In this engaging conversation, Dave interviews Nic Sementa about his new book, 'Breathing Ego,' which serves as a guided workbook for leaders under pressure. Nic shares his journey from a young salesman to a successful entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of managing egos in leadership. He discusses the balance between servant leadership and command-and-control styles, the impact of AI on leadership dynamics, and the transition from being an entrepreneur to an employer. Nic also reflects on his failures and the lessons learned, advocating for radical self-responsibility in leadership. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of leadership, responsibility, and self-perception. They discuss the importance of taking ownership of one's role as a leader, the challenges of navigating ego, and the necessity of creating safe spaces for teams. The dialogue emphasizes the value of empowering employees through trust and the significance of self-kindness in leadership. The speakers also reflect on the entrepreneurial journey, highlighting the lessons learned from failure and the importance of resilience.
Key Takeaways
- Ego management is crucial for effective leadership.
- A healthy ego is necessary for personal and professional growth.
- The book 'Breathing Ego' is designed for leaders managing others.
- AI can serve as a double-edged sword in leadership dynamics.
- Transitioning from entrepreneur to employer changes risk tolerance.
- Failures in management can lead to valuable lessons.
- Radical self-responsibility is key for leaders.
- The journey of leadership is about playing the game, not just winning.
- Legacy involves creating a strong family and business to support each other.
- Leadership involves taking responsibility for the team's challenges.
- Self-perception can be influenced by the ego and external validation.
- Creating safe spaces requires a proactive approach from leaders.
- Empowering teams means trusting them to perform without micromanagement.
- Failure is a crucial part of the learning process for entrepreneurs.
- The journey of entrepreneurship often involves overcoming significant obstacles.
- Self-kindness is essential for effective leadership and team dynamics.
- Understanding one's limitations can enhance hiring practices.
- Conflict resolution skills are vital for maintaining team harmony.
- The narrative of self-worth should not be tied to external validation.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Nic Sementa and His Book
02:19 Nic's Background and Journey
04:42 The Concept of Ego in Leadership
08:04 Managing Egos: Balancing Leadership Styles
12:57 The Role of AI in Leadership
15:43 The Journey from Entrepreneur to Employer
20:50 Learning from Failures in Management
23:58 Radical Self-Responsibility in Leadership
24:55 The Role of Leadership in Responsibility
25:44 Navigating Ego and Self-Perception
28:02 Creating Safe Spaces as a Leader
30:00 Empowering Teams Through Trust
32:04 Embracing Failure as a Learning Tool
34:19 The Journey of an Entrepreneur
36:24 The Importance of Self-Kindness in Leadership
Nic’s Book
Breathing Ego https://tinyurl.com/2c4mhvmp
Contacting Nic
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nic-sementa-2753242b/
Contacting Dave
https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
Links from the Intro
Systems of Imperfection - Discovering Your Superpowers
https://www.gsgvan26.com/agenda/session/1821410
Ai Readiness for Project Managers
https://beforeaiready.com
Recording of Gain Confidence as an AI Ready Project Manager
https://maven.com/p/4ac5d0/gain-confidence-as-an-ai-ready-project-manager
1 May 2026, 2:00 am
8 minutes 20 seconds
Surfing Chaos - Storytelling and the AI Ready Project Manager - EP 6
In this episode, Stu and Dave discuss the power of storytelling, the impact of AI on project management, time management strategies, upcoming training sessions, and their activities at the Vancouver Scrum Gathering.
Global Scrum Gathering Vancouver 2026 - May 3-6
https://www.scrumalliance.org/events/global
Dave's Sessions
Gain Confidence as an AI Ready Project Manager - April 28 11 AM Eastern https://maven.com/p/4ac5d0/gain-confidence-as-an-ai-ready-project-manager
AI Ready Project Manager One Day Accelerator - May 23
https://maven.com/c4g-academy/ai-ready-project-manager
Dave's Scrum Certification Classes:
https://www.eventbrite.com/cc/dave-prior-classes-4758623
Stuart's Sessions
Visual Thinking for Effective Collaboration - April 27
https://www.tickettailor.com/events/stuartyoungtrainingltd/2090279
All Stu's upcoming classes
https://www.tickettailor.com/events/stuartyoungtrainingltd
Find Stuart https://linktr.ee/stuartliveart
Find Dave https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos
Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/yv7chp54
Leanpub: https://leanpub.com/surfthechaos
24 April 2026, 1:13 am
45 minutes 17 seconds
Mastering AI in Business - RAG vs CAG with Braden Cundiff
Braden Cundiff joins Dave to explore some of the emerging ways AI tools can be used to support project management, including RAG and CAG approaches. During the interview they cover what they are, how they are different, and how they can transform organizational processes. The discussion covers practical applications, ethical considerations, and strategies for learning AI effectively.
