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What if you already know the answer, but the noise in your head keeps drowning it out?

In this live conversation, Cathy sits down with speaker and coach Rudi Riekstins to explore the difference between fear, familiar mental patterns, and the quieter internal signals we often call intuition. Rudi shares his idea of the “still point,” a place beneath the mental noise where he believes we can become more aware of what feels expansive and what feels restrictive.

Rudi also tells the remarkable story of being told at 18 that he would never find true love, carrying that prediction for years, and eventually deciding he would no longer let someone else’s story determine what was possible for him. He shares what happened when he later met the woman he had somehow felt certain was coming into his life.

Cathy and Rudi talk about why familiar patterns can be so hard to leave, what it looks like to create space before reacting, and why constantly looking outside yourself for the answer can make it harder to hear what you already know. Cathy closes the conversation with a reminder to make time for the most important meeting of the day: the one where you get quiet enough to listen to yourself, your soul, and God.

This episode is for you if you overthink decisions, struggle to trust yourself, or feel like everyone else’s opinions have gotten louder than your own inner knowing.

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What if nothing is terribly wrong with your life, but something still feels missing?

Cathy sits down with Ben Nemtin, co-founder of The Buried Life and author of What Do You Want to Do Before You Die?, for a conversation about the dreams we bury, why waiting for motivation keeps us stuck, and how to start building a life that actually feels like your own.

Ben shares how a period of depression led him and his friends to write a list of 100 things they wanted to do before they died, eventually turning that experiment into a movement. He explains why purpose does not have to be one huge calling, why taking action can create motivation, and why the smallest possible step is often enough to start moving toward the things that make you feel more alive.

Cathy also opens up about how losing her dad changed the way she looked at her own life, why she ultimately chose to leave the life she had built in Los Angeles, and the honest conversation she finally had with her father shortly before he died. Together, Cathy and Ben explore regret, fear of judgment, letting go of control, and what can happen when you stop waiting for a crisis to give yourself permission to change.

This episode is for you if your life looks fine on paper but you keep wondering whether there is something more, if you have lost touch with what you actually want, or if fear and practicality keep talking you out of taking the first step.

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What if the fear keeping you small was built at a time when you didn’t know what you were capable of?

In this live conversation, Cathy is joined by executive and communication coach Lauren Weinstein to talk about confidence, visibility, limiting beliefs, fear of judgment, and perfectionism. Lauren shares the elephant metaphor from her TEDx talk and explains how old beliefs can keep us playing small even after we’ve outgrown them.

Cathy also shares stories about Matthew McConaughey and Christina Perri as reminders that being seen is not about performing perfectly. It is about showing up, contributing what is yours to give, and trusting yourself enough to begin.

Lauren explains why confidence is built through action and repetition. The people we admire became great because they were willing to start small, be imperfect, and get the reps.

This episode is for you if you are ready to stop overthinking what other people think, move through your fear of visibility, and let yourself be seen before you feel completely ready.

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Why do the same patterns keep showing up in your relationships, money, career, and self-worth, even when you consciously want something different?

Cathy sits down with manifestation mentor Ariana Del Rosario, also known as CosmicAry, to talk about the identity and nervous system patterns underneath the life we create.

Ariana breaks down her mirror principle, why changing the person, job, or circumstance doesn’t always change the pattern, and how childhood beliefs and emotional wounds can shape what feels safe to receive. She also shares how she went from making $500 a month and sleeping on a yoga mat to building a thriving business by making what she calls identity-level choices.

Cathy opens up about her own fear of being fully seen in love and the childhood experience that taught her she wasn’t enough.

This episode is for anyone who knows what they want but keeps getting pulled back into the same patterns, and is ready to stop choosing from fear and start living from a deeper sense of trust, safety, and self-worth.

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What if the patterns you keep noticing in your life are trying to tell you something?

Cathy sits down with bestselling author and numerologist Kaitlyn Kaerhart to explore how numerology can help us understand our life path, purpose, timing, relationships, money, and the patterns we repeat.

Kaitlyn explains life path numbers, personal year cycles, and why looking back at what was happening in your life nine years ago can reveal surprising patterns. She also breaks down angel numbers like 111, 222, and 444, and shares how understanding her own numbers helped her rebuild after a devastating rock bottom.

Cathy opens up about getting dropped from two record deals, realizing that her real purpose was using her voice in an entirely different way, and the recurring desire for home, roots, and family that she had never fully understood.

This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, uncertain about their purpose, or curious whether the same themes keep finding their way back into their life for a reason.

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What if the same qualities that helped you become successful are making it harder to receive the relationship you actually want?

In this episode of Everything Is Energy, Cathy sits down with relationship coach Joel Monteleone for a deeply personal conversation about high-achieving women, hyper-independence, trust, dating, and what healthy masculine and feminine dynamics actually look like in a real relationship.

