- 1 hour 6 minutes#484 Sex Positions 2.0, No Acrobatics Required with the Davons
Ready to take your sex life beyond the basics? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re joined by renowned relationship coaches and Tantra teachers Erwan Davon and Alicia Davon, creators of the Davon Method. With over 20,000 students worldwide, they’ve become global leaders in intimacy, sensuality, and relationship transformation.
We’re diving into “sex positions 2.0”—what it really means to explore more advanced or intermediate techniques in the bedroom. How do you know when you’re ready to level up? What actually makes a sex position “advanced”—and do you need to be super flexible or yoga-trained to enjoy them?
In this candid and educational conversation, we explore:
- How trying new sex positions can reignite passion and deepen intimacy
- The most overrated positions (and why they don’t always live up to the hype)
- Accessible advanced techniques that almost anyone can try
- Positions that require strength and flexibility—and how to safely prepare
- Expert tips to avoid injuries, awkward mishaps, or “that didn’t go as planned” moments
Plus, Erwan and Alicia share practical advice for anyone feeling curious—but a little nervous—about expanding their sexual repertoire.
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Come to our October 2026 Couple's retreats! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
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Other links:
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Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Spice up your sex and relationships with the FREE Attuned App, and use code SHAMELESS for 30% off a premium subscription at https://www.getattuned.app
5 May 2026, 7:50 pm - 1 hour 24 minutes#483 How to Get Bigger Bits with Susan Bratton
Can You Really Hack Your Way to Juicier Clits, Bigger Dicks and Better Sex?
Did you know that your genitals shrink as you age? Learn more as we revisit the conversation with the inimitable Susan Bratton, one of the world's most prolific sex educators, who has spent over two decades championing pleasure-based sex education. In our previous episode (#322 Big Clits and Dicks), Susan shared her expertise on all things related to bigger clits and dicks, from enhanced pleasure to optimized health. You read that correctly - enhancing your genitals not only leads to more pleasure, but it also has health benefits!
Here's what you'll learn:
* The latest DIY techniques to enhance your pleasure and intimacy - no doctors visits or surgery needed!
* How to use everyday products to level up your sex game
* The science behind pleasure and blood flow and how to apply it to your love life
* Why Susan is considered a "force of nature" when it comes to sex education
As the CEO of Better Lover, Personal Life Media, and The20, Susan has helped over 1,500,000 lovers worldwide with her 44 books and programs, including bestsellers like Sexual Soulmates and Revive Her Drive. With her expertise and infectious enthusiasm, you'll be empowered to take your sex life to the next level.
Tune in for a fun, informative, and playful conversation that will leave you feeling empowered and excited to try new things. And, as a bonus, get ready to geek out with us on the latest pleasure product technology that's changing the game.
Stay tuned for the next episode, where we'll be exploring the world of... well, let's just say it's going to be a wild ride! And to learn more or get your genital enhancement on go to https://aprilamy.com
Products discussed:
Come to our October 2026 Couple's retreats! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Other links:
Spice up your sex and relationships with the FREE Attuned App, and use code SHAMELESS for 30% off a premium subscription at https://www.getattuned.app
Get 10% off getting turned on by Drive Boost with code SHAMELESS at https://vb.health
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/shameless
28 April 2026, 5:05 pm - 1 hour 19 minutes#482 From Lips to Tips: Mastering Sexy Communication & Pleasure Mapping
Are You Speaking the Language of Love (and Desire) in the Bedroom?
Get ready to revolutionize your relationships and intimacy with the latest episode of Shameless Sex! We're diving into two exclusive clips from Intimacy Rewired, a 6-week online bootcamp that's all about mastering the skills that make relationships easy. Joining us are expert educators Charlie Glickman and Sarah Tomchesson, who share their expertise on communication and pleasure literacy.
Here's what you'll learn:
* The secrets to communicating your needs and boundaries like a pro (without being a demanding diva or a silent sufferer)
* How to negotiate with your partner like you're trying to score a deal at a market (but, you know, for love and intimacy)
* The art of pleasure mapping and how to tune into your body's subtle cues (because pleasure is not just a prize, but a compass that guides you to what feels good)
* How to drop into slowness and presence to reignite desire and intimacy (bye-bye, performance anxiety!)
Charlie Glickman, a seasoned sex and relationship coach with over 30 years of experience, joins us to share his insights on making communication sexy. With a focus on sex-positivity, queer issues, and masculinity, Charlie will help you relate to your partner in a more meaningful way. You can find out more about Charlie at Make Sex Easy (http://makesexeasy.com).
