Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church hurt and sexual trauma, practicing responsible nonmonogamy, having sex without emotional attachment, skipping aftercare, and using sex magic and orgasmic manifestation. The ladies also unpack a shocking marriage dilemma involving a baby mama, six secret dating apps, years of deception, and a wife struggling to decide whether being single is better than staying with a cheating husband. Plus, Shae previews her upcoming book, Touched: Stories of Pleasure, Power and Awakening.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The episode opens with a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:38 ], before the full crew checks in and shares stories about travel mishaps, delayed flights, and the ever-changing airline experience [ 02:28 ][ 04:06 ]. The conversation then shifts to a thought-provoking debate over which underrepresented community has the greatest chance of producing a future President of the United States, examining the political trajectories of figures like Kamala Harris and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC) while discussing the unique barriers facing Black women, Muslim Americans, and other marginalized groups [ 07:41 ].

In this week's "Double Down or Take It Back," Mandii revisits her viral statement that "marriage is for broke women," explaining the financial philosophy behind the comment while unpacking the realities of marriage, divorce, wealth-building, and treating long-term relationships as business partnerships [ 22:58 ]. The discussion continues in "This Is America," where the hosts examine a controversial Jacksonville, Florida, Stand Your Ground caseinvolving two Black teenagers charged with first-degree murder despite questions surrounding self-defense [ 35:28 ]. The crew explores the legal gray areas surrounding self-defense laws, prosecutorial discretion, and the burden of proof, debating how race and circumstance often shape public perception and courtroom outcomes [ 39:00 ][ 41:15 ].

The conversation then pivots to a lighter—but surprisingly divisive—topic after a viral debate about whether Uber passengers should be allowed to curse during rides [ 43:35 ]. The hosts unpack the balance between customer rights, driver expectations, personal boundaries, and respect in shared spaces [ 45:37 ][ 48:46 ]. From there, they discuss reports of an LGBTQ+ cruise being denied entry into Turkey and Egypt, using the story to explore international travel, cultural differences, government policies, and safety concerns for LGBTQ+ travelers abroad [ 56:29 ][ 59:30 ][ 01:07:38 ].

Closing out the episode, the crew dives into "Celebrities Say the Darnedest Things," examining the idea of the right message coming from the wrong messenger [ 01:09:13 ]. They briefly revisit ongoing conversations surrounding Ray J's controversial comments about sexually transmitted diseases [ 01:12:53 ], before questioning Safaree's credibility and the importance of who delivers advice in public discourse [ 01:14:03 ][ 01:14:57 ]. The discussion expands after reacting to a white content creator's comments about Black women, sparking a broader debate about dating preferences, racial bias, beauty standards, and the difference between personal preference and systemic prejudice [ 01:16:45 ][ 01:18:30 ][ 01:24:09 ]. The episode concludes with a conversation inspired by Stephen A. Smith's daughter joking about placing him in a nursing home, prompting reflections on elder care, family responsibility, community support, and how different cultures approach caring for aging parents [ 01:27:25 ][01:30:26 ][ 01:36:38 ]. Wrapping up with final thoughts and weekly plugs [ 01:40:01 ], the crew delivers another engaging blend of humor, cultural commentary, and nuanced discussion on the stories shaping today's conversations. 

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Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding, expensive ceremonies, bringing romantic partners into a company, workplace attraction and whether image plays a role in business success. The conversation also turns to OnlyFans, the business of sex, the barriers Black women face in podcasting, mainstream brand support and why Black-owned platforms must do more to champion one another, before ending with a wild discussion about IG baddies and the economics of modern dating.

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On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending years in transactional sexual relationships, navigating dating in a wheelchair, and why he has never experienced a traditional romantic relationship. He also gets candid about wheelchair sex, threesomes, rejection, childhood trauma, mental health, therapy, and learning to see himself as a blessing instead of a burden. From hilarious demonstrations to deeply emotional revelations, this episode challenges assumptions about disability while exploring what it truly means to feel desired, supported, and loved.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest conversations [00:57 ], before A-King introduces Dreamville's new 144-page print magazine, The Falloff [ 02:28 ]. The crew celebrates the publication's commitment to long-form hip-hop journalism and reflects on its featured tribute to Combat Jack, using the moment to discuss the enduring impact of The Combat Jack Show on podcasting, rap journalism, and today's media landscape [ 04:02 ][ 08:33 ]. After Jason joins the conversation, the crew jokes about missing Jay-Z's historic Yankee Stadium performances and the cultural significance surrounding the concerts [13:07 ], before Mandii recaps her experience working Essence Festival and exploring New Orleans, sharing observations about the city's culture, music, and community [ 14:26 ]. That experience leads into an unexpected encounter with Hebrew Israelite street preachers on Canal Street, prompting an honest discussion about ideology, misogyny, and religious extremism [ 19:50 ][ 28:11 ].

