- 38 minutes 6 secondsS18 E14 - Prophetic Motherhood
In this episode, we reflect on the beautiful call of women to prophetic motherhood. We talk about how Our Lady models for us a motherhood that speaks life and calls forth goodness to all those she encounters. We also ponder what it means to be a spiritual mother, how Mary can help heal our wounded experiences of motherhood, and the difference between affirmations and prophetic words. As Pentecost draws near, we invite you to ask for Our Lady's intercession to prepare your heart for a fresh outpouring of grace and to help you become a woman who brings life wherever she goes.
Heather's One Thing - A 24 Hour Time of Worship at Franciscan University
Heather's Other One Thing - St. Anne's Women's Conference in Dallas, TX and the WWP Flourish Conference in St. Louis
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Everyone Getting Married this Summer
Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Pilgrimage to Medjugorje with the JPII Healing Center
Michelle's One Thing - NFL Draft
Michelle's Other One Thing - Franklin, TN and St. Philip's Parish
Michelle's Other Other One Thing - College Kids at NC State and Fr. Josh
Other Resources Mentioned:
- The Identity of a Woman Series
- The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast
- Make Sense of Your Story by Adam Young
Journal Questions:
- What does it mean for me to live into prophetic motherhood?
- What holds me back from speaking life into the people around me?
- When have I felt threatened or hurt by other women?
- What ache in your heart is God inviting you to bring before Mary?
- How can I offer prophetic motherhood to those in my life?
- How can I receive prophetic motherhood from those in my life?
Discussion Questions:
- When have you been prophetically mothered by another woman? How were you impacted by that experience?
- How do we cultivate a culture of women speaking life within our own community?
- How do you desire a different story of motherhood and femininity from what you have experienced in the past?
- How is God inviting you to embody hope right now?
- Who is in the periphery of my life that God is inviting me to offer my maternity to?
Quote to Ponder:
"She is the poetess and prophetess of redemption, and we hear from her pure lips the strongest and most original hymn ever uttered - the "Magnificat"! She reveals the transforming design of the Christian economy, the historical and social result that still draws its origin and strength from Christianity…At this point a second way is opened for us by Our Lady, so that we may reach our salvation in the Lord Christ: it is her protection. She is our ally, our advocate. She is the confidence of the poor, of the lowly, of the suffering. She is even the "refuge of sinners." She has a mission of pity, goodness, and intercession for all. She consoles every grief of ours. She teaches us to be good, to be strong, and to be compassionate toward all. She is the queen of peace. She is the Mother of the Church." (Pope St. Paul VI, Homily, April 24, 1970)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." (Proverbs 18:21)
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A frontier is the edge of what is known, where things are still being discovered and formed. If you are a parent of a teen, you know that is exactly what the teenage years feel like. A season that is constantly changing, where relationships are shifting, independence is growing, and both parents and teens are learning how to navigate something new together.
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important relationships in your life. If this sounds like something you have been needing, I would encourage you to take a closer look. Full details are available online, and an informational webinar is offered for those who want a closer look. The Life Teen team is also glad to walk with you as you discern whether this experience is right for your family.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Life Teen
01:32 Intro
02:19 Welcome
04:12 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
05:45 The Prophetic Nature of Motherhood
08:05 Affirmations vs Prophetic Words
12:08 Calling Out the Goodness of Others
14:23 Wounds From A Mother
17:40 Embodying Hope
20:04 Mary Understands What You are Going Through
22:04 Having A Relationship with Our Mother Mary
25:09 Preparing to Receive the Holy Spirit
27:03 Motherhood is Not A Competition
30:20 One Things
4 May 2026, 8:30 am - 51 minutes 35 secondsS18 E13 - Marriage and Meaning with Special Guests Arthur and Ester Brooks
In this episode, we welcome Arthur and Ester Brooks to talk about marriage, suffering, and the path to lasting love. Arthur and Ester share what it's like to minister together, revealing both the grace needed and the hard work it takes to love each other faithfully over decades. We also reflect on suffering as an invitation for growth, why pain is fruitful, and how the hardest places in life are where love is purified. Whether you are married, single, or in religious life, intimacy with God is our source of strength for every situation we encounter in life.
