You Had Me at Black

You Had Me at Black

You Had Me at Black is where Black Millennials tell the true-life stories you won't see on TV.

  • 18 minutes 16 seconds
    Before the Truce (10th Birthday Countdown)

    A case of mistaken identity puts Damon's family in the center of events that led to the historic 1992 truce between LA gangs.

    Counting down to our 10th birthday, we're rewinding 10 stories that have stayed with us. Damon also joins to reflect on what this story means to him all these years later, and Martina closes with an update on what's next for You Had Me at Black.

    Listen on Substack on your web browser to access episode transcripts and more.

    Learn more about You Had Me at Black's next chapter, including the Patron's Circle and other upcoming programs.



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    18 March 2026, 10:01 am
  • 19 minutes 6 seconds
    Lit As a Feather (10th Birthday Countdown)

    It's all fun and games until something gets caught.

    Counting down to our 10th birthday, we're rewinding 10 stories that have stayed with us. Martina and Britney revisit Lit as a Feather, a story from Jazz and one of the very first stories to air on You Had Me at Black. Jazz also joins to reflect on what this story means to her all these years later.

    Martina closes with an update on what's next for You Had Me at Black.

    Listen on Substack on your web browser to access episode transcripts and more.

    Learn more about You Had Me at Black's next chapter, including the Patron's Circle and other upcoming programs.



    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit youhadmeatblack.substack.com
    11 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 2 minutes 54 seconds
    Welcome Back to You Had Me at Black!

    Join us for a trip down memory lane as we countdown to our 10th birthday. We take off Wednesday, March 11!



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    10 March 2026, 10:00 am
  • 3 minutes 22 seconds
    You're Invited: Entering Our Next Chapter

    I've spent the last few years recovering from burnout, and conceiving a new future for You Had Me at Black - one I'm eager to share with you. RSVP for the People's Assembly on June 10 at 8pm ET.



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    9 June 2025, 10:30 am
  • 23 minutes 23 seconds
    The Bigger Picture

    Khennedi heads to a protest in the summer of 2021, armed with nothing but her cell phone. Almost from the moment they arrived, things began to unravel. Please note this episode deals with the trauma of police brutality.

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    28 April 2021, 10:00 am
  • 21 minutes 24 seconds
    PK Problems

    Growing up as a PK, Danny always planned to start a ministry of his own. But once he started to lead a congregation, his thinking around what it means to start a church began to unravel. 

    Share your story on the next season of our podcast! Learn more.

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    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us. 

    Support other indie Black podcasts: Listen to Adventures from the Bedroom of African Women wherever you get your podcasts

     



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    14 April 2021, 10:00 am
  • 14 minutes 6 seconds
    Glue is Thicker Than Water

    As the older sister, Secunda was in charge of making sure the chores got done after school before her mom got home. One afternoon, her brother challenged her, unraveling her sense of authority and the sibling pecking order.

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    Leave a rating or review wherever you listen to help others find our show.

    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us. 

    Support other indie Black podcasts: Listen to The Adventures of Black people wherever you get your podcasts



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    7 April 2021, 10:00 am
  • 25 minutes 38 seconds
    Liquid Therapy

    Fresh out of grad school, Blake faces a devastating loss that unraveled everything he tired to hold together by a thread for too long. This story deals with loss, addiction, and suicidal thoughts.

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    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us. 

    Support other indie Black podcasts: Listen to The Stoop wherever you're listening now.



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    31 March 2021, 10:00 am
  • 15 minutes 39 seconds
    My Art Will Go On

    A bad breakup unraveled everything Nate thought he had planned. After realizing he couldn't drink it away, he decided to follow his instincts.

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    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us.

    We recorded Nate's story for one of our Kickbacks. The next one is Friday, March 26. Get your tix!

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    24 March 2021, 10:00 am
  • 13 minutes 24 seconds
    Doggie Tricks

    This story comes Errinn, who was terrified of dogs. Everything unraveled when her boyfriend brought one home.

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    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us.

    We recorded Erinn's story for one of our Kickbacks. The next one is Friday, March 26. Get your tix!



    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit youhadmeatblack.substack.com
    10 March 2021, 11:00 am
  • 24 minutes 27 seconds
    The Gut Gets What the Gut Wants

    This story comes from Tobi. They found reason after reason to ignore the warning signs of a toxic job, until everything unraveled.

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    Nurture your inner creative in The Kinship, our digital community.

    Visit our website to attend our Kickbacks and creative workshops, or to partner with us. 

    Support other indie Black podcasts! Listen to Blackbelt Voices wherever you get your podcasts.



    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit youhadmeatblack.substack.com
    3 March 2021, 11:00 am
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