Joel explains why successful women can accidentally approach dating the same way they approach work: analyzing the problem, trying to figure out what they’re doing wrong, and looking for the perfect solution. But connection often asks for something very different. It asks us to be present, honest, playful, and willing to let another person actually know us.

Cathy opens up about how her own experiences taught her to associate independence with safety, why receiving a huge gesture of love from her former husband once made her panic, and the realization that letting another person take care of you creates intimacy because it requires trust.

They also talk about the stories we inherit about men and relationships, why our interpretation of an experience is not always the same as what actually happened, and how taking responsibility for your patterns is different from blaming yourself.

Joel and Cathy unpack the current conversation around “masculine men,” feminine energy, and the soft girl era, and why a healthy relationship is less about performing rigid roles and more about creating a dynamic where both people can lead, support, give, and receive.

This episode is for you if you’re successful in so many areas of your life but relationships still feel harder than they should, you find yourself overthinking dating, you struggle to let people take care of you, or you’re ready to create more trust and intimacy without becoming less powerful.

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What if the ambition, independence, and ability to “handle everything” that people admire about you are also protecting a much younger part of you that never felt fully safe, seen, or worthy?

In this episode of Everything Is Energy, Cathy sits down with psychotherapist and author Terri Cole for a deeply personal conversation about the Father Wound and the invisible ways it can shape our relationships, careers, self-worth, and ability to receive.

Terri shares how she spent years believing she was simply ambitious until a therapist asked whether she was running toward something or running away from something. That question helped her see how much of her achievement, overfunctioning, and high-functioning codependency was connected to a deeper belief that her worth depended on what she could accomplish or give to other people.

Terri walks through the process of identifying your own Father Wound Blueprint, honoring what happened without vilifying your father, learning to ask for and receive help, and allowing compassion for your parents’ humanity to emerge without using their pain to minimize your own. She also explains why you do not need to confront your father, or even have him alive, in order to do this work.

This episode is for you if you are exhausted from always being the capable one, you struggle to ask for help or let people show up for you, you notice yourself repeating painful relationship patterns, or you are ready to understand where your drive to achieve and prove yourself may actually come from.

Terri’s book Father Wound explores these patterns and the process of reclaiming worth, boundaries, and relational power.

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What if feeling healthier, more alive, and more connected does not require changing your entire life at once, but simply making the next choice that aligns with the highest version of you?

In this episode of Everything Is Energy, Cathy sits down with her friend Sanam Ghiyam for a conversation about the intersection of physical health, spirituality, desire, and what it really means to thrive. Sanam has spent years optimizing her own health and sharing what she learns with the people around her, and together she and Cathy explore why taking care of your body and deepening your spiritual life may be more connected than we realize.

They talk about the simple foundations Sanam returns to again and again, including sleep, resistance training, and nourishing food, as well as the role that peptides and GLP-1s can play when used thoughtfully with medical guidance. But the conversation goes much deeper than health hacks. Cathy and Sanam explore what it means to live with certainty without needing to control the outcome, why your desires may be pointing you toward the next version of yourself, and how sharing what you receive creates more abundance for everyone around you.

They also talk about starting small instead of trying to overhaul your life overnight, why who you surround yourself with matters, and how a few minutes of gratitude can completely change what you notice. Cathy shares a powerful story about asking God and her late father for guidance and receiving an answer in a way she never could have predicted.

This episode is for you if you feel overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice about health and longevity, you want to feel stronger and more energized as you get older, you are learning how to trust your desires without becoming attached to the outcome, or you want to become more available to the guidance, synchronicities, and blessings that may already be surrounding you. 

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What if the reason your life does not feel like yours is not that you need more, but that you have spent so long becoming who everyone else needed you to be?

In this episode of Everything Is Energy Cathy sits down with Rachael Blumberg Chiprut, founder of PLATEFIT, coach, spiritual adviser, and speaker, for an honest conversation about what happens when a life that looks successful on the outside no longer feels true on the inside.

At 41, Rachael had the family, the businesses, the friends, and the life she thought she was supposed to want, but she was miserable. She shares the decision that began to change everything: taking alcohol out of her life, sitting with herself, and becoming radically honest about the fear, resentment, and beliefs that had kept her disconnected from who she really was.

Cathy and Rachael talk about why meditation needs to feel safe for your nervous system, how changing your inner world begins to reshape your outer one, and why manifestation is less about collecting things and more about deciding how you want to feel. They also explore the courage it takes to become visible, the unexpected gift inside judgment, and what becomes possible when you stop performing and allow yourself to be fully seen.

This episode is for you if your life looks good on paper but something still feels missing, you are afraid to use your voice or be seen, you are ready to release a habit or identity that no longer fits, or you want a simple way to begin creating a life that actually feels like yours.

