- 1 hour 8 minutesMistakes Were Made
Even financially independent people have lost fortunes to bad investments, high-fee funds, and speculation. Brad Barrett, Alan Donegan, and Katie Donegan lay bare their most expensive mistakes—from Alan's 90% dot-com crash loss to Katie's near-£1 million fee trap to Brad's decade-long real estate nightmare—proving that catastrophic errors don't prevent you from reaching FI if you learn the right lessons.
Key Topics Discussed
[00:00:00] Introduction: Why Share Mistakes?
Brad introduces the episode concept, explaining why sharing financial and life mistakes can help others avoid similar pitfalls on their FI journey.[00:03:30] Alan's Dot-Com Bubble Disaster
Alan shares how he lost 90% of his £7,000 life savings investing in high-tech managed growth stocks right before the dot-com crash, and how this scared him away from stock market investing for 13 years.[00:08:45] Brad's Early Investment Mistakes
Brad discusses investing in WorldCom and other 'top picks' that went bankrupt, plus getting sold a mutual fund with horrible loads, highlighting that there's no secret investment knowledge reserved for the wealthy.[00:13:20] Katie's High-Fee Fund Trap
Katie reveals how a financial advisor convinced her to invest in actively managed funds with 2.71% ongoing fees plus 3% entry charges, a mistake that would have cost her and Alan £1 million if they hadn't discovered index investing.[00:18:50] Brad's Real Estate Speculation Nightmare
Brad shares his biggest mistake: speculating on golf course community properties with interest-only loans right before the 2008 crash, causing over a decade of stress and significant financial loss.[00:28:15] Alan's Career Mistakes: The Book Incident
Alan reveals how he wrote a book called 'How Not to Run a Business' about his boss on the company laptop, got fired, and learned about speaking truth to power and the importance of FI for workplace freedom.[00:32:40] Katie's Confidence and Comparison Struggles
Katie discusses how her fixed mindset and comparison with others held her back from pursuing opportunities like netball and football, and how building confidence is as important as building net worth.[00:42:30] The Power of Saying No and Setting Boundaries
The trio discusses the difficulty of being direct and honest, the importance of saying no, and how people-pleasing can create more problems than it solves.[00:48:20] Business Mistakes: Email Lists and Sales Fear
Alan shares his regret about never building an email list for his successful business and letting fear of rejection prevent him from scaling, emphasizing the importance of owning your platform.[00:54:10] Salary Negotiation and Final Thoughts
Brad discusses not negotiating his salary when changing jobs, the hosts wrap up with reflections on learning from mistakes, and encourage listeners to share their own mistakes in the community.Notable Quotes
Brad Barrett: "You can make mistakes and you can make catastrophic mistakes, and you can pick yourself back up and you can move on with your life. You're stronger and you're wiser."
Alan Donegan: "Your success in life is directly related to how many mistakes you can make as quickly as possible and learn from them."
Alan Donegan: "Spend as much time building your confidence as you do your net worth, because it is so powerful in everything you do going forwards."
Katie Donegan: "To rinse the value out of the mistakes, it's a lot more valuable if we share them. I would love you to get the value out of my mistake because I've already paid the price."
Brad Barrett: "There's no secret. There's virtually no genius. Don't get caught up in wild speculative behavior."