Heather's One Thing - Franciscan's Resurrection Party!
Heather's Other One Thing - 10 Day Pentecost Audio Prayer Plan
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Easter Spotify Playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Everyone who just came into the Catholic Church!
Ester's One Thing - Her husband Arthur!
Ester's Other One Thing - Professional Cycling
Arthur's One Thing - Opportunities to witness to the Catholic faith during The Meaning of Your Life book launch
Other Resources Mentioned:
- Arthur Brooks' Website
- Ester Brooks' Instagram
- The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness by Arthur Brooks
- Other Books by Arthur Brooks
Journal Questions:
- What does it look like to fight well?
- How have I witnessed or experienced a marriage that is an antenna to God?
- What suffering in my life am I resisting?
- What are the discomforts and sufferings I have experienced today that I can thank God for?
Discussion Questions:
- When are you tempted to be led by your feelings?
- When have you had to let go of resisting suffering in the past?
- Where in your life, marriage, or relationships do you feel stalled?
- How is God inviting you to prioritize Him over your marriage, relationships, and responsibilities?
Quotes to Ponder:
"It is Jesus that you seek when you dream of happiness; he is waiting for you when nothing else you find satisfies you; he is the beauty to which you are so attracted; it is he who provokes you with that thirst for fullness that will not let you settle for compromise; it is he who urges you to shed the masks of a false life; it is he who reads in your hearts your most genuine choices, the choices that others try to stifle. It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to do something great with your lives, the will to follow an ideal, the refusal to allow yourselves to be grounded down by mediocrity, the courage to commit yourselves humbly and patiently to improving yourselves and society, making the world more human and more fraternal." (Pope John Paul II, World Youth Day, Rome, 2000)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer." (Romans 12:9-12)
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Timestamps: 00:00 The Inspired Living
00:44 Intro
01:54 Scripture Verse
06:06 Ministering as A Married Couple
10:03 How to Fight and Bring About Deeper Union
15:23 Suffering Helps Us Grow
26:12 Committing to A Prayer Life
32:22 Making Space to Become
36:06 Putting God First and Your Spouse Second
38:10 The Science of Being Happy
41:44 One Things
27 April 2026, 8:30 am - 32 minutes 43 secondsS18 E12 - The Way of Trust and Love: Enduring Trials
Happy Easter! In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 6: Enduring Trials. We talk about how even in the light of Easter, we may still experience suffering and how we can choose to rejoice in God's goodness when His ways remain hidden. We also reflect on why trials are not signs of God's absence, how we learn to recognize God at work in the present moment, and how to embrace suffering as a necessary path to share in the fullness of Easter. Friends, in this Easter octave, we invite you to reflect on how God has transformed your heart this past Lent. Let us enter into this Easter season with renewed hope, gratitude, and a deeper surrender to God's unfailing love. We will see you in two weeks!
Heather's One Thing - Fire 50 Challenge with Many Parts Ministries. It's a free 50-day spiritual journey designed to deepen your relationship with the Holy Spirit!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Divine Mercy Novena and Divine Mercy Sunday
Michelle's One Thing - Join us in praying The Divine Mercy Chaplet
Resurrection Power
By: Michelle Benzinger
A crucible is the place where the refiner's fire is not your enemy, but your tender witness of integration.
It is where certainty melts,
where control dissolves,
where the identities you once clung to
lose their shape in the flame.
The crucible is where faith stops being an idea and melts into surrender,
where you no longer hold God at a distance,
but find Him somehow
in the very fire you once feared.
It is a holy undoing that makes space for a deeper yes.
It is an invitation into the Paschal Mystery.
It is the Holy Spirit's invitation into the Resurrection power.
Journal Questions:
- Where do I turn in my trials and disappointments?