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What if rejection isn’t proof that something went wrong, but the Divine Navigation System rerouting you toward what your soul is actually here to receive?

In this episode of Everything Is Energy, Cathy sits down with Yehuda Ashkenazi, senior teacher at The Kabbalah Centre, musician, composer, and creator of Sacred Sounds. Yehuda explains what it means to be a vessel for the Light: like the moon, we receive light not only for ourselves, but so we can reflect and reveal it to others.

They explore the difference between a partner who makes you comfortable and one who makes you better, and how relationships can support our transformation.

This episode is for you if life isn’t going according to plan, you’re making sense of a rejection or ending, or you’re ready to stop searching outside yourself for the wisdom and certainty already within you.

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Timestamps 0:00 The universal navigation system that reroutes you 1:58 What it means to be a vessel 3:57 How to access your soul when you feel alone 6:41 The dark side that's always litigating against you 9:00 Turning a problem into a challenge 10:31 When God wants to make you David, he sends Goliath 11:20 What Passover and freedom really mean for you 14:10 Certainty beyond logic 16:43 Praying for clear rejection, not a maybe 18:36 The mercy behind every "wrong turn" 19:19 Soul contracts, divorce, and staying friends 20:51 Mitzvot: advice, not commandments 23:04 What actually makes someone your soulmate 25:14 Finding peace in a world that never stops scrolling 27:35 Where to keep learning with Yehuda

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In this episode, you'll learn: Why the greatest chronic stress isn't work or money, it's being inauthentic, saying yes when your whole body means no How to take the most important meeting of your day, the five minutes with yourself and God before the day hijacks you and you lose agency over it The exact morning prayer Cathy uses, asking God to open her eyes and send the receipts, the divine wink, within the next 24 hours The light bulb principle for hard seasons, why darkness isn't less light, it's a 45 watt vessel being asked to hold 1000 watts The out loud practice of saying "this is the best thing that ever happened" and then hunting for the evidence that proves it Why the Torah says every single person is a whole world, so impacting one person a day can quietly change everything The Hebrew word ratzon, desire, and why gaslighting yourself out of what you actually want lands you in someone else's destiny Why when God wants to make you David, he sends you a Goliath, and the lesson of the spies who couldn't see what they were a match for This is for you if you have been taking care of everyone but yourself and can't remember what you prefer anymore. This is for you if you can't tell your own voice from the voice of what other people expect you to want. This is for you if you're facing a hard set of cards, illness, loss, a season that makes no sense, and you need a bigger frame to stand inside. This is for you if you want your intuition to get louder and you're finally ready to trust it, even when it's inconvenient. Join Cathy's membership This Abundant Life http://cathyheller.com/life Listen to Everything is Energy on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2JjyyM1 or Spotify https://spoti.fi/3bKK13W Follow Cathy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cathy.heller/ Want to work with Cathy? cathyheller.com/work-with-me Guest links: Read LA Mom Magazine https://www.lamommagazine.com/ Follow Shirin on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lamommagazine/ Watch the Moms Matter talk show with Shirin Yadegar: https://www.youtube.com/@momsmattertv/videosMore of Shirin's Link: https://linktr.ee/lamommagazine?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGn-7hovJDF7HHKQtLCTVBLKwxe5WKeIa8XlI-OoXDn77b7AS09eCHLiAI7wUY_aem_mya_0oSZ_J-nHrrc_sVc0g Timestamps 00:00 Why Cathy is replaying this conversation 02:46 The cost of taking care of everyone but yourself 04:50 You're not becoming someone new, you're remembering who you are 05:30 What your chart reveals about your soul assignment 06:15 Hidden in plain sight, your authentic design 07:20 The number one cause of chronic stress 07:41 The hairstylist story that will give you chills 09:58 Make the main thing the main thing 10:23 Why every single person is a whole world 12:16 The most important meeting of your day 13:08 Want what you actually want 14:16 The morning prayer that opens your eyes 15:18 The sign at the store 15:48 How to face cancer, loss, and adversity 16:10 The light bulb and the vessel for the light 17:03 This is the best thing that ever happened 18:10 Amy Purdy chose to come back 19:13 You can't see the whole painting up close 19:49 When God wants to make you David, he sends Goliath 20:16 Fix your eyes, the lesson of the spies 22:15 What to do today if you doubt yourself 23:13 Divine Download live in LA, August 2 and 3 #Authenticity #Manifestation #Intuition #SpiritualGrowth #RememberingWhoYouAre #DivineTiming #FaithAndHealing #EverythingIsEnergy - Join Cathy's membership This Abundant Life http://cathyheller.com/life - Listen to Everything is Energy on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2JjyyM1 or Spotify https://spoti.fi/3bKK13W - Follow Cathy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cathy.heller/ - Want to work with Cathy? cathyheller.com/work-with-me