Your New Puppy: Dog Training and Dog Behavior Lessons to Help You Turn Your New Puppy into a Well-Behaved Dog

Debbie Cilento: Dog Trainer | Dog Behavior Consultant | Owner of Playtime Paws | Belly Rub Specialist

Your New Puppy: Dog Training and Behavior Lessons to Help You Turn Your New Puppy into a Well Behaved Dog

  • 15 minutes 11 seconds
    YNP Replay: Behavior Changes as Your Puppy Gets Older

    If you are experiencing some behavior changes from regression to old behaviors to brand new ones popping up, this episode is for you.

    Welcome to this special replay episode.  I’m wanted to bring back this important episodes for anyone with a puppy who’s entering adolescence.

    If you’re feeling like your once sweet, well-behaved puppy is suddenly turning into a bit of a troublemaker—you’re not alone.

    This is a super common struggle that many puppy owners face, and I’m here to help you navigate through it.

    In this replay, we’re diving deep into behavior changes that happen as your puppy grows, specifically during adolescence (around 5 to 18 months). You might have thought the hardest part was the early puppyhood days, but trust me—adolescence can be even more challenging.

    The behaviors that start cropping up during this phase—like jumping, counter surfing, barking in the crate, and more—can be frustrating, especially when you feel like you’ve just gotten things under control.

    But don’t worry, it’s completely normal, and I’m here to reassure you that you haven’t done anything wrong.

    In this episode I talk about:

    • What behavior changes to expect as your puppy grows.
    • Why these behavior changes are happening and what’s behind them.
    • How to stay patient as your dog goes through this phase of development. 
    • How to manage your puppy’s new energy levels.
    • Why consistency is key!

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    Not-So-New Puppy Behavior Workshop:  A 4-week virtual workshop designed for dogs aged 5-18 months, offering you expert guidance on those frustrating adolescent behaviors. Together, we’ll troubleshoot common challenges like barking, leash pulling, counter-surfing, impulse control, and more. 

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies into well-mannered, happy dogs.

    20 February 2025, 12:00 pm
  • 14 minutes 17 seconds
    YNP #102: Three Simple Ways to Introduce Your Dog to Kids

    Tug of war is a game that dogs LOVE to play.  Yet I always get asked the question “Can I play tug of war with my dog?”

    The short answer is YES!  It’s is great game for you and your pup.  It’s easy to play, they love it, it burns lots of energy and tires out those heavy chewing jaws and nipping puppy teeth. 

    So why is this a question?  Well, there’s some misconceptions about tug of war that have been going around for a while. 

    In this episode, I debunk the common myths, like the idea that it’s a dominance game or that you can’t let your dog win.

    The vast majority of dogs can play tug of war with no problem.   There are some pups that need some rules to reduce any over stimulation or excitement.  

    No worries, I walk you through what to watch for if this is your pup—like vocal escalation or raised hackles.

    Plus, I’ve got a special video for you that shows how to use tug of war to teach your dog important skills like drop it and impulse control.

    So, grab your dog’s favorite toy and tune in to find out how you can safely enjoy this fun game with your pup!

    In this episode I talk about:

    • Can you play tug of war with your dog?
    • Why this is even a question.
    • Signs to look for if you need to put rules in place. 
    • How tug of war can benefit your dog.
    • Free resource on how to teach your dog impulse control with a game of tug of war.

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #087: Is Your Dog Trying to Dominate You? 

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies into well-mannered, happy dogs.

    23 December 2024, 3:40 pm
  • 10 minutes 23 seconds
    YNP #101: Can I Play Tug of War With My Dog?

    Tug of war is a game that dogs LOVE to play.  Yet I always get asked the question “Can I play tug of war with my dog?”

    The short answer is YES!  Tug of war is great game for you and your pup.  It’s easy to play, they love it, it burns lots of energy and tires out those heavy chewing jaws and nipping puppy teeth. 

    So why is this a question?  Well, there’s some misconceptions about tug of war that have been going around for a while. 

    In this episode, I debunk the common myths about tug of war, like the idea that it’s a dominance game or that you can’t let your dog win.

    The vast majority of dogs can play tug of war with no problem.   There are some pups that need some rules to reduce any over stimulation or excitement (because tug of war is just so fun!). 

    No worries, I walk you through what to watch for—like vocal escalation or raised hackles.

    Plus, I’ve got a special video for you that shows how to use tug of war to teach your dog important skills like drop it and impulse control.

    So, grab your dog’s favorite toy and tune in to find out how you can safely enjoy this fun game with your pup!

