Have you ever wondered if money isn’t just a resource…but a living consciousness you’re already in relationship with?

In this week’s episode of Plenty, I sit down with The Money Shaman, Ry Schwartz, for one of the most paradigm-shifting conversations I’ve ever had about money, healing, and the unseen forces that shape our financial lives.

Ry and I explore money not as something we “manage,” fix, or master — but as a fluid, evolving consciousness that responds to our awareness, our compassion, and our willingness to be in genuine relationship with it.

We talk about why shadow money work often feels so relieving, how different “streams” of money carry different energetic signatures, why some dollars feel light and others feel heavy, and how we can become stewards who help money heal as it moves through our lives.

We also dive into…
 ✨ What it means to let money find you even when you feel messy or imperfect
 ✨ How money takes on the energetic imprint of the intentions and emotions it passes through
 ✨ Simple daily practices to “witness” your money so it can relax and reorganize
 ✨ Why avoidance around money is rarely laziness — and what it’s usually protecting you from
 ✨ The connection between intimacy, generosity, and increased financial receptivity
 ✨ How couples can co-create a shared field that expands both pleasure and prosperity

This conversation is tender, revelatory, and wildly practical. Ry offers a new way of relating to money that brings more safety into your system, more flow into your life, and more grace into every financial exchange.

If you’re craving a relationship with money that feels warm, conscious, and regenerative — this episode is for you.

“Not all money is the same. It carries different vibratory qualities depending on the energies it’s passed through.”–The Money Shaman, Ry Schwartz

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 — Entering the portal: Blue Lotus, synchronicity & the energetic opening
04:38 — What Sacred Commerce is & why it’s a bridge beyond capitalism
10:32 — Wealth as spiritual: permission to thrive, earn, and support your lineage
14:25 — Widening the scope: giving back, sourcing energy beyond the self
19:09 — The truth about “enough”: resources, circulation & debunking zero-sum thinking
22:33 — Ceremony as a business tool: accessing other realms for support
26:14 — Wealth, privilege, and survivor’s guilt: metabolizing the complexity
30:27 — Asha’s big why: land conservation & land-back as sacred commerce
37:47 — Merging the magical & the logical: operating beyond a 3D-only business
43:41 — Human design & astrology as instructional systems for your body of work
50:37 — The power of offerings: plants, essences, and ceremonial support
57:22 — Your dharma type: the archetypal soul energy you are here to embody

Links and Resources:

Money Reset

Connect with Ry Schwartz:

LinkedIn
Instagram

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make
 

Rewire your nervous system for wealth, stop the money-in/money-out cycle, and create sustainable abundance. Includes the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual.
 

→ Get it free at katenorthrup.com/reset

Have you ever wondered why money feels so much more spacious when you make one aligned decision instead of a thousand tiny ones every day?

In this week’s episode of Plenty, I’m diving deep into one of the most overlooked pathways to relaxed wealth: financial boundaries. Not the rigid, budget-heavy kind that feel like punishment… but the kind that act like the riverbanks that keep your financial flow clear, directed, and easeful.

I share how boundaries — financial and energetic — create more safety in your nervous system, more trust in your decisions, and more alignment between where your money goes and what truly matters to you. We explore:

🌿 Why decision fatigue drains not only your energy but your money
🌿 How to know (in your body) when something is a financial yes or no
🌿 The connection between your human design authority and aligned money choices
🌿 Real examples of my own financial boundaries, from client agreements to household spending
🌿 Why saying “no” to the misaligned is actually saying a deeper “yes” to yourself

You’ll also hear simple ways to start practicing aligned yeses and embodied noes in tiny, everyday moments — which makes the bigger financial choices so much clearer. And I walk you through how to begin crafting the kinds of abundance agreements we use inside Relaxed Money so your money can flow where it’s meant to, without leaking into places that don’t nourish you.

If you’ve ever felt like money decisions take more energy than you want to give… or you know your spending and earning could feel more regenerative and grounded… this episode will feel like an exhale.

And if you want support rewiring your nervous system for greater ease with money, don’t miss the free Money Reset audio experience I created for you at katenorthrup.com/reset.

