In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn't, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don't yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain.

Heather's One Thing - Greatness of the Lord by Brooke Ligertwood

Heather's Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Battle Cry Playlist

Michelle's One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship!

Michelle's Other One Thing - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Forgiving as Unity with Christ: A Journey for Healing Resentment and Relationships by Dr. Robert Enright

Announcement:

Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!

Journal Questions:

• What are the unhealed places of your heart?
• Are you angry, sad, or frustrated at the wrong you've endured?
• How have I experienced shame about the wrongs I've endured or my own unforgiveness?
• How has this affected my health, wellbeing, or energy?
• How do I replay or obsess over the conflict I experienced?
• How have I given into constant comparison in my unforgiveness?
• What major changes have occurred in my life because of the injustice I've experienced and how have they affected me?
• Has this experience led to a more negative worldview?
• How has my sense of self changed? Am I seeing myself as worthless?

Discussion Questions:

• How have you been sweeping things under the rug and calling it forgiveness?
• What deeper feelings lie beneath your resentment?
• Where in your life do you need to repent and take personal responsibility?
• Who has modeled repentance and forgiveness well in your life?
• How does your heart react to conflict and wrongdoing in relationships?

Quotes to Ponder:

"Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)

Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a "bill" we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!"" (Matthew 18:21-22)

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Timestamps: 00:00 Blessed is She

01:30 Intro

02:16 Welcome

03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder

06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom

07:53 Forgiveness is Hard

09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don't Have the Capacity?

13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives

17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful

24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries

29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness

38:03 One Things

Welcome to season 18 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2026 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to what this year will bring!

Heather's One Thing - Big God, Little Devil by Dr. Sean Tobin (listen to Dr. Sean on the Restore the Glory Podcast too!)

Heather's Other One Thing - Let There Be by Amanda Cook

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Friendship in the Lord by Fr. Paul Hinnebusch, OP (buy on Amazon here)

Michelle's One Thing - Theo of Golden by Allen Levi

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Example of Grafting

Announcement:

Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!

Journal Questions:

• What was my word for 2025? How did the Lord work in and through me with that word?
• What is my word for 2026?
• How does my heart sit with the word revealed to me?
• How is the Lord inviting me into deeper love & intimacy in this new year?
• What is the Lord asking me to delight in?
• Has the Lord entrusted a particular saint to journey with you this year?

Discussion Questions:

• Reflect on and share about your word for 2025 and the graces you encountered through that word.
• What images, phrases, artwork, or Scripture verses have been on your mind when praying about your word of the year?
• What is your word for 2026? How did the Lord reveal it to you?
• Do you feel surprised, apprehensive, or delighted by your word for 2026? How can you hold onto hope this year?
• What is the Lord asking you to grow in?

Quotes to Ponder:

"For last year's words belong to last year's language, and next year's words await another voice." (T.S. Eliot, "Little Gidding")

"Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary." (Isaiah 40:31)

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Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA

01:38 Intro

02:25 Lent Announcement

03:10 Welcome

06:43 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder

08:24 Sister Miriam's Word of the Year

12:28 Heather's Word of the Year

17:16 Michelle's Word of the Year

25:13 Being Honest with Ourselves and with God

29:20 Our Saints of the Year

33:18 What if I don't have a Word of the Year?

34:26 One Things

In this episode, we end our journey at the Stable, the humble place where God chose for us to meet His Son. We reflect on the stable of our own hearts, how Jesus chooses to meet us in our own poverty now, and why His very presence brings healing. We also talk about how when we sit in our emptiness, release control, and surrender each part of our lives to God, He is able to work more powerfully in our lives. Finally, we ponder Mary's quiet and loving gaze upon the Christ Child and how we are invited to slow down and notice Jesus smiling back at us.

Friends, we've deeply enjoyed journeying with you this year. As we take a break, please know you are in our prayers. We will see you on January 19th, 2026 when Season 18 begins! Have a blessed and merry Christmas!

Heather's One Thing - Our Abiding Together staff: Camille, Kate, and Kristina!