- Where in my life have I been avoiding the fullness of the Paschal Mystery (suffering, waiting, and resurrection)?
- What renunciations and declarations do I need to make today?
- What are the questions on my heart? Do I absolutely need the answer to do God's Will today?
Discussion Questions:
- What has God revealed to you in your current trials?
- How are you choosing to intentionally feast during these 50 days?
- How has God called you to a mature and adult faith in this season of life?
- What does Resurrection power and glory look like in your life?
Quotes to Ponder:
"They" (her friends the saints) "want to see how far I am going to push my trust." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
"When we realize that's happening—that we're going round and round and getting nowhere, that our questions aren't producing light but only bitterness and blame—we must have the courage to put those questions aside and ask ourselves another. It's the only essential one, after all, and it will always be answered: What attitude does God want me to have toward this situation? The point is to move from "Why?" to "How?" The real question isn't "Why is this happening to me?" but "How should I live through these things?" How am I called to face this situation? What call to growth is being made to me through this? That question will always get an answer." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 129)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion on you." (Isaiah 54:10)
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Join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Fr. Dave Pivonka TOR this coming June 5-7 in Steubenville, Ohio, as we gather with women across generations and seek God's restoration and healing. This gathering will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in.
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Timestamps: 00:00 Glory: Women's Gathering
01:23 Intro
02:09 Welcome
02:41 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
03:18 Trusting Through Suffering
05:57 Trials of Faith, Hope, and Love
07:49 Will We Run to God?
08:46 Living the Resurrection as Women
11:34 Feeling Panic in the Trial
14:05 Declaring Our Belief
15:36 Setting Aside Our need for an Answer to "Why"
17:28 Resurrection Power
20:07 Trials Have the Power to Make Us More of Our True Selves
24:40 Help Me in My Unbelief
27:00 What Has God Done this Lent?
28:41 One Things
6 April 2026, 8:30 am - 32 minutes 46 secondsS18 E11 - The Way of Trust and Love: God's Infinite Mercy
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 5: God's Infinite Mercy. We reflect on the paradox of true strength—how becoming little, dependent, and surrendered before the Lord is the very place where His strength takes root in us. We also talk about what it means to live with a pure heart, not by striving harder, but by bringing every part of ourselves into honest communion with Christ and allowing His kindness to call us higher. This week, as we wrestle with fear, worry, and the temptation to rely on ourselves, we encourage you to be reminded that it is God's love that heals, restores, and leads us to freedom.
Heather's One Thing - Dwelling Place by The Belonging Co.
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Sacrament of Reconciliation
Michelle's One Thing - Living Easter: 50 Days to Practice Resurrection by Laura Kelly Fanucci
Michelle's Other One Thing - March Madness!
Journal Questions:
- What has the Lord convicted me of this Lent?
- What is the Lord inviting me to abandon to His Divine Providence?
- How can I be more present to the present moment?
- What graces have I received this Lent?
Discussion Questions:
- How is the Lord inspiring you to change?
- Where in your life are you just surviving?
- When was a recent time you experienced discouragement? How were you placing trust in yourself?
- How have your eyes been opened this Lent?
Quotes to Ponder:
"Thérèse says to Jesus in one of her poems: "I want to love you like a little child, I want to battle like a warrior bold."" (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 90)
"Let's return to the subject of trust. We have seen how we should nurture our trust. It is fragile, but it can be increased and strengthened by listening to the Word, by prayer, by the acts of faith we make in difficult moments, and by the experience of God's faithfulness. Now I wish to make a point that is simple but has wide implications. I can put it in the form of a question: What is the basis for our trust? What does it actually rest on?" (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 92-93)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and innocent as doves." (Matthew 10:16)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Into the Deep
01:20 Intro
02:07 Welcome
06:01 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:36 Being Little Yet Strong
09:25 Bringing Everything into Communion
13:06 Excavating Our Hearts
15:39 Transforming Fear into Love
19:57 Being Content with Today
22:04 God's Kindness Leads Us to Repentance
24:34 The Power of Gratitude
27:39 One Things
30 March 2026, 8:30 am - 27 minutes 31 secondsS18 E10 - The Way of Trust and Love: Trusting More and More
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 4: Trusting More and More. We reflect on the tender places where our trust in the Father has been wounded—especially in the disappointments we carry with ourselves, our children, and the circumstances in our lives—and how God gently invites us to bring those disappointments to Him. We also talk about the lies that quietly erode our trust in God, the temptation to carry life's burdens alone, and the way simple rhythms of prayer allow God to personally reveal to us His goodness. This week, we invite you to honestly bring your disappointments before God and ask Him to reveal to you His goodness.