“Financial boundaries are the riverbanks that keep your abundance flowing where it’s meant to go.” –Kate Northrup

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Introduction to Financial Boundaries
00:38 Understanding Financial Boundaries
01:13 The Importance of Financial Boundaries
02:16 Signs You Need Financial Boundaries
03:08 Decision Fatigue and Financial Boundaries
04:19 Creating Abundance Agreements
05:24 Aligning Spending with Values
07:48 Consumer Culture and Financial Awareness
08:54 The Purpose of Money
10:00 Setting Financial Boundaries
11:49 Examples of Personal Financial Boundaries
13:06 Learning from Financial Mistakes
13:54 Practicing Financial Awareness
14:30 Operationalizing Financial Boundaries
15:01 Client Communication Boundaries
16:02 General Financial Guidelines
17:06 Reframing Financial Boundaries
17:32 Safety in Financial Boundaries
18:23 Empowered Financial Decisions
19:33 Conclusion and Next Steps

Links and Resources:

The Money Reset

✨ Overnight Rockstar: A Proven Path to New Eyes, New Clients, and Real Growth

You’re doing meaningful work. Now it’s time for more people to see it. Overnight Rockstar is a free training where Susie Moore teaches you the exact steps she used to land features everywhere from the Today Show to Oprah.com—without a PR team. 📺🔥

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
 💡 Use your existing expertise to stand out to editors and producers.
🎯 Pitch yourself in a way that feels natural—and gets traction.
✨ Grow your audience and authority without spending a dime on ads.

Visibility doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be simple, strategic, and wildly effective. 

Ready to get noticed? 👉 Save your spot now! 👈

Related Episode:

How to Feel Safe Earning More (Without Sabotaging or Overspending It) (136)

Have you ever realized that the identity you’ve built—the one that’s kept everything running—might also be the very thing keeping you from your next becoming?

In this week’s episode of Plenty, I get to sit down with someone who has witnessed me through many of my own becomings: my longtime friend and former coach, Chela Davison. Our conversation is an intimate, funny, deeply human exploration of midlife unraveling as an initiation into deeper truth, creative recovery, and a fuller expression of self.

Chela and I trace the arc of her journey from being the hyper-capable, endlessly resilient woman who could “make anything happen,” to the moment her internal generator finally sputtered out—and how that collapse ushered her into a two-year wintering season that ultimately birthed her acclaimed one-woman show, A Little Bit Much. We talk about the illusion of the breadwinner, the stories we project onto our partnerships, and the internalized cultural narratives that quietly shape our sense of worth.

We also explore what it means to be “a little bit much” in a world that often prefers women palatable and contained—how to preserve our aliveness without overwhelming ourselves or others, and how to move from performative productivity into regenerative creativity. Chela’s story is a living example of following the energy, listening for what wants to be created, and allowing art to heal the artist first.

This episode is full of laughter, truth telling, permission, and the kind of midlife wisdom that only comes from letting something fall apart so something truer can emerge.

I can’t wait for you to listen.

In this episode you’ll discover:

✨ Over-identifying with resilience led to burnout
✨ Creative recovery came from stepping back and slowing down
✨ Challenging and redefining breadwinner narratives
✨ Embracing being “a little bit much” as strength
✨ Creative growth comes from staying with the process

“I looked around and asked myself, ‘Who am I willing to disappoint to get my life back?’ And the first person I realized I was willing to disappoint… was me.” — Chela Davidson

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 – Introduction to Resilience & Identity
00:26 – Guest Background & Creative Recovery
03:00 – Turning 40, Maturity & Evolving Identity
05:12 – Childhood Messaging & Self-Perception
07:35 – Career Success, Challenges & Vulnerability
09:13 – Burnout, Loss & Identity Crisis
11:51 – Reclaiming Creative Life Force
13:07 – Resentment, Breadwinning & Gender Expectations
16:21 – Healing Through Vulnerability & Relationship Dynamics
19:17 – The Influence of Patriarchy & Processing Resentment
21:25 – Creative Recovery, New Projects & Self-Discovery
27:22 – Vulnerability in Creative Processes & Community
38:19 – Social Media, Creative Resistance & Staying With the Work
44:18 – Art, Healing & Creative Integrity
50:42 – The Journey of Art, Commerce & Creative Community
54:49 – Closing Thoughts & Resources

Links and Resources:

Free Money Breakthrough Guide

Connect with Chela Davison:

Website
Wizdotainment
A Little Bit Much
Instagram

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make
 

Rewire your nervous system for wealth, stop the money-in/money-out cycle, and create sustainable abundance. Includes the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual.
 