Heather's Other One Thing - The Sisters of Life new St. Francis convent in Steubenville

Heather's Third One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday's Edition of the Catechism of the Catholic Church

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Our listeners and Patreon supporters. Thank you!

Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Philosophy and Healing (with Fr. Matthew Rolling) from the Restore the Glory Podcast

Michelle's One Thing - The beauty of the different religious orders!

Finally, we arrive at the Stable — the poorest of places, and yet, the holiest of all.

Here, in straw and silence, the Infinite takes on skin. The cry of a newborn splits the night open, and suddenly, everything is sacred again

The invitation into the mess

Into our own poverty…

The cry of our humanity …

Worship is not what we think it will look like.

Other Resources Mentioned:

• The Nativity Painting by Caravaggio
• Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Dr. James Friesen

Journal Questions:

• Where do I find myself in "unsatisfactory condition"?
• What are the scandalous places within me that I want to keep away from the Lord?
• How am I managing my own creativity rather than welcoming the Holy Spirit into my creativity?
• What beliefs am I carrying deeply about God? How does God want to heal these beliefs?
• Where am I afraid?
• How can I make space for Jesus and spend time with Him in this Christmas season?

Discussion Questions:

• How are you tempted to sanitize the Mystery of the Incarnation in your own life?
• Where in my life do I need a new perspective?
• When have you experienced God coming to you in a way you weren't expecting Him to?
• How am I seeking control in this season? How can I surrender that control?
• What are the stables of my life that God is inviting me into deeper surrender?

Quote to Ponder:

"I am so glad Jesus was born in a stable, because my soul is so much like a stable. It's poor and in unsatisfactory condition - Yet, I believe that if Jesus can be born in a stable, maybe he can be born in me." (Dorothy Day)

Scripture for Lectio:

"In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn." (Luke 2:1-7)

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Chapters:

00:00 Fully Mediterranean

01:37 Intro

02:30 Welcome to the Stable

05:56 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse

07:12 The Poverty of Our Hearts

11:26 Surrendering the Messy Parts of Our Lives

15:30 Healing Our Image of God

19:31 What it Means to Ponder

21:37 Making Space in the Midst of a Busy Season

28:27 Season 18 Announcement!

28:58 One Things

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In this episode, we journey to Elizabeth's house, the place of the Visitation. We reflect on Mary's haste as she makes the journey to visit Elizabeth and how Elizabeth creates space for Mary as the mystery of the incarnation unfolds. We also ponder Elizabeth's years of longing for a child, how God fulfills our desires in ways different than we expect, and why we should hold onto hope instead of disappointment. Finally, we talk about cultivating a deeper sensitivity to God's presence, trusting that even when His work is hidden, beauty is unfolding within our lives.

Heather's One Thing - High King of Heaven / Jesus We Love You by Bethel Music

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Sister Miriam's One Thing - Forgiving as Unity with Christ by Dr. Robert Enright

Michelle's One Thing - Notre Dame Football (especially Marcus Freeman)

And then, we travel to Elizabeth's house, high in the hills. Two women meet, and the air is thick with recognition. Promises leap, joy erupts, and prophecy dances between them.

This is the place of friendship, of shared waiting, of laughter through tears. Because God often comes to us in the embrace of another who believes.

Journal Questions:

• In what places of my life can I allow mystery to breathe and unfold?
• Who can I share the deep places of disappointment with and not feel judged?
• Where do I feel disappointed?
• How can I be a nest for others?
• What promise is leaping within you right now wanting to be recognized?
• Where do I run when God is doing something new in me?
• Who is my Elizabeth?

Discussion Questions:

• When has the Holy Spirit asked you to do something that didn't make sense in the natural world?
• How can we cultivate a home for others within our own hearts?
• Where is the Holy Spirit moving in your life and in other's lives?
• When was the last time you experienced someone speaking prophetically over your life?