Heather's One Thing - The Springtime!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - March Madness
Michelle's One Thing - Her floor to ceiling library!
Journal Questions:
- Where do I lack trust in the Father?
- When do I see God as my enemy?
- What narratives of your life are you seeking to control?
- What is bothering me most acutely right now?
- What am I carrying that I need to let go?
Discussion Questions:
- Where do you take your disappointment?
- Where are you experiencing agitation?
- How are you tempted to manage the Lord's revelations in your life?
- What might be an appropriate prayer prescription for your current agitations?
- How is God inviting you into the safety of the Holy Family this Lent?
Quotes to Ponder:
"This work of restoring trust in our hearts is an essential aspect of the spiritual life. Wounded by original sin, our hearts are riddled with fears and doubts. It takes time to be cured of them. Maybe that will never happen completely in this life, but we can nevertheless make great strides in trusting more." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 69)
"Trust works miracles." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness." (Psalm 86:15)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Rooted for Good
01:22 Intro
02:08 Welcome
03:03 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
03:42 What to do with Our Disappointments
08:16 Honesty is Not Something to Fear
10:36 Nourishing Trust
12:56 Developing a Rhythm of Prayer
16:40 The Tender Touch of a Mother
19:32 Heaven is a Family
23:14 One Things
23 March 2026, 8:30 am - 27 minutes 44 secondsS18 E9 - The Way of Trust and Love: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 3: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness. We talk about how our struggles with ourselves often spill over into our relationships with others and how learning to accept our own weakness can soften our hearts towards the weakness we see in those around us. We also reflect on the tension between accepting our littleness and desiring real conversion, how we become more aware of our imperfections as we draw closer to the Lord, and the gift of community in helping us clearly see our lives. This week, we invite you to receive God's love, extend that love to yourself, and then offer it freely to others.
Heather's One Thing - Attending the funeral of Francis Bergsma
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Stations of the Cross with Our Sister St. Thérèse from Little Way Books
Michelle's One Thing - The funness of our listeners!
Journal Questions:
- Where am I experiencing a lack of harmony in myself and in my relationships with others?
- Do I truly desire conversion? What parts of me are resistant to conversion?
- Where am I looking at the weaknesses of others instead of examining myself?
- When do I speak to myself with words of self-condemnation?
Discussion Questions:
- What weaknesses or defects are you wrestling with right now? How is God inviting you into deeper communion with Him in this weakness?
- How is the Lord inviting you to embrace littleness this Lent?
- Where is the Lord calling you to forgo constant management of your life and to embrace the mystery & trust of a life with Christ?
- How have you slowed down this Lent? How has this slower pace impacted your spiritual life?
