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Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

  • 45 minutes 1 second
    Male Sexual Dysfunction, with Dr. Jaclyn Napier

    Pelvic floor therapist Dr. Jaclyn Napier joins us to discuss male sexual dysfunction—what it is, how to address it, and what practices might prevent it for those not experiencing it yet.

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    From the Bible

    Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well. 3 John 1:2

    Resources

    • Dr. Jaclyn Napier's Practice: The Source Pelvis Health and Wellness
    • Reclaiming Sex and Intimacy After Prostate Cancer: A Guide for Men and Their Partners by Jeffrey Albaugh
    • Androgen Deprivation Therapy: An Essential Guide for Prostate Cancer Patients and Their Loved Ones by Richard J. Wassersug Robinson
    • The Biggest Challenge to My Sex Life (That I Never Told You About) - Hot, Holy & Humorous (about having a husband with insulin-dependent diabetes)
    • ScreamingO Dynamo Ejaculation Delay Spray - Married Dance
    • Durex Performax Condoms with Delay Lubricant - Amazo n
    • Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade
    • Episode 239: Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy
    • Find a Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner Near You | Pelvic Rehab
    • A Headache in the Pelvis: A New Understanding and Treatment for Chronic Pelvic Pain Syndromes by David Wise and Rodney Anderson
    • Ending Male Pelvic Pain, A Man's Manual by Isa Herrera
    • Pelvic Pain, The Ultimate C*ck Block by Susan Gronsky (warning: some crude language)
    • Peyronie's Disease: Symptoms, Diagnosis, Treatment, and More | Healthline
    • What Is Bowen Disease of the Penis? A Guide to Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment | Fact-Based Urology
    • Dealing with Erection Problems | The Forgiven Wife

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    9 May 2026, 2:36 am
  • 4 minutes 23 seconds
    4 More Ways Screen Sex Isn't Like Real Sex

    This week's quickie is from J. Parker with four more differences between what you see on the screen and what happens in the sheets. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

    30 April 2026, 4:19 pm
  • 26 minutes 37 seconds
    Episode 263: How Stress Affects Sex (and Vice Versa)

    Stress can follow you into your marriage bed, shaping desire and connection. We unpack how it disrupts intimacy and what to do.

    Sponsor

    Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network.

    From the Bible

    Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Philippians 4:6

    Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

    Resources

    • Episode 4: Stress and Sex
    • 3 Questions that Can Reduce Stress and Increase Calm in Your Life – CalmHealthySexy
    • How Do You Respond to Stress in Your Marriage – The Forgiven Wife
    • Are Stress & Fatigue Killing Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • 4 Simple Ways to Reduce Stress in Your Life and Marriage – CalmHealthySexy
    • De-Stress to Improve Libido – OysterBed 7
    • How Does Stress Affect Your Marriage – The Forgiven Wife
    • 4 Ways to Be Present During Sex | The Forgiven Wife
    • Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Why Are We Having Less Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    23 April 2026, 6:28 pm
  • 4 minutes
    4 Ways Screen Sex Isn't Like Real Sex (Quickie)

    This week's quickie is from J Parker with four differences between what you see on the screen and what happens in the sheets. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

    16 April 2026, 4:18 pm
  • 26 minutes 47 seconds
    Savoring Your Lovemaking

    What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss!

    Sponsor

    Every Love Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out!

    From the Bible

    For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. Isaiah 54:5

    I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. Hosea 2:19

    "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

    Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

    The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 (ESV)

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23

    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

    Resources

    • What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Episode 254: From Passion to Connection (Quickie)
    • Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy
    • The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling | The Gottman Institute
    • Couples Recovery and FANOS Check-in – Bethesda Workshops
    • My Favorite Feeling During Sex (And It's Not Orgasm) - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Foreplay – Webinar
    • TROJAN Extended Pleasure Condoms | Amazon
    • Durex Performax Intense Natural Rubber Latex Condoms | Amazon
    • Exploring Exercise for Premature Ejaculation (including the pause-squeeze technique)

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    9 April 2026, 4:40 pm
  • 1 minute 40 seconds
    Quick Repair Restores Connection (Quickie)

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with a tip to restore emotional connection and strengthen sexual intimacy. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

    2 April 2026, 8:41 pm
  • 25 minutes 4 seconds
    Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

    With special guest Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage, we tackle listener questions about erectile dysfunction, moving during sex, and feeling semiconscious after orgasm.