Quote to Ponder:

"If there ever comes a time when the women of the world come together purely and simply for the benefit of mankind, it will be a force such as the world has never known." (Matthew Arnold)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her." (Luke 1:45)

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Chapters:

00:00 Chews Life

01:37 Intro

02:30 Welcome to Elizabeth's House

06:02 The Shared Gift of the Visitation

08:15 Having A Safe Place to Allow Mystery to Unfold

10:08 The Holy Spirit Reveals Jesus

12:!5 Sacred Companionship

13:40 When We Carry Disappointments

16:50 Speaking Life Into Other People

18:36 Living Out of Our Insecurities

19:49 Being A Safe Place for Others

22:37 Having Sensitivity to the Presence of God

25:26 One Things

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In this episode, we journey to the house of Loreto, a simple home where the Annunciation took place. We reflect on how God meets us in the quiet, ordinary places of our own lives and how He meets us where we are, no matter how isolated we may feel. We also explore Mary's free and wholehearted yes, given without a request for details, and consider where the Holy Spirit may be inviting us to trust and surrender in our own hidden spaces. As Advent is a time to rest in stillness, we talk about making room for God in our schedules, noticing His gentle invitations in the everyday, and allowing His Word to take root in us even when the fruits of our yes are not yet visible.

Heather's One Thing - Registration for Glory: Women's Gathering is open! Michelle and I would love to see you there!

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Live Dialogue with Pope Leo XIV and Teens at NCYC

Michelle's One Thing - Trader Joe's winter peonies

Next, we come to the House of Loreto, a humble home, walls worn by daily life, where the eternal interrupted the ordinary.

Here, a young woman listens and her "yes" ripples through all of time. This is the place of surrender, of saying yes to what we cannot yet understand. The Word takes root in the quiet soil of her trust.

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Litany of Loreto
• "The Annunciation" painting by Henry Tanner

Journal Questions:

• Where am I missing God's presence in the ordinary moments?
• What does God want to announce to me this Advent?
• Where have I said no to the Lord in the past?
• What parts of your life feel uncontrollable?
• How can I choose to surrender this Advent?

Discussion Questions:

• Where is the Lord inviting you to say yes?
• How has God interrupted and nudged you in the ordinary moments of life?
• Where is the Lord inviting you to surrender?
• How has God slowly unraveled His plan for your life?

Quote to Ponder:

"This is a serious warning cry: Surrender without reservation to the Lord who has called us. This is required of us so that the face of the earth may be renewed." (Edith Stein)

Scripture for Lectio:

"The angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth…" (Luke 1:26)

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Chapters:

00:00 Small Town Catholic Living

01:15 Intro

02:24 Welcome to Loreto

03:28 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse

05:02 God Comes in the Ordinary

08:14 In the Fullness of Time

10:15 God Invites Us to Respond to His Invitations

11:50 When We Feel Like We are Isolated

15:20 Saying Yes to God Even When We don't Understand

19:19 The Quiet Work of Faith

21:55 Will We Make Space for God?

26:35 One Things

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In this episode, we begin our Advent journey in Eden, a place of freedom, communion, and life without shame. Eden is not only a moment in history, but also an interior garden within each of our hearts. We talk about the deep ache we all feel for union, rest, and peace, and how this longing reveals our original design for communion with God. We also reflect on the shame that often accompanies this desire for communion with others, especially when our desires are left unmet, and how bringing these places of poverty to Jesus opens us up to real, lived communion with Him.

Heather's One Thing - The Renew Conference in Toronto

Heather's Other One Thing - Her Advent Worship Playlist

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Sacred Anchor Artisans (Catholic Etsy!) founded by Tim and Molly Olsen

Michelle's One Thing - The Inspired Living and this Chrism Candle

Michelle's Other One Thing - Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR

Welcome, dear friends…

to this Advent journey,

a pilgrimage of the heart,

through four sacred spaces

where heaven once touched the earth.

These are the places of Advent.

Eden.

Loreto.

Elizabeth's home.

And a stable under starlight.

Each one holds a mystery…

a whisper of God's coming,

a rhythm of waiting,

a quiet invitation to abide.

We begin… in Eden —

the garden of beginnings and original designs,

Here, everything was whole once,

every breath in attunement with God's own.

But even in the ache of what was lost,

something sacred remains,

a longing, a promise,

a memory of shalom harmony still written in our bones.

Eden reminds us:

our waiting is not empty.

It is the remembering of love

that has never stopped pursuing us.

