

• Website: annielala.com

Connect with the Host

• Website: wedeepen.com

• Instagram: @christinaweber

If you're ready to shift from "happily ever after" to "alive ever after," please follow the podcast, like this video, and share it with someone who needs to hear that big love is possible. Join the movement at wedeepen.com!

In the debut video episode of Deepen with Christina, host Christina Weber sits down with life coach and provocateur Jordan Bowditch to explore the raw edges of intimacy, commitment, and personal evolution. From the "freestyle rap" DM that started his 10-year relationship to the creation of a home "sex dungeon" designed for marital healing, this episode is for anyone curious about how to maintain fire and integrity in long-term partnership. Bowditch pulls back the curtain on "monogamish" seasons, the pain of pregnancy loss, and why he believes a man's true capacity for commitment often unlocks at age 30.

Main Topics Covered

• The Origin Story: How Jordan used a voice note and a freestyle rap to capture his partner Alexa's attention on social media.

• The Age of Commitment: Why Jordan believes men hit a "sweet spot" for marriage around age 30, balancing the "prince" and "king" archetypes.

• Expanding the Comfort Zone: Christina and Jordan discuss shifting from "stepping out" of comfort zones to permanently expanding one's range in love and work.

• Navigating "Monogamish" Waters: A candid look at their history with open dynamics, the importance of "masculine stewardship," and why they eventually returned to monogamy.

• Healing Through Loss: How the couple navigated the grief of a late-term pregnancy loss and an early miscarriage, and the "gym of emotional fitness" required to survive it.

• The "Sex Dungeon" vs. Pleasure Palace: A deep dive into their intentional home space for intimacy and the concept of using "conscious kink" to transmute resentment into connection.

• Provision and Devotion: Exploring the "Sugar Daddy/Sacred Prostitute" archetype as a tool for deepening marital polarity.

• The Reality of Dating at 45: Christina shares her personal journey with marriage, motherhood, and the "trap" of staying in relationships where the door to the future is closed.

Key Takeaways

• Love is an Earned Experience: While grace is freely given, deep intimacy and trust must be built through consistent action and "showing your work" over time.

• Integrity is Intuitive: Jordan reflects on how "boyish" behavior and small omissions can damage the "feminine intuition" and safety of a partner, even if the actions seem benign on the surface.

• The Range of Intimacy: Long-term love isn't just about "bliss"; it requires the ability to navigate both the spiritual and the "nasty," the grief and the joy, within the same container.

• Intentional Community: The "Conscious Couples Coalition"—having a group of peers who are champions for your relationship rather than just individuals—is a vital support system for modern marriage.

• Be the Plot Twist: Growth often requires a willingness to change the narrative, whether that's launching a video podcast after a year-long hiatus or choosing to stay monogamous after exploring openness.

Connect with the Guest

• Instagram: Jordan Bowditch

• Website: Jordan Bowditch Coaching

Connect with the Host

• Website: wedeepen.com

• Instagram: @christinaweber

If this conversation sparked a new perspective on love for you, please follow the podcast, like this video, and share it with a friend who is navigating their own journey of intimacy. Let's keep deepening together!

In this rare and unreleased conversation, recorded shortly before his passing, Christina sits down with the late Dr. Robert J. Gilbert—renowned spiritual scientist and founder of the Vesica Institute—for a deeply moving dialogue on the geometry of love, healing, and human potential.

What began as a serendipitous connection over a Gaia episode on The Sacred Geometry of Relationships unfolded into one of the most profound conversations of Christina's life. Dr. Gilbert, once a U.S. Marine Corps instructor in nuclear defense, became a global authority in Sacred Geometry, BioGeometry, and vibrational healing. His life's work bridges ancient wisdom and modern science to reveal the unseen patterns shaping our reality.

In this episode, you'll explore:

• The core principles of Sacred Geometry and how they shape relationships

• The concept of de-armoring as a path to authenticity and emotional freedom

• How energetic awareness can transform love, space, and personal growth

• BioGeometry and the creation of harmony in everyday environments

• The spiritual purpose encoded in our connections—and how to align with it

This episode is a tribute to a great mind and heart. Let it be a portal into deeper love, conscious design, and the legacy of one who truly walked between worlds.