→ Get it free at katenorthrup.com/reset

Have you ever made more money… only to find yourself overspending, shrinking back, or feeling anxious instead of abundant? If so, you’re not alone — and there’s nothing wrong with you.

In this episode, I explore one of the most important — and most misunderstood — pieces of financial growth: your money nervous system thermostat. We often think that earning more should feel good, natural, or easy. But the truth is, if a part of your body doesn’t feel safe with more, it will unconsciously pull you back to what’s familiar, even if what’s familiar is financial stress, inconsistency, or sabotage.

I share:
 ✨ Why lifestyle inflation, overspending, or freezing with money isn’t a lack of discipline — it’s a nervous system response.
 ✨ How our childhood environment (not just money memories) sets our internal “thermostat” for how much abundance feels safe.
 ✨ The science behind why expansion often triggers threat responses like guilt, fear, or shame — even when something good is happening.
 ✨ Powerful, practical tools to build your capacity to earn more and keep more, including nervous system healing practices and co-regulation in community.

I also share personal stories — including the moment Louise Hay offered me my first book deal and why my immediate response was a shame spiral rather than celebration. This is such a potent example of how expansion can overwhelm our body if we haven’t updated our internal capacity to receive more.

You’ll walk away understanding:
 🌿 Why financial strategy can’t stick without nervous system safety
 🌿 How to start signaling “you are safe” during both contraction and expansion
🌿 The key questions to ask your body to uncover the stories and sensations running the show
🌿 How safe community accelerates your capacity to hold more wealth with ease and consistency

This episode will help you stop the patterns that have kept you cycling between making more and losing it — and instead begin to create a nervous system that can hold, grow, and enjoy wealth. When you practice feeling safe with more, more becomes normal.

"If you've ever made more money only to find yourself shrinking back, overspending, or sabotaging it, it’s not because there’s something wrong with you — it’s because a part of you doesn’t feel safe with more." –Kate Northrup

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Welcome + Why earning more can feel unsafe
02:10 Justin Bieber example: making more ≠ keeping more
04:05 Lifestyle creep + hedonic adaptation explained
06:00 What your “money nervous system thermostat” really is
08:15 How childhood environment shapes your financial capacity
10:20 Why expansion can trigger sabotage, fear, or shame
12:45 Overspending, overgiving, or freezing: different dysregulation patterns
14:30 Tools to signal safety during financial expansion
17:05 Kate’s Hay House book-deal story + co-regulation
19:40 Questions to ask your body to expand your money capacity
21:30 Closing + The Money Reset invitation

Links and Resources:

Neurosomatic Intelligence
Relaxed Money Live

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make

Making more money doesn’t guarantee financial ease… but this will. The Money Reset is a free audio experience designed to help you rewire your nervous system for wealth—so managing money feels effortless. 🎧💸

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
💡 Break the “money in, money out” cycle and create lasting stability.
🎯 Relax into a new relationship with money—where structure meets flow.
✨ Use the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual to bring instant clarity to your finances.

More money won’t solve money stress—a resourced, supple nervous system will. Ready to shift? 👉 Get The Money Reset now! 👈

Related Episode:

Debt, Shame, and the Stories We Don’t Tell (134)

What if your business was a temple?

In this week’s episode, Kate talks with Asha Ramakrishna—priestess, molecular biologist, and author—about Sacred Commerce: an emergent framework bridging capitalism and consciousness. Asha reveals the four ethos of sacred commerce—Feel Good, Be Wealthy, Give Back, and Liberate—and shares how merging the magical and the logical allows us to heal our relationship with money and purpose.