Key Takeaways
- Invest in low-cost index funds like VTI instead of actively managed funds or individual stocks to avoid high fees and poor performance
- Build an email list from day one if you're starting a business—don't rely solely on social media platforms you don't control
- Always negotiate your salary when changing jobs or getting promoted
- Work on building your confidence alongside your net worth—practice saying no, setting boundaries, and being direct in difficult conversations
- Learn from others' mistakes rather than making them yourself
- Avoid speculation in real estate, stocks, or any investment—stick to boring, proven strategies like index fund investing for long-term wealth building
- Make mistakes quickly and learn from them—failure is part of the path to success as long as you extract the lessons and keep moving forward
Resources and Links Mentioned
- 50 Ways to Say No by Elizabeth Andrews
- ChooseFI Episode 454 - Salary Negotiation with Financial Mechanic
- ChooseFI Episode 147 - Salary Negotiation with Tori Dunlap
- Rebel Finance School
- JL Collins and The Stock Series
- Vanguard Total Stock Market ETF (VTI)
- ChooseFI Community Platform
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Most people trying to slash their budget hunt for obvious waste—daily lattes, unused subscriptions, impulse purchases. But what happens when you've already cut the fat and your highest expenses are the ones you can't seem to touch: the mortgage, the car payment, the daycare bill? That's required bloat, and it's quietly inflating your FI number by hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Key Topics Discussed
Introduction to Value Matrix Case Studies (00:00:00)
Jonathan recaps the series and introduces three value matrix case studies, following up from episode 592.Case 1: Required Bloat (00:03:00)
Exploring a couple with high required expenses including housing, transportation, and childcare. Discussion of seasons of life and time-bound expenses.Insurance Optimization Strategies (00:13:00)
Brad and Jonathan discuss how the couple saved nearly $10,000 annually by shopping insurance policies and adjusting coverage levels.Required Expenses: Fixed, Review, and Variable (00:18:00)
Breaking down required expenses into three categories and identifying opportunities for optimization even in supposedly fixed costs.Case 2: The Optimized Budget (00:25:00)
Examining a couple spending $50,000 annually with highly optimized expenses across all categories, demonstrating what a locked-in FI budget looks like.Self-Insurance Milestone (00:35:00)
Discussion of umbrella insurance and the milestone of becoming self-insured enough to cancel term life insurance policies.Case 3: High-Joy Giving (00:42:00)
Analyzing a couple spending $17,000 annually on charitable giving and gifts, exploring the intersection of generosity and financial independence.Effective Giving Strategies (00:46:00)
Brad covers tax-optimization strategies for charitable giving including donor-advised funds, lumping donations, and donating appreciated stock.Takeaways and Tool Access (00:54:00)
Jonathan wraps up with listener feedback and directs people to access the Value Matrix tool at choosefi.com/local.Notable Quotes
"Just because it's required doesn't mean that we ignore it. We're going to put all of this into our process, into our value matrix." — Jonathan Mendonsa
"There are definitely seasons to this. Take a deep breath and understand you're still doing great and you're still making plans to supercharge your path to FI." — Brad Barrett
"Sometimes when you just get a different quote, you are shocked by how inexpensive it is. It always pays to just get different quotes on insurance." — Brad Barrett
"When you have opened up your hands earlier to share in any way that you choose to do it, you are going to definitely avoid this feeling of hoarding." — Jonathan Mendonsa
"Wouldn't it be cool if every single item showed up as high joy? That would just really show that you're living an aligned life regardless of cost." — Brad Barrett
Key Takeaways
- Complete an expense audit categorizing all spending into groups (housing, transportation, food, etc.) before using the Value Matrix tool
- Shop your insurance policies annually—home, auto, health, life, and umbrella—to ensure you're getting competitive rates
- Categorize each required expense as Fixed, Review, or Variable to identify optimization opportunities
- Consider higher-deductible health insurance plans (like ACA bronze) if you're healthy to reduce premiums while maintaining catastrophic coverage
- If charitable giving is important to you, explore tax optimization strategies like donor-advised funds or donating appreciated stock
- Access the Value Matrix tool at choosefi.com/local under Tools and Resources to visualize your spending alignment
- Review time-bound expenses (daycare, car payments, student loans) and calculate how your FI number will decrease when they end
- Join the ChooseFI community giving forum to discuss effective giving strategies with like-minded individuals
Resources and Links
- Effective Giving for the FI Community (Episode 483)
- FI Lanthropy Pledge
- ChooseFI Value Matrix Tool
- yieldandspread.org
- YNAB (You Need A Budget)
- Mint Mobile
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Episode 45: Maximizing Travel Rewards with Financial Independence
In this episode of ChooseFI, Brad Barrett and travel rewards expert Noah G. dive into the world of travel rewards, focusing on maximizing points to achieve financial independence and nearly free vacations. They discuss the value of points, strategies for their redemption, and introduce tools to optimize travel savings, offering practical advice for listeners.