Quotes to Ponder:
"If we accept ourselves as we are, we also accept God's love for us. But if we reject ourselves, if we despise ourselves, we shut ourselves off from the love God has for us, we deny that love. If we accept ourselves in our weakness, our limitations, it will also be easier for us to accept other people. Often, quite simply, we can't get along with other people because we can't get along with ourselves." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 48-49)
"I am no longer surprised by anything, I am not sorry to see that I am weakness itself. On the contrary, I glory in it, and I expect to discover new imperfections in myself every day. (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6)
Timestamps: 00:00 Morning Star Studio
00:56 Intro
01:42 Welcome
03:58 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
04:45 Embracing Our Weaknesses First
9:00 Having a Real Desire for Conversion
13:55 Fearing Our Weakness
15:54 Desiring to be a Saint
18:55 Familial Living vs Transactional Living
22:21 One Things
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16 March 2026, 8:30 am - 34 minutes 59 secondsS18 E8 - The Way of Trust and Love: An Elevator for Small Children
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 2: An Elevator for Small Children. We talk about the quiet places of discouragement, and self-reliance that keep us striving instead of surrendering. We also reflect about how radical dependence on God is not laziness, the subtle ways we resist being little before a loving Father, and how our poverty is a doorway into deeper trust. This week, we invite you to fall into the Father's arms, allow Him to pick you up, and rest in the One who delights in you.
Heather's One Thing - The Prince of Egypt Movie
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Bishop Erik Varden's Lenten Reflections to Pope Leo (I especially recommend the reflections entitled: Bernard the Idealist, God's Help, Becoming Free, and Splendour of Truth)
Michelle's One Thing - Art Lectio Instagram Account
Journal Questions:
- Where are you feeling discouraged?
- Where do I experience self-reliance, codependency, or hypervigilance in my life?
- When in the past have I made agreements that I have to rely on myself and fix everything?
- Where am I living out a pattern of childhood wounds and identities?
Discussion Questions:
- How have you experienced failure this Lent?
- When do I grasp, kick, and flail like a child in my spiritual life?
- When did God last remind you that you are not God? How did your heart respond to it?
- Where is God inviting you to embrace your littleness rather than run from it?
Quote to Ponder:
"Being little means not attributing to ourselves the virtues we practice, or believing ourselves capable of anything, but recognizing that God places this treasure in the hands of His little child so that she can use it when she needs it; but the treasure is still God's." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"All you who labor, who are bent under the weight of your burden, who find the demands of the Law too heavy, come to me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (Matthew 11:28)
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Timestamps: 00:00 The JPII Healing Center
01:31 Intro
02:18 Guiding Quote
04:39 Discouragement is the Downfall of Souls
08:27 Subtle Agreements We Make Throughout Our Days
10:50 Surrender is Not Laziness
13:26 Illumination is Spiritual Progress
15:55 Being Curious About Our Own Heart
18:34 Becoming Little is Maturation
20:47 Suffering in Communion with the Father
23:53 The Father Cannot Resist His Children's Trust
27:14 Am I Still Lovable if I am Little and have Needs?
29:44 One Things
9 March 2026, 9:30 am - 36 minutes 35 secondsS18 E7 - The Way of Trust and Love: A Completely New Way
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 1: A Completely New Way. We reflect on the "little way" of St. Thérèse, the invitation to become spiritual children before the Father, and how weakness becomes the very place where Christ comes to meet us. We also talk about the difference between being childish and childlike, why true maturity in faith begins with admitting our own poverty, and how small acts of courage open the door to deep healing. This week, we invite you to name the desires stirring in your heart and let the Holy Spirit awaken a new song within you.
Heather's One Thing - Franciscan's Campus-wide "Behold" Retreat
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healing Wounds by Bishop Erik Varden
Michelle's One Thing - The O' Grady's Beach House
Michelle's Other One Thing - Emily Lex Watercolor Workbooks
Journal Questions:
- How often do I accept the letter of God's adoption of me, and not the spirit of God's adoption?
- Where in my life do I need Mother Mary to smile upon me?
- How have I turned to self-reliance this Lent?
- Where is God inviting me to become more adult and free?
- What is the new song the Lord wants to put in my heart?
Discussion Questions:
- When do you notice orphanhood in your heart?
- What are you learning from St. Therese this Lent?
- When have you experienced the healing delight of a mother?
- Is it difficult for you to name your desires? What is one desire God has placed on your heart this Lent?
- What is the "yes" God is asking you to make today?