Connect with Christina: Follow @christinaweber on Instagram

Explore WeDeepen Experiences: Follow @wedeepen and visit wedeepen.com

If this episode moved you, please rate, review, and share. Let's ripple Dr. Gilbert's wisdom far and wide.

Explore the transformative power of erotic energy and how awakening the feminine can profoundly impact every aspect of life, from relationships to personal empowerment, with guest Jamie Elizabeth Thompson, a feminine embodiment and erotic awakening coach.

Jamie shares her journey from a repressed Christian upbringing to becoming a stripper in Las Vegas, and eventually a teacher of sacred sexuality and orgasmic awakening. She discusses the integration of sacred sexuality, orgasmic awakening, the profound impacts of erotic energy, and how these experiences can serve as a portal to personal growth and deeper connections.

Topics Discussed:

• The role of erotic energy in personal and relational growth.
• Practical advice on how to cultivate and maintain an orgasmic practice.
• Understanding and experiencing cervical orgasms as a source of power and connection.
• Navigating intimate relationships and the importance of trust and devotion.
• How to integrate erotic practices into daily life for increased pleasure and connection.

Explore The Love Club: a mastermind community for seekers, couples, and singles dedicated to love and healthy relationships. Join expert-led masterminds and deepen your connections. Visit wedeepenloveclub.com to learn more and register.

Connect with Jamie Elizabeth Thompson:

• Follow Jamie on Instagram: @holisticsexcoach
• Connect on Facebook: Jamie Elizabeth Thompson
• Get started working with Jamie: https://www.awakenedwoman.life/membership
• Gush Training (September 24, 2024) – Join Jamie's free live training to unlock your orgasm: https://www.awakenedwoman.life/gush

Connect with Christina:

• Follow Christina Weber on Instagram @christinaweber

Connect with WeDeepen:

• Follow WeDeepen on Instagram at @wedeepen and discover inspiring experiences at wedeepen.com

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Explore the ever-evolving landscape of love and relationships with Dr. John Gray, author of the book, "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus." From monogamy to polyamory, and the biochemical differences between men and women, John offers insights into how our brains and hormones shape our romantic lives.

John also shares his personal journey, from being a celibate monk to becoming a leading relationship expert, and delves into the importance of understanding gender differences in maintaining a healthy, loving relationship.

Topics Discussed:

• The biochemical differences between men and women and their impact on relationships.

• The importance of commitment and monogamy for long-term relationship success.

• Practical exercises for maintaining high testosterone and estrogen levels.

• John's personal journey from celibacy to relationship expertise.

• The role of prolactin in men's emotional and sexual health.

• How to biohack your love life for longevity and fulfillment.

John provides practical advice on how to keep the spark alive, including daily reassurance exercises and the importance of little acts of service.

Explore The Love Club: a mastermind community for seekers, couples, and singles dedicated to love and healthy relationships. Join expert-led masterminds and deepen your connections. Visit wedeepenloveclub.com to learn more and register.

Connect with Dr. John Gray:John Gray's Mars Venus Relationship Weekend for Singles and Couples - Use this link to get the Early Bird Special of half off the ticket price

Follow John on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, LinkedIn, or X, or connect on his website at https://www.marsvenus.com

Connect with Christina:Follow Christina Weber on Instagram @christinaweber

Connect with WeDeepen: Follow WeDeepen on Instagram at @wedeepen and discover inspiring experiences at wedeepen.com

If this episode resonates with you, show your love by subscribing, rating, and leaving a review. Your support helps others find and access the insights shared—spread the love!

Delve into the profound effects of sexual energy with Rahi Chun, an expert in conscious intimacy and energy work. In this episode, Rahi sheds light on how intimate experiences influence our energy fields, from the Kundalini belief of carrying a partner's energy to the importance of energy clearing and cord cutting.