They explore Blue Lotus as a sacred symbol of rebirth, Lakshmi energy, human design as a business map, and how knowing your dharma type can guide your offerings and marketing in an energetically aligned way.

In this episode you’ll discover:

✨ The four ethos of Sacred Commerce
✨ Why pleasure is essential to prosperity
✨ How wealth, dharma, and liberation interconnect
✨ Using astrology and human design to decode your “soul map”
✨ Blue Lotus, Lakshmi, and ceremony as allies in business
✨ Why your conscious sun holds your key to expression

“Sacred commerce is about merging the magical and the logical—heaven and earth, sun and moon—so that business becomes a bridge to liberation.” — Asha Ramakrishna

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Kate opens with the magic of Asha’s arrival and the portal of Blue Lotus
03:10 What is Sacred Commerce? A bridge between capitalism and consciousness
07:42 The four ethos: Feel Good, Be Wealthy, Give Back, Liberate
14:10 Blue Lotus, Lakshmi, and the sacredness of abundance
20:30 How to redefine wealth and permission to prosper
26:15 Giving back through widening your energy sources
33:20 Bridging spirituality and capitalism with ceremony and offering
38:40 Vedic astrology and human design as business maps
46:00 The conscious sun and incarnation cross: finding your instructions
54:00 How stories and oral tradition unlock transformation
59:00 Discovering your dharma type and archetype for sacred work
1:03:00 Where to learn more and connect with Asha

Links and Resources:

The Priestess Code: Awakening the Modern Woman by Asha Ramakrishna
Your Soul Map: Liberation, Human Design, and the BIPOC Experience by Asha Ramakrishna & AC Brown
Relaxed Money
The Money Reset – Free Audio Experience

Connect with Asha Ramakrishna:

Website
Instagram

✨Want your work to feel more like truth than effort?

Join renowned breathwork leader Samantha Skelly—founder of a 7-figure healing company—for a free masterclass on growing your income, impact, and freedom by anchoring into your body.

→ Save your free spot now

What if dissolving shame is the missing step between you and real financial momentum?

In this solo episode of Plenty, Kate unpacks the tight grip of debt shame and financial secrecy—and why hiding from the numbers stalls your progress far more than the numbers themselves. She reframes debt as “invoices for blessings already received” and makes the critical distinction between high-interest consumer debt and debt that makes you money (the positive “spread” when your return outpaces your interest). You’ll also hear why all-or-nothing thinking is a nervous-system red flag, and how telling someone safe is often the first step to clarity and action.

We cover: releasing shame by bringing things into the light, building capacity to “do the math,” and seeing nuanced opportunities—so you can either dissolve unhelpful debt or strategically leverage it for wealth.

Listen now to discover:
 ✨ Why shame halts financial progress—and how sharing it sets you free
 ✨ “Invoices for blessings already received” as a practical reframe for debt
 ✨ The difference between consumer debt and return-producing leverage (the spread)
 ✨ How dysregulation fuels avoidant money habits—and what to do instead
 ✨ A simple truth-telling step: tell someone safe and start looking at the numbers

“I call debt invoices for blessings already received.” — Kate Northrup

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Why debt shame keeps you stuck; welcoming honesty and light
00:27 Show intro: money, time, energy, and a life of plenty
01:27 Debt, secrecy, and why shame halts financial progress
02:22 Tell the truth (to someone safe); vulnerability has to be earned
03:12 Debt ≠ bad: using credit as a wealth-building tool when appropriate
04:09 Credit, solvency, and why “no credit” can limit leverage
06:03 “Invoices for blessings already received” (student loans, credit cards, mortgages)
06:40 Beware false binaries; nuance requires a regulated nervous system
07:12 The spread: borrowing at 4% to earn 100%—a positive use of debt
09:32 High-interest consumer debt vs. productive debt (don’t pay 20% APR)
11:05 Normalizing the month-to-month “float” in real businesses
13:48 From credit-card debt to 8-figure growth: dissolving shame to act
15:11 When fear blocks math: build capacity, then choose the smart move
16:22 Two actions: tell someone safe; start doing something about it
17:19 Seeing you may have been smarter than you thought (the numbers help)
18:19 Learn the lesson, integrate it, and change the pattern
19:36 Any past decision can become wealth once shame’s story is dropped