Quotes to Ponder:
"You know, Mother, that I have always desired to be a saint, but alas, I have always realized, when I compared myself to the saints, that there is between them and me the same difference as exists between a mountain whose summit is lost in the skies, and the obscure grain of sand trodden underfoot by passers-by. Instead of getting discouraged, I said to myself: "God could not" "inspire us with desires that were unrealizable, so despite my littleness I can aspire to holiness. It is impossible for me to grow up, I must put up with myself as I am, with all my imperfections; but I want to find how to get to Heaven by a little way that is quite straight, quite short: a completely new little way." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
"Each of us has an absolute need for an inner transformation that makes us "as little as a child." What that means and how to put it into practice are exactly what Thérèse teaches in a simple, luminous way. That is why she was proclaimed a Doctor—that is, a teacher—of the Church." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 6)
"The heart of Christian life is to receive and welcome God's tenderness and goodness, the revelation of his merciful love, and to let oneself be transformed interiorly by that love." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 7)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness." So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me." (2 Corinthians 12:9)
Sponsor - Healed and Restored:
Healed and Restored is a non-profit organization located in the Charlotte, NC area that was created in 2020 to fill a void and respond to a need that has been long overlooked in our society. A program that is 100% dedicated to helping women heal in the aftermath of abuse, assault, and other traumatic experiences.
According to the United Nations, one in three girls and women around the world has been subjected to sexual and/or physical abuse at least once in their lives. Studies show that women who have been through abuse (of all types) have higher levels of fear, are more isolated, and face greater mental health problems.
In the aftermath of any of these traumatic events, women will sometimes resort to hurting themselves through cutting, eating disorders, and addictions. Without proper care and healing, these dark cycles can persist for years.
We help women and girls realize that God desires to heal every single one of His beloved children. We teach them that the enemy is a master manipulator. As soon as a person gets hurt, the devil begins to plant all kinds of lies in our hurting souls. Some of these lies are: God doesn't love you, everything that happened is your fault, you should be forever ashamed, and you will never find healing and peace.
The Mission
The Healed and Restored mission is to help women and girls who are survivors of abuse, assault, domestic violence, trafficking, and all other forms of trauma find healing and restoration. Grounded in Catholic teachings and through a combination of counseling, life coaching, intimate workshops, practical tools, spiritual mentoring, and community support we help women and girls transform pain into purpose— empowering them to not only survive, but thrive.
Since 2020, Healed and Restored has helped over 500 women and girls on their journey to process their unhealed wounds. Never could we have predicted how much God would bless our mission in such a short period of time.
All of this has us convinced that there are times when God uses our deepest pain to propel us on the path to our greatest calling!
If you or someone you know could use the assistance of our trained and compassionate Catholic Therapists/Counselors and money is an issue, please do not hesitate to reach out to us by emailing [email protected] for more information and guidance.
Or if you feel called to be part of this mission by volunteering your time, we would love to hear from you. Together and guided by the Holy Spirit, we can make a difference in the life of those around us who are suffering.
Timestamps:
00:00 Healed and Restored
01:31 Intro
02:17 Welcome
04:26 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
05:35 Trusting in Our Creator
09:49 The Path of Spiritual Childhood
12:53 Healed by Delight
16:27 What is the "Little Way"?
19:36 Childlike vs Childish
24:05 The Role of Holy Scripture
30:10 One Things
2 March 2026, 9:30 am - 32 minutes 28 secondsS18 E6 - The Way of Trust and Love: Introduction
In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on the Introduction. We talk about how St. Thérèse's "little way" offers hope to weary hearts who feel small, fragile, or poor. We discuss how the Lord can transform our lives in a moment, how to boast in our poverty instead of bemoaning it, and the power of a listening heart. This Lent, we invite you into a gentler, deeper journey—one rooted not in striving, but in trust and love.
Heather's One Thing - The Good News Cruise and everyone who put together this experience
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Pause App
Michelle's One Thing - The Body of Christ
Other Resources Mentioned:
Journal Questions:
- Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent?
- Where do I feel like the burdens of life are mine to carry?