Sarah Tomchesson, a certified sex educator and intimacy coach, teaches us about the power of pleasure literacy and embodied practices. As the Marketing Director at Magic Wand and co-host of the Fuck Yeah podcast, Sarah brings her expertise to help you experience more sexual satisfaction and joy in your daily life. Check out her website at http://sarahtomchesson.com to learn more.
By tuning in, you'll gain practical tips and insights to elevate your relationships and intimacy. You'll learn how to create a more authentic and fulfilling connection with your partner and yourself. So, get ready to shamelessly explore the world of sex and relationships!
Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired 6-week online course here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com
Follow Intimacy Rewired on IG @intimacy.rewired and instantly receive a free gift
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Other links:
Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/shameless
21 April 2026, 3:17 pm - 1 hour 16 seconds#481 Uncovering the Secrets to Male Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Hall
Get ready to geek out on some seriously sexy science with Dr. Suelyn Hall, M.D., a trailblazing urologist who's breaking down barriers and pushing the boundaries of what's possible when it comes to male sexual pleasure. With her new book, How To Get A-HEAD: Secrets to Male Sexual Pleasure from a Female Urologist, Dr. Hall is on a mission to empower men (and their partners) to take control of their sexual health and pleasure.
Here's what you'll learn from this episode:
* The surprising ways that cultural and social taboos impact men's sexual health, and how to break free from them
* How Dr. Hall makes urology sexy (yes, it's possible!) and what unexpected insights she's gained from her work
* Practical tips for men and their partners on how to support and explore shame-free penis-centric pleasure
* What makes Dr. Hall's book a game-changer for anyone looking to level up their sex life, and how to get your hands on it
* How to tap into Dr. Hall's expertise in Integrative, Functional, and Nutritional Medicine for a more holistic approach to sex and wellness
As one of the first 50 female urologists in the US, Dr. Hall brings a unique perspective to the conversation, blending her medical expertise with a deep understanding of the complexities of human desire. With a life philosophy rooted in authenticity, positivity, and growth, Dr. Hall's personal journey has been as transformative as her professional one.
Tune in to this episode and get ready to level up your sex game! You'll walk away with a deeper understanding of male sexual pleasure, and some actionable tips to take your intimacy to the next level. And, trust us, you won't want to miss Dr. Hall's inspiring insights on everything from the importance of self-expression to the power of connection.
Stay tuned until the end, when we'll be teasing our next episode with a very special guest - a sex educator who's about to spill the tea on the most common myths surrounding pleasure and intimacy. You won't want to miss it! Follow Dr. Hall on Instagram at @howtogetaheadbook and Threads @howtogetaheadbook to learn more about her work and get the inside scoop on how to get A-HEAD in the bedroom.
To learn more go to https://quantumhealthmhk.com
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Other links:
Get 10% off getting Soaking Wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get an additional 15% off sexy spring cleaning + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/shameless
14 April 2026, 5:09 pm - 54 minutes 21 seconds#480 The Sex Party Insider with Emma Sayle
Ready to Set Sail on a Journey of Self-Discovery and Unbridled Desire?
Join Emma Sayle, the fearless founder of Killing Kittens, as we dive into the world of sex parties, cruises, and retreats, and explore what makes these experiences so alluring to those seeking a more liberated expression of themselves.
In this episode, you'll discover:
* The secrets behind Killing Kittens' sold-out parties, cruises, and retreats, and what attendees can expect from these immersive experiences
* The differences between sex parties, cruises, and retreats, and how each caters to distinct desires and needs
* Emma's top tips for navigating sex party etiquette like a pro, and how to make the most of these experiences
* What's on the horizon for Killing Kittens, including their upcoming cruises and retreats, and how you can be a part of it
* Emma's journey into the world of sexuality and how she's been a driving force behind the brand's mission to empower women and challenge outdated narratives around sex and identity
As the founder of Killing Kittens and co-leader of Ideas Extreme, Emma Sayle is a true pioneer in the world of sex positivity and female empowerment. With a community of over 200,000 strong, Emma has created a movement that's all about embracing your true self and living life on your own terms. And with the launch of WAX, a sex-positive social membership app, and the expansion into luxury retreats and cruises, Emma is taking her mission to the next level.
Want to experience the ultimate in sex-positive luxury? Check out killingkittens.com or click this like for the KK Cruises and join the movement: https://tinyurl.com/3cfwnzkh
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests
Become a Sex and Relationship Coach through Somatica Institute! Go to http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
Other links:
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com
Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off!