Links and Resources:

Brené Brown
Relaxed Money

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make

Making more money doesn’t guarantee financial ease… but this will. The Money Reset is a free audio experience designed to help you rewire your nervous system for wealth—so managing money feels effortless.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
 💡 Break the “money in, money out” cycle and create lasting stability
 🎯 Relax into a new relationship with money—where structure meets flow
 ✨ Use the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual to bring instant clarity to your finances

More money won’t solve money stress—a resourced, supple nervous system will. Ready to shift? 👉 Get The Money Reset now! 👈

What if healing the masculine is the key to deeper love, better health, and a more peaceful world?

In this powerful episode of Plenty, I sit down with Dr. Brad Jacobs, an integrative precision medicine doctor and thought leader who bridges Western science, Eastern wisdom, and emotional intelligence. Together, we explore what it really looks like to heal father wounds, move beyond toxic masculinity, and find balance between strength and softness—both within men and in our relationships with them.

We talk about Brad’s personal journey from reactivity and anger to grounded emotional presence—a transformation that reshaped how he parents, partners, and practices medicine. You’ll hear how he learned to hold boundaries without shutting down, create safety without control, and embody a new model of masculine leadership rooted in awareness, humility, and heart. 

We also dive into how our emotional patterns influence our health, the importance of processing anger and stress through the body (not just the mind), and what happens when we offer ourselves—and our partners—compassion instead of judgment. Brad shares how practices like Hakomi therapy, mindfulness, and even simple breath awareness can help us release inherited emotional “sludge” and build resilience from the inside out.

Whether you’re navigating your own relationship dynamics, raising emotionally intelligent kids, or simply curious about how to create more presence and connection in your life, this conversation offers both science and soul.

Together, we explore what it means to integrate—to honor the full spectrum of who we are—so that healing the masculine becomes part of healing all of us. 💛

Listen now to discover:
✨ What “healing the masculine” really means and how it impacts your relationships
✨ The link between emotional regulation, nervous system health, and longevity
✨ Simple practices to help you pause reactivity and return to grounded presence
✨ How to support the men you love in reconnecting to their emotional selves

“I realized I don’t have to match someone else’s emotional storm. I can hold the line with love and let them move through it —that’s real strength.” –Dr. Brad Jacobs

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:30 Introduction to Emotional Responses
02:16 Introduction to Precision Medicine
04:49 Martial Arts and Health Perspectives
08:34 Managing Emotions and Agency
11:15 Personal Stories of Anger and Control
13:44 Transitioning from Reactivity to Stability
17:40 Inviting Honest Feedback
22:29 Understanding Emotional Regulation
26:53 The Role of Past Experiences in Healing
28:19 Hokomi Psychotherapy Explained
30:48 Transformation Through Peak Experiences
44:10 Supporting Partners in Personal Growth

Links and Resources:

Blue Wave Medicine
Institute for the Future
The Hakomi Institute
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, Gottman

Connect with Dr. Brad Jacobs:

Website
Instagram
Facebook

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make

Making more money doesn’t guarantee financial ease… but this will. The Money Reset is a free audio experience designed to help you rewire your nervous system for wealth—so managing money feels effortless. 🎧💸

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
💡 Break the ‘money in, money out’ cycle and create lasting stability.
🎯 Relax into a new relationship with money—where structure meets flow.
✨ Use the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual to bring instant clarity to your finances.

More money won’t solve money stress—a resourced, supple nervous system will. Ready to shift? 👉 Get The Money Reset Now! 👈

Have you ever felt like you’ve done everything right—all the mindset work, all the strategy, all the “manifestation” tools—and yet, your life still isn’t matching what you desire?

I know how frustrating that can feel. In this episode, I’m diving deep into the hidden reasons why your outer world might not be shifting, even though you’ve been showing up and doing the work.