    Debbie plays with a dog on grassy ground in front of a leafy hedge, with trees in the background.

    How to Use Tug of War toTeach Impulse Control

    Tug of war is not only a fun game that your dog loves but you can use it to teach your dog to control their excitement (also known as impulse control). As a bonus, I also talk a little bit about “drop it”

    It’s a two-minute video that will give you and your pup hours of fun!

    In this episode I talk about:

    • Can you play tug of war with your dog?
    • Why this is even a question.
    • Signs to look for if you need to put rules in place. 
    • How tug of war can benefit your dog.
    • Free resource on how to teach your dog impulse control with a game of tug of war.

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #087: Is Your Dog Trying to Dominate You? 

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies into well-mannered, happy dogs.

    22 November 2024, 5:49 pm
  • 19 minutes 13 seconds
    YNP #100: Things I Believed About Dogs Before I Became a Dog Trainer

    Welcome to Episode 100 of Your New Puppies Podcast! I’m thrilled to celebrate this milestone with you, my amazing listeners. 

    As I reflect back, I started to think about what I’ve learned and the things I believed before I became a dog trainer.  

    I wanted to share some key lessons with you because unless you’ve become a dog trainer yourself, you may believe these same things.

    The three lessons I talk about:

    • Even if you’ve lived with dogs before, being the one in charge of their well being and training is a very different experience.
    • Puppies aren’t a blank slate.
    • Dogs don’t inherently get along, just because their dogs.

    In celebration of 100 episodes and to thank my listeners you will receive a free gift if you join one of my digital programs.

    I’m offering two special promotions for a limited time!

    1. If you join my signature course, YOUR Perfect Puppy, receive a complimentary one-on-one 45 minute video session.
    2. Join 14 Days to a Stronger Recall program and receive 14 Days to a Stronger Leave It free!

    YOUR Perfect Puppy is my signature 4 week puppy course designed to help raise your puppy into a happy, well mannered dog. You also get 6 months inside Playtime Paws Academy which is where you get direct access to me to support you through your puppy raising journey.

    14 Days to a Stronger Recall is a mini program designed to teach you the foundation you need to teach your dog to come to you every time you call in any environment.  With 14 Days to a Stronger Leave It you’ll also learn how to teach your dog not to pick up everything on your walk!

    Note: Both 14 Days to a Stronger Recall and 14 Days to a Stronger Leave It are inside of YOUR Perfect Puppy.  So, if you can’t decide, joining YOUR Perfect Puppy will get you all of the above!!

    If you have a questions about any of these programs or offers feel free to email me [email protected]

    Join me in this celebration as we embark on the next chapter together.

    In this episode I talk about:

    • How far the podcast has come.
    • Why I love working with new puppy parents.
    • Until we’re in it, we don’t fully understand what it’s like to raise a puppy. 
    • Why who your dog becomes is a combination of nature and nurture.
    • Socialization isn’t about your dog learning to love other dogs, it’s about learning how to communicate.
    • Two free gifts to celebrate 100 episodes and thank you, my listeners.

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #073: Does Your Dog’s Breed Matter? 

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies into well-mannered, happy dogs.

    14 Days to a Stronger Recall:  Learn how to have the freedom and peace of mind when your dog comes to you every time you call!

    21 October 2024, 4:07 pm
  • 16 minutes 43 seconds
    YNP #099: Why Not to Give a Puppy as a Holiday Gift

    The holiday season is a popular time to bring a new puppy into the family.  But how we do it can make a big difference in the well being of all involved. 

    Now before I totally burst your bubble, I’m not saying you shouldn’t get a puppy this time of year (though there are things to consider while making that decision).    

    What I’m going to talk about here is why you shouldn’t surprise someone (kids or adult) with the actual puppy on a specific day – Christmas morning, for example. 

    We think of it as a special magical moment where a puppy comes out of a box and our kids or family member is overwhelmed with joy.  But the reality is, this can be a stressful experience for a puppy who is also meeting their new family for the first time. 

    If you’re considering getting a puppy around the holidays, this episode will help you keep the time special while making sure it’s a joyful and stress free experience for both humans and puppies!

    Enjoy!

    In this episode I talk about:

    • What to think about when giving a puppy as a gift.
    • Why you shouldn’t plan a surprise with an actual puppy. 
    • The importance of building trust with your puppy during the first few days home.
    • The importance of preparing your family before bringing a puppy home.
    • Alternative ways to make the holiday special without surprising someone with an actual puppy.