- How does my heart respond to St. Therese's Little Way?
- What does it mean to be childlike and not childish?
- How will I create time to listen to God this Lent?
- When listening to God in prayer, what is the posture of my heart?
Discussion Questions:
- How is God calling you into deeper love this Lent?
- Where do you notice weariness or poverty in your life?
- How can you serve the poor this Lent?
- What holds you back from listening to the Lord in prayer?
- How do you want to be transformed this Lent?
Quote to Ponder:
"I feel that I am going to my rest … but above all, I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission of making God loved as I love him, of giving my little way to other souls. If God grants my request, my Heaven will be spent on earth, until the end of the world. Yes, I wish to spend my Heaven in doing good on earth." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:3-4)
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Timestamps: 00:00 SacredSpark
01:37 Intro
02:23 Welcome
03:08 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
03:53 Seeing Lent as an Invitation of Love
06:26 Breaking Strongholds
09:18 The Little Way
12:44 Feeling Weary and Poor
14:54 Pope Leo's Lenten Letter
19:33 Listening to Grow Deeper in Intimacy
23:04 A Call to Holiness
26:52 One Things
23 February 2026, 9:30 am - 31 minutes 15 secondsS18 E5 - Entering the Desert
In this episode, we reflect on Lent as a Holy Spirit led journey through the desert to bring us into a deeper union with God. We talk about the resistance many of us feel to fasting, why Lent is not a self-improvement project, and the importance of discerning our Lenten practices. We also discuss how, through Lent, our true identity as beloved daughters is revealed, tested, and healed. Before Lent begins on Wednesday, we invite you to notice where your heart may feel numb, distracted, or defensive, and ask the Holy Spirit what He desires to restore.
Our Lenten book study "The Way of Trust and Love" will begin next week! We look forward to journeying with you.
Heather's One Thing - Her Lenten Playlist "Songs in the Desert"
Sister Miriam's One Thing - You're Gonna Be OK by Jen Johnson and Bethel Music
Michelle's One Thing - Nazareth Organics
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
- Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent?
- In the past, how have I turned to self-reliance throughout Lent?
- Where is my heart not rooted in my true identity?
- Is there something in the way of me drawing close to the Lord?
- Where am I performing instead of depending?
- Where am I controlling instead of trusting?
- Where am I grasping for love instead of securely attached?
- Where am I prideful instead of obedient?
Discussion Questions:
- Where do you need springtime in your personal life?
- How will you respond to your own shortcomings and self-reliance this Lent?
- How does the Lord want to bring you deeper into your identity?
- How is the Lord inviting you to live into your Word of the Year deeper this Lent?
Quote to Ponder:
"Lent is a time of going very deeply into ourselves… What is it that stands between us and God? Between us and our brothers and sisters? Between us and life, the life of the Spirit? Whatever it is, let us relentlessly tear it out, without a moment's hesitation." (Catherine Doherty)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where for forty days he was tested by the devil." (Luke 4:1-2)
Sponsor - COR Expeditions:
Are you experiencing the Lord's invitation to draw closer to Him? We encourage you to consider a life-changing course with COR Expeditions this summer.
COR Expeditions exists to transform the hearts of Catholics of all ages. COR - short for Catholic Outdoor Renewal and meaning "heart" in Latin - offers an invitation not often heard in our modern world: step away from technology, noise, and constant distraction, and step forward with the Lord into the wilderness, just as so many prophets and saints have done before us.
By choosing a course with COR, you are saying yes to being physically, emotionally, and spiritually challenged - in the best possible ways. Our culture often tells women to seek comfort, avoid risk, and doubt their own strength. At the same time, the voice of the enemy quietly whispers that we are not enough. COR offers something radically different: a place of freedom, encouragement, and truth. In the wilderness, you are reminded of your identity as a beloved daughter of God, created with courage, resilience, and deep capacity for joy.