Topics Discussed:

• One-way touch and sexual healing with a skilled practitioner.

• Absorbing a partner's energy from lovemaking and simultaneous orgasms.

• Clearing sexual energy, including techniques for cord cutting and self-care practices.

• Energy exchange in various forms of intimacy and the role of boundaries in maintaining personal balance.

• Creating conscious agreements in relationships and understanding the energy quality we invite into our lives.

Rahi also explores the benefits and considerations of maintaining energetic connections and how being attuned to each other can affect relationships.

Explore The Love Club: a mastermind community for seekers, couples, and singles dedicated to love and healthy relationships. Join expert-led masterminds and deepen your connections. Visit wedeepenloveclub.com to learn more and register.

Connect with Rahi:

Connect with Rahi Chun on Instagram @rahichun and learn more about his work in embodiment and sexual pleasure at https://somaticsexualwholeness.com/

Connect with Christina:

Connect with Christina Weber on Instagram @christinaweber.

Connect with WeDeepen: Follow WeDeepen on Instagram at @wedeepen and discover inspiring experiences at wedeepen.com

If this episode resonates with you, show your love by subscribing, rating, and leaving a review. Your support helps others find and access the insights shared—spread the love!

In this captivating episode, host Christina Weber dives into the erotic and transformative world of Shibari and BDSM with expert Rina Trevi, a certified professional coach and a leader in awakening erotic potential through Shibari and BDSM practices.

Christina and Rina explore the profound impacts of these practices on personal and relational dynamics. Rina shares her journey from growing up in Russia to becoming a professional dominatrix in New York City, highlighting the freedom and authenticity she discovered through this path. They discuss the psychological and emotional depths of BDSM, emphasizing the importance of safety, vulnerability, and the exploration of desires beyond societal norms.

Listeners will learn about the transformative power of Shibari, not just as an art form but as a means to achieve deep bodily and mental relaxation, trust, and connection. Rina's insights reveal how these practices can help individuals and couples break free from mental constraints, deepen their intimacy, and experience a heightened sense of aliveness.

Key Topics Covered:

• The origins and personal journey of Rina into the world of BDSM and Shibari.
• The psychological benefits of BDSM and how it can serve as a tool for personal growth.
• The role of safety and consent in creating a trusting environment for erotic exploration.
• How Shibari can facilitate a unique state of surrender and presence.
• Practical advice for those interested in exploring BDSM and incorporating it into their relationships.

Connect with Rina Trevi:

• Instagram: @rina_trevi

Stay Connected with Christina Weber & WeDeepen:

• Instagram: @christinaweber & @wedeepen
• Learn more about The Love Club and upcoming events at wedeepen.com and wedeepenloveclub.com

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Explore the possibilities of love without limits in this intriguing episode with Marco Hansell and Anaya Joy, a couple pioneering new ways to combine commitment with open relationships. They share how they maintain a secure bond and raise a child while navigating what they call a 'free relationship.' Learn about their origin story, their challenges, and the joy of expanding love through honesty, communication, and self-awareness.

Discover the disciplines and creative strategies they use to keep their relationship vibrant. For tools and insights to enhance your own relationships, visit their website at thefreelationship.com and follow them on Instagram @thefreelationship.

Join the Love Club community at wedeepenloveclub.com and connect with Christina on Instagram (@christinaweber).

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How are your hormones impacting your intimate relationships?

Explore the significant role of hormones in shaping our interactions, from initial attraction to long-term bonding, with Dr. Anna Cabeca, a triple-board certified OB-GYN and expert in women's health. In this episode, Dr. Anna offers practical advice on managing hormonal imbalances and adrenal dysfunction. She focuses on perimenopause and menopause for women, and maintaining healthy testosterone levels for men, essential for sustaining desire and vitality.

With over 20 years of experience, serving more than 10,000 women and millions more through her books and videos, Dr. Anna is a featured speaker at the Biohacking Conference in Dallas and author of "The Hormone Fix." Her holistic approach combines modern medicine with natural remedies, providing actionable solutions for all stages of life.