    Sponsor

    Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network.

    From the Bible

    I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1

    I will conduct the affairs of my house with a blameless heart. I will not look with approval on anything that is vile. Psalm 103:2b–3a

    You ask, "Why?" It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. Malachi 2:14–15

    Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5

    The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13

    I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk. Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love! Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB)

    Resources

    • Intimacy In Marriage - Julie Sibert's site
    • 10 Symptoms of Porn Addiction Withdrawal (And How to Manage Them) | Covenant Eyes
    • Episode 154: Why We're Against Porn and Erotica
    • The Samson Society
    • The Sarah Society
    • Strong Wives - Coaching with Bonny Burns
    • Hope for Wives Podcast (Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal)
    • Christian-friendly Sex Positions
    • How To Tips Archives - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker (Signed) - ON SALE FOR $5 IN CONTIGUOUS US
    • Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid | Married Dance
    • Episode 215: Kegels and Sexual Pleasure (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Episode 219: Kegels and Climax (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • The Orgasm Page | Intimacy in Marriage
    • Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    26 March 2026, 4:28 pm
  • 3 minutes 42 seconds
    Dealing with Nonsexual Baggage (Quickie)

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about dealing with nonsexual baggage that affects your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

    Related Posts

    • Check Your Luggage | The Forgiven Wife
    • Unbearable Lessons | The Forgiven Wife

    19 March 2026, 5:47 pm
  • 35 minutes 12 seconds
    How Sex Changes As You Age

    With Chris, Bonny, and J all here, we address the ways sex can change due to aging, how you can respond, and what younger listeners can do to prepare for age-related changes.

    Sponsor

    Every Love Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out!

    From the Bible

    Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding? Job 12:12

    Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you. Isaiah 46:4

    Resources

    • Episode 4: Stress and Sex (note: the audio quality of our early episodes was not as good)
    • Help For Vaginal Dryness • Bonny's Oysterbed7
    • An Embarrassing Post about Female Sexual Dysfunction (Plus 5 Tips!) | The Forgiven Wife
    • Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones | The Forgiven Wife
    • Can Daily Arousal Help with Vulvovaginal Atrophy? | The Forgiven Wife
    • Struggling with Sex in Marriage? Here's What To Do First. - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Episode 231: Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
    • Cold-pressed, Virgin Coconut Oil | Amazon
    • Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid | Married Dance
    • Good Clean Love BioNude Ultra Sensitive Personal Lubricant | Amazon
    • A Wife's Breasts Have History! | The Forgiven Wife
    • Getting Older, Having Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
    • Sexual Clarity for Christian Women • Strong Wives

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    13 March 2026, 3:47 am
  • 2 minutes
    How's the Hugging? (Quickie)

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about the benefits of hugging in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

    5 March 2026, 8:11 pm
  • 39 minutes 11 seconds
    When Same-Sex Arousal Enters Marriage, with Vicki Tiede

    With special guest Vicki Tiede, we address a reality for some Christian heterosexual marriages, same-sex arousal or attraction. What does it mean? And what can you do?

    Sponsors

    Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network.

    From the Bible

    So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

    "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Mark 10:6–8

    Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

    Resources

    • Life Renovation Counseling & Coaching - Mike & Vicki Tiede
    • Courageous Hearts Group w/Vicki Tiede
    • When Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki Tiede
    • Sexual Clarity for Christian Women w/Bonny Burns
    • Same-Sex Attraction—Confusion To Clarity (free download from Vicki)
    • Are We Naturally Monogamous? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
    • Virgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

    27 February 2026, 1:22 am
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