I walk you through three often-overlooked layers that can keep us stuck in repeating patterns—and how to gently start releasing them so you can finally experience real change:

💫 Nervous system repatterning: How our bodies can unconsciously “reset” us back to old comfort zones, and why feeling safe in expansion is key to sustaining success.
💫 Secondary gain: The subtle ways we might benefit from not getting what we want (and how to lovingly explore those patterns without shame).
💫 Radical approval: Why disapproving of “what is” keeps us trapped—and how genuine acceptance can become the fastest way to create the life you’ve been longing for.

You’ll leave this conversation feeling grounded, supported, and equipped with practical tools you can use today—like my favorite simple nervous system exercise that can help you shift your energy in under a minute.

Because the truth is, the moment you stop waiting for life to be perfect and start approving of what is, you’ve already changed everything. 🌿

🎧 Tune in now, and let’s explore how to align your body, mind, and energy with the abundance that’s already within reach.

👉 katenorthrup.com/reset — Download The Money Reset, my free guided experience to rewire your nervous system for wealth and calm your relationship with money.

“The fastest way to get what you want is to approve of the way things are right now.”–Kate Northrup

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Introduction to Abundance and Life's Finite Nature
00:37 Frustrations in Personal Growth and Change
01:06 Understanding Secondary Gain in Personal Experiences
02:20 Neural Patterning and Its Impact on Health
08:04 Exploring Financial Avoidance and Secondary Gain
10:10 Fear of Success and Its Implications
12:26 The Importance of Approval in Life
14:29 Transforming Disapproval into Approval
19:30 Key Takeaways for Personal Transformation

Links and Resources:

Mama Gena
Loving What Is, By Byron Katie

What if you could witness a story as it’s being born — before it’s polished, before it’s perfect, before the world sees it?

I’ve spent the past few years teaching, writing, and learning alongside thousands of women about how to live and work in a way that honors our bodies, our energy, and our truth. But this next chapter — both in life and in creativity — is something entirely new.

I’m inviting you into the room while the story is unfolding.

✨ Introducing The Inside Reader — an intimate, creative experience where you’ll join me as I write my next book, a narrative nonfiction about women, money, and the body.

Instead of waiting two years for the finished book, you’ll walk with me through the process itself — the messy middle, the sacred pauses, and the moments of breakthrough that shape what’s to come.

When you step inside, you’ll receive:

• 📖 Unfiltered early chapters as I write them
• 🎙 Live Zoom circles every few weeks to explore meaning and process
• 💬 A private space for conversation and reflection
• ✨ The chance for your story or insight to shape the book itself (with your permission)

This isn’t a course or a program. It’s a living, breathing creative relationship — between you, me, and the work that’s ready to be born.

You’ll not only witness a book coming to life, but also awaken something in yourself: your creative rhythm, your voice, your connection to your body and money.

If you’ve ever longed to be part of something real — not just the highlight reel — this is your invitation to pull up a chair by the fire and help midwife what’s next.

💫 Join me inside. The story’s just beginning.
👉 Learn more at katenorthrup.com/the-inside-reader

Related Episode:

Healing Money Regret, Anxiety, and Physical Pain Through Neurosomatic Intelligence with Elisabeth Kristof (085)

What if the key to thriving wasn’t more grit—but sacred rest, radical honesty, and self-permission?

This week on Plenty, I sat down with the luminous Amanda Goetz—founder, author of Toxic Grit, and single mama of three—to talk about healing from hustle culture without losing your ambition or your edge.

Amanda and I dove deep into the cycles of burnout and rebirth so many of us experience as high-achieving women: how to rebuild after identity-shaking seasons, how to release toxic productivity patterns, and how to create boundaries that honor every version of who we are—CEO, mother, partner, sensual being, and everything in between.

She shares her refreshing concept of the 10 characters within us and how learning to let them take turns in the spotlight can transform our relationship with work, motherhood, and self-worth. We also explored what it means to practice “hustle with intention,” reclaim pleasure and sexuality as sacred sources of power, and build a life that feels abundant—not just busy.