Key Topics Discussed
- Introduction to travel rewards and their role in financial independence
- Noah G.’s journey and expertise in travel rewards
- Methods to maximize point value and determine cents per point
- Tools and resources for enhancing travel savings
Timestamps
- 00:00:00 - Introduction to Travel Rewards
- 00:01:30 - Noah's Journey and Expertise
- 00:03:00 - Maximizing Point Value
- 00:05:00 - Tools for Travel Savings
Resources and Links Mentioned
Key Takeaways
- Calculate cents per point to assess the value of travel points.
- Use resources like awardtool.com to optimize travel rewards.
- Engage with community resources for the latest point redemption tips.
Notable Quotes
- "Your points are a finite resource." - Brad Barrett
- "Think about what your points are worth and when to spend them." - Brad Barrett
- "I met you at a ChooseFI meetup at a local brewery." - Noah G.
Speakers
- Brad Barrett - Co-host of ChooseFI
- Noah G. - Travel Rewards Expert
Whether you're a travel hacking newbie or a seasoned point redeemer, this episode provides valuable insights and strategies to make the most of your travel rewards within the financial independence framework.
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Episode Show Notes
Episode Summary
Ginger and Liz from Liz Gets Loaded explore Fumio Sasaki's book, "Say Goodbye to Things," discussing the principles of minimalism and their impact on emotional well-being and lifestyle choices. They share personal insights and practical tips on downsizing and living a more intentional life.
Key Topics Discussed
- Introduction to Minimalism
- Definition and Principles of Minimalism
- Personal Experiences with Downsizing
- Summary and Key Themes of "Say Goodbye to Things"
- Practical Minimalism Tips
- Valuing Experiences over Material Possessions
Resources and Links Mentioned
Timestamps
- 00:00:00 - Introduction to Minimalism
- 00:05:00 - Defining Minimalism
- 00:12:00 - Personal Experiences with Minimalism
- 00:20:00 - Summary of 'Say Goodbye to Things'
- 00:32:00 - Practical Minimalism Tips
- 00:45:00 - Reflecting on Experiences and Values
Key Takeaways
- Reflect on what's truly necessary in your life.
- Consider a 'store it at the store' approach for bulk items.
- Evaluate your possessions with the 'would I buy this again' rule.
Notable Quotes
- "Minimalists are people who know what's truly necessary for them versus what they may want for the sake of appearance." - Ginger
- "Living in the apartment feels like living in a hotel room in the best way." - Liz
- "He says, 'Get rid of duplicates.' You can still function with one pair of scissors or one pen." - Liz
- "Experiences resist comparison." - Ginger
- "Minimalism itself isn't the goal; it's about aligning your life with your values." - Liz
Speakers
- Ginger
- Liz Gets Loaded
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Episode Show Notes
Episode Summary
In this episode, Jonathan Mendonsa and Brad Barrett introduce the Value Matrix, a tool that maps spending to life satisfaction. They analyze four real spending profiles to show how different approaches can affect financial independence. Learn how aligning expenses with personal values can transform your financial journey.
Key Topics Discussed
- Introduction to the Value Matrix
- Overview of four diverse spending profiles
- Expansion of Choose FI community groups
- Analysis of a leaky budget case study
Timestamps
- 00:00:00 - Introduction to the Value Matrix
- 00:03:00 - Case Studies Overview
- 00:10:00 - Community Growth
- 00:17:00 - Leaky Budget Case Study
Key Takeaways
- Evaluate your expenses using the Value Matrix.
- Join a local FI group to connect with like-minded individuals.
- Identify and eliminate unnecessary leaks in your budget.
Notable Quotes
- "Does it go where it matters? Introducing the Value Matrix." — Jonathan Mendonsa
- "We don't want you just listening; we want you to take action to make your life better." — Brad Barrett
- "It's about choosing what it is that you value, hence why we're going to get into it today." — Jonathan Mendonsa
Resources
Speakers
- Jonathan Mendonsa
- Brad Barrett
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Episode Show Notes
Episode Summary
Brad Barrett chats with Kristy Shen and Bryce Leung about their new book, Parent Like a Millionaire Without Being One. This episode delves into effective financial strategies for parenting while advancing towards financial independence, debunking myths about the high costs associated with raising children.