Key Topics
Differences between RAG and CAG in AI
Practical applications of AI in project management
Ethical considerations in AI deployment
Strategies for learning and adopting AI technologies
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to AI in Project Management
00:55 Meet the Expert: Brayden Cundiff and BloomFilter
01:56 BloomFilter's Role in AI and SDLC Integration
03:52 AI as a Scrum Master: Enhancing Agile Processes
05:09 Limitations of ChatGPT for Project Contexts
05:37 Understanding RAG and CAG Approaches
18:27 Differences Between RAG and CAG Explained
23:05 Implementing CAG for Consistent AI Responses
29:01 Security, Bias, and Ethical Considerations in AI
34:06 Learning AI: Resources and Strategies
42:46 Closing Remarks and Next Steps
LInks
AI Ready for PMs - One Day Accelerator https://www.beforeaiready.com/
BloomFilter AI - https://bloomfilter.ai
Contacting Braden
Braden’s Book - Flip: Projects to Products: A Problem Playbook https://tinyurl.com/599y6fpf
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/braden-cundiff-52479121/
22 April 2026, 5:49 am
7 minutes 59 seconds
Surfing Chaos - AI & the Project Manager EP5 4-7-26
This episode explores the integration of AI into enterprise, project management in the AI era, and future skills needed to thrive alongside AI. Guests share insights on AI readiness, skill development, and upcoming training opportunities.
Takeaways
AI readiness programs provide valuable insights into enterprise AI adoption
Project managers need to adapt to AI-driven workflows or risk obsolescence
Developing visual thinking skills enhances communication and collaboration in AI contexts
Chapters
00:00 Skills in the Age of AI
02:16 The Role of Project Management in AI
03:41 Future Trends and Skills Investment
05:04 Systems of Imperfection Podcast Introduction
06:29 Visual Thinking and Communication
Links
AI Ready Certification by C4G Enterprises - https://maven.com/c4g-academy/ai-ready
Systems of Imperfection Podcast - https://systemsofimperfection.riverside.com/
The Responsive Chord by Tony Schwartz https://tinyurl.com/4sb4kcvj
Find Stuart
linktr.ee/stuartliveart Find Dave
linktr.ee/mrsungo
To get a discount on upcoming classes just email [email protected]
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos Amazon: tinyurl.com/yv7chp54 Leanpub: leanpub.com/surfthechaos
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7 April 2026, 9:25 pm
46 minutes 3 seconds
Unlocking Emotional Intelligence for Personal Growth with Olivia Vick - Systems of Imperfection EP001
In this premier episode of Systems of Imperfection, Olivia Vick shares insights on emotional intelligence, self-discovery, regulation, and practical tools like personal Kanban to enhance personal and professional growth. Discover how neurodiversity, acceptance, and intentional habits can transform your approach to work and life.
Takeaways
- Self-awareness accelerates understanding of personal systems.
- Acceptance reduces suffering and enhances resilience.
- Personal Kanban helps visualize and limit work in progress.
- Neurodiversity, like ADHD, can be a superpower with the right strategies.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Philosophy
4:47 Understanding Emotional Intelligence and Self-Regulation
7:39 Navigating ADHD: Insights and Coping Mechanisms
10:47The Power of Self-Awareness and Regulation Techniques
13:27 Exploring Personal Kanban as a Tool for Productivity
16:53 Joy in Tasks: Balancing Urgency and Enjoyment
22:40The Importance of Mindset in Time Management
26:01 The Importance of Self-Care and Balance
27:18 Integrating Joy into Daily Routines
29:43 Understanding Energy Regulation and Emotional Awareness
30:48The Role of Self-Awareness in Personal Growth
33:57 Untethering: The Path to Authenticity
40:53 Taking Agency in Life Decisions
45:47 Outro.mp4
Subscribe to Systems of Imperfection
https://systemsofimperfection.riverside.com/
Subscribe to Surfing Chaos
https://surfingchaosaudionewsletter.riverside.com/
Links to Resources
- Daniel Goleman - Emotional Intelligence - https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Why-It-Matters/dp/055338371X
- Jim Benson - Personal Kanban - https://www.amazon.com/Personal-Kanban-Visualize-Work-Manage/dp/1938289694
- Insight Timer App - https://insighttimer.com/
-The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer - https://www.amazon.com/Untethered-Soul-Journey-Breakfree-Yourself/dp/1572245379
Contacting Olivia
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/oliviavick/
- Twitter - https://twitter.com/OliviaVick
Contacting Stuart
- linktr.ee/stuartliveart
Contacting Dave
- linktr.ee/mrsungo
THE BOOK
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos
- Amazon: tinyurl.com/yv7chp54
- Leanpub: leanpub.com/surfthechaos
6 April 2026, 5:34 pm
54 minutes 45 seconds
Sway 2.0 with Marina Alex - How Agile Coaches Can Thrive in a Changing Market
In this insightful interview, Marina Alex shares her journey from a successful sales executive to an agile coach, discussing the challenges faced during the pandemic, the importance of adapting to market changes, and strategies for agile professionals to find new opportunities in a shifting landscape. She emphasizes the need for the agile community to broaden its reach beyond IT, focus on measurable results, and leverage local relationships to build a sustainable coaching and consulting business.