Connect with Dr. Anna Cabeca on Instagram at @thegirlfrienddoctor and learn more about her programs "Magic Menopause" and "Sexual CPR" at drannacabeca.com.

Follow Christina Weber on Instagram (@christinaweber & @wedeepen) and learn how to attract and maintain an epic relationship at The Love Club at wedeepenloveclub.com.

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Embrace the complexities and joys of modern love with philosopher, musician, and host of the OMEGA MALE podcast, Daniel Mackenzie. Christina and Daniel discuss the intricate dance of relationships, self-development, and the evolving landscape of dating.

Daniel shares his insights on the delicate balance between retaining the magic of romantic ideals and embracing the real-world dynamics of love. They tackle topics from the pitfalls of online dating etiquette to the transformative power of vulnerability and the cultivation of unconditional love, especially as a parent.

This episode also delves into the controversial realm of psychedelics and their role in spiritual growth, challenging listeners to consider the esoteric costs of seeking enlightenment through external substances versus the natural development of one's spiritual faculties.

As Christina continues to foster connection through WeDeepen's Love Club, this conversation is a testament to the power of intentional gatherings and the magic of sharing wisdom in community. It's an invitation to explore love in all its forms—beyond the swipe of a screen and into the richness of real-life interaction.

Stay Connected and Discover More:

• Daniel Mackenzie: Discover private coaching opportunities with Daniel by reaching out via email at [email protected], and tune in to more of Daniel's podcast OMEGA MALE.
• Christina Weber & WeDeepen: Connect with Christina on Instagram (@christinaweber & @wedeepen). Explore opportunities to enhance your dating experiences at The Love Club at wedeepenloveclub.com, and don't miss upcoming social and transformational experiences at wedeepen.com.

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Deepen intimacy and erotic intelligence with Christina Weber and Kayce Neill. Learn about the Erotic Blueprints, a framework for understanding your unique sexual desires and the pathway to profound pleasure. Kayce, a trauma-informed therapist and expert in the Erotic Blueprints, shares her wisdom on navigating the nuanced terrains of our erotic selves.

Discover the superpowers and shadows of each blueprint, from the transcendent touch of the Energetic to the boundless creativity of the Kinky, and learn how these insights can lead to better communication, deeper connection, and a more fulfilling sex life. Whether you're single and curious about the Love Club or in a relationship seeking to reignite the spark, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge to help you embrace your full erotic potential and cultivate the love life you desire.

Christina and Kayce also explore how these blueprints can influence our interactions beyond the bedroom, providing a richer understanding of ourselves and others. This conversation is an invitation to shed societal taboos and embrace the full spectrum of pleasure that life has to offer.

For those ready to deepen their understanding of love and desire, visit kayceneill.com to learn about Kayce's bespoke coaching services. And don't forget to check out the Love Club at wedeepen.com for those single souls seeking growth-minded connections and a community dedicated to nurturing healthy relationships.

Tune in, open your heart, and let 'Deepen with Christina' guide you through the layers of love and eroticism that make us human. Remember to follow, subscribe, and share this episode with those ready to transform their approach to love and intimacy.

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📋 Episode Chapters

(06:09) The erotic blueprints give you access to explore eroticism

(17:43) Shadow is anything that gets in the way of experiencing true pleasure

(26:13) Last night I was exploring envy attacks and the topic of envy

(44:20) The best place to start is with your primary blueprint

(48:39) One of the coolest things that energetics can do is have an energetic orgasm

(51:13) The sensual superpower is that they are turned on by their senses

(54:59) Sometimes we cast sexuals falsely as sex addicts

(01:04:01) In kink, you can experience altered states of consciousness similar to psychedelics

(01:08:03) Shapeshifters often have shadows of their own

(01:09:22) What is possible in experiencing and learning and understanding the blueprints

(01:15:17) With social media and podcasts, there's an integration happening around design

(01:19:27) When we can truly embody our desires, that's when manifestation happens

(01:22:29) If you do enjoy this podcast, please do subscribe rate