After an unplanned hiatus, Sucker Punched is back! Come explore spiritual practices that are gentle and kind and let us be human, limitations and all. For the transcript for this episode, visit BeckyLMcCoy.com/podcast/91 STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Charlotte Donlon's book "The Great Belonging" My new book "In the Company of the Weary: Ten Gentle Spiritual Practices for Tired Souls" Spiritual Directors International FIND BECKY ONLINE: Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

Sometimes when we share the innermost parts of ourselves we leave the encounter feeling like we've been stripped bare, sometimes even flayed on the altar of vulnerability. It can even feel like a hangover - like you can't face the world and your whole self is now too tender to even try. 

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Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
Vulnerability is my Superpower by Jackie Davis
You are Your Best Thing by Tarana Burke
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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We all experience loneliness. And we all have a built in desire to feel like we belong. But when we realize that loneliness and belonging can co-exist - what do we do with that?

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The Great Belonging by Charlotte Donlon
The Art of Belonging by Charles Vogl
All the Lonely People by Mike Gayle
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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When it comes to friendship, there's some kind of unspoken fear that we have to have it all together or our friends won't want to be our friends anymore. Do you find yourself worrying that if your friends could see your *insert weakness, fault, or fear here* they'd go running? What if friendship was less about two perfect people finding each other and more about finding the people who compliment and fit in with your own humanity?

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Big Friendship by Aminitou Sow and Ann Friedman
Friendship in the Age of Loneliness by Adam Smiley Poswolsky
The Art of Showing Up by Rachel Wilkerson Miller
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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If friends aren't the people we play with at recess or live down the hall from in the college dorm, what are they? Why do we need them if not to have a friend for hide and seek or someone to share the highs and lows of growing up with? Why do we even need friends at all?

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Thank You, Omu! by Oge Mora
How We Show Up by Mia Birdsong
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
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You know that healthy friendships are an essential part of your mental health and well-being, but it feels like making friends as an adult should be easier. Why does it seem like everyone else has it figured out and you're just sitting there hoping for someone to adopt you and be best friends forever and never have to make a new friend again?

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Discernment by Henri Nouwen
Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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Some of us grew up thinking that our faith was a permanent, immovable object and that any whiff of change or dissonance was a personal failure. But what happens when you realize that the ways you've always understood and practiced your beliefs are unhealthy and need to shift?

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Courageous Community Course:
Shop Rothy's Shoes: BeckyLMcCoy.com/Rothys
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero
A Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas
Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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It's easy to feel like who we are is made up of all the things we can offer people - we are worth the sum of our productivity and helpfulness. But what happens when we have nothing to offer? Do my friends want me just for who I am or for the value I add to their lives? What kind of a friend am I if I have nothing to give? It's terrifying to be vulnerable enough to admit that all I can give my friends is myself, but sometimes that's all I've got. How can we navigate friendships when we are all overwhelmed, burned out, and exhausted?

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Courageous Community Course: BeckyLMcCoy.com/CourageousCommunity (registration open til 9/29/22)
Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Peace Is a Practice by Morgan Harper Nichols
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Have you ever worried what would happen if you had to be honest about your imperfections? Do you feel like life is sometimes a Jenga tower, balanced on some of your strengths with each weakness only precariously holding up the blocks above them? Do you acknowledge your weaknesses or do you prefer to pretend like they're not there? Are you holding your breath, waiting for one stressful, traumatic moment to make it all come tumbling down? What if there was a better way, one where we could be honest about our weaknesses and shore them up instead of just hoping for the best?

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Courageous Community Course: BeckyLMcCoy.com/CourageousCommunity (registration open til 9/29/22)
Bandersnatch by Erika Morrison
Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist
4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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You're running a nonprofit encouraging and helping women around the country.
Then a global pandemic hits.
You're single living alone and mostly isolated due to an autoimmune disease.

Holly is figuring out what it looks like to live through a global pandemic as a single person who lives alone. She finds herself feeling like she's floating away and gets creative to figure out ways to feel grounded again.

Holly is a writer, speaker, and the executive director of Rise.

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Website: NowSheRises.org
Twitter/Instagram: @HollyStallcup

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