Key Topics Discussed
- Misconceptions about the cost of raising children
- Financial independence strategies for parents
- Flexible child care options
- Housing costs and their impact on family budgets
- The concept of "money trees" for financial goal setting
Timestamps
- 00:00:00 - Introduction and Book Overview
- 00:05:00 - Financial Strategies for Parenting
- 00:20:00 - Key Categories of Costs
- 00:35:00 - Money Trees and FI Goals
- 00:50:00 - Closing Thoughts
Key Takeaways
- Explore innovative child care arrangements, like co-working spaces with daycare.
- Evaluate housing decisions as they significantly affect financial stability.
- Implement "money trees"—small, actionable financial goals for managing expenses.
Notable Quotes
- Brad Barrett: "This book is really for everyone, especially the FI community."
- Bryce Leung: "Raising a child is often quoted as costing three hundred fifteen thousand dollars until they're eighteen."
- Kristy Shen: "Flexibility is your superpower. It's your unfair advantage when you're FI."
- Bryce Leung: "It's a targeted approach to building towards FI."
Resources and Links Mentioned
Speakers
- Brad Barrett - Host
- Kristy Shen - Guest
- Bryce Leung - Guest
Discover practical steps for financial independence and reframe parenting costs into financial opportunities by tuning in.
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Most people think they know where their money goes each month… but when they actually run an expense audit, they find hundreds—sometimes thousands—of dollars quietly leaking out of their budget.
Today we’re walking through how to run a simple expense audit, how to find those leaks, and how to use a “value matrix” to decide what’s worth keeping—and what’s quietly draining your life and your wallet.
Key Tactical Takeaways
- Conduct an Expense Audit: Review your expenses for February to March to identify spending leaks.
- Utilize the Value Matrix: Categorize expenses into high/low joy and high/low cost to optimize spending.
- Regular Check-ins: Establish a routine of auditing and reflecting on your spending habits to refine financial strategies over time.
Core Rules & Formulas
Rule/Formulas Description Expense Audit Evaluate your spending regularly to identify leaks or unnecessary expenditures. Value Matrix A four-quadrant tool to assess expenses based on joy and cost: - High Joy, Low Cost (Best) - High Joy, High Cost (Consider optimizing) - Low Joy, Low Cost (Keep but examine) - Low Joy, High Cost (Cut or trim) Save 50% Rule Aim for a 50% savings rate to ensure financial security and independence.Tools, Accounts, or Strategies Mentioned
Tool/Strategy Description Expense Audit Challenge Community initiative to assess spending from February to March. Value Matrix Tool for analyzing expenses to prioritize spending based on joy and cost. YNAB (You Need A Budget) Budgeting tool that tracks spending efficiently; useful for expense audits. Monarch Money Expense tracking tool integrated with financial accounts for easier audits.Resources & References
Take Action
- Start Your Expense Audit: Begin reviewing your expenses now to uncover potential leaks.
- Engage with the Community: Share your audit findings and strategies on the ChooseFI platform.
- Utilize the Value Matrix: Apply this framework to reflect on your spending and make informed decisions.
- Listen to Episode 586 for more details on initiating your expense audit and understanding its importance.
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Cody Garrett provides an in-depth analysis of the changing landscape of health insurance in the U.S., focusing on the Affordable Care Act (ACA) and adjustments to premium tax credits. He emphasizes the critical role that zip codes play in determining healthcare costs and highlights the importance of understanding the 400% federal poverty level cliff, which poses financial risks for many families. Various health insurance options are discussed, including COBRA, retiree coverage, health sharing ministries, and private insurance, equipping listeners with vital insights for making informed healthcare decisions.
Listeners will learn actionable strategies for tax planning related to health insurance, including how to maximize benefits and minimize costs while navigating available healthcare options effectively.
Key Tactical Takeaways
- Understand Income Levels: Monitor your income to avoid going over the 400% federal poverty level, which can eliminate premium tax credit eligibility.
- Evaluate COBRA Costs: Review code DD on your W-2 to understand total health insurance premiums and assess whether continuing with COBRA is financially wise.
- Explore Health Sharing Ministries: These may have lower premiums but lack the legal protections of traditional insurance; evaluate carefully.