Journal Questions:

• What are the unique gifts that God has placed inside of you?
• When do I experience shame in the ache for communion?
• When have I recently experienced a rupture from Eden?
• Who in your life allows you to feel at home and at ease?
• How can I return to Eden through a daily practice?

Discussion Questions:

• How have you experienced yourself as a gift?
• When have you experienced an ache for Eden in your life?
• When do you feel exiled from Eden?
• What glimpses of Eden have you seen in your life recently?

Quote to Ponder:

"We all long for Eden, and we are constantly glimpsing it: our whole nature at its best and least corrupted, its gentlest and most human, is still soaked with the sense of exile." (J.R.R. Tolkien, The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)

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Chapters:

00:00 Altar + Home

01:25 Intro

02:17 Welcome to Eden

09:38 Our Heart is a Garden and Place of Communion

11:18 We are Made as a Gift

13:32 Healing from Shame in Our Ache

17:57 Homesickness and Exile

20:23 God is Longing for Us

22:16 Imaginative Prayer

24:13 The Goodness of Our Bodies

26:06 Inviting the Lord into Communion

27:47 Advent is a Time of Preparation

29:32 One Things

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In this episode, we reflect on the importance of giving thanks to the Lord for all He has done in both the beautiful and difficult moments of life. We talk about how practicing gratitude can change our perspective of reality and helps us recognize where God has been present even in moments we do not understand. We also name the fears that can sometimes keep us from giving thanks and discuss how gratitude becomes an act of surrender that opens us to God's steady, faithful presence. As a gift to you, we end today's episode by doing Lectio Divina with Psalm 34 and invite you into a time of prayer with us.

Heather's One Thing - Jalapeno, Pepper Jack, and Bacon Corn Pudding Recipe

Heather's Other One Thing - Hell or High Water and Edens by Amanda Cook

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Her SOLT Community

Michelle's One Thing - College Football

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Life Transitions Part One and Part Two with Chris Benzinger
• One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are by Ann Voskamp

Journal Questions:

• What graces have I received this year?
• How did the Lord accompany me this year?
• What do I need to let go of as we transition into a new liturgical year?
• What parts of my life am I afraid to give thanks for?

Discussion Questions:

• What has the Lord taught you in this season?
• What was surprising this past year?
• What challenges and joys did you experience this year?
• Where are you resistant to give thanks?

Quote to Ponder:

"Gratitude is at the center of a life of faith. It sounds too simple to be true, but isn't that the sign of all deep truth: so simple we're tempted to dismiss it, and so hard, it is exactly what God uses to change our hard lives." (Ann Voskamp)

Scripture for Lectio:

"I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. Look to him, and be radiant; so your faces shall never be ashamed. This poor soul cried, and was heard by the Lord, and was saved from every trouble. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them. O taste and see that the Lord is good; happy are those who take refuge in him." (Psalm 34:1-8)

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Chapters:

00:00 The Given Institute

01:26 Intro

02:16 Welcome

03:45 Practicing Being Thankful First

06:01 Giving Thanks in All Things

08:25 Gratitude is the Center of A Life of Faith

11:22 Being Afraid to Give Thanks

13:14 Lectio Divina

23:18 Our Reflections from Lectio

28:46 One Things

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In this episode, we conclude our series on the garden of our hearts and explore what it means to cultivate unity—which is especially important as we enter the busy and often stressful holiday season. We talk about the difference between anger and contempt and how contempt can not only fracture relationships but also plant seeds of division in our hearts. We also reflect on how we can respond to discord with humility, a holy curiosity, and a genuine desire to understand. Ultimately, unity begins with love, bears good fruit, and reflects the presence of Christ within us.

Heather's One Thing - The Cheesecloth Turkey Basting Method (Example Here)

Sister Miriam's One Thing - College Volleyball Playoffs (especially Nebraska)

Michelle's One Thing - Twinkling Trees from Walmart

Announcement:

Our Advent Study begins December 1st, 2025!

Journal Questions:

• Where in my heart am I harboring contempt?
• What groups of people or individuals do I see as worthless?
• When was the last time that someone treated you with contempt? How did that impact you?
• How am I seeking to understand people with different opinions?
• How is the Lord inviting me to refine and cultivate my tone to speak love to others?
• When faced with division and disunity, are the movements of my heart and my external actions congruent?