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #060: Kids and Puppies

    The 3 Phases to Bringing Your New Puppy Home – Video series

    Book a virtual session with Debbie

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies into well-mannered, happy dogs.

    17 September 2024, 10:32 am
  • 15 minutes 2 seconds
    YNP #098: Why Your Dog Isn’t Listening

    Why your dog isn’t listening depends on a bunch of factors including what your asking them to do, where they are, what you’ve taught them previously, and more.

    It’s one of the most common questions I get but it’s also one of the hardest to answer.  I usually need ALOT more information.  

    From my experience, I’ve narrowed it down to 5 reasons.  They are not mutually exclusive.  In fact, chances are it’s a blend of a few reasons.  

    The five reasons are:

    1. You haven’t taught them what you’re asking for.
    2. You skipped some steps in their training.
    3. You haven’t practiced in this environment.
    4. They’ve already learned they don’t have to listen.
    5. Today is just not the day. 

    Once we can pinpoint the reason (or reasons) we can start to figure out what to do next. 

    Enjoy!

    In this episode I talk about:

    • Expectations you should have for puppies.
    • The five reasons your dog is not listening. 
    • Examples of each reason.
    • How to tell which reason your dog isn’t listening.
    • What your next step is.

    Enjoying this podcast?  Please rate and review it wherever you listen.  This helps other puppy parents find it.

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #057: How to Teach Your Dog to Listen With Distractions

    YNP #064: The Downside of a Fenced-in Yard

    YNP #080: Why I Don’t Teach “Off”

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies.

    16 August 2024, 1:51 pm
  • 15 minutes 13 seconds
    YNP #097: Hot Weather Activities for Your Dog

    Just about every dog is going to have some trouble with the hot weather.  

    For some dogs even a slight elevation in temperature will find them seeking out the shade and wanting shorter walks. 

    The heat itself can be tiring for a dog so it tends to shorten walks and activity.  This will result in us having to find creative ways to entertain our dog and burn some energy. 

    For this episode I reached right into my Enrichment Database (available with YOUR Perfect Puppy) to find some activities that are perfect for a hot day.  

    I have you covered if you want to play with water, sit in the shade with a frozen treat, or stay inside and avoid the heat altogether.

    Enjoy! 

    In this episode I talk about:

    • Dogs that are sensitive to the heat.
    • How to recognize heat stroke in a dog. 
    • Different types of water activities to try with your pup.
    • Different types of frozen treats to make for your pup.
    • Indoor activities to avoid the heat all together.

    Press play and enjoy!

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    Articles on heat stroke in dogs:

    Rover Round Robin:  A fun family recall game you can turn into hide and seek (request the step by step directions)

    YOUR New Puppy:  My signature new puppy course that has helped hundreds of new puppy parents raise their puppies.

    12 July 2024, 6:54 pm
  • YNP #096: Is Pet Insurance Worth It?

    It can be counter intuitive but when your puppy has a potty accident, we shouldn’t punish them.

    You may feel that you need to do something to let them know “this is wrong”.  

    Or maybe you know that you’re not supposed to punish your puppy’s potty accidents but you’re not sure why.

    In general, I discourage using punishment as a form of teaching your puppy anything.  But this question comes up a lot around potty training. 

    In Episode #10: (Complete Guide to Potty Training Your Puppy), I talk about what to do when your puppy has an accident.  Punishment is never part of it.  

    In this episode, I’m going to talk about why that is. 

    In this episode I talk about:

    • Why I get this question around potty training.
    • What I mean by “punishment”
    • What we are supposed to do with potty accidents.
    • Why dogs learn better when told what to do (instead of what not to do).
    • How puppies don’t know going potty inside is wrong (yet!).

    Press play and enjoy!

    https://www.forbes.com/advisor/pet-insurance/compare-pet-insurance-quotes/

    https://www.pet-insurance-university.com/guide_to_pet_insurance.html

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    YNP #010:  Complete Guide to Potty Training Your Puppy

    YNP #039:  The Most Common Potty Accidents

    YNP #079:  Are You Still Struggling With Potty Training?

    Playtime Paws Academy:  A membership for dog and humans no matter where you are in your training journey.

    5 June 2024, 8:19 pm
  • 31 minutes 23 seconds
    YNP #095: When Things Go Wrong Between the Kids and Dog: With Justine Schuurmans

    How do you know if your kids are ready for a dog?  And if they are, how do you prepare them for bringing that new dog home?

    Well lucky for you (and me) Justine Schuurmans, the expert on families, kids, and dogs,  is going to answer those questions.