- Use HSA Contributions: Contribute to Health Savings Accounts to lower taxable income and potentially maintain premium tax credits; you can contribute even without earned income.
- Utilize Marketplace Resources: Access healthcare.gov to determine premium tax credits based on your specific circumstances, including zip code and household income.
- Be Cautious with Tax Planning: Adjust advanced premium tax credits based on estimated income cautiously to avoid unexpected tax liabilities.
Core Rules & Formulas
Rule/Formula Description 400% Poverty Level Threshold Know the household income limits that could affect premium tax credits. COBRA Cost Calculation Employee + Employer Premium (W-2 code DD x 102%) = COBRA Costs. HSA Contribution Can lower modified adjusted gross income; contribute by April 15 without earned income requirements. Premium Tax Credit Calculation Estimated Credit = Based on adjusted gross income, household size, and the second lowest-cost silver plan. Adjust Premium Tax Credits You can change the advanced credit amount month-to-month via healthcare.gov.Tools, Accounts, or Strategies Mentioned
Tool/Strategy Description healthcare.gov Website for ACA marketplace and health insurance options. Health Savings Account (HSA) Account for saving for healthcare costs that reduces taxable income. COBRA Coverage Allows continuation of employer health insurance post-employment. Health Sharing Ministries Group healthcare cost-sharing options that offer lower premiums but higher risk. Private Insurance Individual insurance plans that require medical underwriting.Resources & References
What Next?
- Review your income and health insurance options during open enrollment.
- Assess your COBRA costs by checking your W-2 for current premium data.
- Explore HSA contributions to manage your taxable income prudently.
- Adjust advanced premium tax credits through healthcare.gov based on changes in your financial situation.
- For further clarity on health insurance strategies, consider consulting a financial planner to avoid potential costly mistakes.
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Most people think "Coast FI" means coasting into retirement—but Andy Hill discovered it meant something entirely different: coasting through life while your investments do the heavy lifting. Eight years ago, Andy appeared on ChooseFI struggling to get his wife Nicole on the same financial page. Today, they're mortgage-free, working part-time by choice, and have transformed their marriage through a single monthly ritual that makes money discussions something to actually look forward to.
Where Are They Now: Andy Hill
00:24:20 — Andy returns to share the evolution of his financial journey and marriage since his first appearance in episode 68. The couple has paid off their mortgage and all debt while shifting to a Coast FI lifestyle.
Establishing Budget Parties
00:35:06 — The cornerstone of Andy and Nicole's financial turnaround: monthly "budget parties" that turned contentious money talks into structured, enjoyable discussions. They choose a regular schedule, add pizza and wine, and make it a time to align on goals rather than argue about spending.
Concept of Coast FI
00:32:10 — Coast FI means saving enough that your investments can compound to your retirement goal without further contributions. Work becomes optional—you only need to cover current living expenses, not retirement savings. This allowed Andy and Nicole to shift from aggressive accumulation to part-time work and more family time.
The Math That Matters: Compounding
00:17:09 — Andy breaks down why small differences in investment returns matter enormously over time. An 8% return versus 9% over 30 years isn't just 1% more—it's hundreds of thousands of dollars difference due to compounding.
"You are creating an asset base that generates money for you every year, doing no work."
The key insight: consistent investing in low-cost index funds beats chasing market secrets. Most people search for the person "behind the curtain" with special knowledge, but the real power lies in simple, persistent action.
Becoming Debt-Free and Current Status
00:26:06 — After years of intentional effort, Andy and Nicole paid off their mortgage and eliminated all debt. But the journey wasn't linear—they experienced one of their most difficult years of marriage during this period.
"Nothing is great just in a vacuum. You have to work at it and you need to be intentional."
The shift to Coast FI allowed them to reduce work hours and increase communication time, strengthening their relationship.
00:44:02 — Having done the "hard work" of building their asset base, they consciously decided to lower their savings rate and increase their quality of life. Their investments continue growing toward long-term goals while they enjoy more present-moment experiences.