Discussion Questions:

• What differences have you observed between conformity and unity?
• What differences have you observed between anger and contempt?
• When are you tempted to roll my eyes, sneer, act with hostility, speak with sarcasm?
• When is it hardest for you to cultivate unity?

Quote to Ponder:

"To understand one another and to grow in charity and truth, we need to pause, to accept and listen to one another. In this way, we already begin to experience unity. Unity grows along the way; it never stands still. Unity happens when we walk together." (Pope Francis, Homily at second Vespers on the solemnity of the conversion of St. Paul, Jan. 25, 2015)

Scripture for Lectio:

"I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all lowliness and meekness, with patience, forbearing one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit… one Lord, one faith, one baptism." (Ephesians 4:1-6)

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Chapters:

00:00 Glory: Women's Gathering

01:31 Intro

02:22 Advent Announcement

03:14 Welcome

05:19 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse

06:19 Distinguishing Anger vs Contempt

11:28 Living Like We are One Body in Christ

13:48 Seeking to Understand Rather than be Understood

18:22 The Power of Our Tone of Voice

20:35 Examining the Fruit in Our Lives

22:49 Maturing Spiritually

27:06 Repairing Strained Relationships

29:08 One Things

In this episode, we continue our series on the Garden of Our Hearts and talk about the cultivation of beauty. Beauty has the power to transform, heal, and lift us into communion with God, but it must be cultivated with care and intention. We discuss what it means to co-create with God, slow down and savor little moments, and rediscover beauty in the people closest to us. Even when the world around us feels barren or artificial, the Lord invites us to see beauty with new eyes and let the Holy Spirit reveal His presence in unexpected ways.

Heather's One Thing - The Catechism of the Catholic Church designed by Every Sacred Sunday

Heather's Other One Thing - I Am Held by Pat Barrett

Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Carmelite Monks' New Monastery in Wyoming

Michelle's One Thing - Word on Fire's Evangelization and Culture Journal - Issue 25 on Beauty

Michelle's Other One Thing - The Story of All Stories: A Story Bible for Young Catholics by Emily Stimpson Chapman

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Passion and Purpose Podcast Episode 5 with Jon Tyson and Louie Giglio
• Word on Fire and Ascension will publish the new English edition of the Liturgy of the Hours

Journal Questions:

• How am I uniquely gifted at cultivating beauty?
• When have you had an experience with beauty that transformed your heart?
• What lies and limitations do I believe about my own creativity?
• How does God want to play with me in the dirt this week?
• In what ways am I too busy for creativity and beauty?
• What beauty does the Lord want to show you - both within you and outside of you?

Discussion Questions:

• Have you come across AI art recently? How did you respond to it?
• In what ways have you limited your own creativity?
• Who or what inspires you to be more creative?
• How will you cultivate beauty and express creativity in your life?

Quotes to Ponder:

"Every expression of true beauty can thus be acknowledged as a path leading to an encounter with the Lord Jesus." -Pope Francis

"We must wonder! We must create an environment of wonder! We must create a climate of wonder! This task is closest to the family. . . . Wonder is needed so that beauty might enter into human life, into society and the nation. This beauty is the foundation and the creative moment of the culture. It is impossible to create culture by administrative means. These means can only destroy it. . . . We need to marvel at everything that is found in man." (Saint Pope John Paul II)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things." (Philippians 4:8)

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Chapters:

00:00 The Inspired Living

00:57 Intro

01:47 Welcome

02:50 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote

03:34 When We Don't See Beauty

05:02 Cultivating Beauty in an Artificial World

10:06 Co-Creating with God

16:24 Discovering Beauty in the Small Things

18:20 Slowing Down to Receive Beauty

23:57 Seeing Beauty in Others and Ourselves

27:25 One Things

In this episode, we begin a series on cultivating the garden of our hearts and reflect on what it means to cultivate peace–as a fruit that grows from communion with God. The cultivation of peace is not something we control. It comes from learning to rest in God's presence, even amid life's storms. We talk practically about how to tend the soil of our hearts, so that peace can take root and grow into a fruit that becomes a visible witness to others. We also discuss how Jesus, the Prince of Peace, invites us to make room for His presence, allowing His breath to bring healing where fear and sin have disrupted our peace.