Key Topics
- Market shifts and the decline of traditional agile coaching
- Strategies for finding clients outside of IT and enterprise
- The importance of measurable results and ROI in agile consulting
- Building relationships with local businesses and community engagement
- The role of AI in transforming small and medium businesses
Chapters
01:52 Introduction to Agile Coaching and Personal Journey
06:59 The Shift in the Agile Market
11:49 Reframing the Agile Value Proposition
19:44 Building Self-Organizing Teams in Non-IT Businesses
26:54 Implementing Agile Practices in Diverse Environments
28:49 Implementing Change in Traditional Environments
30:02 Setting Measurable Business Goals
31:51 The Role of a Coach in Business Transformation
34:19 Starting as a Local Coach
34:37 Optimizing Your LinkedIn Presence
37:26 The Importance of Practical AI Knowledge
40:33 Simplifying AI for Local Businesses
45:35 Finding Clients in Your Community
LINKS
Sway 2.0 AI Modern Consulting Blueprint
Class begins April 6, 2026
Sign up here: https://www.swaysystem.com/sway-2026-Programs
The promo code DAVE takes $250 off!
Contacting Marina
Marina Alex's Guide to Finding Your First Client in SMB - https://example.com/marina-alex-guide
LinkedIn Profile of Marina Alex - https://linkedin.com/in/marinaalex
Sway System by Marina Alex - https://example.com/sway-system
Contacting Dave
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
Dave’s upcoming classes:
Certified Scrum Master https://tinyurl.com/mu74rwuc
Certified Scrum Product Owner https://tinyurl.com/mpw6p622
PMI Project Management Professional (PMP)® Boot Camp and Exam Prep https://tinyurl.com/3znzpt7j
PMI Agile Certified Practitioner (PMI-ACP)® Boot Camp https://tinyurl.com/bdebrrrb
2 April 2026, 4:06 am
34 minutes 6 seconds
Mastering Troubled Projects with Richard Broo
In this insightful interview, Richard Broo shares his expertise on managing troubled projects, the importance of scope and risk management, and how traditional and agile methodologies can be effectively integrated. Learn practical strategies to improve project success and navigate the complexities of modern project management.
Key Topics
- Troubled project diagnosis and intervention
- Scope management and stakeholder alignment
- Risk planning and mitigation strategies
- Hybrid project methodologies and integration
- AI tools and prompts for project managers
Chapters
04:03 Introduction to Troubled Projects
06:57 Common Failure Patterns in Project Management
09:51The Importance of Risk Management
12:41 Budgeting Challenges in Project Management
15:27 Assessing Project Management Practices
18:01 Navigating Agile and Waterfall Approaches
20:52 The Struggles of Small to Medium Companies
22:27 Understanding Agile: Misconceptions and Realities
23:47 Project Scoping: The Key to Successful Implementation
25:44 Navigating the AI Landscape in Project Management
29:32 Choosing the Right Tools for Project Management
30:18 The Challenge of Managing Multiple Methodologies
31:38 The Ideal Project Manager: Fictional Inspirations
LINKS
Contacting Richard
Web: https://truenorthpmpconsulting.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardbroo/
Contacting Dave
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
Dave’s upcoming classes:
Certified Scrum Master https://tinyurl.com/mu74rwuc
Certified Scrum Product Owner https://tinyurl.com/mpw6p622
PMI Project Management Professional (PMP)® Boot Camp and Exam Prep https://tinyurl.com/3znzpt7j
PMI Agile Certified Practitioner (PMI-ACP)® Boot Camp https://tinyurl.com/bdebrrrb
Sway 2.0 AI Modern Consulting Blueprint
Class begins April 6, 2026
Sign up here: https://www.swaysystem.com/sway-2026-Programs
The promo code DAVE takes $250 off!
31 March 2026, 3:10 am
12 minutes 37 seconds
Surfing Chaos EP004 - Stu's Big One
Agile or waterfall? Wrong question.
In our latest Surf the Chaos episode, we revisit a topic that keeps coming up — organizations aren't choosing between methodologies anymore. They're dissolving the barrier entirely and just grabbing whatever tool works. Multifaceted skills are winning over rigid roles.
And in our Throwing Bones segment, we get into something that'll resonate with anyone job hunting right now: the ATS screening system is starting to crack. Resumes are being gamed, fake candidates are appearing in interviews, and the whole process is slowly having a break down — but there's a glimmer of hope with groups working to bring humans back into hiring.