If you’ve ever felt torn between your ambition and your well-being, or wondered how to pursue success without losing yourself, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The truth about “toxic grit” and how to replace it with intentional ambition
• Why compartmentalizing your roles can actually expand your joy and capacity
• How to communicate boundaries and priorities with those you love
• The importance of sacred rest as a catalyst for sustainable success
• How reconnecting with your sensuality can bring you home to yourself

This is one of those episodes you’ll want to revisit when you need a reminder that it’s safe to slow down, to shift, and to redefine what “having it all” truly means.

Listen to Toxic Grit, Sacred Rest & Reclaiming Sexuality with Amanda Goetz wherever you get your podcasts—and if it resonates, please share it with a friend who’s ready to trade exhaustion for alignment.

“The definition of toxic grit is hustle without intention.” -Amanda Goetz

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:30 Introduction to Amanda Goetz and Toxic Grit
00:59 Healing from Hustle Culture
02:35 Amanda’s Journey and Background
04:22 Rebuilding After Divorce
11:23 Toxic Grit and Hustle with Intention
12:35 Setting Boundaries and Family Communication
16:54 Dealing with Projection and Expectations
23:16 Energy Management and Focus
27:54 Compartmentalization in Life Roles
36:50 The Importance of Writing and Newsletters
43:27 Exploring Sexuality and Identity
48:30 The Evolution of House of Wise and Personal Growth

Links and Resources:

Toxic Grit
Money Breakthrough Guide

Connect with Amanda Goetz:

Instagram
X
Linkedin

What if you could witness a story as it’s being born — before it’s polished, before it’s perfect, before the world sees it?

I’ve spent the past few years teaching, writing, and learning alongside thousands of women about how to live and work in a way that honors our bodies, our energy, and our truth. But this next chapter — both in life and in creativity — is something entirely new.

I’m inviting you into the room while the story is unfolding.

✨ Introducing The Inside Reader — an intimate, creative experience where you’ll join me as I write my next book, a narrative nonfiction about women, money, and the body.

Instead of waiting two years for the finished book, you’ll walk with me through the process itself — the messy middle, the sacred pauses, and the moments of breakthrough that shape what’s to come.

When you step inside, you’ll receive:

• 📖 Unfiltered early chapters as I write them
• 🎙 Live Zoom circles every few weeks to explore meaning and process
• 💬 A private space for conversation and reflection
• ✨ The chance for your story or insight to shape the book itself (with your permission)

This isn’t a course or a program. It’s a living, breathing creative relationship — between you, me, and the work that’s ready to be born.

You’ll not only witness a book coming to life, but also awaken something in yourself: your creative rhythm, your voice, your connection to your body and money.

If you’ve ever longed to be part of something real — not just the highlight reel — this is your invitation to pull up a chair by the fire and help midwife what’s next.

💫 Join me inside. The story’s just beginning.
👉 Learn more at katenorthrup.com/the-inside-reader

Have you ever noticed how setting a goal with a deadline can sometimes make you feel more anxious than inspired?

In this episode, I share a personal story about how I realized that my attachment to time-bound goals was actually creating stress, scarcity, and disconnection from the very abundance I teach and strive to live by.

During one of our biggest program enrollments, I experienced a powerful shift: instead of tracking numbers and pushing for results, I decided to remove the “T” from my SMART goals—the “time-bound” part. The moment I released the false urgency and pressure of having to meet a goal by a specific date, something extraordinary happened. I felt lighter, more creative, and deeply connected to Source again.

I talk about:
✨ How time-bound goals can trigger scarcity and stress rather than motivation.
✨ The difference between “relevant” goals and what I now call resonant goals—those that feel aligned with your heart and purpose.
✨ The practice that helped me detach from outcomes and stay rooted in service, joy, and flow.
✨ Why focusing on the journey, rather than the destination, is where true fulfillment—and sustainable success—lives.

By removing the timeline, I opened myself to infinite possibilities—and ironically, it turned out to be our most successful launch ever. But the real win wasn’t in the numbers—it was in how it felt: spacious, peaceful, and abundant.

So if your goals have been feeling heavy or pressured, this episode will invite you to loosen your grip, release the clock, and reconnect to what truly matters. When you stop forcing outcomes on a schedule, you make space for magic.

