Do you consider yourself an adult?

If you're 18 or older, you probably answered to yourself, "Yes." You might even have thought it was a stupid question to ask. And by the way, if you're not 18 yet, kudos for listening — you're way ahead of the curve.

Now, especially if you rolled your eyes at that first question, consider the answer to this: What is the definition of an adult?

The answer isn't quite as obvious as you might think, and there's a good chance that you've just never considered the question. But it's a critical question to answer on the The Accountability Path, both as a manager of others and a manager of yourself, and it's the question we'll be engaging with over the next three episodes.

If you want to go even deeper on the subject, you'll find this included as part of The Accountability Path 2.0.

To close out our first guest series, Matt Niblock shares how to identify the best candidates for the long haul in a high-pressure job and how hiring managers can create a good candidate experience — which doesn't always mean making the candidate comfortable, although any good job interview should still be a safe space for truth.

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Matt Niblock returns with more hiring and recruiting insight. We'll walk through the early stages of the hiring process, touching on some common mistakes that people make along the way, when the hiring manager should push back against applicants, and how the idea of "gut meets data" that we discussed last week can be applied in practice.

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Every organization has to deal with hiring and recruiting. So it's funny that so many of the people who are responsible for hiring have little to no idea what they're doing — even though there are experts out there who are happy to tell you exactly what works.

Experts like Matt Niblock, VP of Employee Experience at Phase2, who has been working as a recruiter since you had to mail or fax in your résumé. And in the first part of this three-part interview, Matt will introduce us to some recruiting best practices and how hiring managers can start looking for the right person instead of the right skills.

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In the final episode of this series looking at the five stages of engagement through the lens of accountability, you'll learn what keeps most people from achieving flow for more than a few fleeting moments of their life and how you can get closer to achieving flow — if you're willing to put in the work (or, paradoxically, stop working so damn hard to get there).

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• The Accountability Path 2.0

Learn more about the Five Stages of Engagement model:

• Ep 90: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part One – Crisis
• Ep 91: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part Two – Survival
• Ep 92: The Five Stage of Engagement - Part Three - Security
• Ep 93: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Four - Thrival
• Ep 94: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Five - Flow

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In the last episode, we reviewed the first three stages of engagement: crisis, survival, and security. Most people get stuck in those first two stages, engaging with a chronic stress response that makes upward momentum seem insurmountable for most of their lives. And if they eventually reach the stage of security, it can feel so comfortable that they settle in.

But for those of us that don't want to settle, or for those of us that don't feel comfortable with security, there are two more stages: Thrival and Flow. 

In this episode, I'll talk about making these critical transitions, especially as it relates to your level of accountability and the accountability of those who you manage.

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• The Accountability Path 2.0

Learn more about the Five Stages of Engagement model:

• Ep 90: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part One – Crisis
• Ep 91: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part Two – Survival
• Ep 92: The Five Stage of Engagement - Part Three - Security
• Ep 93: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Four - Thrival
• Ep 94: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Five - Flow

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In this series, we will be revisiting the five stages of engagement — but this time, we're going to examine the model through the lens of accountability. If this is a new concept for you, you won't be lost starting with this episode, but you can find a more foundational introduction to the model back in episodes 90 to 95. Links below.

Take the course:

• The Accountability Path 2.0

Learn more about the Five Stages of Engagement model:

• Ep 90: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part One – Crisis
• Ep 91: The Five Stages of Engagement – Part Two – Survival
• Ep 92: The Five Stage of Engagement - Part Three - Security
• Ep 93: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Four - Thrival
• Ep 94: The Five Stages of Engagement - Part Five - Flow

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A fair warning before going into this episode: it starts on a pretty emotional beat, and it might be a little triggering for anyone who is currently being overwhelmed by feelings of grief or loss.

However, if you can listen through that, I think hearing the participant on this coaching call walk through her feelings can also be a healing experience that helps you process those emotions, as we discussed in the last episode.

This experience of working through grief also serves as a microcosm of the spiritual journey that I first discussed in part one of this series, and hearing that process should help anyone who is committed to spiritual evolution.

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Over the last two episodes, we've clarified the content of our reaction to COVID-19 and the context of that reaction — the content being our egoic emotional reaction and the context being the perpetual state of not knowing.

But getting to the point where you can hold both of those simultaneously is difficult. It doesn't feel natural because it's not common in our society, but our minds are actually well equipped to process these emotions and move beyond them. We just have to learn how to let it happen.

So, in this episode, you'll learn how to go about processing the fear, anxiety, grief, and other emotions that are being brought by the pandemic, get what you need to from those emotions, and then make room for that emotion within the greater context of yourself.

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In the last episode, I asked a question: What happens if you experience your experience from something other than ego?

If you think about all of the things we don't know about what the future holds, about how things will (or, unfortunately, won't) change as parts of the world re-open amid still-growing COVID-19 cases, and you experience that through our egoic reaction, then you will probably experience some degree of fear and anxiety. For some, that anxiety and fear of the unknown can be crippling.

But if you find the center of that "I don't know," if you take away the content of a possible future — a future that, if nothing else, this pandemic has taught us is unpredictable — and sit in not knowing, you can move past the egoic emotion to find a sense of calm.

That's why I view this time as a spiritual opportunity for so many, and in this episode, we'll explore what happens when you make this spiritual transition and why our recent shared experiences create an opportune environment to do so.

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We're doing something a little bit different for this series of episodes. While the format won't change, we'll be directly addressing some recent events: the COVID-19 pandemic and the subsequent worldwide economic shutdowns.

The effects of the pandemic are ubiquitous and — as you've likely read many, many times already — unprecedented. Economically and emotionally, relatively few people will come out entirely unscathed.

But, at the same time, there's a spiritual opportunity.

So, over the next four weeks, I will illustrate why this sudden disruption represents an invitation to wake up to reality and go beyond the content of your egoic experience.

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