Episode 4 is out now.
Listen wherever you get your podcasts.
#SurfTheChaos #Agile #FutureOfWork #Hiring #Podcast #neuland
Neuland https://www.neuland.com/
Find Stuart linktr.ee/stuartliveart
Find Dave linktr.ee/mrsungo
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos Amazon: tinyurl.com/yv7chp54
Leanpub: leanpub.com/surfthechaos
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24 March 2026, 4:44 am
40 minutes 17 seconds
Adapt to Win! with Evan Campbell
Dave sits down with Evan Campbell to discuss his new book, Adapt to Win: A Framework to Overcome Strategy Decay Using OKRs and Lean Portfolio Management, published by Wiley. Evan shares why most organizations fail to execute on beautifully crafted strategies — and what to do about it.
Key Topics Covered
Strategy Decay — Evan introduces the concept of "strategy decay," the entropic force that constantly pulls organizations away from their strategic objectives. Studies show only 51% of senior executives can name their company's top three priorities — and that drops to 22% one level down.
The Three Sub-Processes of Strategy — Evan breaks down strategy into: (1) formulation, (2) deployment, and (3) execution tracking. Most organizations do the first reasonably well and muddle through the third — but strategy deployment is where the wheels come off.
OKRs as the "Steel Thread" — The power of OKRs isn't just top-down goal-setting. The bottom-up element — where teams define their own objectives in response to company goals — drives alignment, understanding, and genuine accountability. Evan distinguishes OKRs (change the business) from KPIs (run the business) using a great airplane instrument cluster analogy.
Lean Portfolio Management — The largest section of the book covers enterprise portfolio management practices that Evan says have never been published before. The core idea: treat investments more like a VC would — fund in tranches, set measurable objectives, and be willing to pivot quickly when a better opportunity emerges.
Valuing Strategic Initiatives — ROI, IRR, and NPV alone will never fund innovation. Evan explains why organizations need a richer methodology to fairly prioritize strategic bets — and how the book provides one.
Types of Portfolios — Enterprise, product, corporate IT, and innovation portfolios each have distinct characteristics and challenges. IT shops tend to struggle with delivery; product organizations tend to struggle with demand management and value prioritization.
AI Investment Discipline — Evan flags that 95% of corporate AI spending is producing zero value (citing MIT research) — the same pattern we saw with the internet and agile. The culprit: a lack of directed innovation and strategic clarity.
Links from the Podcast
Adapt to Win site: https://adapttowin.co
Adapt to Win book on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/53kae743
Adaptivity: https://www.adaptivitygroup.com
Manifesto for Enterprise Agility: https://www.pmi.org/learning/agile/manifesto-for-enterprise-agility
Enterprise Agility Network: https://theagilenetwork.com
Contacting Evan
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/evcampbell/
Contacting Dave
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
18 March 2026, 10:04 pm
8 minutes 28 seconds
Index Cards and Envelopes - The Manifesto is Nigh! EP002
Busy brain? Moving feet? This one's for you.
In this episode, Dave and Stu cover the tools, trends, and mindset shifts worth your attention right now. Stu makes the case for a surprisingly powerful low-tech feedback tool (index cards and envelopes — trust the process), then calls out the "waiting trap" that's keeping too many people stuck while the world moves on without them.
Dave shares a heads-up on the upcoming Enterprise Agility Manifesto, dropping March 3rd from PMI and the Agile Alliance — and tempers expectations with just the right amount of agile-community realism.
Plus: upcoming training classes, a CSPO in Edinburgh, a talk in Finland, and a book your mother-in-law might just love.
Short. Sharp. Worth your time.
Find Stuart https://linktr.ee/stuartliveart
Find Dave https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos
Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/yv7chp54
Leanpub: https://leanpub.com/surfthechaos
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10 March 2026, 2:20 am
9 minutes
Surfing Chaos - The Lost Art of Planning and RTO - EP001 2-10-26
In this eye-opening episode, Dave and Stu explore how organizations lose their edge by mistaking agility for abandoning solid project management. They reveal the perilous consequences of sacrificing skills for surface-level agility and offer practical steps to regain control before chaos takes over. Discover why planning skills are collapsing, how to identify and fix skill gaps, and the critical role human skills play as return-to-office trends revive collaboration. Perfect for project managers and leaders, this episode is your blueprint for thriving amid chaos and complexity.
The Plaud Note Pro
https://www.plaud.ai/products/plaud-note-pro
Find Stuart https://linktr.ee/stuartliveart
Find Dave https://linktr.ee/mrsungo
No One Is Coming to Save You: The Power-Ups you need to surf the chaos
Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/yv7chp54
Leanpub: https://leanpub.com/surfthechaos
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