    Justine is the founder of The Family Dog and the creator of The Dial Method.  Her work with families has greatly impacted how I work with kids and puppies to this day.  

    The best part?  This is part one of a two part series.  Stay tuned for part two where she talks about what to do when the your kids and the dog aren’t BFFs like you planned.

    In this episode we talk about:

    • Are your kids ready for a dog?
    • Are you ready for a new dog? 
    • How much can you depend on the kids help?
    • Why younger kids shouldn’t be in charge of walking the dog. 
    • Picking the right dog for your family’s lifestyle.
    • How to prepare your kids for when the dog comes home.

    Press play and enjoy!

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    The Family Dog resources:  This page includes the resources both Justine and I talked about inside the interview including the video that I think EVERY parent should watch along with the Pet, Pat, Pause flyer. 

    YNP Episode #002: Which Type of Dog is Right for You?

    YOUR Perfect Puppy’s course:  A 4 week course to build the foundation of you and your new puppy’s life together. 

    More about Justine:

    Justine Schuurmans sitting in a field with two dogs, one lying beside her and the other standing nearby, in a setting bathed in soft sunlight.

    Justine is a former Nickelodeon and MTV producer and dog trainer for over 20 years, specializing in working with young families. Her mission is to help parents, kids and dogs understand each other better and live safely and happily together.  She’s the founder of The Family Dog, STOP THE 77 and the creator of The Dial Method.

    13 May 2024, 4:32 pm
  • 28 minutes 8 seconds
    YNP #094: Are Your Kids Ready for a Dog? With Justine Schuurmans

    If you’re a parent, how do you know if your kids are ready for a dog?  And if they are, how do you prepare them for bringing that new dog home?

    Well lucky for you (and me) Justine Schuurmans, the expert on families, kids, and dogs,  is going to answer those questions.

    Justine is the founder of The Family Dog and the creator of The Dial Method.  Her work with families has greatly impacted how I work with kids and puppies to this day.  

    The best part?  This is part one of a two part series.  Stay tuned for part two where she talks about what to do when the your kids and the dog aren’t BFFs like you planned.

    In this episode we talk about:

    • Are your kids ready for a dog?
    • Are you ready for a new dog? 
    • How much can you depend on the kids help?
    • Why younger kids shouldn’t be in charge of walking the dog. 
    • Picking the right dog for your family’s lifestyle.
    • How to prepare your kids for when the dog comes home.

    Press play and enjoy!

    Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:

    The Family Dog resources:  This page includes the resources both Justine and I talked about inside the interview including the video that I think EVERY parent should watch along with the Pet, Pat, Pause flyer. 

    YNP Episode #002: Which Type of Dog is Right for You?

    YNP Episode #095: When Things Go Wrong Between the Kids and Dog? With Justine Schuurmans (Part Two)

    YOUR Perfect Puppy’s course:  A 4 week course to build the foundation of you and your new puppy’s life together. 

    More about Justine:

    Justine Schuurmans sitting in a field with two dogs, one lying beside her and the other standing nearby, in a setting bathed in soft sunlight.

    Justine is a former Nickelodeon and MTV producer and dog trainer for over 20 years, specializing in working with young families. Her mission is to help parents, kids and dogs understand each other better and live safely and happily together.  She’s the founder of The Family Dog, STOP THE 77 and the creator of The Dial Method.

    9 May 2024, 11:30 am
  • 36 minutes 1 second
    YNP #093: Dog Fitness: Keeping Your Puppy Fit and Safe with Brittni
    It can be counter intuitive but when your puppy has a potty accident, we shouldn't punish them.You may feel that you need to do something to let them know "this is wrong".  Or maybe you know that you're not supposed to punish your puppy's potty accidents but you're not sure why.In general, I discourage using punishment as a form of teaching your puppy anything.  But this question comes up a lot around potty training. In Episode #10: (Complete Guide to Potty Training Your Puppy), I talk about what to do when your puppy has an accident.  Punishment is never part of it.  In this episode, I'm going to talk about why that is. In this episode I talk about:Why I get this question around potty training.What I mean by "punishment". What we are supposed to do with potty accidents.Why dogs learn better when told what to do (instead of what not to do).How puppies don't know going potty inside is wrong (yet!).Press play and enjoy!Other resources mentioned and related to this episode:YNP #010:  Complete Guide to Potty Training Your PuppyYNP #039:  The Most Common Potty AccidentsYNP #079:  Are You Still Struggling With Potty Training?Playtime Paws Academy:  A membership for dog and humans no matter where you are in your training journey.
    19 April 2024, 1:01 pm
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