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/shameless
7 April 2026, 4:03 pm - 1 hour 4 minutes#479 Give Good Hand with Breann Starr
Is Your Hand the Best Tool in Your Pleasure Toolbox?
Get ready to get hands-on (literally!) as we dive into the world of hand sex with somatic relational and intimacy mentor, Breann Starr. In this episode, we get real about self-pleasure, giving and receiving handjobs, and the magic of erotic massage. Here's what you'll learn:
* The art of masturbation: tips and tricks for pussy owners, and how to use your practice to expand your sexuality with yourself and partners
* How to turn handjobs into a sensual experience (for both giver and receiver) with basic how-to's and top tips for hands on pussies, cocks, and assholes
* The power of erotic massage: what it is, why it matters, and a few techniques to get you started
* Why paying attention to sensation in your hands is key to becoming a more attentive and loving partner
* How Breann's Somatica training has impacted her personal and professional life (and how you can benefit from it too!)
As the founder of Embodied Liberation, Breann brings her expertise in trauma-informed somatic modalities to the conversation, helping you understand how to break free from repetitive patterns and cultivate a more authentic, liberated way of living and relating. With her background as a registered nurse and extensive training, Breann guides you back into connection with your body, so you can access truth, build self-trust, and relate from a grounded, honest place.
By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your own desires and learn how to communicate them to your partner. You'll also discover new techniques to enhance your intimacy and connection. And, as a bonus, you'll get to learn more about Breann's work and how to work with her.
Tune in and get ready to get shameless about your pleasure! And, stay tuned until the end for a special giveaway - we're offering a free spot in Breann's Embodied Liberation program. Next episode, we're pushing the boundaries of what's possible in the bedroom... and we're not holding back. Will you be joining the conversation?
Learn more or work with Breann: https://www.embodiedliberation.love
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests
Become a Sex and Relationship Coach through Somatica Institute! Go to http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
Other links:
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
31 March 2026, 4:16 pm - 42 minutes 51 seconds#478 The Art of Giving and Receiving Great Head
Can You Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob? Or can you receive one?
Let's get real, folks - blowjobs can be a total game-changer in the bedroom, but they can also be, well, a bit of a mystery. In this episode, we're diving headfirst (pun intended) into the world of sucking cock, sharing our own stories, and spilling the tea on what really makes a blowjob unforgettable.
Here's what you'll learn:
* The top tools and techniques for givers (yes, even if you're not a fan of giving blowjobs - we've got tips to help you drop in and enjoy)
* How to communicate with your partner to take your blowjobs to the next level
* The #1 way to get more of what you want as a receiver (hint: it involves talking about it)
* How to overcome common challenges and make receiving a blowjob a truly pleasurable experience
* Our own favorite techniques, from physical tricks to words of affirmation and setting the scene
* What we've learned from our own experiences and guests to bring you Blowjob 2.0 skills
We'll also be plugging some of our favorite resources for more education, including our website, Somatica online classes, our book, and ErikaLust.com. And, spoiler alert, one of us shares a sneak peek into a chapter from our book that'll give you even more blowjob inspiration.
Tune in for a fun, honest, and informative conversation that'll leave you feeling empowered and excited to try new things in the bedroom. And trust us, you won't want to miss our teaser for next week's episode... let's just say it's going to be a wild ride.
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests
Other links:
Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
24 March 2026, 9:24 pm - 1 hour 9 minutes#477 Wet and Wild: For All P*$$y Owners and Admirers
Ready to Get WET and Unlock a Life of Unbridled Pleasure?
We're revisiting one of our most popular episodes with Alexis Ware, L.Ac., a sex, desire, and intimacy coach who's on a mission to help you tap into your true sensual potential. In this juicy conversation, we dive into the world of genital "wetness" and explore what it means to be truly connected to your body.
Here's what you'll discover in this episode:
* The importance of reconnecting with your genitals and how it can transform your sex life and overall well-being
* How to heal from sexual trauma and its impact on your connection to your body and desires
* The real meaning behind "reclaiming" your wetness and turn-on, and how it's not just about physical sensations
* The ways in which societal programming and shame can be holding you back, and practical strategies for breaking free
* Techniques for tuning back into your body's sensations and using them to fuel hotter, more connected sex
* A sneak peek into Alexis' live online 6-week group course, WET, where you'll learn to tap into your true sensual potential alongside a community of like-minded women
As a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, and ThetaHealing expert, Alexis brings a unique blend of energy healing and sex coaching to the conversation. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your own body and desires, and be empowered to live a more authentic, sensual life.
Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock the secrets to feeling WET! And, as a special treat, Alexis is sharing an exclusive offer for listeners - stay tuned to the end of the episode to learn how you can join her WET course and start your journey to a more sensual, empowered you!
More about our repeat guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., is a sex, desire and intimacy coach, licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert, and founder of Sovereign University. To learn more go to www.alexislaurenware.com
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens glamour meets sexy beach club vibes cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off!
Get an additional 15% off sexy spring cleaning + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
17 March 2026, 6:41 pm - 46 minutes 15 seconds#476 Dirty Talk Mastery with Celeste & Danielle of Somatica
Get Ready to Talk Dirty: Unleashing Your Authentic Voice in the Bedroom!
Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the sultry world of dirty talk with the dynamic duo, Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., founders of the Somatica Institute and creators of the Somatica Method. As thought leaders in the field of sex and relationship coaching, they've trained over 1000 coaches and have even been featured on UK's award-winning TV show, Virgin Island.
In this episode, we'll be exploring the art of dirty talk and how to make it your own. Here's what you can expect to learn:
* The surprising reasons why dirty talk can be so challenging for people, and why so many are eager to improve their skills
* How to discover your unique and authentic voice when it comes to dirty talk
* Tips and tricks for those who thrive on structure and formula
* An insider's look at the Somatica Method and how it can help you tap into your confidence and empowerment in the bedroom
* What to expect from Danielle and Celeste's online classes and upcoming sex and relationship coaching training
By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of how to communicate your desires and boundaries with confidence and ease. You'll learn how to let go of inhibitions and tap into your authentic voice, making your intimate experiences more fulfilling and exciting.
Danielle and Celeste bring their expertise and passion to the conversation, sharing their journey into the field of sexuality and the principles behind the Somatica Method. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of dirty talk, this episode is sure to leave you feeling empowered and inspired.
About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute.
They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility.
Learn more:
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Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
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Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026
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Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026
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Take their online courses including How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
10 March 2026, 6:49 pm -
- 18 minutes 12 secondsBonus: What You Really Want in Bed: Exploring Your Core Desires
This clip comes from one of our favorite past conversations: Episode #133 – How Core Desires Lead to Hot Sex with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA.
What are your Core Desires, and how can understanding them lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? In this episode, Danielle and Celeste—co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching—share how exploring your deepest erotic desires can transform your sex life and deepen intimacy in your relationships.
Using their experiential Somatica approach, they explain how shifting our internal patterns around sex and connection can open the door to greater pleasure, authenticity, and emotional intimacy.
We also answer a listener question: How can you rebuild broken trust in a relationship?
Listen to the full episode here: https://tinyurl.com/bdhs3vv3
About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute.
They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility.
Learn more:
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Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
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Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026
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Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026
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Take their online course: How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Other links:
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
6 March 2026, 8:44 pm -
- 59 minutes 40 seconds#475 Girl Gone Wild: Sex, Travel, and Tales from Courtney Kocak
What's the Wildest Thing You've Done for Love (or Sex)?
Join us as we dive into the unapologetic world of Courtney Kocak, writer, podcaster, and comedian extraordinaire, who's just released her scorching hot memoir, Girl Gone Wild! In this episode, we get the tea on Courtney's journey from selling T-shirts on the infamous Girls Gone Wild tour (for the uninitiated, it was a series of spring break party videos that, ahem, "celebrated" youthful abandon) to becoming a respected voice in the world of sexuality and feminism.
Here's what you'll get out of this episode:
* The story behind Courtney's transition from party tour T-shirt vendor to writer and podcaster
* A sneak peek into her wildly popular podcast, Private Parts Unknown, and one of her most unforgettable "Girl Gone Wild" stories
* What it means to be an "unwitting feminist" and how Courtney's experiences have shaped her views on sex and identity
* The good, the bad, and the ugly of Courtney's formative years and how they influenced her adult life
* Advice for those who've been told they're "too much" or "not enough" when it comes to their sexuality
* A cheeky elevator pitch for Girl Gone Wild and how to get your hands on a copy (and maybe even work with Courtney)
Courtney's got a knack for storytelling, and her experiences are both relatable and, well, wild. With over two million podcast downloads under her belt and bylines in top-tier publications like The New York Times and Cosmopolitan, she's the perfect guest to dish out the real talk on sex, love, and being unapologetically yourself.
Tune in for a conversation that's equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and thought-provoking – and stay tuned until the end for a teaser that's sure to leave you wanting more. Trust us, you won't want to miss this episode! Mark your calendars for April 1, 2026, when Girl Gone Wild hits the shelves, and get ready to join the conversation.
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