The conversation then returns to Jay-Z, as the crew revisits his Yankee Stadium concerts [ 29:33 ], including a humorous detour before breaking down his viral freestyle and the political references woven throughout the performance [ 34:13 ][ 38:00 ]. The hosts unpack Jay-Z's comments surrounding Target boycotts, Colin Kaepernick, and corporate activism [ 40:20 ], while clarifying misconceptions about Kaepernick's NFL settlement and the persistent myths surrounding non-disclosure agreements [ 48:09 ][ 52:12 ]. They also examine the importance of offering thoughtful criticism without falling into fan culture or blind loyalty [ 55:18 ], before debating whether modern boycotts remain effective tools for creating lasting change [ 57:19 ].

The latter half of the episode turns toward justice and public accountability with updates in the Nolan Wells case, including discussions surrounding independent investigations and Colin Kaepernick's support for funding a private autopsy [ 58:43 ]. The hosts examine the ongoing concerns many Black families have about safety in predominantly white spaces, institutional accountability, and recurring patterns that continue to shape public trust [ 01:03:28 ][01:08:59 ], while reflecting on allyship, proximity, and the responsibilities of those who claim to stand in solidarity [01:15:26 ].

Closing out the episode, the crew reacts to the political controversy surrounding Caitlin Clark and the WNBA, discussing a letter from Republican lawmakers alleging racial bias against the league's biggest star [ 01:18:26 ]. The hosts unpack the intersections of race, misogyny, media narratives, and "white knighting" in women's sports [01:22:00 ][ 01:33:49 ], before addressing Kodak Black's comments suggesting a "KKK" alliance involving Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar [ 01:37:46 ]. The conversation concludes by firmly debunking the false online claim that the Ku Klux Klan was originally founded by Black people, emphasizing the importance of historical accuracy, responsible media consumption, and challenging misinformation before it spreads [ 01:41:21 ]. The episode wraps with final reflections and the crew's signature sign-off [ 01:53:31 ], delivering another thought-provoking blend of cultural commentary, historical context, and informed debate. 

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On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The conversation gets deeper as they unpack friendship breakups, messy behavior, political differences, family dynamics, Pride Month, mom shaming, boundaries, and identity, before jumping into “We Listen & We Judge” with a funny but real conversation about backhanded compliments, hair, relationships, skincare, fans putting dirt on their names, pillow talking, and what gets you exiled from the group chat.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode opens with discussions surrounding the 2028 presidential landscape and speculation about Kamala Harris' political future [ 02:52 ], before the crew reflects on the Fourth of July and the complicated relationship many Black Americans have with patriotism and national celebrations [06:03 ]. From there, they take a nostalgic detour into the influence of '90s R&B and hip-hop on sexuality, relationships, and cultural norms [ 08:55 ], before shifting toward today's economic realities with conversations about the housing crisis, affordability, and the financial pressures facing everyday Americans [ 11:55 ]. The discussion continues by unpacking the political complexities surrounding the Israel-Gaza conflict and America's role in global affairs [ 15:03], leading into a thoughtful conversation about patriotism, national identity, and the historical relationship between Black Americans and military service [ 18:00 ][ 20:53 ]. The opening segment concludes with reflections on what these ongoing issues could mean for the country's future [ 23:55 ].

As the conversation resumes, the crew examines the silence of influential artists and public figures on major political issues, while debating whether financial interests often outweigh activism [ 37:42 ]. They then turn their attention to Texas legislation requiring Bible instruction in public schools, unpacking the constitutional, political, and educational debates surrounding religion in the classroom [ 38:41 ][ 39:59 ]. The hosts explore the historical relationship between religion and American government [ 41:25 ], while questioning the broader implications of mandatory Bible readings and the intersection of faith, politics, and public education [ 43:04 ][ 44:30 ].

The latter half of the episode tackles difficult conversations around child neglect, obesity, and parental responsibility, using a recent case study to examine where personal accountability, public health, and government intervention intersect [48:13 ][ 51:07 ]. The discussion expands into the often-overlooked relationship between mental health and obesity, encouraging a more compassionate and nuanced perspective on wellness [ 56:33 ]. From there, the crew reacts to Amber Rose's comments about race, success, and privilege, using the moment to explore the ongoing realities of racial inequality in America [ 01:04:05 ]. The conversation closes by examining the challenges of raising children in a racially and culturally complex society [ 01:15:31 ], discussing the influence of celebrity culture on young people [ 01:18:10 ], and debating how music, entertainment, and popular culture shape behavior, values, and public perception [01:23:44 ][ 01:29:45 ][ 01:35:26 ]. Blending humor, social commentary, and thoughtful debate, the episode challenges listeners to think critically about politics, identity, parenting, and the cultural forces influencing everyday life. 

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