Listen in, and let’s explore what happens when you take off the “T.”

“When I have an idea that a goal has to be achieved in a certain amount of time, it creates stress and scarcity in my body. When I remove the timeline, I return to abundance.”–Kate Northrup

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:00 Introduction to Abundance
00:35 The Concept of Goal Setting
03:37 Challenges with Time-Bound Goals
09:11 Removing False Urgency
11:16 The Journey vs. the Destination
13:10 Conclusion and Invitation to Change

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make

Making more money doesn’t guarantee financial ease… but this will. The Money Reset is a free audio experience designed to help you rewire your nervous system for wealth—so managing money feels effortless. 🎧💸

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
💡 Break the ‘money in, money out’ cycle and create lasting stability.
🎯 Relax into a new relationship with money—where structure meets flow.
✨ Use the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual to bring instant clarity to your finances.

More money won’t solve money stress—a resourced, supple nervous system will. Ready to shift? 👉 Get The Money Reset Now! 👈

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✨ Have you ever wondered what happens when being the breadwinner, burning out, and finding your feminine again all collide?

In this episode of Plenty, I sit down with the incredible Monica Yates — author, podcast host, and unapologetic voice on money, relationships, and feminine energy. Monica and I share an unusual common thread: our journeys both began with learning about the menstrual cycle and eventually led us into nervous system healing. From there, we dive deep into what it really means to let go, receive, and redefine power as women in today’s world.

Monica opens up about her personal experience of losing and regaining her period, stepping into her feminine through unexpected ways, and learning to soften while still holding the role of breadwinner. We talk about the tension so many of us feel between craving control for “safety” and the deeper truth that real safety comes through trust and surrender.

We also explore:

• What it looks like to be a high-earning woman in a relationship and how to navigate polarity when the traditional breadwinner roles flip.
• Why nervous system healing is essential for abundance and fulfillment.
• The hidden costs of trying to “do it all” — and the joy that comes when we actually allow ourselves to receive.
• The importance of honoring both the masculine and feminine, in ourselves and in our partnerships

Monica’s story is refreshingly honest, playful, and deeply validating. Whether you’re navigating being the financial provider, healing your relationship with money, or simply longing to put down the reins sometimes, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are and invite you into a new way of relating — with yourself, your partner, and your resources.

I loved every moment of this conversation with Monica and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

👉 Tune in, let your shoulders drop, and allow yourself to receive the wisdom here.

“The need to control is an illusion of safety. True safety is your ability to let go and trust.” –Monica Yates

🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤

00:30 Welcome & Spicy Beginnings
04:15 From Periods to Nervous System Healing
08:40 Monica’s Story: Hating Womanhood to Embracing It
13:20 The Pill, Control, and True Healing
17:55 The Feminine Craving for Surrender
22:10 Feminism, Polarity, and Mixed Messages
26:35 Practical Examples of Letting Go
31:05 Micro-Traumas and Nervous System Truths
36:45 Breadwinning Women & Relationship Dynamics
41:25 Redefining Provider & Protector Roles
46:05 Valuing Feminine Contributions at Home
50:10 The Illusion of Control vs. Real Safety
54:35 Trust, Travel, and Letting Men Lead
58:15 Sisterhood Wounds & Making Money
1:03:20 Closing Reflections & Permission to Receive

Links and Resources:

Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts

Connect with Monica Yates:

Website
Becoming Her
Podcast: Feminine As F*ck.
Instagram
Youtube

✨ The Money Reset: Feel Good with Money—No Matter How Much You Make

Making more money doesn’t guarantee financial ease… but this will. The Money Reset is a free audio experience designed to help you rewire your nervous system for wealth—so managing money feels effortless. 🎧💸

Inside, you’ll learn how to:
💡 Break the ‘money in, money out’ cycle and create lasting stability.
🎯 Relax into a new relationship with money—where structure meets flow.
✨ Use the 5-Minute Calm Cashflow Ritual to bring instant clarity to your finances.

More money won’t solve money stress—a resourced, supple nervous system will. Ready to shift? 👉 Get The Money Reset Now! 👈