Heather's One Thing - Triumph of the Heart is now streaming!

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healed by Love: Contemplation as a Path of Healing according to St. John of the Cross by Daniel Chowning, OCD

Michelle's One Thing - Feast: A Men's Devotional for Advent by Paul George

Journal Questions:

• What places of my heart are filled with anxiety or despair?
• Where am I seeking to be fixed instead of seeking communion with the Lord?
• What sins am I justifying that are robbing me of peace?
• What lies am I trying to talk myself into?
• Who or what are you trying to fix in your life that you need to surrender to the Lord?

Discussion Questions:

• How are you trying to control your life and heart rather than cultivating?
• What things motivate you to operate out of fear or mistrust?
• How can you internally cultivate peace?
• How can you externally cultivate peace?

Quote to Ponder:

Let nothing disturb you, Let nothing frighten you, All things are passing away: God never changes. Patience obtains all things Whoever has God lacks nothing; God alone suffices.

(St. Teresa of Avila)

Scripture for Lectio:

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7)

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Chapters:

00:00 BeeStill Design

01:08 Intro

01:59 Welcome

04:11 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder

06:31 Planting Peace in the Soil of Our Hearts

08:34 Cultivating vs Controlling

11:08 Fertilizing the Soil Around Us

13:56 The Breath of Peace

16:25 When We Feel Afraid

18:51 Communion Brings Healing

21:23 Wanting Peace for Those Around Us

23:26 Sin Disrupts Our Peace

27:52 Practical Tips for Cultivating Peace

32:55 Prayer

34:49 One Things

In this episode, we talk about what it means to weather the storms of life well. Everyone experiences difficult moments throughout their lives and these storms come in all shapes and sizes. In each one, we have the opportunity to respond from a place of truth and peace instead of fear. We share practical ways we've learned to weather the storms in our own lives, from simplifying life to immersing ourselves in Scripture. We also explore how pain, though difficult, can lead us into deeper healing and communion with God. No matter what you're facing, you are not alone—He is near, and so are we.

Heather's One Thing - Strengthen Yourself in the Lord by Bill Johnson

Heather's Other One Thing - Same God (feat Jonsal Barriente) from Elevation Worship

Sister Miriam's One Thing - Pints with Aquinas | What to Do When Marriage Gets Hard (Jason and Crystalina Evert)

Michelle's One Thing - Healed and Restored Nonprofit

Other Resources Mentioned:

• Carmelite Sisters of The Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles
• Searching for and Maintaining Peace book study
• Be Transformed book study

Journal Questions:

• How have I been making decisions out of fear and overwhelm?
• What do I believe about God, myself, or another person within the context of my storm?
• When do I feel the most emotionally dysregulated?
• What coping mechanisms am I turning to instead of going to the Lord?
• What good is God doing within me in my suffering?

Discussion Questions:

• What storms are you experiencing in this season?
• When has the Lord revealed His Presence to you from within a storm?
• Are you relying on the Lord or on yourself in the midst of your storm?
• What fruit has been born from suffering in your life?

Quotes to Ponder:

"Remain in me. This is the word of Jesus. It is not only a call but a promise of strength, peace, and fruitfulness." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)

"Let us live with Him as with a friend. Through all the storms, He remains." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)

Scripture for Lectio:

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10)

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Chapters:

00:00 Our Holy Home

01:16 Intro

02:06 Welcome

04:33 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse

08:12 How the Enemy Tries to Amplify Storms

09:45 Slowing Down is Essential

12:08 When Prayer Becomes Dry

14:23 Turmoil Can Feel Like Its Our Fault

16:43 Remembering God's Faithfulness

18:37 Pain Causes Us to Make A Change

20:48 Distractions Will Never Fulfil Us

22:44 Maturing is A Decision We Make

24:15 Weathering Storms In Community

26:54 Spiritual Practices

28:55 One Things