Key Tactical Takeaways
- Monthly Budget Parties: Designate one time each month to discuss finances with your partner in a structured, enjoyable setting (add food and wine to make it pleasant)
- Coast FI Calculation: Determine the amount you need invested today that will grow to your retirement goal without additional contributions
- Savings Rate Flexibility: Once you hit Coast FI, consider lowering your savings rate to free up money for current enjoyment while investments continue compounding
- Focus on Simple Investing: Consistent contributions to low-cost index funds typically outperform trying to find market-beating secrets
Core Formulas
Concept Application Coast FI Calculate what you need saved today to reach your retirement goal through compound growth alone, then work only to cover current expenses Compounding Impact Even 1% difference in returns creates massive wealth differences over 30+ years Budget Party Structure Regular monthly meeting + enjoyable atmosphere = sustainable financial communicationResources
- Andy Hill's book: Own Your Time (link: choosefi.com for Andy's work)
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Most people chase financial independence through side hustles and raises. Brad and Jonathan flip that equation: audit your expenses first, then watch your FI date accelerate without earning another dollar.
They walk through a structured four-step framework for conducting annual expense audits that help you identify money leaks and understand your true living costs. The discussion covers practical strategies for tracking subscriptions, variable expenses, and distinguishing between required and discretionary spending. By adopting a calculated approach to expenses, you can effectively mitigate lifestyle creep while ensuring every dollar serves a purpose in your budget. The overarching message encourages focusing on building a life of value, emphasizing joy and fulfillment in financial management, rather than mere restriction.
Key Tactical Takeaways
- Conduct an Annual Expense Audit: Establish a routine to review expenses at least once a year to stay on top of spending habits and identify areas for improvement.
- Categorize Every Expense: Break down expenditures into necessary (fixed costs) and discretionary (variable costs) categories for clearer insights.
- Use a Value Matrix: Assess expenses based on their joy and necessity to inform which should be retained, reduced, or eliminated.
- Track Subscriptions and Variable Costs: Pay attention to recurring payments, particularly those related to entertainment and services like streaming or software.
- Calculate the Long-Term Impact of Small Savings: Cutting small monthly expenses can significantly affect your financial independence number over time.
Core Rules & Formulas
Rule Explanation Annual Expense Audit Review all expenses once a year to prevent overspending and identify leaks. Categorization of Expenses Differentiate between Required (fixed) and Discretionary (variable) expenses. Value Matrix Implementation Organize spending into High Joy/ Low Joy and Essential/ Eliminate quadrants. Prioritize Necessary Expenses Always account for essential bills, including utilities, groceries, and housing costs. Evaluate Impact of Expenses Each $100 cut from monthly expenses reduces your FI number by $30,000 over time (20-year horizon).Tools, Accounts, or Strategies Mentioned
Tool/Strategy Link/Description Expense Audit Spreadsheet Download here Chase Ultimate Rewards Utilize for travel rewards and points transfer to hotel partners. Value Matrix Framework Framework for analyzing the necessity and joy of expenses.Key Quotes
"Every dollar must earn its place in your budget." (00:05:23)
"Even the most intentional spenders can lose track of their expenses." (00:06:19)
"Small expenses can add up to significant savings." (00:13:08)
"Have you assessed the true cost of your life?" (00:13:17)
Chapters
- Introduction to Expense Audit (00:00:00)
- Importance of Regular Expense Audits (00:05:23)
- Identifying Money Leaks (00:13:04)
- Key Strategies for Expense Auditing (00:22:34)
- Value Matrix for Expenses (01:03:05)
- Closing Thoughts and Action Steps (01:09:13)
Terminology
Expense Audit: A detailed review of all expenditures to identify unnecessary spending and money leaks. (00:05:23)
Lifestyle Creep: The tendency for expenses to increase as income rises, often leading to a strain on finances. (00:08:11)
Value Matrix: A categorization tool to assess the joy and necessity of expenses, helping prioritize what's essential in your budget. (01:03:05)
Resources & References
- ChooseFI Episode 009: Travel Rewards Framework
- Expense Audit Spreadsheet: Download
Action Items
- Download your bank and credit card statements for the last few months to start your audit. (00:55:06)
- Categorize your expenses into necessary and discretionary for better insights. (01:03:05)
- Join the community challenge to share findings and get support during your expense audit process. (01:09:13)
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