COR courses take place in some of the most breathtaking locations of the Rocky Mountain West. Participants carry backpacks, hike miles into the backcountry, and live simply for the duration of the course. While this may sound intimidating at first, you are never on the journey alone. Our experienced instructors provide guidance, training, and support every step of the way. You do not need to be an elite athlete or an experienced backpacker—only willing to show up, try, and trust the Lord to meet you where you are.
In the silence of the mountains, away from screens and schedules, many women encounter God in a new and personal way. The physical challenge opens space for prayer. The simplicity brings clarity. The shared experience fosters deep community. What remains is peace, confidence, and a renewed ability to hear the Lord's voice.
If you're longing for deeper faith, meaningful challenge, and an experience that will stay with you long after summer ends, COR Expeditions may be the invitation your heart has been waiting for.
Learn more and take the next step at corexpeditions.org. Listeners of Abiding Together, use code ABIDE10 to get 10% off any one US-based open enrollment course this summer!
Timestamps: 00:00 COR Expeditions
01:31 Intro
02:17 Welcome
04:42 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
05:24 Where is the Holy Spirit Inviting Us Into Deeper Union
10:49 Testing Our Identity
15:41 God Speaks Tenderly to Us in the Desert
18:48 How to Discern What We Should do for Lent
25:16 One Things
16 February 2026, 9:30 am - 55 minutes 10 secondsS18 E4 - Communion with God with John Eldredge
In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a "re-enchanted" Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided "Pause" prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of Jesus dwelling within you.
Heather's One Thing - Midst from the Belonging Co.
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Story I'll Tell by Naomi Raine
Michelle's One Thing - The Way of Trust and Love by Father Jacques Philippe
Michelle's Other One Thing - Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry
John's One Thing - The Abiding Together Podcast!
John's Other One Thing - William Augusto Instrumental Background Music
Other Resources Mentioned:
- The Pause App
- John Eldredge's Website "Wild at Heart"
- Waking the Dead by John Eldredge
- The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge
- Experience Jesus. Really. by John Eldredge
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
- How am I living like a "practical atheist"?
- Where are you experiencing chaos in your domain?
- When in your day can you turn toward the Lord with a simple prayer?
- How have I experienced the friendship and communion of the Kingdom of Heaven in my life?
- Where in my life am I believing I am too much and not enough?
Discussion Questions:
- How would you define your domain? What has God entrusted to you?
- When have you experienced God's beauty and order in the midst of chaos and hatred?
- How have simple prayers led to transformation in your life?
- How is God inviting you to be a healing remedy to the world right now?
Quote to Ponder:
"The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it." (John Eldredge, Waking the Dead)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing." (Zephaniah 3:17)
Sponsor - Fully Alive Coaching Program:
Fully Alive Coaching Program is a trauma-informed Catholic coaching program for women and men who desire deep healing without compromising their faith. Created by licensed marriage and family therapist Brya Hanan, Fully Alive integrates Catholic Inner Child Work and somatic awareness in a gentle, Spirit-led journey—honoring the body, protecting the soul, and restoring wholeness.
For women and men who pray sincerely but still feel guarded, overwhelmed, or fragmented, Fully Alive offers a safe and structured path toward integration and life abundant. Learn more at catholicinnerchildwork.com/fully-alive and follow @catholicinnerchildwork for more trauma-informed and integrative resources to support your healing.
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Timestamps: 00:00 - Fully Alive Coaching Program
01:16 - Intro
02:02 - Welcome
04:18 - Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:11 - Where is the Holy Spirit Moving the Church Now?
10:54 - Balancing the Love Story within a World at War
14:08 - Learning to Pray Against the Chaos
19:10 - How to Pray Together as A Couple
21:39 - Being in Union with God
26:13 - How Does God Use Fatherhood to Repair His Children?
29:30 - The Pause App
33:45 - We Are Created for Intimacy with Christ
37:48 - Women are Part of God's Healing Remedy to the World
40:22 - One Last Message from John
44:20 - A "Pause" Meditation
48:30 - One Things
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